A serious controversy happened yesterday when I was with my friends. We were having a constructive conversation when a mother of five said that she is not enjoying sex any longer, because her husband joystick is way to small now that her clit is 'opened' due to child birth. And she said it's her husband's fault that he should improve on his 'skills' in bed. Her husband is complaining about it like it is her fault. Some said it's her fault, other said it's her husband's. I want to know what Nairalanders think about this. Is there a right side here? All the experienced people, please i need y'all here. I'm going to show her this thread so that she will realize that a woman that has five children cannot enjoy sex. It's over even though she is in her 30s!

This is for the mamas papas in the house


Oya were una dey?

I’m coming let me ask mama nkechi

please i'm waiting

ayoBiz:
I’m coming let me ask mama nkechi

No constructive sentiment about this?

Most women tend to be more open after childbirth but this can be corrected by doing kegel excersise regularly

She’s probably not enjoying it because her vagina has loosened from childbirth. She can get medical advice about that.

i've not heard of this before. I'll carryout a research on this. Thanks.

Olalan:
Most women tend to be more open after childbirth but this can be corrected by doing kegel excersise regularly

yeah. Most of us said the same thing since it is becoming an issue for them

Saff:
She’s probably not enjoying it because her vagina has loosened from childbirth. She can get medical advice about that.

Kegel exercises...She can tighten it and make it pleasurable again.

I am sure oyindidi has answer to this question..
Last time I checked she was on her seventh pregnancy..

mimimile93:
I am sure oyin..didi has answer to this question..

Last time I checked she was on her seventh pregnancy..

Kris Jenner dey do am after six children

Make she try cucumber now

Rosezee:
A serious controversy happened yesterday when I was with my friends. We were having a constructive conversation when a mother of five said that she is not enjoying sex any longer, because her husband joystick is way to small now that her clit is 'opened' due to child birth. And she said it's her husband's fault that he should improve on his 'skills' in bed. Her husband is complaining about it like it is her fault. Some said it's her fault, other said it's her husband's. I want to know what Nairalanders think about this. Is there a right side here? All the experienced people, please i need y'all here. I'm going to show her this thread so that she will realize that a woman that has five children cannot enjoy sex. It's over even though she is in her 30s!

The problem caused as a result of NO CHILD SPACING.
The solution is for the husband to learn exciting styles, since she wants sex for pleasure and no more for kids.Her clit is now 4times larger than before, since she is in her 30s its now she can enjoy it better. She feels more hornier now. Her clit is still a very useful tool for her pleasure. The mastery skill of stimulating the clit and focus on the gspot is what she should discuss with her hubby.
Fingering is also good. If the man is now bored with her body. And he now climaxes in 2mins, then he should use fingers to hit both her gspot and rub her clit. She will moan in deep pleasure. Then he can take his position. Raising one of her legs up then hit the spots while she lays and he stands.
Breast handling; foreplays is just the key.
Or maybe she is bored with her hubby and needs variety to add spice to her sex life. And if she wants variety contact me >: I will train her practically, she will understand better, then put her hubby through too.
She is envying you girls that are still young and she feels intimadated and outdated.
In all She can still enjoy sex no matter how large her hole maybe.
She can reduce the size by staying off sex for sometime.
Or go for surgery
Or use alum and potash, she will b tight again for hubby to enjoy sex again
I'm a guy, what do I get for this contribution rosezee?

xedyl:
Make she try cucumber now

you must be a nice person. Buy one and come teach her how to use it.

Rosezee:
you must be a nice person. Buy one and come teach her how to use it.

