ladygudhead:
guy i don't have ba3 n am too strong to type.Thanks love! mmuaah!

crackhaus:

What's the difference between the two?

Rubbiish:
Try to answer my question whenever u charge ya ba3...mmuaah too!

bukatyne:


One is constantly repeating the cycle of marriage & divorce, enjoying the benefits of marriage as long as he is in it. He probably has kids (who may/may not like him) of his own.

The eternal bachelor is alone and except he is pursuing a cause e.g. Rev. Fathers, Monks etc. he can't cope single as he needs to propagate his seed and leave a successor. If he is a baby daddy, then he is off the plate.

Trump is a serial monogamist.

I can't think of an eternal bachelor.

Even owner/creator of Playboy with all his 'knowledge of the vileness of women' was a serial monogamist.

I interestingly can't think of any big shot who was an eternal bachelor; they opt for serial monogamy or polygamy.

divinelove:
I see a man DT will die of loneliness in old age, u might die and decay in your bed n nobody will know.

You can't afford not to have a wife at old age bc loneliness will kill u. Even those men whose wife is dead or divorced remarry sharply to avert this time bomb DT lies ahead

Biglittlelois:



I dont want to be religious, but God realised Adam needs Eve cos he figured he will be lonely, so i believe once a male is born a female is born or out there for him and vice versa

Acidosis:


Absolutely, but I have an observation;

How come we 'force' the 6-3-3-4 educational system on everyone? I mean there is no basis to force a child to go to school as many people without that privilege are doing very well financially and mentally. One thing I've come to discover about humans is that we are all wired to be selective hypocrites. This minute we feel everyone should do what they like, and the next minute we enrol kids in school because others are doing it (same thing we kicked against when it comes to other issues).

Biglittlelois:



I dont want to be religious, but God realised Adam needs Eve cos he figured he will be lonely, so i believe once a male is born a female is born or out there for him and vice versa

Amazonboss:



While I may agree with you sir about his state of mind towards marriage, Marriage is God's business not a social construct per say.

I also think same,but will have a kid and train my kid. I so love peace and happiness. Except of course I find a weird type like me I may reconsider. But until then........ plans are underway to prepare financially for myself and kid.

Rejoice5000:
If i can wear cheap cloths,deny my comfort jst to set the child to a good standard why won't dat child look after me.forget third world parents na grammer bi dat.

Rubyventures:


If you child moves far away and decides not to look after you or place you in a home? what can you do? except wallow in self pity. No one knows what the future holds, you only know your mind. even if you think you know the mind of your kids , they will get married, and their loyalty changes to their immediate family. What you should be praying for since your old age investment is in your kids is that they meet a good partner that will not change their minds.

Rejoice5000:
lol i think u should speak for urself i say its a MUST.if they like be in end of this world.Its a done deal they will.

Rubbiish:
Try to answer my question whenever u charge ya ba3...mmuaah too!

ladygudhead:
Ok xup!

Rubbiish:

Good...

mhd5757:
Hey nairalanders, what do you think? Is this normal? Marriage doesn't appeal to me at all same as having kids, I prefer having dogs even now i have 2 of them and as soon as I get a job and make enough money I plan on getting 3 more making them 5 in number. I know most people, the first thing they want to do as soon as they get a job is to get married and have kids but not me, I'm also not interested in having a girlfriend, though I used to have one back then when I was in the university but we were forced to leave each other being that she had to go back to her country and I had to come back to Nigeria.
After that I got another girl here in Nigeria, but I had to leave her because she was too expensive and she was draining me financially. After that, I just lost interest in relationships and I decided to be single, I decided that even if I feel the need to lay with a woman I can just go to an ashawo hotel or get a steady woman who I can be calling any time I need company. I think this is the lifestyle that suits me especially in this harsh economy, its easier for me. If I get married and have kids imagine all the money I'm going to have to be spending, excess groceries, all kinds of bills, school fees and the list goes on.
At least having a steady woman to call like maybe once a week can't be as expensive as getting married and supporting a wife.
Also having dogs can't be as expensive as raising kids, with dogs all I need to do is to buy their feed, their grooming products and pay for their medical bills and probably training fees too but with kids and a wife imagine all the bills, the lists keep compiling and they never end.
What is your take on this? What do you think?

ladygudhead:
So i av seen(sori heard of) children who kill their parents n vice versa .but i av seen a greater majority of children become their parents dream,bring them joy,make dem proud(like u n i), continue d familz lineage etc. The advantages so supercede d disadvanges. so whats ur say, sir?

Rubbiish:
I concede...

mhd5757:

I don't get lonely, I am a social introvert meaning that I prefer keeping to myself but I still go out to socialize with friends.
And if I die alone and nobody finds me, I don't care no matter how my body decays because I would be dead and I would not feel a thing.

mmsen:


If he doesn't want children why are you trying to pressure him into having them?

Does Nigeria need more reluctant, unprepared parents?

Grupo:


See as you take fine .

Oya, come and counsel me!

Hey nairalanders, what do you think? Is this normal? Marriage doesn't appeal to me at all same as having kids, I prefer having dogs even now i have 2 of them and as soon as I get a job and make enough money I plan on getting 3 more making them 5 in number. I know most people, the first thing they want to do as soon as they get a job is to get married and have kids but not me, I'm also not interested in having a girlfriend, though I used to have one back then when I was in the university but we were forced to leave each other being that she had to go back to her country and I had to come back to Nigeria.
After that I got another girl here in Nigeria, but I had to leave her because she was too expensive and she was draining me financially. After that, I just lost interest in relationships and I decided to be single, I decided that even if I feel the need to lay with a woman I can just go to an ashawo hotel or get a steady woman who I can be calling any time I need company. I think this is the lifestyle that suits me especially in this harsh economy, its easier for me. If I get married and have kids imagine all the money I'm going to have to be spending, excess groceries, all kinds of bills, school fees and the list goes on.
At least having a steady woman to call like maybe once a week can't be as expensive as getting married and supporting a wife.
Also having dogs can't be as expensive as raising kids, with dogs all I need to do is to buy their feed, their grooming products and pay for their medical bills and probably training fees too but with kids and a wife imagine all the bills, the lists keep compiling and they never end.
What is your take on this? What do you think?