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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:



You are more of a slave than AA can ever be. AA have never and will not ever worship those evil white pigs but you have worshiped them since they stepped foot in Nigeria. If a white man comes to Nigeria you behave as though GOD has entered the premises, if a white woman comes to Nigeria you behave as though an ANGEL has fallen from heaven. The sad thing is you are always talking about your CULTURE, well my dear this is part of your great culture. You are the TRUE slave. I agree with you, we are nothing alike.
not all Nigerians worship white people.khiaa I use to think that you are a brilliant soul. do not make me change my mind. smiley
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 12:14pm On Jul 21, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



You really know nothing...Do your research well before you talk.. cool


Phut is right, he is all of those things, came right out of his own mouth.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 12:15pm On Jul 21, 2018
PrinceCharmings:
not all Nigerians worship white people.khiaa I use to think that you are a brilliant soul. do not make me change my mind. smiley

I didn't say all, I was talking to the poster about the poster. As you can see in my post I said YOU.undecided
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 12:22pm On Jul 21, 2018
LivingFree:
Wow. So, now we are openly racist?

There's only 1 race and that's the Human race.

We can all have preferences but we have no right to call others out on their preference.

It's too late in the game for us to go backwards.

#2018!


LMAO grin grin grin There's the HUMAN race and there is the NEANDERTHAL/HUMAN race, not my words but theirs. This is a fact. We are not all the same.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jul 21, 2018
Phut:


Now this statement is a complete fallacy. You are generalizing Nigerian women on this thread just the same way you made very disparaging general statements about African American women. Why even bring African Americans into this. Learn to qualify your statements. Using “some” will not kill you. If you continue to try to make this a gender battle, know that YOU ARE A PART OF THE PROBLEM, NOT THE SOLUTION. Stop being emotional.

BlackAdam55: I saw you deleted post about All Nigerian women being whores. Good thing you deleted that. If you are going to make such posts please do not quote me on other threads were you deem my posts to be supportive of Nigerian men. I am not and will never be in favor of gender warriors.

So the main thing missing in my comment is "some".. When we generalize you lot, we definitely know what's going on. The same way women say all men are scum, minus their dads. And this has nothing to do with emotions, it's just fact, things I've seen at home and abroad. The way black women celebrate bagging a white man is just embarrassing, they even coined a term swirlers. And when I say black women, it's black women of all nationalities involved.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jul 21, 2018
To the ladies that do not understand the topic, just say you don't understand it or keep quiet.
Pretending you have some higher understanding is not the way to go.
To the deflectors, keep on topic.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 12:34pm On Jul 21, 2018
HypocriteNazi:


Is this a joke?? Although, I do blame them for the weaves. The topic at hand is the Nigerian woman and her behavior. Our women are bedwenching across the globe. The cases of black americans that are bedwenching are moving laterally, ( marrying in the same economic or social class. We are talking about Nigerians who are seeking out whites because of the belief that they are better and just taking any white.Our fellow bros are joining in on this poo on the forum. See how they grovel at the feet of women who would not give them a second thought or care. Our people would rather praise people whose ancestors have caused the misery of other blacks and other races around the world than build up their own people who look like them and are in the same struggle as them. If the black american has passed their bad behaviors to us, then we should have passed good things back to them. What have we passed back? Our reputation around the world is no better. The truth is bitter but it is still the truth.

Black Americans didn't pass any bad behaviors on to Nigerians, they came to American and the rest of the world with this bad behavior. Black Americans didn't teach Nigerian women to wh.ore themselves out or Nigerian men to scam innocent women into fake marriages. This is their own doing. What good things can you pass to us or to anyone? Your reputation on the planet exceeds AA by a longshot. News flash, whites didn't just cause misery to AA and other black people around the world, they screwed Nigerians over as well.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 12:45pm On Jul 21, 2018
Phut:


No he is not. Google his name to see if you find any comedy skits. He was a convicted felon and an alcoholic and unemployed when Ami met him. Their source of income is the YouTube channel.