Nah...remind her not to forget the Manual.

this is very good. I'm going to show her this one. Thanks! That's all i can do, right?

zexy2030:

The problem caused as a result of NO CHILD SPACING.
The solution is for the husband to learn exciting styles, since she wants sex for pleasure and no more for kids.Her clit is now 4times larger than before, since she is in her 30s its now she can enjoy it better. She feels more hornier now. Her clit is still a very useful tool for her pleasure. The mastery skill of stimulating the clit and focus on the gspot is what she should discuss with her hubby.
Fingering is also good. If the man is nowbored with her body. And he now climaxes in 2mins, then he should use fingers to hit both her gspot and rub her clit. She will moan in deep pleasure. Then he can take his position. Raising one of her legs up then hit the spots while she lays and he stands.
Breast handling; foreplays is just the key.
Or maybe she is bored with her hubby and needs variety to add spice to her sex life. And if she wants variety contact me >: I will train her practically, she will understand better, then put her hubby through too.
She is envying you girls that are still young and she feels intimadated and outdated.
In all She can still enjoy sex no matter how large her hole maybe.
She can reduce the size by staying off sex for sometime.
Or go for surgery
Or use alum and potash, she will b tight again for hubby to enjoy sex again
I'm a guy, what do I get for this contribution rosezee?

To me ,,, it’s the mans fault,,, after giving u five children u r looking for who to blame? Really?
The main question is,, “is the man ready to satisfy her? Or he is thinking of himself alone... cause they both hv to work together...

I wonder why some men are like dis even female dogs dont remain d same after giving birth

It's rather unfortunate

Shugavee:
To me ,,, it’s the mans fault,,, after giving u five children u r looking for who to blame? Really?
The main question is,, “is the man ready to satisfy her? Or he is thinking of himself alone... cause they both hv to work together...

Mumu, you think two minute men are happy about their situation ? Some of you girl no just get sense I swear.

The following could help
Ben-wa balls
Vaginal cones
Kegels do, indeed, tighten the vagina, but they have nothing to do with the vaginal muscles. They strengthen the pelvic floor muscles that surround the vagina. And finally woman on top/man sitting position problem solved.

izzou:
What advise can a virgin give in this situation, ehn?

we dey here o

no, the man wants her to satisfy him as before. That's why she complained about it.

Shugavee:
To me ,,, it’s the mans fault,,, after giving u five children u r looking for who to blame? Really?
The main question is,, “is the man ready to satisfy her? Or he is thinking of himself alone... cause they both hv to work together...

It is normal to have the V region loose after childbirth. The husband can actually grow his blokos bigger so as to dance well in the hall.
The wife can as well get tighter for optimum pleasures.

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MissRaine69:
The following could help
Ben-wa balls
Vaginal cones
Kegels do, indeed, tighten the vagina, but they have nothing to do with the vaginal muscles. They strengthen the pelvic floor muscles that surround the vagina. And finally woman on top/man sitting position problem solved.

great!

Women sha.


I guess that's why I mostly catch married women staring at my bulge through my trousers.


She should go and ask all those girls with big gods how they get tighter after the likes of myself have passed through.

zexy2030:

The problem caused as a result of NO CHILD SPACING.
The solution is for the husband to learn exciting styles, since she wants sex for pleasure and no more for kids.Her clit is now 4times larger than before, since she is in her 30s its now she can enjoy it better. She feels more hornier now. Her clit is still a very useful tool for her pleasure. The mastery skill of stimulating the clit and focus on the gspot is what she should discuss with her hubby.
Fingering is also good. If the man is now bored with her body. And he now climaxes in 2mins, then he should use fingers to hit both her gspot and rub her clit. She will moan in deep pleasure. Then he can take his position. Raising one of her legs up then hit the spots while she lays and he stands.
Breast handling; foreplays is just the key.
Or maybe she is bored with her hubby and needs variety to add spice to her sex life. And if she wants variety contact me >: I will train her practically, she will understand better, then put her hubby through too.
She is envying you girls that are still young and she feels intimadated and outdated.
In all She can still enjoy sex no matter how large her hole maybe.
She can reduce the size by staying off sex for sometime.
Or go for surgery
Or use alum and potash, she will b tight again for hubby to enjoy sex again
I'm a guy, what do I get for this contribution rosezee?

Experienced Professional

de should consult doctors

I know. Who do you think is at fault?! Honest opinion

jayweezy:
de should consult doctors

Its the wife's fault for refusing to do kegel exercise to tighten her vagina walls.