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What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by mespusinglez(m): 2:27pm On Jul 02, 2018
A Friend Of Mind Was Telling Me Earlier That "It Took Him Almost 4 Years Before Gir Girlfriend Accepted Him."
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and i was like 4yrs? is she a university degree?
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So Ladies What's Really The AIM Of Playing Hard To Get?
Because To Me "I Don't Woo Girls Twice....if you didn't give me any green light starting from day one then you won't see me again..
you'll be the one coming.
~
so what's really the essence of playing hard to get?
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jul 02, 2018
mespusinglez:
A Friend Of Mind Was Telling Me Earlier That "It Took Him Almost 4 Years Before Gir Girlfriend Accepted Him."
~
and i was like 4yrs? is she a university degree?
~
So Ladies What's Really The AIM Of Playing Hard To Get?
Because To Me "I Don't Woo Girls Twice....if you didn't give me any green light starting from day one then you won't see me again..
you'll be the one coming.
~
so what's really the essence of playing hard to get?

How will you feel if your sister opens her legs for every guy that woos her on the same day?

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jul 02, 2018
GODPUNISHUNA:


How will you feel if your sister opens her legs for every guy that woos her on the same day?

What about me that am pounding inside the leg with all my energy that same day. Me I came to world to suffer abi grin

Hard to get doesn't make sense all the time. If you won't date me at all, just let me know point blank and why. Not that you will be posting me, playing yeye hard to get.

If you make a guy suffer to get you, he may also make you pay for it in the relationship.

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by TaLLeRBaLLeR(m): 2:36pm On Jul 02, 2018
hmm. I know they will surely come for you..
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 2:39pm On Jul 02, 2018
To fool gullible guys to think that they girl they are chasing is worth it,while underneath the mask there lies a hoe.And my rule i never ask a girl out twice,no matter who you are,with billions of women more educated,more sexier,more beautiful and hotter than you are.Some just looking for someone to warm their beds and call their man.Then i will ask a woman out twice godforbid,she might be mary the mother of jesus.lolz

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:56pm On Jul 02, 2018
I don't play hard to get. I always know early on if someone is a potential or not. It's all about the mental connection for me. The only issue that could slow down the process, is when I'm trying to warm up to the person emotionally. Falling in love is not an easy task. So I may need a bit of time to negotiate with myself. It's always useful to start off as friends, since some of us don't warm up to the idea of love pretty quick.

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by mespusinglez(m): 3:19pm On Jul 02, 2018
GODPUNISHUNA:


How will you feel if your sister opens her legs for every guy that woos her on the same day?
I'm Not Talking About Opening Legs same day....but at least being "Nice" IS SOMETHING ELSE ALSO
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by mespusinglez(m): 3:21pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:
To fool gullible guys to think that they girl they are chasing is worth it,while underneath the mask there lies a hoe.And my rule i never ask a girl out twice,no matter who you are,with billions of women more educated,more sexier,more beautiful and hotter than you are.Some just looking for someone to warm their beds and call their man.Then i will ask a woman out twice godforbid,she might be mary the mother of jesus.lolz
THAT'S THE POINT
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by mespusinglez(m): 3:23pm On Jul 02, 2018
XhosaNostra:
I don't play hard to get. I always know early on if someone is a potential or not. It's all about the mental connection for me. The only issue that could slow down the process, is when I'm trying to warm up to the person emotionally. Falling in love is not an easy task. So I may need a bit of time to negotiate with myself. It's always useful to start off as friends, since some of us don't warm up to the idea of love pretty quick.
THAT'S NICE OF YOU

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jul 02, 2018
mespusinglez:
I'm Not Talking About Opening Legs same day....but at least being "Nice" IS SOMETHING ELSE ALSO

Okay, this I agree with.

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by mespusinglez(m): 3:23pm On Jul 02, 2018
TaLLeRBaLLeR:
hmm. I know they will surely come for you..
They're Already Here
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 3:31pm On Jul 02, 2018
XhosaNostra:
I don't play hard to get. I always know early on if someone is a potential or not. It's all about the mental connection for me. The only issue that could slow down the process, is when I'm trying to warm up to the person emotionally. Falling in love is not an easy task. So I may need a bit of time to negotiate with myself. It's always useful to start off as friends, since some of us don't warm up to the idea of love pretty quick.
Any guy that starts off at friends with a girl he likes is a piece of poo.Am either in or out yes or no, no inbetween.There are more beautiful women out there wishing to be with me.why will someone waste that much time and energy on one person in a world of 8 billion people#saynotostylishfriendzoning
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by XhosaNostra(f): 3:36pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

