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| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife:here is why you can't stop. You'd always want to try and recover all you've lost where as even if you do, you'd still be loose it to virtual again. Just count your lost to virtual as that which cannot be recovered. Let it go. The more you chase, the worst your life 'd become. Always have your future in your head, and always compare yourself to your friends which are presently doing better. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Jethrolite: Go easy on the sanctimonious talk. Gambling is one of those addictions you hope you do not stumble into. Alot of Nigerians are being snared. It's the same way they are snared by mmm etal. The difference in this case is that the govt has still not intervened. The phrase used to describe gambling is 'the house always wins'. Even if you hammer small today, you wil lose it after. I saw a frightening ad where a couple were planning to buy stuff from proceeds of gambling money. Truly frightening, as people may actually be dumb enough to believe betnja is in the business of dashing people money 10 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by newbie2018: 8:37am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: hi OP. I can relate 10000000001% to the agony you feel right now. I was once in your shoes but not my school fees but my hard earned salary after 30days I would loose to virtual in a day or two without attending to rent or basic needs first. I turned a beggar, eating from one room to the other of my co-tenants. my side business was in shambles because it's either am virtualling and can't open my shop or my shop is open but I am in the virtual shop. I did everything to try to stop but all to no avail, I swore with a Bible never to play again... I managed to stay away a week or few days and I was back. to make matters worse I started to work in a bet9ja shop the very first day was a disaster I played 25000 on the spot, the very first day I started the job lucky for me the boss wasn't around, I quickly ran to a cousin sister and cried for help on how my boss would kill me, she pardoned me and lent me the money instantly, I put it into my boss purse, he returned and was very happy the sales I had made. I almost burst in tears in his presence, surprisingly I didn't quit but worked there for 2/3 months more but my brother my salary I never saw because I had shortages upon shortages and sometimes had to use my savings to fill up my mess, my bank account read zero. guess what I did next and you should try it too. I swore with my MOTHERS LIFE never to play virtual again and believe me I have been Prolly 5years clean now (I LOVE MY MOM TOO MUCH OH) and its even better now because I am no longer her in Nigeria even though back then I played both on and offline. I don't know what's wrong with the Nigerian Government, this bet9ja ish has ruined the youths financially. in some countries gambling is illegal. why will the Nigerian Government encourage a disease like bet9ja (am not surprised I heard LASG is one of the sponsors, my pastor back then in Nigeria who happens to be a top bank official says bet9ja deposits in billions weekly and this was about 5/6 years ago). my friend OP you may not try what I did but I am on my knees, I do not even know you but you must stop. you have to put your life on the line someway, I n do not know if "swearing" works but I am never virtualling with my mother's life . be smart 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 08, 2018 |
adegeye38: 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 8:37am On Jul 08, 2018 |
KingOfAmebo:brother i know you would not believe. What do i gain from lying. You dont gamble i get you. You have no idea what virtual can do. Please if you help me. Please do. I am not lying. I need help. Thank you for your understanding 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by carlede: 8:37am On Jul 08, 2018 |
cruchenutii: It's called the "nice guy syndrome" very ****ed up 2 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Jrevelation(m): 8:37am On Jul 08, 2018 |
As long as you are addict it is hard to back off from that shit It is really crazy Do you know Sorry is your case I once encounter with addict gambler like you I run from him Gambling you cannot be a champion of it The thing is some how connect with the devil As long as you continue with it your life will wreck and people around you too will be affect If I can see your parent, I will tell you them You need deliverance plus rehab Total monitoring Start doing something Total monitoring for like two years Hardlife: |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kagari: 8:37am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: Bro just one very painful loss and you would stop. Was once an addict gambler, but one day dat i got so pained with my loss, i told myself i am stopping. I still gamble PES with my hommies though for fun 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by dimeji1(m): 8:37am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Open a bet9ja shop to take the anxiety out of you. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Muftau89(m): 8:38am On Jul 08, 2018 |
[color=#550000][/color] Try acquire some skills and stop being alone. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by lacemose(m): 8:38am On Jul 08, 2018 |
I swear your name go soon change to ugly BETty |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by makasimatics(m): 8:38am On Jul 08, 2018 |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by balmofgilead: 8:38am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife:I am glad you know something is wrong with you.you must hate yourself to be acting this stupid and childish.you have only YOU to blame and not bet9a.i feel like slapping you to a coma and washing your brain clean then wake you up again.upom the damage this has done your still acting like you have no power against it.dont you have any ambition?why not sit urself down and put ur life in order.just continue till you die thats when you will wakeup.better go to church this morning and think deeply about ur life. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Whizzahd(m): 8:38am On Jul 08, 2018 |
No.... This thing too much. You were stupid, very stupid to have gotten so oo addicted. I can't even believe that someone could get this addicted to something... No.. I don't believe this story. It's just a ploy to make people stop virtual betting. And it's a good one... |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:38am On Jul 08, 2018 |
jksxxxx: If men begin tell you wetin virtual done do Dem! You go hate this life! 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 8:39am On Jul 08, 2018 |
KingOfAmebo:I initially started with nairabet but when they packed. i started using bet9ja. I lost both to nairabet and bet9ja. believe what i am saying. i am frustrated 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:39am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Whizzahd: You probably haven't seen things bro! |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nedic: 8:39am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Tolax17:nawao..... have sympathy kwanu everybody has a skeleton in their cupboards oh. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by b0rn2fuck(m): 8:39am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife:no way you can stop virtual without having a purpose or something that will keep you busy, either you set up a business or attach yourself to work at least to keep your mindset of it before you end up like some boys who hang around bet shop begging for daily feeds after virtual as eaten their life up. for me to stop virtual, I reawakening my business and that took my mind of it, luckily I goes on weekend with nothing less than 1k or worst 2k, I don't go around with huge money and I don't have ATM since its damage, I didn't get any back. Na that time I used to budget my spending because the out I used to cash out used transfer but it's difficult compare to using ATM. get a life first, virtual is killing most young ones 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:40am On Jul 08, 2018 |
