SheIsElle:
So? Kneeling down doesn't make her a good woman or a perfect wife. I don't see the need in doing that, I see marriage as a fusion of friends who have each others best interest at heart. Where is the fun and friendship if I have to kneel down to greet you?

Where is the fun and friendship if he has to kneel to propose to you?

to each his/her own. There is nothing wrong in her kneeling to greet her husband and there is nothing wrong in not kneeling. These are matters of preferences not common right or wrong. What is important and what society should fight is that we have our freedom to make our own choices.

Kneeling to greet your husband should be your choice. ditto for the reverse.

and yes kneeling doesnt make her a perfect wife. You don't see the need but she sees the need. None of you is wrong.

slay queen wl rather want u to bow for dem on top everything wey u dey buy for dem dia reason being dey av big yansh DT u can knack!

MhisTahrah:
I saw the donkey, fat panda. Oya, get lost.

...ladies do not swaaaar. ...growwwwwwup. ..an then u complain u can't find man on nairaland ((Shaking my head ))

SO we should give you accolades for doing the normal Right thing cos you are a professor
SMH

Chimamanda come ooooooo!
Food is ready!

Thimmoh:
If you know you did not read it finish, gather here.

Cultivate the habit of reading.

adontcare:
I know many that are taking responsibilities. U have already made up ur mind if I will lie or not. So no need. U do ur findings and get ur results yaself.

i find yourself response hilarious wonnt call it a bow, we are talking reality here no need for debate.
i donnt have any friend that is depending on gurlfriend or wife ,, even other africa women had to attest to how responsible naija guys are when it comes to financing...
you donnt av to find fact it will come staring @ you

Why were you taught summary in secondary school??

Odogwuskido:

Cultivate the habit of reading.

Well that is the generation where wife ended and mothers ended,now we have yahoo girls, hustlers and slay queens

monex:


Where is the fun and friendship if he has to kneel to propose to you?

to each his/her own. There is nothing wrong in her kneeling to greet her husband and there is nothing wrong in not kneeling. These are matters of preferences not common right or wrong. What is important and what society should fight is that we have our freedom to make our own choices.

Kneeling to greet your husband should be your choice. ditto for the reverse.

and yes kneeling doesnt make her a perfect wife. You don't see the need but she sees the need. None of you is wrong.

You are right.

nahzyla:
So men like submission? But they don't want to provide abi? Claiming a woman must have money and provide for the family like her husband but the husband can still lord over her and command and rule her??

Wonderful.

exactly ! They will be looking for co- breadwinner and submitter ! You can’t eat your cake and have it ! Once someone is financially independent you can’t lord it over them anymore !

nahzyla:
So men like submission? But they don't want to provide abi? Claiming a woman must have money and provide for the family like her husband but the husband can still lord over her and command and rule her??

Wonderful.

Doesn't the man in question want to provide? Abi what's the essence of this comment. Who doesn't wanna provide here. Na war o

Pataricatering:
exactly ! They will be looking for co- breadwinner and submitter ! You can’t eat your cake and have it ! Once someone is financially independent you can’t lord it over them anymore !

Eiyah!

Iamgrey5:
A true intelligent and educated person knows how to respect our culture. Respecting our cultural norms doesn't mean we have belittled ourselves.

I mean not like the ones that start forming feminist after learning a couple of words from the dictionary.

librating your fellow women doesn't have to be an egotistical adventure.


"Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real". -Thomas Merton

insisting on someone submitting to you is pride ! It’s egotistical ! Liberating yourself from that nonsense is common sense !

Thimmoh:
Why were you taught summary in secondary school??

Are interviews meant to be summarized? She just granted an interview. So, cultivate the habit of reading

monex:


Where is the fun and friendship if he has to kneel to propose to you?

to each his/her own. There is nothing wrong in her kneeling to greet her husband and there is nothing wrong in not kneeling. These are matters of preferences not common right or wrong. What is important and what society should fight is that we have our freedom to make our own choices.

Kneeling to greet your husband should be your choice. ditto for the reverse.

and yes kneeling doesnt make her a perfect wife. You don't see the need but she sees the need. None of you is wrong.

But respect is mandatory, right? And the man should be the head right? And respect is reciprocal, right? If it's yes to these things, then you are correct, but if one of your answers is no, then you are wrongestess lol

Pataricatering:
insisting on someone submitting to you is pride ! It’s egotistical ! Liberating yourself from that nonsense is common sense !

Who is insisting? Hun?

Pataricatering:
insisting on someone submitting to you is pride ! It’s egotistical ! Liberating yourself from that nonsense is common sense !

How is showing respect by observing a cultural norm (kneeling down) which is clearly mutual as stated by the professor "submission" .

UrbanExotica:
Is kneeling down now an achievement

Not really. Just her cultural way of showing respect. Bottom line is whichever way you choose, please respect your husband, even if he doesn't deserve it, because at the end of the day, he will be the first to admit it while indicting himself.

Pataricatering:
exactly ! They will be looking for co- breadwinner and submitter ! You can’t eat your cake and have it ! Once someone is financially independent you can’t lord it over them anymore !

Honestly the entitlement mentality some guys have is disgusting.

Even in Japan, female professors still bow to greet strangers, not to talk of husbands.

So what nonsense are you spouting? Stop thinking you're important, you're not.

Attention seeking bìtch.

Chimamanda is very pissed right now.

I know one igbo AMERICANAH feminist bìatch who will not like to hear this...

ShakurM:
When a reasonable woman is treated right, submission comes naturally            

God Bless you.

Thimmoh:
Why were you taught summary in secondary school??

Before you summarize a paragraph, passag, text/book, won't you need to read it through?

Or can you summarize what you don't know?

Nobody cares

MissJoy29:

God Bless you.

. You too

adontcare:
that is d main issue in most marriages. The head of d house want his wife to provide all d needs in d house and still want to rule as head. Some will even ask d wife not to do anything that brings income and still expect his wife to provide for d kids while he save his money to spend on his extended family and friends outside. I just tire for most marriages

Most Nigerian marraiges are a scam. They are master-servant relationship. I have no respect for Nigerian marraiges.

The OP should have summarized it

MissJoy29:

Before you summarize a paragraph, passag, text/book, won't you need to read it through?

Or can you summarize what you don't know?

gistblogger:
GistMore.com

Even as a professor, I still kneel down to greet my husband – Professor Grace Otinwa



https://www.google.com.ng/amp/punchng.com/even-as-a-professor-i-still-kneel-down-to-greet-my-husband-professor-grace-otinwa/amp/

Smarter women have no issue submitting to their husbands because they know they call the shots anyway. Women run the household and the man advises, the women run the village and the men are advisers, the women rule the land and the men are advisers. The head means the one who offers solutions so women look to men for solutions that is how men lead.

Ase

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