Admin401:
Who cares? The average Nigerian woman is the way she is because of the average Nigerian man. If you check now, the girl is not even fine and she's broke. Sometimes i feel Iamjude was right in the way he treated them like non-humans.

delugajackson:
"Just because I tried to order". . like say na her papa get the eatery.

She just proved without doubts the type of girl she is, an irresponsible, ill-mannered brat! Entitlement mentality of Nigerian ladies will be their own undoing.

By the way, I noticed we no longer have a page zero on NL. This is not funny at all. #Bringbackourpagezero.

ndy87:
madam entitlement mentality.so u can't use your own cash to buy food for your friends? now she is trying to use the guys brain, so he will feel bad. some all Nigerian babes can fall hand o.

ImaIma1:
Instead of her to hide her face for trying to be a leech and a burden, she is trying to justify it

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I'VE NEVER SEEN A WOMAN ADMIT THAT SHE'S WRONG. IT NEVER HAPPENS ON THIS PLANET.

A woman scoffs at evidence. Show her the sun, and tell her it is daylight; at once she will close her eyes and say to you, “No, it is night."
-unknown

TSOM:
If she's broke and petty, avoid her.

No matter how intelligent or pretty she might seem, if she's the afore-described female, she'd be a shameless leech.


I find it odd that people still go on traditional first-time 'dates' in restaurants and other such places to eat and talk over food.

Come on, guys, can't you be more creative? She's gone on a gazillion dates in such places. There'd be nothing special about both of you meeting, even if you are a good conversationalist.

Well, maybe it's because these guys go on 'dates' with random girls they just met.

How about meeting a girl on or offline, establishing contact and see if both of you get to hit if off- your masculine charm, looks and articulation could come into play.

If that works, she'd be more comfortable meeting up with you in secluded places, your apartment even.

Prepare a dinner or see a movie with the go-alongs of a movie theater (snacks, drinks, dimmed lights...) and more but in your apartment or hers.

You get privacy (which isn't necessarily about tumbling beneath the sheets but if it happens, go for it, brother) and get to know each other more. I mean, that's the essence of going on dates.


I can't even picture myself in any such scenario depicted in the screenshotted WhatsApp chat.
I go on unplanned dates in eateries- on-the-spot decisions to just go out with a Missy. The spontaneity is fun and both go out with open minds. At least, by then, both of you are already an item.


You guys are too predictable and sadly so. It's the foremost reason you cease being interesting to each other after meeting up for the first time.


Be innovative and unpredictable!

safarigirl:
how do you know a girl who is broke and petty?

Most of the girls you think are not broke still depend on men for everything they have. The women who aren't broke do not get approached by most men because they think they are stuck up.


Being materialistic hardly even has anything to do with being broke, a person who is driven by material things will naturally want to be given stuff, whether she is 'broke' or not. Always watch out for the girls who judge people based on the bags they use or their cars or phones or the hair or clothes. Some of these girls may have money, but it doesn't stop them from always asking for more.


@topic, the girl is obviously foolish. Why would you want to buy stuff for your friends with the guy's money? And why food worth 7k? Couldn't she just get meat pie and drink for them with her own money if she wanted to appreciate them so much? The guy dodged a bullet, he should be thankful


PS: Your apartment is not a 'comfortable place' to meet anyone. Being nice on the internet, does not mean a guy is not a rapist in reality. Only a careless woman would go to a man's house for a first date, because anything that happens to you from there, na you sabi

ndy87:
madam entitlement mentality.so u can't use your own cash to buy food for your friends? now she is trying to use the guys brain, so he will feel bad. some babes can fall hand o.

pocohantas:


You're beautiful . Nice profile picture

You made good points in your post.

ndy87:



Na so your face de wen u d vex

pocohantas:


You're beautiful . Nice profile picture

You made good points in your post.

safarigirl:


PS: Your apartment is not a 'comfortable place' to meet anyone. Being nice on the internet, does not mean a guy is not a rapist in reality. Only a careless woman would go to a man's house for a first date, because anything that happens to you from there, na you sabi

If he's cruel enough to rape her in private, he can be cruel enough to spike her drink when out in public, make a play at dropping her off at her place then lure her to a private place where he'd rape her.

Rapists would rape as long as they can get away with it.

If he's going to rape you, he could even be patient enough to gain your trust before he does it.

We've all heard of rape between platonic friends of the opposite sex who visit each other in private.

Rape can still happen even if you are both dating. Once one person doesn't give consent verbally or otherwise, it is rape.

TSOM:
If she's broke and petty, avoid her.

No matter how intelligent or pretty she might seem, if she's the afore-described female, she'd be a shameless leech.


I find it odd that people still go on traditional first-time 'dates' in restaurants and other such places to eat and talk over food.

Come on, guys, can't you be more creative? She's gone on a gazillion dates in such places. There'd be nothing special about both of you meeting, even if you are a good conversationalist.

Well, maybe it's because these guys go on 'dates' with random girls they just met.

How about meeting a girl on or offline, establishing contact and see if both of you get to hit if off- your masculine charm, looks and articulation could come into play.

If that works, she'd be more comfortable meeting up with you in secluded places, your apartment even.

Prepare a dinner or see a movie with the go-alongs of a movie theater (snacks, drinks, dimmed lights...) and more but in your apartment or hers.

You get privacy (which isn't necessarily about tumbling beneath the sheets but if it happens, go for it, brother) and get to know each other more. I mean, that's the essence of going on dates.


I can't even picture myself in any such scenario depicted in the screenshotted WhatsApp chat.
I go on unplanned dates in eateries- on-the-spot decisions to just go out with a Missy. The spontaneity is fun and both go out with open minds. At least, by then, both of you are already an item.


You guys are too predictable and sadly so. It's the foremost reason you cease being interesting to each other after meeting up for the first time.


Be innovative and unpredictable!

lalanice:
just reading this post one would easily think you are making sense, but I hope people still know that knowing how to write doesn't mean you know what you are saying

Yeah... Really odd coming from you Lalanice- a gyno-humanoid with the creative ability of a stone, the rationality of a crazed bat and the articulation of a Cerebral Palsy patient.


Try changing the smelly wig you've had on for four years. Lalanice? More like Lala-LICE.

pocohantas:


You're beautiful . Nice profile picture

You made good points in your post.

TSOM:


You missed a caveat in my prequel post.

I never go out on dates with random, strange females.

Before the, well, 'official date', we'd be familiar. More like friends or friendly acquaintances, at least.


Females shouldn't go on dates with random guys anywhere too.

If he's cruel enough to rape her in private, he can be cruel enough to spike her drink when out in public, make a play at dropping her off at her place then lure her to a private place where he'd rape her.

Rapists would rape as long as they can get away with it.

If he's going to rape you, he could even be patient enough to gain your trust before he does it.

We've all heard of rape between platonic friends of the opposite sex who visit each other in private.

Rape can still happen even if you are both dating. Once one person doesn't give consent verbally or otherwise, it is rape.