zicoraads: Yo bro, If you are ready & living in Lagos.We can open one together. If you are thinking of making heaven please don't bother oh. But we go make Millions sha. Bro if you're ready hit me up   |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Ddonoflife(m): 8:40am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife:. pm me |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Koralords: 8:40am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: Bro you not alone .....2012 before starting bet9ja I bought 3 cars same time from the USA ..had $28k in my Dom account ....have 3.8m in my accounts ...everything went bet9ja ..the day I sold of my car I staked 750k onces on a match and lost ....now have less then 200k in my act and squart with ppl 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by udoka55555: 8:40am On Jul 08, 2018 |
omo this one weak me.... guy you need Jesus. |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Sirbobowen(m): 8:40am On Jul 08, 2018 |
University certificate is a joke this days, u probably would have graduated with a third class which still mean D same thing now. Play this in ur head now. Go start a professional course, learn digital marketing or interior designing or SEO Trust u will still be better than 50℅ of ur friends that graduated happily. Better man at least u still have ur family. Once u have a problem on nairaland 90 percent of the comment will be like go and pray. I pray too felas but if u don't have any meanful thing to say just shut up 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kidaby: 8:40am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: May God help you sir. I would not claim to be a therapist or anything but I'm sure there are good resources online on stopping gambling as an addiction. First, I thank God for you that you're able to recognise this addiction and that you want to stop it. Its going to be hard, you're going to find yourself slipping sometimes, but don't give up. Even when you fall back to it, once you remember your goal, just stop. Also, 1. I think you should get yourself really busy with either school or business and surround yourself with good people, people you want to be like. 2. You should work in close collaboration with your family too and let someone be responsible for checking up on you. Don't hold lots of money. Tell your family to pay school fees for you by themselves. 3. Buy a non smart phone. Keep the smart phone with a friend who knows of your addiction. You can come use it under his supervision. 4. Block all betting websites from the smart phone. 5. Get closer to God (I don't know what religion you follow) 6. Reward yourself. If you're able to go two weeks without betting for example, treat yourself out to a nice meal. 7. Whenever you feel the urge, have friends of standby who you can talk to. I pray God makes it easy for you. I wish you the best 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by KlasysTech(m): 8:40am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Just see down and start thinking of when you started playing the bet, try & calculate all the money you've lost from the very first date till date, look at the total amount very well & ask yourself if you can recover them, also think of what you would have done with such huge amount. This must surely reset your brain, knowing that you are doing unprofitable businesses that has not paid you since inception, and you need to know that you will continue to lose more |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: Hard as it might seem to believe, there are people facing addictions, be it weed smoking, to tramadol and even something as simple as alcohol addiction. Please note that none of the mentioned are totally bad. Alcohol lightens the mood, tramadol is pain relief medication, cannabis is organic sedative and even gambling is a game of luck. But the issue is addiction. To break an addiction, you need to understand it's real nature. Because it is not the substance or event, but the mental programming that fuels the repetitive action. When you repeat an action more than 21 times, consistent repetition of same actions wires the sub-conscious programming of the non-physical body, that controls our character. So, basically gambling as an automatic response is now a program of your motor neurons. How you break the cycle ? You must disable the sub-conscious programming by deactivating the motor neurons responsible for involuntary responses. How is that done ? Many ways, but the easiest for a dummy like you, is simple but tough for people to hear. Which of your friends or relatives really hates you for living the way you do ? Go to that person, let them make fun of you so badly that you are broken, you feel useless, and you feel like fighting the person. You cry in the inside and challenge yourself to get better. In fact, if you can go to the place you waste your money and start a fight and let them beat the hell out of you. You would have closed that chapter and never go there again. Sometimes you need to get lucked up in police cell to face some level of trauma that will disable certain neural programming, that is what prisons are built for. If you can not do the above, then you need to go through the slow processes which hardly work. That includes, finding a girlfriend who hates who you are now and is ready to make you better. Love changes people who fall in love and are heart broken and want to be better for better mates to lay by their sides. Most people get married out of depression and transfer their aggression to their innocent wives. You are a time-bomb waiting to happen, and woe betide any woman who will surrender her body to a scumbag. Was this painful ?, you need more of it to feel stupid enough to change. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by akyus(m): 8:41am On Jul 08, 2018 |
dingbang:Sir, I will like to get a pos, please what are the requirements? |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by YhungPablo(m): 8:41am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife:I haven't stop . my own story sucks  3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by onegig(m): 8:41am On Jul 08, 2018 |
zicoraads:kindly don't open one. This destroys lives. You may make money but you are creating monsters in the society. People who lose in bets become addicted and when they don't have money to play they resort to theft to fuel their addiction. Have thousands of these in your street and you just doubled the insecurity in that community. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 8:41am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Whizzahd:brother please if you can help me please do. i am tired and frustrated. 4 years wasted. At my age i have no life plans. I need help. Please believe me |
| Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 08, 2018 |
......i also have this friend who's paid 2 different white garment churches pastors to make him HATE & RUN AWAY FROM gambling but dude is still a chronic gambler...... he's lost almost all he had to gambling & now a shadow of himself. I think CAGING one's excesses is the ultimate cure! start by making the sight of a bet shop DISGUST the hell out of you /get busy with a job that will take most of your spare time .....gradually you'll be out. BEST OF LUCK! 2 Likes 1 Share |
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