You know that she married that old ugly guy Justin out of desperation because the twins biological father that she also bed wenched with didn't want her or those nigger babies that he helped procreate. He signed them away. She was just a screw to him. She had to save face because of her precious culture (if her culture meant anything to her she wouldn't have touched those guys with a 100-foot pole) and have a husband because she was pregnant and it was looked down to be pregnant without a husband. undecided Some people should stop talking about culture and values as if it means something to them because going by their actions it really doesn't. Hypocritical people.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by onwards: 12:57pm On Jul 21, 2018
HypocriteNazi:


Is this a joke?? Although, I do blame them for the weaves. The topic at hand is the Nigerian woman and her behavior. Our women are bedwenching across the globe. The cases of black americans that are bedwenching are moving laterally, ( marrying in the same economic or social class. We are talking about Nigerians who are seeking out whites because of the belief that they are better and just taking any white.Our fellow bros are joining in on this poo on the forum. See how they grovel at the feet of women who would not give them a second thought or care. Our people would rather praise people whose ancestors have caused the misery of other blacks and other races around the world than build up their own people who look like them and are in the same struggle as them. If the black american has passed their bad behaviors to us, then we should have passed good things back to them. What have we passed back? Our reputation around the world is no better. The truth is bitter but it is still the truth.

Mister,

The concept of bedwenching is a construct that doesn't and will never apply to Nigerian women... Scratch that... It doesn't apply to African women.

It is a construct that is a direct consequence of a battered psyche due to the nigh animalistic rigors and dehumanization of a person by generational slave trading.

Hence it applies only to those who passed through the 'test' above.

Our women can marry who they want.

Just read this again....

Our women can marry who they frigging want!

They are not sellouts or whatever deranged endearments those black Americans are fond of using on one another.

The only qualification for the notorious bedwenching title is to be a black American female .

NO NIGERIAN WOMAN QUALIFIES.

TAKE YOUR GUTTER TITLE TO THE OWNERS. LET THEM SWIM AND RELISH IT AS THEY ARE WONT TO DO.

So, mister since your premise is faulty, your conclusion is ridiculously superflous as well.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 12:57pm On Jul 21, 2018
onwards:



Unfortunately, thousands upon thousands upon thousands of pages of history books stack your reality sky high to your disdain.

History cannot be rewritten unfortunately.

We will remain who we are. And you and your folks what they are.

I understand that denial is cathartic. Please enjoy your heavy doses till you lose your breath or join another black American protest.

We'll be sitting in our huts in Africa enjoying the true meaning of freedom. Something you'll trade your soul for in a heartbeat.

Sorry, identity can neither be sold nor bought.

You either are or aren't.

YOU.AREN'T!


If I would have said huts you would have an emotional breakdown. Freedom to do what, suffer from hunger and poverty, hmmm!! Let me think
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:


LMAO grin grin grin There's the HUMAN race and there is the NEANDERTHAL/HUMAN race, not my words but theirs. This is a fact. We are not all the same.

I can't cope grin grin

I take back my second comment because I was misled to believe he was a comedian, turns out after a Google search that he isn't/wasn't a comedian. *Last man standing* isn't stand up comedy it's the equivalent of going on x-factor and calling yourself a singer. If he ain't a paid comedian, he's an ignorant fool who's bs caught up with him. I'm not going to call him a racist personally because he states he isn't a racist and he apologised for the offence he caused. I'd call his 'jokes' distasteful.

We need to stop the separation mentality, and stop looking for any excuse to separate Humans. We are 1 species, and there's enough hate and divisions in the world.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Martin0(m): 1:06pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:


Phut is right, he is all of those things, came right out of his own mouth.

nor fight oo
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by onwards: 1:07pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:



If I would have said huts you would have an emotional breakdown. Freedom to do what, suffer from hunger and poverty, hmmm!! Let me think

I can't. Unlike you I have a solid grasp of my identity. I know what I am and aren't.
I am not black American... THANKFULLY!

I can live in a hut till i die as long as I live in my HUT!!
MY HUT!!

A privilege that bedwenchers know little about.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Martin0(m): 1:07pm On Jul 21, 2018
QueenSuccubus:


You really know nothing...Do your research well before you talk.. cool
just argue with proves /fact! don't fight oo

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 1:10pm On Jul 21, 2018
onwards:


Mister,

The concept of bedwenching is a construct that doesn't and will never apply to Nigerian women... Scratch that... It doesn't apply to African women.

It is a construct that is a direct consequence of a battered psyche due to the nigh animalistic rigors and dehumanization of a person by generational slave trading.

