It's more difficult to break up with a girl than getting her into date with you..

I have a terrible experience asking the wrong one out for a date that at last she was using me to clean the shoe she puts on to go to another guys house..

One night was driving from asokoro to kubwua and met this pretty lady it, rained that night and was still dropping little when I saw her by maitama junction side, I decided to give her a lift and opened a conversation with her, ask her where she is going by that time of the night, she said her bf place, in katamkpe, I dropped her off and we exchanged numbers, the next day she called me acknowledging my missed call, and that's how we started dating, after 2 weeks of our date, she decided to quit the other guy for my sake, after 3 months, I was falling deeper and crazily in love with her,

Her X has a better grand than me, better job and live in a better apartment in a better location, but what makes quit the guy for my sake is what I don't get,

Could it be how better I could or how I performed on bed, but I wasn't that good in bed she complained about that so terribly cos I don't last all day,

This girl is that pretty that If I leave alone on the road for one minute, I will spot another guy trying to toast her,
She is fair in complexion, she is hipsy, curvy, and the chest side is fuller.

I call her temptation..

Cos many at times I told myself I will not bang her, but when she comes it becomes impossible not to.

Because of This traffic she started seeing, pissing off becoming rude insultive and disrespectful, and make and threatened me of going out with her new toasters, creating another nightmare for me to deal with, her complaining of me not lasting is one and trying to resolve, my friend told me after I told them my short lasting and I was told I am too crazy about her, which is one fact, I feel for her so much more any other girl I have dated,

There was one certain time she came to my apartment, and we get sticked with each other making love, I broke my record that day lasted more than I have been and she was so excited and came over the next day I topped the record again, just after that moment a call came after our love making, and I asked whom the guy is and she got defensive, and lots of arguments and voice raising jumped in, at the end when she left I called and she rejected my calls, after she picked and while I was talking she hanged up, the next thing I heard sent me in shock, and I told her it's over.

Yes we broke up, it was tough for me to deal with but after too weeks I started feeling less of the hurts, 4 months later she called, I didn't know it was her so I never picked or called back.

Next day she came to my place, yes to apologise but no not really she came to fight me, she stepped her heels on my feet and tore my shirt aggressively, with every seriouseness even attempt slapping me, I just broke down into tears telling her to do what ever she want, I know she wants fight her way into my life again with no apologies. I can't fight her I can't even raise my hand on her, that feeling is still fresh as if we just started dating,

3 strange things about her that's different from any other girl I have ever dated, one I don't feel drained after making love you her, second each time I see her, she it looks as if I am seeing her for the first time, 3rd each time I think about her unconsciously, the next moment I will either see her coming or calling my phone, that's a spiritual connection I have never experience dating any girl..

We ended up banging each other that day she came to fight me

Between that day till now we have broken up many times and later she just keeps coming back. My dad say I can't marry anyone outside my community, she already know that cos I have told her but it never stops her from coming back, I am not flowering her with money.

It could be the hard banging banging stuffs that keeps her coming back

Even when I don't call her she do the calling, come to my end uninvited, I have spied her privacy lately and 80% of her contacts is boys, but with that I can't figure out why me still?

Calls It's hard for me to call her this days not cos of airtime but, each time I do, she wants to provoke me sexually if it's video calling I will see her trying to turn me on and seduce me..

One of the confessions I heard from her a boy me she said and I quote, I don't like hearing your voice on the phone cos each time I hear it, I can't stop fingering myself..

I am lost at this moment cos I am feeling guilts, since I know we are not going anywhere close to getting laid, I felt like letting her go so she could find another guy who will keep her, but she will not let me be saying maybe I have found another girl...

TkhGuy:
I have head guys say it's difficult to get a girl into dating you most especially when she is already dating another girl,

But unlikely in my case the reverse is the scenario I am facing right now,

3 years ago after being abstaining from going to relationship with girl, for five in pesuit of a crazy career, I have been deeply swimming in lonely lifestyle, I have never had any serious relationship with any girl that lasted longer than 2 months and I encountered tons of broken hear from different girls including the ones I had platonic relationships with,

Driving within the rainy season time within march 2015, I met this beautiful girl who is fair in complexion and very attractive, I asked her out on a date, she looked at me and told me she is just getting off from a broken relationship, that can only be my friend, unfortunately for me I never knew the brainer behind a girl keeping a guy as friend,

It never came down on me that her intention was completely different from mine proposal, I danced along and she started exploring and exploiting me, she lives in bwari and at the time of the parasitic kind of date, I was loosing my money my Time and buying her gift and I was getting nothing in return,

The first part of my terrible experience with her was at the peak of fuel scarcity that rocks, that day she finished from where she was working and there was no taxi going to bwari with lots of passengers waiting, I decided to drive her to bwari with a meal i bought for her for her dinner cos she previously told her she never had a chance of going to get a launch, I dropped her off but not even a kiss from her nor peck,

The most crushing part of my experience with her was the day I invited her, she never told me she is coming with another company, not until she told me I should come and pick her from a close location to my residence, I drove to that place only to discover there are two of them, I didn't get that disappointed after untrust at some point cos I have already cooked a meal which has lots cat fish inside wrestling.