Any guy that starts off at friends with a girl he likes is a piece of poo.Am either in or out yes or no, no inbetween.There are more beautiful women out there wishing to be with me.why will someone waste that much time and energy on one person in a world of 8 billion people#saynotostylishfriendzoning

To each their own. Some guys also like to take their time to get to know a person 1st before they can solidify the relationship. I see nothing wrong with that. If things are to last, then you need time to study each other imo.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 3:39pm On Jul 02, 2018
XhosaNostra:


To each their own. Some guys also like to take their time to get to know a person 1st before they can solidify the relationship. I see nothing wrong with that. If things are to last, then you need time to study each other imo.
okay.maybe those guys want to dick silver and gold inside a womans puna
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:
To fool gullible guys to think that they girl they are chasing is worth it,while underneath the mask there lies a hoe.And my rule i never ask a girl out twice,no matter who you are,with billions of women more educated,more sexier,more beautiful and hotter than you are.Some just looking for someone to warm their beds and call their man.Then i will ask a woman out twice godforbid,she might be mary the mother of jesus.lolz

Means you haven't met one really worth Chasing...

The rule of supply and demand... If a thing is oversupplied it will look cheap and so the demand will be less... If it's scarce ( ie woman playing hard to get) it will suddenly increase in value coz it's in demand with a shortage of supply.... Only the best bidder will get it.

That is why we play hard to get ...and honestly I'd recommend it ... It helps sift out all the unserious guys coz they give up too easily.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by XhosaNostra(f): 3:45pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

okay.maybe those guys want to dick silver and gold inside a womans puna

Lol, not everyone is like you. Some people don't like to rush or be rushed. We need to ease into these things to make sure we're not not making a mistake.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 3:50pm On Jul 02, 2018
Yellowdayzee:


Means you haven't met one really worth Chasing...

The rule of supply and demand... If a thing is oversupplied it will look cheap and so the demand will be less... If it's scarce ( ie woman playing hard to get) it will suddenly increase in value coz it's in demand with a shortage of supply.... Only the best bidder will get it.

That is why we play hard to get ...and honestly I'd recommend it ... It helps sift out all the unserious guys coz they give up too easily.

Nothing is worth chasing in this life to me except money.You play hard to get o you no play o.Guy man wey wan use and dump you,go do everything to get you,crush your heart if at all there is,and dump you inside the trash can.my brother and my friend are living examples.Playing hard to get does not wade of trash,because some men enjoy the thrill of the chase and will do everything possible to get you,the harder you form the harder they come,and at the end you pay times two for time wasted.I always tell my sister if you truly like a guy say yes and if you dont,never waste a niggers precious time,

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 3:59pm On Jul 02, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol, not everyone is like you. Some people don't like to rush or be rushed. We need to ease into these things to make sure we're not not making a mistake.
lolz inspite all the time in the world some of you take ,you still end up making mistakes,and regreting in the end.I will help give you an advice;Life have no one way rule,just go with the flow.

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by XhosaNostra(f): 4:14pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

lolz inspite all the time in the world some of you take ,you still end up making mistakes,and regreting in the end.I will help give you an advice;Life have no one way rule,just go with the flow.

True. But some people still need time to get used to the idea of dating you. Have you ever been with someone who seemed distant or indifferent? I know I'm like that when I'm not ready or still getting to know a person. You don't wanna be with someone who is not ready to give themselves to you completely.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 4:25pm On Jul 02, 2018
XhosaNostra:


True. But some people still need time to get used to the idea of dating you. Have you ever been with someone who seemed distant or indifferent? I know I'm like that when I'm not ready or still getting to know a person. You don't wanna be with someone who is not ready to give themselves to you completely.
i dated a girl like that years ago and i dumped her.When a girl is in a relationship with me,she must give me her 101% or i dump her.My own motto to my sister is if you truly like a guy go on and date him,you never know who might be your prince charming,as you girls believe,which i dont.if you dont like him tell him you dont,and stop mincing with a nigger's emotions.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by Headlesschicken(m): 4:28pm On Jul 02, 2018
undecided They do that just to feel important,buh at d end of the day would still receive serious knacking when they finally accept... Who lose?
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by XhosaNostra(f): 4:29pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

i dated a girl like that years ago and i dumped her.When a girl is in a relationship with me,she must give me her 101% or i dump her.My own motto to my sister is if you truly like a guy go on and date him,you never know who might be your prince charming,as you girls believe,which i dont.if you dont like him tell him you dont,and stop mincing with a nigger's emotions.