Hence it applies only to those who passed through the 'test' above.

Our women can marry who they want.

Just read this again....

Our women can marry who they frigging want!

They are not sellouts or whatever deranged endearments those black Americans are fond of using on one another.

The only qualification for the notorious bedwenching title is to be a black American female .

NO NIGERIAN WOMAN QUALIFIES.

TAKE YOUR GUTTER TITLE TO THE OWNERS. LET THEM SWIM AND RELISH IT AS THEY ARE WONT TO DO.

So, mister since your premise is faulty, your conclusion is ridiculously superflous as well.

You are ignorant as hell. Since when did history state that black American women were the only women raped by those white devils, what happened to the rest of the diaspora? If you want to get down to the real facts, the Nigerian woman was part of the original bed wenching because the slaves were brought to America from Nigeria. Was it her fault, no, but the things that they are doing today is absolutely their faults. I guess it's part of the culture to get money by any means necessary. Don't get mad at the messenger get your sisters in order, but of course, you men aren't much different for whoring yourselves out for green cards, by marrying 80-year white women. Boy please.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Martin0(m): 1:10pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:



You are more of a slave than AA can ever be. AA have never and will not ever worship those evil white pigs but you have worshiped them since they stepped foot in Nigeria. If a white man comes to Nigeria you behave as though GOD has entered the premises, if a white woman comes to Nigeria you behave as though an ANGEL has fallen from heaven. The sad thing is you are always talking about your CULTURE, well my dear this is part of your great culture. You are the TRUE slave. I agree with you, we are nothing alike.

really, you mean this is happening in this country Nigeria Na WA oooogringrin
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 1:14pm On Jul 21, 2018
Martin0:


really, you mean this is happening in this country Nigeria Na WA oooogringrin

It has been happening since the white Jesus found his way to Nigeria. grin grin
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jul 21, 2018
Martin0:


really, you mean this is happening in this country Nigeria Na WA oooogringrin
dude you are a clown grin
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 1:18pm On Jul 21, 2018
onwards:


I can't. Unlike you I have a solid grasp of my identity. I know what I am and aren't.
I am not black American... THANKFULLY!

I can live in a hut till i die as long as I live in my HUT!!
MY HUT!!

A privilege that bedwenchers know little about.



You have every right to enjoy your hut. undecided As for the bedwenching, only you and your sisters can agree if it's a privilege or not.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 1:20pm On Jul 21, 2018
Martin0:


nor fight oo

I'm not fighting only participating in the conversation. wink
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jul 21, 2018
Nawo ooo people can't live in peace again
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Martin0(m): 1:21pm On Jul 21, 2018
AngryNigerian22:
dude you are a clown grin

u just waka come call me "dude"then clown! hia see I nor understand this big big oyibi language wey u speak oo
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by onwards: 1:23pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:


You are ignorant as hell. Since when did history state that black American women were the only women raped by those white devils, what happened to the rest of the diaspora? If you want to get down to the real facts, the Nigerian woman was part of the original bed wenching because the slaves were brought to America from Nigeria. Was it her fault, no, but the things that they are doing today is absolutely their faults. I guess it's part of the culture to get money by any means necessary. Don't get mad at the messenger get your sisters in order, but of course, you men aren't much different for whoring yourselves out for green cards, by marrying 80-year white women. Boy please.

The ignorant one is the person who doesnt know that the term Nigeria and Nigerian was coined eons after the transatlantic slave trade.

No Nigerian woman was shipped as a slave. Because No Nigerian existed as at the period of the slave trade.

Unfortunately, your slave ancestors who may have once been one of us in kith and kin devolved so astonishingly during their travails that their offsprings hold values that are greatly dissimilar to the values and ethics that sustains the continent.

They have devolved enough that it is only sensible that we want nothing to do with you and them anymore.

Enough that we want nothing to do with your ilk.

The term bedwenching was concocted to seal your devolution and hence can NEVER apply to our women who have since moved ahead to appreciate the diversity that earth provides.

Keep the hood terms for the hood hobos. We want no part of it.

We want no part OF YOU!

Our women can do whatever they like. They can love money, chase and marry whoever they desire. Its called FREEDOM.

Something strange to bedwenching communities.