I served them both with some refreshments after which we had conversation and at noon I prepared a delicious indomi noddle and after doing so, something strange was just going up while my so called scavenger friend was busy focusing on me her friend was busy giving me green light to take a step in, but I stupidly ignored it, at last she was bored when I was going drop her and her friends off, there is no car and she was thinking I would drive both of them to bwari, but didn't instead gave them TP.

The funny side of her visiting was that she was calling another guy while in my appointment asking him if she should come around but the guy, declined and asked her what for, and she replied is it a crime for me to come to your place?

I know I have to let her go but she is the only girl I have, and I was emotionally attached to her, but unfortunately for she treats rags better than she treated me, I remember I bought her sneakers and showed her, and told her I am gonna keep it until the day she changes her mind, but she couldn't wait or allow it and told me why must I compare the foot wear with her heart. After much talk I let go..

She no longer picks my call, I was really pissed on, I couldn't stop thinking about her for a second, she blocked me from reaching her on WhatsApp and don't reply my messages,

After letting go of her, I gave myself another long break from dates to recover from that loss and emotional, catastrophe,

After a year later I changed location, one night was driving from asokoro kubwua and met this pretty lady it, rained that night and was still dropping little when I saw her by maitama junction side, I decided to give her a life and opened a conversation with her, ask her where she is going by that time of the night, she said her bf place, in katamkpe, I dropped her off and we exchanged numbers, the next day she called me acknowledging my missed call, and that's how we started dating, after 2 weeks of our date, she decided to quit the other guy for my sake, after 3 months, I was falling deeper and crazily in love with her,

Her X has a better grand than me, better job and live in a better apartment in a better location, but what makes quit the guy for my sake is what I don't get,

Could it be how better I could or how I performed on bed, but I wasn't that good in bed she complained about that so terribly cos I don't last all day,

This girl is that pretty that If I leave alone on the road for one minute, I will spot another guy trying to toast her,
She is fair in complexion, she is hipsy, curvy, and the chest side is fuller.

I call her temptation..

Cos many at times I told myself I will not bang her, but when she comes it becomes impossible not to.

Because of This traffic she started seeing, pissing off becoming rude insultive and disrespectful, and make and threatened me of going out with her new toasters, creating another nightmare for me to deal with, her complaining of me not lasting is one and trying to resolve, my friend told me after I told them my short lasting and I was told I am too crazy about her, which is one fact, I feel for her so much more any other girl I have dated,

There was one certain time she came to my apartment, and we get sticked with each other making love, I broke my record that day lasted more than I have been and she was so excited and came over the next day I topped the record again, just after that moment a call came after our love making, and I asked whom the guy is and she got defensive, and lots of arguments and voice raising jumped in, at the end when she left I called and she rejected my calls, after she picked and while I was talking she hanged up, the next thing I heard sent me in shock, and I told her it's over.

Yes we broke up, it was tough for me to deal with but after too weeks I started feeling less of the hurts, 4 months later she called, I didn't know it was her so I never picked or called back.

Next day she came to my place, yes to apologise but no not really she came to fight me, she stepped her heels on my feet and tore my shirt aggressively, with every seriouseness even attempt slapping me, I just broke down into tears telling her to do what ever she want, I know she wants fight her way into my life again with no apologies. I can't fight her I can't even raise my hand on her, that feeling is still fresh as if we just started dating,

3 strange things about her that's different from any other girl I have ever dated, one I don't feel drained after making love you her, second each time I see her, she it looks as if I am seeing her for the first time, 3rd each time I think about her unconsciously, the next moment I will either see her coming or calling my phone, that's a spiritual connection I have never experience dating any girl..

We ended up banging each other that day she came to fight me

Between that day till now we have broken up many times and later she just keeps coming back. My dad say I can't marry anyone outside my community, she already know that cos I have told her but it never stops her from coming back, I am not flowering her with money.

It could be the hard banging banging stuffs that keeps her coming back

Even when I don't call her she do the calling, come to my end uninvited, I have spied her privacy lately and 80% of her contacts is boys, but with that I can't figure out why me still?

Calls It's hard for me to call her this days not cos of airtime but, each time I do, she wants to provoke me sexually if it's video calling I will see her trying to turn me on and seduce me..

One of the confessions I heard from her a boy me she said and I quote, I don't like hearing your voice on the phone cos each time I hear it, I can't stop fingering myself..

I am lost at this moment cos I am feeling guilts, since I know we are not going anywhere close to getting laid, I felt like letting her go so she could find another guy who will keep her, but she will not let me be saying maybe I have found another girl...

Hmmn another yaba left escapee spottwd

You're a gentleman, kudos for not fighting the girl. You spot a fine girl on the road and pick her up, this method is for picking women of the night for quick hook ups.

For dating you need to write down the kind of girl you want then locate her habitat, like campus, work place, gym, etc. Find time to study her a bit, then Make your move. That is why your dads advice ( which meets the condions above) is very good.

As 2pac would say, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

// lasticlala this guy needs better advice

effnepa:
You're a gentleman, kudos for not fighting the girl. You spot a fine girl on the road and pick her up, this method is for picking women of the night for quick hook ups.

For dating you need to write down the kind of girl you want then locate her habitat, like campus, work place, gym, etc. Find time to study her a bit, then Make your move. That is why your dads advice ( which meets the condions above) is very good.

As 2pac would say, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

// lasticlala this guy needs better advice

Well said man