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Is Marriage Really Important? by KadunaMafia: 11:21pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
I've seen countless marriages crash I've seen abuse and violence in marriage that makes me recall how happy those couples were when they were single I've seen ladies becoming "crazies" after marriage I've seen guys becoming thugs and bullies on their spouse after marriage. I've seen many things so I want you to share what you be seen that makes you dread marriage |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mumureloaded(m): 11:33pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by KadunaMafia: 11:36pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Can we just have open relationship and legalized baby mamas so that our customs won't be a stumbling block to our aspirations |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:39pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
If you see someone you love who truly loves you too and you are financially good, it's worth it but anything else, enjoy yourself AMAP. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 11:42pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
KadunaMafia: For the women it is really important because it's their escape door from responsibilities and poverty. For men it's not important 6 Likes |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
It is very important if you want to marry. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
mimimile93:This is quite degrading and I beg to differ, some ladies are the breadwinner of their respective homes, so marriage is not an escape route for all ladies especially ladies with high dreams. 4 Likes |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 11:53pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Which of these is considered "the greatest achievement" of woman in Africa? (a) Marriage (b) Academic attainment (c) Career/Business success |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 11:55pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Colourich: It is for Nigerian ladies born from the 80s. The reason why all Nigerian ladies wanna marry rich dudes |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 12:00am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93:I've worked so hard to be where I am, so it will be quite painful and a thing of annoyance and spite if someone tells me to my face after I eventually get married that I used marriage as an escape route to hide from responsibility and poverty, who ever said there is no responsibility in marriage? marriage is filled with stress and responsibility which is shared mutually between the couple. 4 Likes |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 12:06am On Jul 23, 2018 |
Colourich: Nigerian ladies think differently but act the same. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 12:11am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93:Lets talk specifics, that you had an encounter with one or two Nigerian ladies which almost brought you to harm's way doesn't mean that you should always make these hasty generalization about Nigerian ladies. How many Nigerian ladies have you dated to make these assertions you make here on a daily basis? |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 12:20am On Jul 23, 2018 |
Colourich: It's not about dating. It's about the happenings. You don't need to date someone to know what stuff he/she is made up of. You do research. Make findings. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by LuciferChristi: 12:31am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93: GBAM!! I am yet to see what I currently lack in my life that only marriage can offer me. Instead, marriage will take away many things I currently enjoy. I am a happy young man who is happy with life generally. Free to take whatever decisions I want to for myself and ready to bear the responsibilities & consequences for my actions. What on earth will marrying a woman add to my life now? Nothing. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 12:37am On Jul 23, 2018 |
LuciferChristi: Well after all, Pickering I'm an ordinary man Who desires nothing more than an ordinary chance To live exactly as he likes And do precisely what he wants An average man am I Of no eccentric whim Who likes to live his life, free of strife Doing whatever he thinks is best for him Well just an ordinary man But... Let a woman in your life And your serenity is through She'll redecorate your home From the cellar to the dome And then go on to the enthralling Fun of overhauling you Let a woman in your life And you're up against a wall Make a plan and you will find That she has something else in mind And so rather than do either You do something else That neither likes at all You want to talk of Keats and Milton She only wants to talk of love You go to see a play or ballet And spend it searching for her glove Let a woman in your life And you invite eternal strife Let them buy their wedding bands For those anxious little hands I'd be equally as willing For a dentist to be drilling Than to ever let a woman in my life I'm a very gentle man Even tempered and good natured Who you never hear complain Who has the milk of human kindness By the quart in every vein A patient man am I Down to my fingertips The sort who never could, ever would Let an insulting remark escape his lips A very gentle man But... Let a woman in your life And patience hasn't got a chance She will beg you for advice Your reply will be concise And she will listen very nicely And then go out and do precisely what she wants! You are a man of grace and polish Who never spoke above a hush All at once you're using language that would make A sailor blush! Let a woman in your life And you're plunging in a knife Let the others of my sex Tie the knot around their necks I prefer a new edition of the Spanish Inquisition Than to ever let a woman in my life I'm a quiet living man Who prefers to spend the evening In the silence of his room Who likes an atmosphere as restful as An undiscovered tomb A pensive man am I Of philosophic joys Who likes to meditate, contemplate Far from humanity's mad inhuman noise A quiet living man But... Let a woman in your life And your sabbatical is through In a line that never ends Comes an army of her friends Come to jabber and to chatter And to tell her what the matter is with YOU She'll have a booming boisterous family Who will descend on you en masse She'll have a large Wagnerian mother With a voice that shatters glass Let a woman in your life I shall never let a woman in my life 4 Likes |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 12:59am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93:Cut Nigerian ladies some slack, not all are evil and always planning to wreck you. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 1:01am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93:Is this some kind of poem? |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:07am On Jul 23, 2018 |
to some it is very important because of the pressure (society/religion/family/peer) they face to get married... to others it doesnt matter! 1 Like |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 1:49am On Jul 23, 2018 |
It's a matter of choice. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by TheMafiaChurch: 6:56am On Jul 23, 2018 |
There are movements questioning the importance of marriage, especially for men, read about red pill, mgtow etc. You can if possible read the book "The Manipulated Man", when you are done with your research, let me know your view about marriage. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 7:03am On Jul 23, 2018 |
Marriage is indesoensabke and will always be |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by donbachi(m): 7:12am On Jul 23, 2018 |
Before i will answer that question.i would want you to answer mine.now the question is this:in your own family,made up of your father,mother and siblings.have you ever had any issues,problems and misunderstandings, amongs your siblings which you guys resolved amicably? |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 8:51am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93:B and C. Illiterates marry so it's not a great feat. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by ImaIma1(f): 9:08am On Jul 23, 2018 |
KadunaMafia: Is life really important? I have seen people live their lives recklessly. They abuse drugs alcohol... People commit suicide anyhow. People should dread life. Don't you think? |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 11:26am On Jul 23, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Maybe u a1e frm SA. In Nig whr I com frm, no matta hw successful a woman is, if she isnt married she isnt fulfild. Their greatest goal in life is marriage. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 11:28am On Jul 23, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Maybe u are frm SA. In Nig whr I com frm, no matta hw successful a woman is, if she isnt married she isnt fulfild. Their greatest goal in life is marriage. Hw is SA anyway? |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by jumiasalesguy3: 11:31am On Jul 23, 2018 |
For majority it is. Why do you think most poor Africa parents disturb their daughters to go get married. Why is 'rich' guy part of ladies wish list. Colourich: |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:38am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93: ... and can you tell us all why that is?! or are they just unfulfilled for no damn reason?! or could it be because they have been brainwashed since the day they were born that they are only good at being someone's mate, someone's helper? btw is the above any different with Nigerian men?! |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by jumiasalesguy3: 11:42am On Jul 23, 2018 |
If not for the sake of procreation and giving the child (ren) a balanced home, to me marriage isn't necessary. Companionship can be gotten without marriage,ask Opray Winfrey. Marriage is stressful and limits you in everyway. |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by Nobody: 11:57am On Jul 23, 2018 |
mimimile93:Fine and good |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 12:57pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:I've bin seein news abt South Africans killin Nigerians in South Africa. Why are u South Africans wicked? |
Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by mimimile93: 12:57pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:I've bin seein news abt South Africans killin Nigerians in South Africa. Why are u South Africans wicked? |
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