THEY ARE FREE! DON'T BLAME THEM FOR YOUR CHAINS.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Martin0(m): 1:23pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:


It has been happening since the white Jesus found his way to Nigeria. grin grin

eheh na wa ooo, well I nor know say them dey worship oyibo people, maybe I should go and bleach oo
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Martin0(m): 1:25pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:


I'm not fighting only participating in the conversation. wink

I just dey caution you madam!

wait oo abeg I wan ask you something oo! nor vex oo! again nor vex oo! abeg how old are you?
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by onwards: 1:27pm On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:


You have every right to enjoy your hut. undecided As for the bedwenching, only you and your sisters can agree if it's a privilege or not.

Good we have made progress!

It's up to us to decide. And we choose to reject the term as a colonial shackle that belongs to the wild hoods of Black America as well as their people.

Now, keep your AA nose where it belongs.
In your business!!!

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jul 21, 2018
Nigerians *on this thread* distancing themselves from slavery is history repeating itself again. Won't the slaves taken out of West Africa via Ghana? This argument is so embarrassing! embarassed

I dey catch shame for you guys undecided

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by onwards: 1:38pm On Jul 21, 2018
LivingFree:
Nigerians *on this thread* distancing themselves from slavery is history repeating itself again. Won't the slaves taken out of West Africa via Ghana? This argument is so embarrassing! embarassed

I dey catch shame for you guys undecided

Unfortunately, utopia is utopia.

When an arm rots, you cut it off! It's common sense.

Our history with black Americans ended the moment they landed on massas plantation.

We lost them for good.

Their struggles is not our struggle.
Our struggle is not their struggle.

We are as different as night and day. The initial severance made it so and so it shall remain. You can choose to relish the sufferings of slavery.

Truth is: You'll never understand it. But of course you can put up a good convincing show that you do. Genuinely deep down in you.. you know you can't relate. And that's okay too.

It's the same way they will never understand our struggles and even go on to make light of it. If it isn't malaria, it is poverty. Well, worn out lines we brush off like pesky ants on our shoulders.

Those who were taken away, were lost the moment the boat sailed.



WE ARE NOT OBLIGED TO TAKE THEM BACK. They are different now. We are too. A lot has happened. To each their own.

Anything else is UTOPIA!
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 1:40pm On Jul 21, 2018
onwards:


Good we have made progress!

It's up to us to decide. And we choose to reject the term as a colonial shackle that belongs to the wild hoods of Black America as well as their people.

Now, keep your AA nose where it belongs.
In your business!!!

Once AA's are brought into the conversation it becomes my business. The colonizers put mental shackles which still exist today onto the uncultured people of the wild jungles of Nigeria, the world sees it and it's sad that you can't come out of your inferiority towards whites.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:40pm On Jul 21, 2018
LordSaints:
[s] you are not a Nigerian you are not a black American, heck you are not even an African person so what are you going on about.?

You are just sticking you nose where it did not belong. Phut was right.[/s]


grin


I don't need to be black to see everything...

Everyone has its own opinion.So who the hell are u to tell me what to say?
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 1:44pm On Jul 21, 2018
Martin0:


I just dey caution you madam!

wait oo abeg I wan ask you something oo! nor vex oo! again nor vex oo! abeg how old are you?

grin grin grin grin grin
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jul 21, 2018
onwards:


Unfortunately, utopia is utopia.

When an arm rots, you cut it off! It's common sense.

Our history with black Americans ended the moment they landed on massas plantation.

We lost them for good.

Their struggles is not our struggle.
Our struggle is not their struggle.

We are as different as night and day. The initial severance made it so and so it shall remain. You can choose to relish the sufferings of slavery.

Truth is: You'll never understand it. But of course you can put up a good convincing show that you do. Genuinely deep down in you.. you know you can't relate. And that's okay too.

It's the same way they will never understand our struggles and even go on to make light of it. If it isn't malaria, it is poverty. Well, worn out lines we brush off like pesky ants on our shoulders.

Those who were taken away, were lost the moment the boat sailed.



WE ARE NOT OBLIGED TO TAKE THEM BACK. They are different now. We are too. A lot has happened. To each their own.

Anything else is UTOPIA!

What you just typed is disgusting because after all this; you'll bow down to your white washed Jesus...

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