madridsta007:


The Bible is unequivocal and blunt about this.

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

— 2 Cor 6:14

You need to each choose between listening to your emotions or listen to God’s word— which is very, very clear. This shouldn’t be a question at all, in my opinion, unless we want to pretend that the Bible isn’t clear about it.

Sadiyaene:
Stop listening to pastors and follow your heart my brother o,when God created us, he never said Muslim should marry Muslim and Christian's should marry Christian's . Tink wisely bro am in a similar situation with you and I have decided to follow my heart.

KazeemIbrahim1:

Do you know that you can still marry a Muslim and she still retains he religion after marriage?
Seen a Yoruba man marry a Christian. She still remained a Christian while he a Muslim.

delkuf:
Please I need your advice. Is so happened that I know this lady for years now. we are good friends. But the problem is, I know that as a Christian we can't really get married because she is a Muslim. So I have been trying to keep the relationship on just us being friends, even though I love her and I know She has this little feelings for me. If I had been serious, I know we would have gotten married or close to that, but I keep avoiding her and sometimes I do it on purpose.

Now, where I get really confused is that, any time i pray for God's will in marriage, she keeps coming to my mind. This is not infatuation or something. It has been happening over and over again. I know God also talk to us through giving us this deep impression in our heart.

It was so deep on day that I told the Holy Spirit that I can't marry her. I spoke with my pastor this week concerning this issue, and he said it is not possible for God to tell us to marry a Muslim and this thing keeps coming. am really confuse. because of this, have not been praying concerning marriage.

PLEASEEEEEE, I need Christians to comment on this.

hopefulLandlord:

and you, my good sir, lack basic intelligence. if those advisors are against religious wars then they should've been advising op and his fiancée to dump religion rather than telling him to convert the girl. upgrade your thinking

bandol:
You can't marry a Muslim lady for any reason until she is converted and genuinely born again not just a change of religion.

madridsta007:


The Bible is unequivocal and blunt about this.

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

— 2 Cor 6:14

You need to each choose between listening to your emotions or listen to God’s word— which is very, very clear. This shouldn’t be a question at all, in my opinion, unless we want to pretend that the Bible isn’t clear about it.

Fuckingmallam45:

u are a big fool, what did they meant by don't means yolked with unbelievers

Abubakarsiddeeq:
We are talking about religion here not nature If you are an atheist keep off please

delkuf:
Please I need your advice. Is so happened that I know this lady for years now. we are good friends. But the problem is, I know that as a Christian we can't really get married because she is a Muslim. So I have been trying to keep the relationship on just us being friends, even though I love her and I know She has this little feelings for me. If I had been serious, I know we would have gotten married or close to that, but I keep avoiding her and sometimes I do it on purpose.

Now, where I get really confused is that, any time i pray for God's will in marriage, she keeps coming to my mind. This is not infatuation or something. It has been happening over and over again. I know God also talk to us through giving us this deep impression in our heart.

It was so deep on day that I told the Holy Spirit that I can't marry her. I spoke with my pastor this week concerning this issue, and he said it is not possible for God to tell us to marry a Muslim and this thing keeps coming. am really confuse. because of this, have not been praying concerning marriage.

PLEASEEEEEE, I need Christians to comment on this.

asid:


Hosea - READ

People keep quoting "Do not mix with unequal yokes" at their convenience, but you if you need a job or any form of help in anyway shape or form, it's funny how that statement gets lost on us at such moments, what does that tell you? or does it only relate to when marriage is involved? If you are so holy, let it spread into every area of the life you so live, and not when it suits you.

what will you say are the 2 most important laws in the bible, if you know that answer, then....

And anyone saying one isn't a "true christian" (like you know what been one is besides someone else's opinion you have so come to take as YOUR truth) for mingling with unbelievers, tell me, from your birth till now, how you gotten any help or support (gotten a gift or shared a birthday cake) from someone who isn't from YOUR religious background, if yes, then you know where your statement should be...

