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Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by MahatmaGhandi: 7:39am On Jul 26, 2018 |
If the so called best friend found her good enough for him, he would have married her. For you to have married her suggests that you have put your fate and those of you kids in her hands. If she doesn't see the need to switch allegiance to you after this show of confidence in her then the best friend is giving her something you are not and if it was still at the dating stage I would have advised you to bounce. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by neighbourhud: 7:39am On Jul 26, 2018 |
How is this done. Please I need more info on this. Jasen1: |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by sharpwriter(m): 7:40am On Jul 26, 2018 |
AdamuAudu: It's the copying of American style that caused it. That's why they throw caution away and believe they can do anything they like all in the name of having FUN. May God help us. Life's now confusing . 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by jutan: 7:51am On Jul 26, 2018 |
VictorRomanov:its OK..but 2 Likes
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Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by EngrXrix(m): 7:54am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: By all standards NO. SANCTION HER LIKE TRUMP. I NO SAY MK U BEAT AM OH. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Jasen1(m): 7:55am On Jul 26, 2018 |
neighbourhud: Open your web type ""what's App web"" once it opens it will show you scan logo Then go to what's app click option you will see what's app web, click it and use your phone to scan the logo on your lappy it will connect sharply Once she's chatting you WI be reading it it's very simple I used it on my ex. I discovered she has been chatting with her ex while she's dating me and other guys too Mhen it wasn't funny though 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by neighbourhud: 7:56am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Thanks bro. I will keep you updated Jasen1: |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Jasen1(m): 7:58am On Jul 26, 2018 |
neighbourhud: You can email me your number via sam300656@gmail.com I will do video tut for you and send to you via what's app |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 8:00am On Jul 26, 2018 |
sharpwriter:she would have told me if she was having a bad time with hubby cos she tells me virtually anything, .....and for me, I won't say I'm rich or handsome, I'm just like Every other man out there. in fact, her husband is far richer than me and adores her a lot......FACT is most women don't know what they want! |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by sangresan(m): 8:08am On Jul 26, 2018 |
IntrovertedK: What are you really talking about? We are discussing the living why you are concerned with the dead.....Why don't you use yourself as an example? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by lilmax(m): 8:09am On Jul 26, 2018 |
peacengine:you don't understand what he said, read it again ,this time slowly 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by sharpwriter(m): 8:12am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Seenyo: Na wa o... problem dey for this life abeg. May God deliver us from evil. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Ifakiland(m): 8:17am On Jul 26, 2018 |
gabpaul:law of karma my ass, how did idi amin die? lemme remind u, he died a peaceful death in his sleep in Saudi Arabia...after killing thousands of people. where was karma?? it's only weak people dat reason the way you do. karma ko, kamarudin ni |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 8:18am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: @Gabrie300. Bro , the main thing is whether your wife is just been naive or knows what she's doing. She will be naive to think a guy can just be cool with a lady or married woman without attraction building at some point. The guy she calls her BF isnt a real G IMO This is my own opinion. Your wife isnt naive. She's aware of what she's doing . As shes known him for 2 years before you got to know of a said BF. If she was naive or honest , she would have mentioned Him to you in her nativity at the early stage were she was getting find fond of him. That theres this guy she just met bla bla bla. She would be genuine with it when telling you. But she would see that you're not happy with such . No man wants to hear abt another man from their partner. I suggest you tell her to arrange a dinner or outing with the family of the BF since he claims to be married. That will solve the problem. If that's done. Be sensitive while you all are together to look for cues. If she cant do that or the other BF gives excuses. I'm afraid there a fire on the mountain. RUN RUN RUN |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Airoflaw(m): 8:22am On Jul 26, 2018 |
delugajackson:you said my mind |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 26, 2018 |
zicoraads: Bro treat her like a queen as you want. If she's a hoe. She's a hoe. She ought to have told her husband or signalled him how shes not feeling him anymore. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by telkevog(m): 8:28am On Jul 26, 2018 |
It is totally wrong. But then, think of where you're not getting it right. Do spend quality time with your family? Do you give your wife the special attention she deserves as your wife? If you do, she wouldn't even find for that chart. So, I suggest you envite her for a calm talk over this, promise to make up for your shortcomings and two of you will delete the the guy's contact together, and have a good long lasting SEX. That will solve the problem. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by mynaijadj(m): 8:28am On Jul 26, 2018 |
You are using promiscuous Jada that was shagging Marc Anthony as your perfect example. Okay now. Will Smith is the reason that marriage is still working. IntrovertedK: |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Ignatio(m): 8:36am On Jul 26, 2018 |
You don't use fowl as a pet because one day you will eat it. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by mtngloetiartel: 8:41am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Caring0:u sef wicked. May be it has happend to u. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by mtngloetiartel: 8:45am On Jul 26, 2018 |
telkevog:walai u disapoint real men. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 8:47am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Tekzyflex: what if the wife has the number upstairs even after resetting her brain.?? |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 8:50am On Jul 26, 2018 |
2buffagain: GBAM. # Full stop. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Elaric(m): 8:56am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Pls order your wife to cut off from him and placed your eyes on her very well. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 26, 2018 |
ZIMDRILL: KAI! YOU GET SENSE DIE... I SWEAR. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by crunchyg: 9:01am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by crunchyg: 9:02am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: The solution is, let your wife introduce you yo this best friend, know him and let him know you and know his own wife also by that the relationship is no longer between your wife and the man but it becomes a family friend things by doing that, it reduces any chance of indulging in any silly act. By the way her best friends friend and his family should be your own friends too |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by mtngloetiartel: 9:07am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Blackzlatan:dont try this nonsense else u get poisoned |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by M3A16(m): 9:10am On Jul 26, 2018 |
There is a law that states that like object repel and unlike object attract..... There should be no close relationship existing between married individuals of opposite sex, it has always been ended with sorrow and regret... I will advise you stop her from this act but calmly and wisely sha. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by StevieAbraks111(m): 9:18am On Jul 26, 2018 |
My question is, will your wife be okay with it if you had a female bestie and you are always communicating with her? If no, why is she doing it to you? |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Sike(m): 9:20am On Jul 26, 2018 |
delugajackson:GBAMMMMM |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by EkoErrands: 9:31am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: She's 29 and you married for 7 years.....meaning she married you when she was 22. My brother at that 22 she is still unstable emotionally bro! Infact you married a teenager and having a best friend is part of their qualification. Now back to the problem! Pls Dont get your own best friend o! That will be aproval for do me I do you to start. And my brother na you e go pain pass because na women carry the main valuable thing between their legs so Dont give her opportunity to start a competition with it. In my opinion I will advice you take the mans number from her phone and give him a call. And be nice about it. Talk to him respectfully and maturely. Tell him you are very concerned about his chats with your wife and what concerns you the most is she calls him her best friend. And remind him that from the look of things if you and your wife have a fight it means he's the one she would run to. Tell him his relationship with your wife is affecting your marriage and he should put and end to it. Now the Conclusion: If he tells your wife that you called him and your wife asks you about it or confronts you about it...then probably they are just friends and you "may" have nothing to worry about. But if he tells your wife and your wife changes routine or attitude but never asks you about it and never confronts you...hnmn my brother they are either doing bicycle style or they will do it once the chance presents itself. What you have to look for here is the CHANGE in normal routine or attitude from your wife days after you spoke to the man. But you can never be too sure when it concerns a woman. My final advice to you is to be calm and manage your relationship with your wife until she is above 30. That's when you will enjoy a woman. All these women in their twenties are like lolipop looking for attention even if it's from a pet. 1 Like 1 Share |
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