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Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Tallesty1(m): 7:38am On Jul 03, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:I knew right that you would react this way. Tell people their problem so that they will work on it. There's a wide gap between telling people the truth and making mockery of them. If you are fat and you know it then work on it, but if you like it that way then tell whoeve tells you to watch weight that you love yourself that way. Life is that simple. No need beating around the bush when you can come straight in a nice and lovely manner. I wanted to tell you to go eat doughnut if you like things that are sugarcoated but I don't know your sugar level. Weak people everywhere. Tell them truth and they will hate you, lie to them and they will still call you the devil for not telling them the truth. Be proud of yourself if you're fat, it makes you easier to see and difficult to push around. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by XhosaNostra(f): 7:40am On Jul 03, 2018 |
MizMyColi: Move aside & let me sit on him then 1 Like
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Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by MrCork: 7:45am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee: ...is she lightskin? |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by XhosaNostra(f): 7:50am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Tallesty1: Listen, the point you're missing is, it's not your place to push anyone to work on themselves. That's a task they'll tackle, without your coaxing, when they're good & ready. Bringing it up actually makes things worse. You know what happened after my encounter on Saturday? I went home & ate! Sometimes people eat (& as a result gain weight) because they're dealing with something. It's called, "Eating your feelings". I know that is true because I've been having a rough couple of months & because I couldn't do anything about the problems I was facing, I stuffed my face. So yes, do mind your words because they could drive the person to go eat some more. It's an emotional thing. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Tallesty1(m): 8:13am On Jul 03, 2018 |
MizMyColi:Sister mi, lemme tell you something. I lekpa eh, as in like a broom stick. That is why I don't identify with slim people because I'm slimer than slim people. People do come to me with unsolicited tips on how to gain weight. Some will be like 'guy, join gim, begin carry weight make you build muscle' and I would tell them 'I will break the moment I lift that iron' but that is not true. I am slim but I'm strong and healthy as a goat. I don't listen to them because I like me this way. Some do suggest I take weight on and all that and I love them for it because they all wish me good. That's my believe. My little sister is the direct opposite. She is a confirm orobo, as in orobo++. The last time we met(after three years wey we no see) she screamed when she saw me and rushed me for a hug. Honestly I nearly fainted. That was the scariest seconds in my entire life. I thought she was going to knock me down. At a point it appeared like she was gonna spear me down like wrestlers so deep inside I was like I'm gonna die. But I called her to me one night and told her that her weight is becoming too much and she should do something about it. She got a bit angry, said her husband likes her that way but I told her that he's not being completely honest. She listened to me sha, joined the group that I recommeded. Stopped eating/started eating somethings and today she's good.(not yet a figure 8 though, I think still somewhere around 12 but she's make a great progress) She's now disturbing me with her pictures on facebook and I'm sure it will continue on whatsapp once I reactivate. You know the first thing she noticed? Some of the minor sickness that used to trouble her just vanished like that and I was right about her husband. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Tallesty1(m): 8:35am On Jul 03, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:The person in question is the Op's girlfriend not just a random person. If I don't tell my girlfriend the truth about her weight then who would? The pope? The focus should be on the manner of approach. There are three things in you that when combined make up the complete you 1. The you in you that you and everybody know. 2. The you in you that only you knows. 3. The you in you that only the people around you know. Some claim that there is a fourth, the you in you that nobody knows but I don't think it exists since nobody knows. Number three usually have the bad sides. For instance, I started bending while growing up. Maybe because of my height or maybe the weight of my head was too heavy for spine to bear, I don't know, same way I didn't know that I was bending until people started straightening me the hard way. It was the me in me that only the people around me knew. Some people knew that they're fat and they like it that way. Some don't like it that way but they have no of what to do about it and there are some that do out know that they're adding too much weight. 1 Like |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by XhosaNostra(f): 8:42am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Tallesty1: What I got from his story, they're not official GF & BF Even if she was his GF, there're still contentious topics that are just a no-go zone, unless you're fishing for an argument. Which you're going to get! Look, I'm tired of this back & forth now. Let us expand in peace. |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by psylliumhusk1: 8:45am On Jul 03, 2018 |
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Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Tallesty1(m): 9:00am On Jul 03, 2018 |