Using the bible where it suits tells a lot of whomever

Surrey2Bimshire:


It’s depends .. it’s not always a black and white thinking.
Raising children in multicultural/multi-religion environment somewhat help the children to be more Tolerant and accepting of other people’s belief/culture

I grew up in a multiracial/multicultural family with different beliefs systems So far so good I’ve been very tolerant and accepting of other people.

ollah2:



You bible is blunt about it and you are very happy. Great

Why do you go mad when Muslims call you infidels. What's the difference?

They call you infidels and you go crazy but you can call them unbelievers and it's fine. Hypocrisy is a christian

Sadiyaene:
Stop listening to pastors and follow your heart my brother o,when God created us, he never said Muslim should marry Muslim and Christian's should marry Christian's . Tink wisely bro am in a similar situation with you and I have decided to follow my heart.

Moukandjo:

In other words, if Christianity = righteousness & light, then Islam = wickedness & darkness, right?

ollah2:



Give the Yorubas that. It's the same tribe that Christians, Muslims, Traditionalists, Athists, et al live together without discrimination.

luvola:


Are you a muslim or christian in this case ?

KazeemIbrahim1:

Till we discover that our religion wasn't our choice. Before you're born, your tribe and religion are already chosen.

We should stop letting religion cause unnecessary divisions in our society.

nextdoor84:


Sorry to ask you, but what have you decided?
What part of the country are you from?

Though I am from Rivers state, but dated a fulani gal (from yobe) for over 5 years, but we couldn't get past the relationship level. It was painful to watch her leave but it's a decision I had to make back then.
Funnily enough, we seldomly still talk, and she's still single and will be 30 this year.












Middle belt

The op should go ahead as long as the lady is ready to face the consequences, cos the family will definitely kick!!

Dareal90s:

If your brain isn't empty u will knw who to quote, u shld face those advising Op abt converting d lady, I made a direct point which d guy was trying to twist.

Saintbee:
To answer your question without mincing words, it is very wrong and unacceptable for a Christian to marry a muslim. The bible says not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. Yes, you may have deep impressions about her because she's someone you love and think of. However, you know as a Christian that God will not contradict His word and will not break His principles.

If God is leading you to her as a Christian, He will first amd foremost make her become a Christian and prepare her for you, so as to fulfil His desires for you both.

Please, don't go ahead without seeking God and waiting it out. She will definitely become a Christian first if she's for you and you will see the signs because she will start bearing fruits.

I hope this helps.

ollah2:



Thank you. Humanity first and religion can take several seats away.

Preator:

Which bliss? Go to nairabet section and see a lot of born again doing spiritual business with Alabi. Don't let anyone deceive you o

bandol:
You can't marry a Muslim lady for any reason until she is converted and genuinely born again not just a change of religion.

delkuf:
the thing is that have gotten any confirmation from God. see, I believe God is taking me higher. as in I may likely end up a pastor, though God hasn't spoken anything yet, but I know that is where am heading. so can she be a wife of a pastor, I don't think so. why this go to her if I don't think she can do well as a pastor's wife. and can God really tell one to marry a Muslim

CAPSLOCKED:

BUT SHE SHOULD GIVE UP HER MUSLIM FAITH BECAUSE OF WHAT, YOU AS A MAN IS SUPERIOR, OR BECAUSE YOUR CHRISTIANITY IS SUPERIOR?





EVEN AMONGST CHRISTIANS SOME CHURCHES DON'T ENCOURAGE MARRYING PEOPLE FROM SOME OTHER OR CERTAIN CHURCHES.
HONESTLY RELIGION DIVIDES MORE THAN IT UNITES. IT'S THE WORST TOOL EVER INVENTED.

AND PLEASE, STOP ALL THIS TALK OF YOUR GOD TOLD YOU THIS YOUR GOD TOLD YOU THAT CUS YOU HEARING YOURSELF TALK NONSENSE TO YOURSELF... YOUR GOD AIN'T SAYING SHĮT.

madridsta007:


No sir. That is oversimplification and a complete ignorance of the meanings of simple English.
Being an unbeliever simply means, "does not believe in.."
And it can be used in many things. I did not believe that Leicester City could win the EPL, even at the turn of February. I was an unbeliever, contrary to the many believing Leicester City fans.

It is that simple.