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Sonia Ogbonna, the wife of popular actor, IK Ogbonna took to the 'gram to advise fellow women on relationships.

She wrote;

"For some reason,people (mostly females) are brainwashed to think that every relationship that didn't lead to marriage is a"waste of time". Where you rushing to? Let me start with à gently reminder-marriage isn't any form of achievement like some of you might think . You make yourself a Queen,no one will do it for you. Achievement is to be happy. Period. Let me explain further: everybody was sent to our lives for a purpose,but NOT EVERYONE was meant to stay. Some are meant to teach you things you need to know to continue your journey towards your destiny ,but without them. Your paths will split after their mission is complete ,and that's not a tragedy but a huge blessing . You helped each other out now its time to go. No regrets,no hard feelings because EVERYTHING sent your way is ALWAYS a GIFT Experience is the greatest source of wisdom,and be thankful for it. Real purpose of it is not to teach you about others or to make you develop a negative stereotype about them ("all men this/all men that" but to allow you to get to know YOURSELF better. That's the real purpose of interactions with others-to trig a knowledge that will help you understand yourself better,to understand what you really want and what you can/can't deal with . To help you learn about your own capacities and weaknesses and above all to help you open your eyes about what you truly deserve and how worthy you actually are. Without experience you are most likely to settle for any kind of rubbish treatment and poor relationship assuming its all "normal" and "the way it was suppose to be" because you simply have no clue about life and you barely know yourself so you can easily fall a victim of manipulation and COMPLETELY LOOSE YOUR PERSONALITY in process. Take your time. You gotta stop FORCING things-it can only lead to to MISERY,relax,enjoy life,love yourself,follow signs and hear your guts out: whatever feels off,trust me, probably is. #soniaogbonna"

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She's right though but.......

Hmmmm hope their marriage is not at the verge of collapsing sha

It’s always good to wish for the best but also wise to prepare for the worst. Not every affair or relationship leads to Marriage.
As we date and get to know the other person, we just try our best to see that it works out well but if it doesn’t , be ready to nurse your wounds and move on. 

On another note.....

Wahala no go dry if our nigerian pipu both boys and gehs can understand this

Yes I quite agree with you...

Some to build you up, some to break you , some to teach you lessons and some for pleasure...

In any case, try to make it work cause there ain't perfect individuals anywhere.

This lady is very Beautiful, anything that she said is true. The thing self don tired me, most lady no want stay in a relationship if no be marriage.

Not In Africa...taste and no buy =your name and picture must reach babalawo office for official punishment

Yea that's true some relationships are just for the side benefits that comes from it. Marriage is a life time investment and should not be toyed with. If you think am lying ask tonto dikeh

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you book space just to write this nonsense

Harlot. She must have tasted so many diccks. Borehole Amaka

Certainly, relationship is just a period for an assessment.

Meanwhile, you can end quick release, weak attention & infertile sperm naturally. STOP THE SHAME ONCE & FOR ALL USING NATURAL MEANS.

SEE HOW:
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Definitely


Some girls nor dey gree o

True

Wishing some ladies could learn from this short epistle.

All I need is money and my future first relationship will lead to marriage whether the devil likes it or not

NotNairalandi:
you book space just to write this nonsense

We are sorry on your behalf for the pains.
It shall be well with you.
Go and be happy in life!
God loves you.

oboy see news, nonsense.......

Truth is most ladies think otherwise. The mentality of average Nigerian lady is "marriage".
Once she's 23 her thinking flowchart goes directly to marriage. Though I've seen some ladies that think otherwise but they are rare like rare gases.

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Sonia Ogbonna, the wife of popular actor, IK Ogbonna took to the 'gram to advise fellow women on relationships.

She wrote;

"For some reason,people (mostly females) are brainwashed to think that every relationship that didn't lead to marriage is a"waste of time". Where you rushing to? Let me start with à gently reminder-marriage isn't any form of achievement like some of you might think . You make yourself a Queen,no one will do it for you. Achievement is to be happy. Period. Let me explain further: everybody was sent to our lives for a purpose,but NOT EVERYONE was meant to stay. Some are meant to teach you things you need to know to continue your journey towards your destiny ,but without them. Your paths will split after their mission is complete ,and that's not a tragedy but a huge blessing . You helped each other out now its time to go. No regrets,no hard feelings because EVERYTHING sent your way is ALWAYS a GIFT Experience is the greatest source of wisdom,and be thankful for it. Real purpose of it is not to teach you about others or to make you develop a negative stereotype about them ("all men this/all men that" but to allow you to get to know YOURSELF better. That's the real purpose of interactions with others-to trig a knowledge that will help you understand yourself better,to understand what you really want and what you can/can't deal with . To help you learn about your own capacities and weaknesses and above all to help you open your eyes about what you truly deserve and how worthy you actually are. Without experience you are most likely to settle for any kind of rubbish treatment and poor relationship assuming its all "normal" and "the way it was suppose to be" because you simply have no clue about life and you barely know yourself so you can easily fall a victim of manipulation and COMPLETELY LOOSE YOUR PERSONALITY in process. Take your time. You gotta stop FORCING things-it can only lead to to MISERY,relax,enjoy life,love yourself,follow signs and hear your guts out: whatever feels off,trust me, probably is. #soniaogbonna"

Gists via: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2018/07/not-every-relationship-must-lead-to.html

Ashawoism is now happiness? Poverty in Africa has made us legalized promiscuity to responsibility.

They even forgot they are products of marriage. Thank God the men you are running after are mostly married, others will also marry later while you stay single.

I wonder if you're happier than Omotola. Pride and promiscuity won't allow you humble yourself under a man.

True

let me get to work

fact

A lot of truth in there. thinking about marriage all the time makes you too desperate and of course a desperate person can always fall in a trap
.

So we still have pretty and knowledgeable ladies. I'm glade to meet one now.

Marriage is not a do or die affair.. we all know that..

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NairaMaster1:


Ashawoism is now happiness? Poverty in Africa has made us legalized promiscuity to responsibility.

They even forgot they are products of marriage. Thank God the men you are running after are mostly married, others will also marry later while you stay single.

I wonder if you're happier than Omotola. Pride and promiscuity won't allow you humble yourself under a man.

Macnnoli4:
All I need is money and my future first relationship will lead to marriage whether the devil likes it or not

I have no influence over how your relationship would lead to marriage or not