psylliumhusk1:Bringing up the topic won't make you lose her ni. How you go about it is the ko ko. See eh, losing people no dey fear me oo so far I'm not losing them death. na today people begin come go? Make I take your advice sha *leaves talk for people who're a bit bigger than me* 1 Like |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Tallesty1(m): 9:08am On Jul 03, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:Alright... *signs peace accord* XhosaNostra:Ain't happening. I'm out like 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by dasanchez1(m): 9:12am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Tallesty1:A PHILOSOPHER HERE... |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Emeskhalifa(m): 9:45am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee: I tell them instantly. No time to dey swallow wetting u no like. 1 Like |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Daeylar(f): 9:46am On Jul 03, 2018 |
MizMyColi: Lol, this made me laugh I love this LMAO 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by linkszelda: 9:46am On Jul 03, 2018 |
I dislike fat, obese, plump women. Shikenan 1 Like |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by bedspread: 9:47am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Tell her the but do it Wisely... Tell her beautiful she is and how sweet she will be if A bit Slim |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Nobody: 9:47am On Jul 03, 2018 |
soberdrunk:That is not true. It is possible that he is worried about her health. 1 Like |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by popefrank2016(m): 9:47am On Jul 03, 2018 |
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Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Daeylar(f): 9:48am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee: You don't want her to lose the weight because you think it may be beneficial to her. You want her to lose the weight because you don't like ladies who are too fat, . Just imagine You want her to change her body to please you, based on what you like. With no consideration of if that is what is best for her and if that is what she prefers/wants, You've not even told us if this lady likes you or has your time at all or what your relationship with this lady is like, Just that you like her, Or do you feel it is irrelevant and all that matters is what you want? Anyway, I'm just here to remind you that she is not a doll put on this earth to live to please you, to the point where you feel that she should lose weight just because you like slim ladies. That is a terrible reason for anyone to lose weight, Na Wa for you. You can find someone else who is slim to like. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by xynerise: 9:48am On Jul 03, 2018 |
I am here to read how the fat girls will make the best rebuttals here 2 Likes |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Gangster1ms: 9:49am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Just tell her straight up ... simple! 2 Likes |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Nobody: 9:50am On Jul 03, 2018 |
HajimeSaito: You dont really know what you want dude. What the heck is wrong with being dark skinned?. 1 Like |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Lexusgs430: 9:50am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee: Leave her and find your spec..... You are the problem, not her..... |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Nobody: 9:50am On Jul 03, 2018 |
MrCork: 2 Likes
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Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Amakachris95(f): 9:50am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee:Where is she located? We can help with our weight loss meal plans. Contact me if interested. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by eyinjuege: 9:51am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee: You have been advised to take your love interest elsewhere particularly since this lady isn't pleasing to your eyes. Some other guy will love her big stature and their mantra is the bigger the better. Leave her for those kind of guys To be forewarned is to be forarmed 2 Likes |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Nobody: 9:55am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee: Like someone stated earlier, weight is a sensitive issue. I don't even know how you should tell her so it doesn't sound bad. Maybe she could not even be overweight. Fat doesn't equate being overweight. You seem like someone who like slim girls. |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Offpoint: 9:55am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee:Don't be a sisi, be blunt....like baby you're getting fat lately... how about some slim tea? I honestly dislikes fat girls they turned me off, cuz the first thing I'll imagine will be the future... how will she look after childbirth...? in fact before make a serious move with any Lady I need to see what her mom looks like.. If she's fat.... that's it for me, we ain't going nowhere. I rather get it right right from the start than start looking outside when get married. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by oglalasioux(m): 9:57am On Jul 03, 2018 |
While it's ok to advise someone to work on his or her weight, it's not your business to have sleepless night over it. Go for a woman of your type. I suspect this lady has money and that's what you are after. |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by emezuo17: 9:58am On Jul 03, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:. I still dont understand and get angry when they are told they have added weight, my wife came to pick me from the airport one day while coming back from work, we were jisting and i just chipped in that she has added weight, booom she became very quiet and cold and i was like what have i said wrongly, men i had to apologize oh, but men do not get angry when told they have added weight. Women should stop seeing being slim as being beautiful, as far as you are not obese, if some one says you have added weight and you dont like the weight go and burn it, or better still tell the person you are adding weight deliberately, 2 Likes |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by faithesco(f): 10:00am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Swiftlee: |
Re: Her Weight Is Getting Too Much! Help by Nobody: 10:01am On Jul 03, 2018 |
HajimeSaito: Wait did you say dark skinned, am interested. Send through pass nau |
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