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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by TaxCollector: 7:34am On Jul 13, 2018
OP, you’re a very greedy man. Don’t you know you can never monopolize a good thing.

Your girl friend is also “uncle’s” girlfriend.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Wilfredpat22(f): 7:36am On Jul 13, 2018
Sir I won’t lie to you

You are dating a very very very cheap girl. Trust me sir you aren’t the only one bangging her.

Apologies if this might hurt

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by lereinter(m): 7:40am On Jul 13, 2018
mimimile93:


Even the married ones are prostitutes..

Any Nigerian lady born from the 80s whether married or single is a prostitute..

I respect the ones at the brothels.. They keep it real.

Not the ones disguised as girlfriends and wives..


Not all nigerian ladies born in the 80's are prostitutes

my sisters are not....

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by lereinter(m): 7:44am On Jul 13, 2018
let me ask

is it after u started the serious affiar with her that she sent nude to the man

did the man send her dollars

if u dont catch her thats a different case



its hard o

involve your own people
Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by lenghtinny(m): 7:47am On Jul 13, 2018
I don't know why most of these girls always have uncles and brothers wey no dey show for family pictures.

The moment a girl starts talking about some imaginary uncle, undercover runs pops on my radar. I will never take such girl serious even at gunpoint angry

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by lenghtinny(m): 7:54am On Jul 13, 2018
Gidilagoon:



No be my fault bro.. the thing Dey do me strong thing ni and I so much love her.. the best thing for me is to avoid her, she’s not the type I can stay mad at for long if am seen her around. E Dey happen baba. Man Dey fall mugu for one girl in his lifetime.

Don't take her back angry

Forgive her but don't marry her. Don't let the emotional blackmail fool you. Let the uncle take her as a second wife instead of eating his leftover.

Such girls with a long list of men in their romantic curriculum vitae are prone to Okafor's law of Congodynamics whether single or married.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Nobody: 7:58am On Jul 13, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

1. Slapping a woman shows immaturity.
2. As long as she is not yet married to you, she is not your wife hence she has the right to meet other suitors. If you want her to be faithful then you should pay her bride price.
3. The fact that she begs means she is a good girl trust me any girl who is not a virgin has been bleeped so stop getting upset cos the pusssy remains intact you can always take as much as you want. No one is uprooting it.
4. Call her back and sit her down and plan a marriage now. Street is military, so learn to be a soldier.

5. Nude pictures or not, Kim Kardasian makes millions from bring naked. Learn to use your weaknesses

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Nobody: 8:17am On Jul 13, 2018
pocohantas:


You need common sense more. If only it were sexually transmitted, I might oblige you. So, the world can have one less dunderhead to worry about.
what's wrong about him asking to fhuck u.. u carry yansh pass D'ass ? cute reach Tory black? your boobs pass maserratti own? No obviously... then who u be?
and I know na your type dey like dhick pass..pretender !

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by pocohantas(f): 8:20am On Jul 13, 2018
awwfar:
what's wrong about him asking to fhuck u.. u carry yansh pass D'ass ? cute reach Tory black? your boobs pass maserratti own? No obviously... then who u be?
and I know na your type dey like dhick pass..pretender !

Give him your mother to fhuck. Who she be? wink

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Nobody: 8:27am On Jul 13, 2018
pocohantas:


Give him your mother to fhuck. Who she be? wink
why not if she dey alive....besides na your town council phussy the goat wan dig not anybody else...so I beg u with the name of Jesus, give him chance

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by pocohantas(f): 8:30am On Jul 13, 2018
awwfar:
why not if she dey alive....besides na your town council phussy the goat wan dig not anybody else...so I beg u with the name of Jesus, give him chance

Raise her from the dead and give him smiley

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 13, 2018
pocohantas:


Raise her from the dead and give him smiley
how is that possible? nawa for you o.. untop phussy wey fit dey smell like rotten fish ..you're being stingy.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Dantepet3000: 8:36am On Jul 13, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.
to be honest I don't think anyone on nairaland can help u on this but my advice to u is weigh your option. put it on a scale. if your guts of leaving for good is heavier I will advice u bail....truth is no body is perfect.u are also bound to make same mistake.if u were God wount u forgive her? remember u are just human...men cheat on women n expect forgiveness so why not forgive her..for her to call people to beg on her behalf says a lot...but warn her that its the very last time. meanwhile tell her the new fixing of the relationship must come with new rules. don't ban her from social media but share same passward even with your own too. that's trust bro. if u watch out for her she has to watch out for u too...in fact go get bk your woman bro

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by CAPSLOCKED: 8:49am On Jul 13, 2018
dostan18:
One thing we should know is that until a lady is married, she's still single and a packaged prostitute.

