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KanwuliaExtra:
Depression is real.
2 major causes are emotional and financial problems.

Every day is a struggle.
The only person who can fight depression is the one who suffers from it.

It is SOLELY a personal fight. . . Without medication or pastors.

You MUST confront the objects of your depressive state and CONQUER them with sheer determination.

For those who believe in medication, I really hope it helps. The side effects are worse than the depression.

Yes I feel u. What ever it is be determined dat it won't kill u

cnonyechi:


Abi ooo. Eeeh see me oo

God supposed punish her for dat... wen man d find hw I go take comot for this Nigerian... UK my dream country.. chai... or UK don turn Nigerian

ottizz:


If you are inside the top floor of a high rise building that is on fire with no way to escape save by jumping off through an open window, what would you do? Will you jump? Or will you let the fire consume you?

Unless you're in the same circumstance of a depressed person, you may never understand why that person had to take their own life.

Bro, the bolded is not a depression situation. Don't mix it up. A brave person will do anything to try to save his/her own life.

oloriooko:
You school in the UK
You have your parents live in the UK
You are probably UK citizen
You have a bright future finishing from a school in UK

Yet you took your life, this does not add up so that friend should be investigated as well as other friends and neighbours

and so? Depression can catch anyone, even the wealthy cry. Life is so hard, everybody has struggles. No matter how pretty it may seem on the outside

[He was first detained in July 1993 under the regime of General Babagida. His offences then was that he advocated for the revalidation of the result of the 12 June 1993 Presidential election polls won by the Late Chief M. K. O. Abiola. Sani was charged at a magistrate court, Ibrahim Taiwo Road, Kaduna, for sedition. During the interim government of Chief Earnest Shonekan, Sani was arrested and detained for two weeks and later charged to court for sedition again. During General
Sani Abacha's regime, he was implicated in the 1995 phantom coup and subsequently jailed for life and later commuted to 15 years by the Patrick Aziza Special Military Tribunal that convicted the likes of General Olusegun Obasanjo (later President), Col Lawan Gwadabe (rtd) and Chris Anyanwu and other journalists; his charges were: "Accessory to the fact of treason and managing an unlawful society (the Campaign for Democracy)". He was detained in various prisons: Kirikiri, Kaduna, Port-Harcourt, Enugu and Aba.
Before his several incarcerations, Sani co-founded the Movement for Unity and Progress and teamed up with other northern progressives such as Col. Abubakar Dangiwa Umar (rtd.), Dr Bala Usman, Mr James Bawa Magaji and Alhaji Balarabe Musa, to fight for the actualization of 12 June annulled presidential election and other causes.
Sani is renowned for providing human rights campaign support to the poor and the disadvantage and in the process had clashed with security agents and other state power-wielders.
During the religious riots in Kaduna in 2000, he was the only human right activist in Kaduna that came out in the heat of the violence to condemn the massacre. In 2005, he was appointed to reshape the civil society in the national conference. Tradition rulers in the conference asked that Shehu Sani be barred from further speaking went he asked for their dissolution because of their pliant support for military dictator in the past. The chairman of the commission, Justice Niki Tobi turned down the call. During the riot in Kaduna, he pioneered the distribution of relief materials and initiated the visit to the “war zone” at the time when it was the most suicidal thing to contemplate.
Sani has organized and led protests, namely:
Against Iraq invasion of the state of Kuwait
Against the Israeli war on Gaza

nuti:
Sad news indeed
Forensic analysis:
1. She could have been killed and hung up
2. She could have really killed herself
The loss awaiting Buhari in 2019 election is still doing press up

Wishful thinking .Any analytical mind know that President Buhari will surely win again It is then that retrogressive people and supporter of thieves like you WILL COMMIT SUICIDE .

decatalyst:


Hey! Let me repeat it for the Upton time, ONLY A COWARD TAKE THEIR OWN LIFE!

Bro, it doesn't solve anything. It breeds more pain for those left behind.

