pocohantas:


You need common sense more. If only it were sexually transmitted, I might oblige you. So, the world can have one less dunderhead to worry about.

See finishing, chai! Make ur mouth no put u for trouble.

Gidilagoon:


Oh wow. Thank you so much. I was extremely provoked, that’s why I did that and I’m so much in love with her and letting go is so fucking hard, so that’s why I overreacted, but thanks,NOTED

The blunt truth is PEOPLE DONT CHANGE! !! They may pretend to behave well for a while but the old fox always comes knocking. You two probably deserve each other. You re not only insecure and a control freak but also abusive and a wife beater, you knew she has dated so many guys and the fact that you cant move past it tells a lot about you.Come to think of ityou didn't tell us that you were celibate after you two broke up the first time. And she is a lying, whoring b*tch. Who is ready to sell herself for a plate of moi moi. If you think she is not going to get screwed, fvck*d, drilled to stupor by a couple of big and small gods aside you then you re in for a shocker. Thank your lucky stars her family is begging probably because you have good financial or career prospects cos trust me you ll be in the net of SARS or worse if the tables were turned or when she finds a guy with better prospects. Marriage is a revealer, this is just the beginning. She can cry out blood today but won't stop her from eating the forbidden fruit 2mao, so take her back and the next time she says hi to a guy knock her teeth out and tell us how you were provoked and couldn't control yourself.

mimimile93:


Even the married ones are prostitutes..

Any Nigerian lady born from the 80s whether married or single is a prostitute..

I respect the ones at the brothels.. They keep it real.

Not the ones disguised as girlfriends and wives..

You get sense at all, say your mama born prostitutes full house no make other girls prostitutes. We still have responsible ladies sir.

addictiv:

The blunt truth is PEOPLE DONT CHANGE! !! They may pretend to behave well for a while but the old fox always comes knocking. You two probably deserve each other. You re not only insecure and a control freak but also abusive and a wife beater, you knew she has dated so many guys and the fact that you cant move past it tells a lot about you.Come to think of ityou didn't tell us that you were celibate after you two broke up the first time. And she is a lying, whoring b*tch. Who is ready to sell herself for a plate of moi moi. So take her back and the next time she says hi to a guy knock her teeth out and tell us how you were provoked and couldn't control yourself.

Lol! Bros you dey vex oo. But you said the truth.

chisco82:

You get sense at all, say your mama born prostitutes full house no make other girls prostitutes. We still have responsible ladies sir.

responsible ladies my asss!

iliyande:
Ops, your girl is a nice woman... For her to have accepted her wrong doing and immediately apologised and also being remorseful is a sign of marriageable woman. Most of women you see out there are not different either.

Settle down and mold your woman to your own way of life style.

This is one of the best advise for the op. Forget the 'don't take her back' crew, no universal rule(s) for dating. The lady didn't only apologize but also remorseful about her action shows that she respected you, so also her family.

addictiv:

The blunt truth is PEOPLE DONT CHANGE! !! They may pretend to behave well for a while but the old fox always comes knocking. You two probably deserve each other. You re not only insecure and a control freak but also abusive and a wife beater, you knew she has dated so many guys and the fact that you cant move past it tells a lot about you.Come to think of ityou didn't tell us that you were celibate after you two broke up the first time. And she is a lying, whoring b*tch. Who is ready to sell herself for a plate of moi moi. If you think she is not going to get screwed, fvck*d, drilled to stupor by a couple of big and small gods aside you then you re in for a shocker. Thank your lucky stars her family is begging probably because you have good financial or career prospects cos trust me you ll be in the net of SARS or worse if the tables were turned or when she finds a guy with better prospects. Marriage is a revealer, this is just the beginning. She can cry out blood today but won't stop her from eating the forbidden fruit 2mao, so take her back and the next time she says hi to a guy knock her teeth out and tell us how you were provoked and couldn't control yourself.

Mehn this one deep o bro.. I have accepted what I did was wrong by slapping her, I overreacted and that’s the very first time I will ever touched her..
What really saddens my heart was that, how could she sends her nude to a guy while she’s in a relationship and she’s happy. Hadn’t been it happened when We never got back, I wouldn’t take it serious but you can imagine just 2months ago. This guy ain’t giving her money and the guy is even married with kids. Can you imagine that.. it’s painful bro..

awwfar:
how is that possible? nawa for you o.. untop phussy wey fit dey smell like rotten fish ..you're being stingy.

You obviously came out from one with same characteristics. Lil wonder your life stinks.

ovieokodhi:
First I will say you are man enough bro but I picked up some lines here
1.you parted for long that's when you met again talk for yourself, you were single not her women are like this when you break up today you will find out that she's already in a new relationship which has lasted for six months,..
2. 3 slaps is a no go for me, no matter the circumstance I don't raise my hand on a lady let alone the one I claim to love... Don't do that again.
My point if she's changed and you do love her then go on with her atleast she said sorry mine is still claiming right... So you get hope.

chisco82:

See finishing, chai! Make ur mouth no put u for trouble.

No, it won't.
I was on my own, trouble came to meet me

donstan18:
One thing we should know is that until a lady is married, she's still single and a packaged prostitute.