She might be seen as a retired one once she's married. The earlier we get this the better for us.

Even a wise Nigerian lady will agree with me that they are packaged prostitute parading as girlfriend.



SEE TALK FOR CHRIST SAKE.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Dammylois(f): 9:13am On Jul 13, 2018
Well I'm just not getting it.... Why will you change her phone abi na number? Is like she doesn't have official things she does with her number cos if my phone get lost today I'm retrieving my number nd I'll say it's an act of insecurity that has obviously led you knowhere.... And then the slap!!!! Yes the Girl was very wrong but there is no way I'm getting married to a man that once slapped me.. Kolewerk rara .... Then I need to ask you whether or not you've had quite a number of gfs before nd of course multiple sex partners.. If your answer is yes then I see no reason why she should not be forgiven... But if you feel you will keep using that against her then let her go... It's better to have an heartbreak now than live a disaster marriage.... Gracias

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Gidilagoon: 9:14am On Jul 13, 2018
lereinter:

let me ask

is it after u started the serious affiar with her that she sent nude to the man

did the man send her dollars

if u dont catch her thats a different case


Yeah bro.. It was after we started dating. Like 2months ago this scenario happen o



its hard o

involve your own people







Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by martolux(m): 9:31am On Jul 13, 2018
If you love her, act more like a father to her than a mere bf(through thorough counseling and advice)
Gidilagoon:


Thanks bro.. I wouldn’t call her a nympho but I know she likes sex so much and she’s not the type that will Bleep for money. I just think she ain’t clever enough and has never dated a better guy which really serious with her before, I believe she’s too emotional and can easily fall for sweet words.


Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by martolux(m): 9:39am On Jul 13, 2018
You may be talking based on your own experience but nothing is permanent on this planet of ours...People change and there is no permanent circumstance....some married as a virgin and become a LovePeddler after marriage.....thats how complicated life can be at times
TaxCollector:
OP, you’re a very greedy man. Don’t you know you can never monopolize a good thing.

Your girl friend is also “uncle’s” girlfriend.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Electronics: 9:57am On Jul 13, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.
Let he without sin be the first to cast a stone, we have flawed in one way or the other, the only difference is that we were not caught in the act and that does not mean we are holy.
Bro I totally understand your situation but so long as you love her so much and after the three wonderful slaps, she still kept begging and swearing she wouldn't do such again, I believe everyone deserves a second chance. Just accept her but watch her closely and you would see for yourself if she truly has changed. Then and there, you can make your final decision. My 1kobo contribution.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Gidilagoon: 10:04am On Jul 13, 2018
Electronics:

Let he without sin be the first to cast a stone, we have flawed in one way or the other, the only difference is that we were not caught in the act and that does not mean we are holy.
Bro I totally understand your situation but so long as you love her so much and after the three wonderful slaps, she still kept begging and swearing she wouldn't do such again, I believe everyone deserves a second chance. Just accept her but watch her closely and you would see for yourself if she truly has changed. Then and there, you can make your final decision. My 1kobo contribution.

Thank you so much bro, I appreciate.. I believe everyone deserves a second chance but my fear is that, what if she bumped into one of her old lovers later in the future since I know she has dated many guys in the past, and she’s too emotional. I hope they won’t end up banging again after brain washing her?
One part of my heart is telling me to forgive her and counsel her ,while other side is telling me, she might do the same thing after I finally put a ring on her

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Gidilagoon: 10:05am On Jul 13, 2018
martolux:
You may be talking based on your own experience but nothing is permanent on this planet of ours...People change and there is no permanent circumstance....some married as a virgin and become a LovePeddler after marriage.....thats how complicated life can be at times


Thank you so much bro, I appreciate.. I believe everyone deserves a second chance but my fear is that, what if she bumped into one of her old lovers later in the future since I know she has dated many guys in the past, and she’s too emotional. I hope they won’t end up banging again after brain washing her?
One part of my heart is telling me to forgive her and counsel her ,while other side is telling me, she might do the same thing after I finally put a ring on her

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Gidilagoon: 10:27am On Jul 13, 2018
lenghtinny:


Don't take her back angry

Forgive her but don't marry her. Don't let the emotional blackmail fool you. Let the uncle take her as a second wife instead of eating his leftover.