LMAO. Well, I think you let go of your one true love when you got rid of that girl tongue Real feelings don't develop or disappear overnight.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 4:43pm On Jul 02, 2018
XhosaNostra:



LMAO. Well, I think you let go of your one true love when you got rid of that girl tongue Real feelings don't develop or disappear overnight.
hahahaha funny girl thats an big epic fat lie.she told me she had left her ex boyfriend and had nothing to do with him,i later found out that was still dating the guy,and my shocker was that she was living with that same guy while were dating,i never knew.I was just managing her and her attitude,so the deal breaker came in when i found out she was cheating,and my rule is never give a cheating girl a second chance,i rather commit suicide than let that happen.She begged and begged and begged and even threatened my life while i was just laughing at her naivety with my niggers.lolz maybe thats the kind of girl you also are
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by XhosaNostra(f): 4:56pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

hahahaha funny girl thats an big epic fat lie.she told me she had left her ex boyfriend and had nothing to do with him,i later found out that was still dating the guy,and my shocker was that she was living with that same guy while were dating,i never knew.I was just managing her and her attitude,so the deal breaker came in when i found out she was cheating,and my rule is never give a cheating girl a second chance,i rather commit suicide than let that happen.She begged and begged and begged and even threatened my life while i was just laughing at her naivety with my niggers.lolz maybe thats the kind of girl you also are

Wow. So she just wasn't into you then tongue grin

Dating two people at the same time is not my thing, so she & I are nothing alike. When I'm distant, I'm distant for completely different reasons. I need time to process how I feel, hence I tend to become a bit reserved in the beginning.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 5:06pm On Jul 02, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Wow. So she just wasn't into you then tongue grin

Dating two people at the same time is not my thing, so she & I are nothing alike. When I'm distant, I'm distant for completely different reasons. I need time to process how I feel, hence I tend to become a bit reserved in the beginning.
okay o just allow your conscience be your judge
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by XhosaNostra(f): 5:10pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

okay o just allow your conscience be your judge

My conscience is clear.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by austyn0(m): 5:41pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:

Any guy that starts off at friends with a girl he likes is a piece of poo.Am either in or out yes or no, no inbetween.There are more beautiful women out there wishing to be with me.why will someone waste that much time and energy on one person in a world of 8 billion people#saynotostylishfriendzoning
A bird at hand is worth more than two in the bush..
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by austyn0(m): 5:45pm On Jul 02, 2018
Yellowdayzee:


Means you haven't met one really worth Chasing...

The rule of supply and demand... If a thing is oversupplied it will look cheap and so the demand will be less... If it's scarce ( ie woman playing hard to get) it will suddenly increase in value coz it's in demand with a shortage of supply.... Only the best bidder will get it.

That is why we play hard to get ...and honestly I'd recommend it ... It helps sift out all the unserious guys coz they give up too easily.

Economics dan take style enter am ogrin

You made a good point though buh moderation is key....When you play hard to get for long,, you end up losing that sweet dude to a lucky girl.
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 5:46pm On Jul 02, 2018
austyn0:
A bird at hand is worth more than two in the bush..
your theory not mine
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jul 02, 2018
austyn0:
Economics dan take style enter am ogrin

You made a good point though buh moderation is key....When you play hard to get for long,, you end up losing that sweet dude to a lucky girl.

Lol grin grin grin ... I love economics... A lot of principles explain simple situations in real life.

But yeah you are also right

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Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by mespusinglez(m): 6:21pm On Jul 02, 2018
4FACEADELEKE:
your theory not mine
grin
Re: What's The Essense Of Playing Hard To Get? by Sigmabond(m): 6:23pm On Jul 02, 2018
mespusinglez:
A Friend Of Mind Was Telling Me Earlier That "It Took Him Almost 4 Years Before Gir Girlfriend Accepted Him."
~
and i was like 4yrs? is she a university degree?
~
So Ladies What's Really The AIM Of Playing Hard To Get?
Because To Me "I Don't Woo Girls Twice....if you didn't give me any green light starting

from day one then you won't see me again..
you'll be the one coming.
~
so what's really the essence of playing hard to get?


ANY GIRL PLAYING HARD TO GET SHOULD ASK ONAMMA( The Joys of Motherhood).

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