I know guys can have sex with a lady bearing in mind that he can never marry her as wife.. What about ladies, Can u have sex with your boyfriend knowing fully in your mind that he can't marry you or you can't marry him as a husband? Ladies come in and contribute..... I mean the guy isn't a random guy oo, he is ur Boyfriend but you know he is not gonna be your husband, can let him keep having sex with you.

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How do you explain girls who still have sex with their ex even after marriage......

Very possible.

You hear name of relationships like:

"Friends with benefits"

"Nothing attached relationship"

"Temporary relationship"

"Relationship of convenience"

"Just there relationship"

Our generation yaf spoil walahi!

It’s always the useless guys that know how to throw it down. That’s why they always run back. That’s all ima say.

This is the yearb 2018.
This is not the digital age.
It is the quantum age.
In the list of prerequisites for strong relationship, sex does not command the lofty position it once did,

In one word, the answer is Yes.

So Illuminati does advert and have registration forms now, it had never occured to me the Volume of Retardation was progressive.

does it mean that the essence of having sex is for a guy to marry a girl?
I think sex should be a mutual thing between adults regardless of if you people will end up together as husband and wife

prettyjo:
does it mean that the essence of having sex is for a guy to marry a girl?
I think sex should be a mutual thing between adults regardless of if you people will end up together as husband and wife

LEGIT talk!

Here's my take on this ;

Not all females use sex as a yardstick to marriage, many do so for the fun of it and because they enjoy it. Why make it seem like a means to an end?

Or something guys always try to exploit?

Since its something that both party enjoy, there's nothing wrong with it. So yes

Fornication is a SIN!!!

Provided the sex is good, why not? At the end its only one person we will end up with.

Oh my God, am amazed seeing ladies comments on this particular topic. Dey seem to be on d same page. Ladies where is ur pride. Promiscuity Is now a nom? Shameless grls, later dey'll be looking for upright guys to end up with after being loaded with different sperms from different guys.

Happy new year everyone...

Abex20:
Oh my God, am amazed seeing ladies comments on this particular topic. Dey seem to be on d same page. Ladies where is ur pride. Promiscuity Is now a nom? Shameless grls, later dey'll be looking for upright guys to end up with after being loaded with different sperms from different guys.

Majorities of Nairaland girls are small girl with big god aka olosho

Plain NO

Abex20:
Oh my God, am amazed seeing ladies comments on this particular topic. Dey seem to be on d same page. Ladies where is ur pride. Promiscuity Is now a nom? Shameless grls, later dey'll be looking for upright guys to end up with after being loaded with different sperms from different guys.

they are loosed cannons. Like I told a friend of mine yesterday after seeing some ladies act. "may I never carry another man's misfortune"

brownhawk:
they are loosed cannons. Like I told a friend of mine yesterday after seeing some ladies act. "may I never carry another man's misfortune"

We pray such prayer too. No one wanna marry a cursed man.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
We pray such prayer too. No one wanna marry a cursed man.

the irony when morally retarded people pray for God fearing partner . Comic

Adeade11:
Fornication is a SIN!!!

forget sin or religion. Is it possible to embrace such mentality of looseness and yet go far in life in a legit or acceptable way

Abex20:
Oh my God, am amazed seeing ladies comments on this particular topic. Dey seem to be on d same page. Ladies where is ur pride. Promiscuity Is now a nom? Shameless grls, later dey'll be looking for upright guys to end up with after being loaded with different sperms from different guys.

wallahi d mentality of so many females is really damn too bad. Many or most of them are just into sex for fun, b4 later on advancing it for money making venture. They can't see anything wrong with sex with many men cos its part of their fantasy and its fun too- since a woman doesn't spend energy or money on sex unlike men - so they are virtually not disturbed by d number of sex partners or the men's motives. So guys think well b4 u marry any reformed play girl

brownhawk:
the irony when morally retarded people pray for God fearing partner . Comic

Well, I don't remember mentioning God-fearing. Do u know majid Michael, Ghanaian actor turned pastor? Do not judge. Just do your best and pray for the best.


I won't tolerate you mentioning in any thread in an insulting manner. I won't take such b.s from anyone so please respect yourself.

For me, I don't knw about any oda lady bt personally I can't cus for me to be in relationship with a guy and while d relationship is still on I now notice the relationship is not gonna lead to married den u still expect me to continue having sex with him, abeg na which account I wan write am to?, shey na gain Ni or loss. Is better we shd end d relationship and go our separate way cus if I continue to ve sex in dat relationship and I knw fully well dat we can't marry eachoda, den I shd b a fool. Na wetin wan remain for d person I wan marry and aside from dat dere is nowhere person no fit meet, den maybe d person I want to marry now knw d other, abeg wetin I wan dey talk?...

If you don't feel it's wierd for a man to have sex without the responsibility of marriage commitment, you shouldn't also think it's wierd for a woman. After all, they are both humans with sexual desires

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, I don't remember mentioning God-fearing. Do u know majid Michael, Ghanaian actor turned pastor? Do not judge. Just do your best and pray for the best.


I won't tolerate you mentioning in any thread in an insulting manner. I won't take such b.s from anyone so please respect yourself.

my friend sit down. U want to say majid gave up erotic acts. The same majid who I saw engaging in more erotic shows two months ago. And he "repented" when. This year or last year.no matter how much people say they change, the traits will always be there. And like it or not the spark will always be there to flame up one day.

If u don't want trouble then don't carry burdens that aren't urs or do not engage where u aren't mentioned. When I spoke on some ladies behavior, u reacted personally as if I mentioned u or anyone directly. Deal with it!

brownhawk:
my friend sit down. U want to say majid gave up erotic acts. The same majid who I saw engaging in more erotic shows two months ago. And he "repented" when. This year or last year.no matter how much people say they change, the traits will always be there. And like it or not the spark will always be there to flame up one day.

If u don't want trouble then don't carry burdens that aren't urs or do not engage where u aren't mentioned. When I spoke on some ladies behavior, u reacted personally as if I mentioned u or anyone directly. Deal with it!

I reacted personally? Oh well, thanks.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I reacted personally? Oh well, thanks.

u reacted personally .

brownhawk:
u reacted personally .

baba I wont argue with you jor. Bye

Yes. It might surprise you to know that not all of see marriage as the ultimate goal. Sometimes we also live for the moment with Mr Right Now.

I'd stop sleeping with a man only he told me we have no future together. Because continuing with him would be a waste of time since we all wanna settle down & build roots at some point. I said settle down, not marry Not wanting to get married is not a deal breaker for me. Not seeing a future, however, is a very big deal. Whose time you wanna waste?

Why will someone want to continue wasting her time with someone who has openly agreed that being with him is a waste of time

Women are Hypergamic Creatures.

Great sex will make women do crazy things, even if they are pastor wives. SHE CAN GO INTO THE RELATIONSHIP bcoz she just wanna be wild, WAYA and live on like that. She also doesn't want her husband or bf to know because she is getting established on every sides, she is too smart to want to jeopardize her happiness.

I hate it when females use sex as medium of trade, "I will Fhucq you because you will marry me"... That is so lame. She wants to have sex because she loves sex! women are wired to experience heightened sexual ministrations.

Don't even bring that rubbish about I cant WAYA a guy that doesn't have plans for me, I might as well just use my Bald head to Shave your own head. :-/