Such girls with a long list of men in their romantic curriculum vitae are prone to Okafor's law of Congodynamics whether single or married.

Just what I’m thinking too

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by iliyande(m): 10:46am On Jul 13, 2018
Ops, your girl is a nice woman... For her to have accepted her wrong doing and immediately apologised and also being remorseful is a sign of marriageable woman. Most of women you see out there are not different either.

Settle down and mold your woman to your own way of life style.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by NnamdiN: 11:48am On Jul 13, 2018
Why the f did you slap her? Why can't you just quit?

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by donobilo(m): 12:35pm On Jul 13, 2018
Guy I have faced this kind of situation before. Well I can tell you is that you should should show her reasons for her to forget her ex and stay with you. Try to know the things she does with her ex that she likes, do better
Then you should also know that As a man you would have rivals, some other guys wants to marry her too, so have a 50/50 mind set, do all you can to keep your relationship, also the 50/50 is a way that you won't put all your mind, and also expect that in future she can also funk up. Forgive here, then show her you love her. She will definitely leave the other guys for you..trow away jealousy and stood been desperate to spy on her phone..Be a real man.then she will Respect you and watch her steps. Thanks..you can add me on Facebook bro( Obinna,umezurike)

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by RedDistrict: 1:47pm On Jul 13, 2018
I still dy imagine how this 3 hot slaps went down sef

is it that you gave her one, she went down crying, looked at you again to beg you and you gave her another slap, then she cried again and as she looked up to beg again, you landed her the last one grin

or

you just gave her the 3 slaps on a back to back combo move grin

Baba, just leave this girl abeg before you kill somebody's child and land in jail or she pours acid on your face after you beat her

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by rainmaker12(m): 2:23pm On Jul 13, 2018
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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by rainmaker12(m): 2:25pm On Jul 13, 2018
Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

First. It is natural for humans not to realise the gravity of their mistakes until they are caught or until it happens to them....even you OP.... that is when they get their senses.

Second, it is how the person reacts to the mistake that determines your actions. According to your story, she's deleted her Facebook account....that's a big deal o. She can plead with you without deleting her whole fb page, but she did.

She also accepted to change her number, just to get a fresh start.
She has good inside her, but her emotion is too "légé-légé"

I hate emotional girls, they are just too soft to be in a relationship. Any small guy that makes them laugh, it is over. Especially if they are jovial and emotional all together....mehn! Anywhere they go, they make friends...and thats how it starts.

Thirdly, if you can cope with her emotional weakness, I suggest you let her back, shes not entirely bad. And you will have to be controlling her weakness. She must accept that one o, or get the fûck out!

Fourth, those slaps were unnecessary. Shes not your wife, even if shes your wife. You can be very angry and still do nothing. Never touch a lady, when you angry angry

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by chemK: 2:39pm On Jul 13, 2018
FROM MY EXPERIENCE IT IS BETTER IF TO REMAIN A BACHELOR THAN TO MARRY A LADY EVERY DICK WILL BE FUCKING AROUND. I ONCE DATED A MARRIED LADY WHOSE HUBBY STAYED ABROAD, SHE JUST DISTRIBUTE THE PUSSY AROUND. AND THEY bleeped HER THE WAY HER HUSBAND CAN NEVER Bleep HER.

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Re: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by ovieokodhi(m): 3:04pm On Jul 13, 2018
First I will say you are man enough bro but I picked up some lines here
1.you parted for long that's when you met again talk for yourself, you were single not her women are like this when you break up today you will find out that she's already in a new relationship which has lasted for six months,..
2. 3 slaps is a no go for me, no matter the circumstance I don't raise my hand on a lady let alone the one I claim to love... Don't do that again.
My point if she's changed and you do love her then go on with her atleast she said sorry mine is still claiming right... So you get hope.

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