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Mature Minds by apostle25(m): 9:37pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color][i][/i]How do you deal with church members who mock you in secret and also insult you but all smiley in front of you. 1. you don't speak their language 2. you are an indoor person . You don't associate with them because they show off.. ..some are your junior s. |
Re: Mature Minds by apostle25(m): 2:19am On Jul 04, 2018 |
apostle25:Any one |
Re: Mature Minds by okwabayi(m): 6:11am On Jul 04, 2018 |
This is called office politics, the only difference is the church environment. You are obviously out of the loop hence why they've secluded and mock you. I honestly believe the best thing to do when faced with constant embarrassment is to avoid the situation. For me it means stop going to church or find a new venue. |
Re: Mature Minds by apostle25(m): 12:53pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
okwabayi:What if you can't leave the fellow ship |
Re: Mature Minds by okwabayi(m): 1:03pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
apostle25:Then I guess you either bear with the situation or find a way to enter their midst. I seriously advice you pull out from the environment completely as the constant worry will wear you down both physically and mentally. |
Re: Mature Minds by apostle25(m): 2:10pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
okwabayi:if I try and relate with them is that humbleness. |
Re: Mature Minds by okwabayi(m): 2:27pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
apostle25:Humbleness right now is the least of your worries. Relating with them is only a means to either pacify them or make them accept you. If they accept you they won't have bad things to say. I just noticed now you wrote you don't speak their language. Well then make an effort. Pick some easy words and use them from time to time in their presence. It'll show them that although you're a stranger in their midst you're willing to embrace their way(s). |
Re: Mature Minds by apostle25(m): 2:42pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
okwabayi:I have done all that. same thing. I'll just greet and go my way |
Re: Mature Minds by apostle25(m): 4:25pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
apostle25:Thanks BRO |
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