The best is to look for help from the right ones...work on your mental strength and find solace in something, ur friend or family, music, activities, mosque or church fate. Never isolate your self...that is the first damage depression does. Have it at the back of your mind that the worst has happened and you MUST conquer the worst because it is just a 'test' of who you are.

I have seen people suffered a quantum losses,damage and they pulled through to be a fighter.

Every phase of life is just like a story book, the ups and downs are what makes your story worth reading.

Never end your story by yourself.

Stop regurgitating what you were told or things you read in a motivational booklet.

Note: I'm not in any way suicidal.

However, I often salute the courage of those who committed suicide. It takes more courage to die than to live. I wonder where this "someone who commits suicide is a coward" narrative is stemming from.

decatalyst:


Bro, the bolded is not a depression situation. Don't mix it up. A brave person will do anything to try to save his/her own life.

It is just an analogy. But you didn't answer the question. What would you do?

adetoroamos:
depression is bad, wetin me self they face pass my age 'oloun

Tell us more?

This should be thoroughly investigated.

She's the second girl in recent times with s suicide verdict.. Her case looks very suspicious.

1) why did she go to Cardiff, .....a hotel in Cardiff to commit the act and not somewhere closer,eg that famous suicide bridge in Bristol ,--- a "runs" event gone bad??
2) why is only 1 not several people aware of the "depression"?
3) why didn't the said person raise an alarm, as we Naija people do because of our tatafo!!
4) where are GP records or other eye witness accounts of her depressive episodes??
5) she left no notes, instead visited her family just days to the event...,.naaa..... She was killed


The family better get a PI to dig in and expose the people behind their daughter's death.. Or at least the significant events preceding it.



Be careful of the friends you keep...


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depression is so so real.

my experience with depression sometimes almost makes me breakdown in tears but how can I cry when all I know now is joy.

PS; never ever give up, keep yourself busy outdoors... life is beautiful trust me

ottizz:


It is just an analogy. But you didn't answer the question. What would you do?

The analogy is way too off the topic. Don't throw a "red herring" I am a student of argument...

cnonyechi:


Yes I feel u. What ever it is be determined dat it won't kill u

Oh yes o. Depression is like an evil spirit. Never let it win.

Medical problems are the real spirit-breakers.

When you can’t take care of yourself or you have to depend on people to wipe your behind.

Too many life challenges I swear!
How do you smile with knowing you are going to die from an illness?

cnonyechi:
But wait oo someone who lives and schools in d UK is having depression for wat na? Wen most people are dying to be in her position. Well different strokes for different folks

We all have things that bother us

Nightmareo07:
I suspect foul play, maybe she was murdered
Being a Yoruba girl and how yoruba girls run prostitution in U.K and London city I suspect she has has been r*aped and killed.

I think they should investigate her death very well. Nobody deserves to die that way nomatter what.
R.I.P

However, Miss Ogundipe’s close friend, Hannah Agbeyegbe, in a written statement read out to the court, said: “She was an independent person. Quite private. .
.
She didn’t really talk a lot about her personal life. It was around this time (when she moved to Bristol) that she disclosed to me that she was depressed and she had been having suicidal thoughts.”

decatalyst:


Hey! Let me repeat it for the Upton time, ONLY A COWARD TAKE THEIR OWN LIFE!

Bro, it doesn't solve anything. It breeds more pain for those left behind.

The best is to look for help from the right ones...work on your mental strength and find solace in something, ur friend or family, music, activities, mosque or church fate. Never isolate your self...that is the first damage depression does. Have it at the back of your mind that the worst has happened and you MUST conquer the worst because it is just a 'test' of who you are.

I have seen people suffered a quantum losses,damage and they pulled through to be a fighter.

Every phase of life is just like a story book, the ups and downs are what makes your story worth reading.