She might be seen as a retired one once she's married. The earlier we get this the better for us.

Even a wise Nigerian lady will agree with me that they are packaged prostitute parading as girlfriend.

OP, you shouldn't have slapped her, she's not your wife, you don't owe her, you assumed she must have dated so many men, but you didn't tell us how many ladies you've dated.

Once your girlfriend cheat or misbehave. Kindly break up or forgive.

Don't hit a woman who is not your wife because she cheated. Don't even hit a woman atall, even if she's your wife.

Your action didn't make you a man, learn to act less and think smart when provoked by a woman.

I still can't understand why people don't understand that a woman is only yours when you marry her.

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

don't just forgive her, apologize for slapping, she is the best for now, love her more act like this never happened, any other advice here can't be superior to this

pocohantas:


You obviously came out from one with same characteristics. Lil wonder your life stinks.

Awww!! Oya sorry ,my bad....stop crying ehn! ...see your phussy is not smelling like rotten fish, God !! I meant to say rotten egg..
oya
Send me your accnt number, let me send u little something for the emotional distress I caused u

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

I have two things to tell you.
1. Never beat a woman, no matter what. It is a sign of weakness.

2. Move on.

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

My own little advice is that you pray over it before taking any action. If she is your may God put you through and if otherwise may God give you your own. Pertaining dating different guys in the past, everybody has past.

Gidilagoon:


Oh wow. Thank you so much. I was extremely provoked, that’s why I did that and I’m so much in love with her and letting go is so fucking hard, so that’s why I overreacted, but thanks,NOTED

If people were to go about slapping everyone thY hurts them, slaps would have finished by now.
She's not your wife yet and you gave her 3slaps at a go, what will you do when you pay her bride price.
If someone does something too bad for you to forgive them, just let them go and move on. If God decides to give us 3salps each time we err, then there would be no one to become born again in future
She dated many men but you didn't date any girl probably that's why she had to be the only on to change her number while you still have your old line.
Oga, if you can't forgive her, let her be. I've never seen whee someone slaps a woman as a show of love.

lalasticlala ,save a soul

For me every man deserves a one time heartbreak to toughen up if not this gals go turn u to jellof rice for marriage in addition to ur untimely death.

For u op, u can't handle that lady believe me.

mimimile93:


Even the married ones are prostitutes..

Any Nigerian lady born from the 80s whether married or single is a prostitute..

I respect the ones at the brothels.. They keep it real.

Not the ones disguised as girlfriends and wives..

You never disappoint

Try sleep with the aunty when she visits to let her have a taste of what she does ...

leave trash for lawma and move on with your life. such people never ever change.

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

I would suggest u move on with ur life...life is too short to be spent with a wrong fellow. Even if she change for now in d latest future she will still go back to it. Just, forgive her but pls don't marry her. Just an advice bro.

Grant her aunt audience. She might discuss somethings that will help u arriving at a better conclusion.
If u think, u can forgive her, then forgive but mind u prepare to fight Ur mind whenever u feel like maltreating her when u remember her past.
It's possible she truly changed.
Av learnt that looking for another girl is a game of luck. U can't trust or be sure anybody's past.
But if u think her past can't be erased from Ur mind, then let her go.
It's Ur decision to make, u can't be so sure she......

...

Organism000:


1. Slapping a woman shows immaturity.
2. As long as she is not yet married to you, she is not your wife hence she has the right to meet other suitors. If you want her to be faithful then you should pay her bride price.
3. The fact that she begs means she is a good girl trust me any girl who is not a virgin has been bleeped so stop getting upset cos the pusssy remains intact you can always take as much as you want. No one is uprooting it.
4. Call her back and sit her down and plan a marriage now. Street is military, so learn to be a soldier.

5. Nude pictures or not, Kim Kardasian makes millions from bring naked. Learn to use your weaknesses

OP don't follow this advice. Very wrong one.

Going back to ur vomit damn dangerous,alot must have happened and that will always raise it's ugly head time after time.

my guy...av read tru alot of comments ...I have this to say...
for the fact she accepted d truth n didn't try to deny n have even gone as far as deleting her Fb...

give her another chance ...in trying to luv we should also learn to forgive... yes she did wat was terribly wrong.... just give her d benefit of doubt this time around... n take ur time to study her to know if she's changed for good... don't just rush into marrying her cos u luv her......u two shud bond deeply n see if she wud stay committed...
don't leave her ..I bliv she's learnt her lesson n she still luvs u

If you still love her allow the Aunty to come and see you and guy know that is only when you are with a girl that is your own once she left she is not yours anymore but if she have finally realize her mistakes forgive her OK and settle down with her after all she have deleted all contacts with the guy and i believe she love you that's why she deleted them and both of you will make a perfect family coz she has enjoy life and tired of it thanks i know some pple will insult me

I would have asked you to forgive her but i won't.
Any girl that sends her nude to a man both married with 2kids or single is stupid so I can't advise you to end up with a stupid girl!

You should also be careful with a liar and a cheat, what if you did not catch her?

Your headline is all shades of wrong! Ki lo de?