Never end your story by yourself.

life still dey sweet you na why... u never jam real sadness

Saff:
and so? Depression can catch anyone, even the wealthy cry. Life is so hard, everybody has struggles. No matter how pretty it may seem on the outside

if she wan see hard life and struggles make she come 9ja mtcweee

oloriooko:


if she wan see hard life and struggles make she come 9ja mtcweee

shut up. Cow

Saff:
shut up. Cow

No wonder depression don finish you better wake up b4 you end your miserable life like that girl

nuti:
Sad news indeed
Forensic analysis:
1. She could have been killed and hung up
2. She could have really killed herself
The loss awaiting Buhari in 2019 election is still doing press up

go and hug transformer because of buhari

ottizz:


If you are inside the top floor of a high rise building that is on fire with no way to escape save by jumping off through an open window, what would you do? Will you jump? Or will you let the fire consume you?

Unless you're in the same circumstance of a depressed person, you may never understand why that person had to take their own life.

You guys have raised salient points, it's been a while I read sensible thoughts on nairaland like this but then, there is no justification whatsoever to take ones life.

I read one of Martin Luther King Jr speeches and he said " if you have nothing to die for, you have no reason to live" It's eternal to die for something worthy not mere problem that will end

bimbod:


life still dey sweet you na why... u never jam real sadness

Lol! You just wrote that without having an idea what others have passed through. Hmmm...I give glory to God sha.

Bottom line, write a good story and don't limit the number of pages by yourself.

adetoroamos:
depression is bad, wetin me self they face pass my age 'oloun

Everyone have worries, i pray may God help u out soon.. Sucide is not an option please

cnonyechi:


I know how hard it is but remember only tough people last. Don't ever think suicide for it shall all comw to PASS. always depend and speak solely to God

to some people they feel God, but to others the presence of God is nowhere to be found around them, the existence of God seems like imagination as they never testify

cnonyechi:


I know how hard it is but remember only tough people last. Don't ever think suicide for it shall all comw to PASS. always depend and speak solely to God

God is not helpful in their situations

geezynoni:

However, Miss Ogundipe’s close friend, Hannah Agbeyegbe, in a written statement read out to the court, said: “She was an independent person. Quite private. .
She didn’t really talk a lot about her personal life. It was around this time (when she moved to Bristol) that she disclosed to me that she was depressed and she had been having suicidal thoughts.”

I'm not condemning her.
A prostitute will also tell u shez and "independent woman" becoz they blive the are also working. Here in naija They call themselves "self employed" when asked about occupation.

She said shez depressed and not taking suicide. Just thinking outta d box shaa.
Rip to her. Shez so young

Rip.

Nightmareo07:
I suspect foul play, maybe she was murdered
Being a Yoruba girl and how yoruba girls run prostitution in U.K and London city I suspect she has has been r*aped and killed.

I think they should investigate her death very well. Nobody deserves to die that way nomatter what.
R.I.P

I was wondering when the ethnic coloration was going to feature and voilà you jumped right to it. You couldn't even resist being stupid this once as an honor to the dead?

nuti:

Sorry to hear that, but don’t take anything in this life seriuosly to heart so much to hurt ur life.
Life should be taken gently

i once attempted suicide last yeaf after depression suck me up. i look at the sharp knife in my hand and ask my self

where am i going to if i die
wht are the dead people doing

i just drop d knife and face d,chaallenge ahead one day it go better

decatalyst:


The analogy is way too off the topic. Don't throw a "red herring" I am a student of argument...

You are so much in a haste, which is why you are not seeing the connection. Let me explain.

The logical thing to do will be to jump (based on the narrative). This person probably realizes that death awaits by jumping, just like being engulfed by the fire. However, he chooses to jump. Why? Probably because he wanted to choose a less painful death.

Now people looking up from the ground and seeing this person, and not aware of the"fire," will be shouting, "don't jump"! If these people become aware of the situation this person is faced with, would they still be shouting, "don't jump"?

I hope you are able to see the connection and the deeper meaning. If you still can't see it, then you are on your own.