So as an update to my last post.

Quick profile of this girl.

Her name is.........
She is light skinned, a nurse and she has a business she manages, so that means she makes more money than i do also thanks to her brothers that re out of this shithole country called Nigeria.

Initially that was what attracted me to her and to be honest i just really only wanted to smarsh, but then i got hooked.

Now back to the main point.
We ve been together not up to 2 weeks now and shes been wanting to see my parents, needs a ring, initially i was just taking it lightly until when she invited me to her brother's house, when i got there... the serious looks on their faces as they were meeting their son in law to be, she introduced me not as a friend, or boyfriend but as a fiancé, come and see as marital advises that i did not pay for just dey flow upandan.
Most of our outings, she pays the bill even the last one that i invited my friends to come along, to my surprise as i was about to pay, she just shoved me aside, brought out her bag and paid in full.

Now why im i scared
1. The sudden fianciation
2. The subtle talks that if i hurt her she wud die followed by pleads of pls do not hurt me.
I dont kno why shes doing all this, im feelin suspicious a lil bit, maybe shes tryna push something unpleasant on me like terminal diseases or barreness or some shìt.
Ive tried making some background research on her past but i didnt notice anything alarming as to warrant her desperation.

While this might just be baseless fears but then all her actions are causing me some serious concerns

Update.
Our last pet fight was about me telling her to stop getting me gifts, they were getting too much but she felt sad, but i just played it cool but telling her that we shld focus on little things like smiles, trust, affection as opposed to the material things.

She's over 30.

"Desperados"

I guess the reason for her behavior is because she's close to menopause. but it's too early to do what she's asking for now. take time to study her before you do anything U'll later regret. most girls above 30 act this way.

modified: since she is 24, try to dig into her past. her behavior is unusual

MrHistorian:
She's over 30.

"Desperados"

She is 24 and she looks 22

daewoorazer:

My nigga

Wait till you ring her

The you go know say kaaki no be leather

You don’t love her, do not lead her on! Do not be shy about it...it doesn’t matter if you have met her great grandparents, better late than never!

Forget ‘don’t break my heart’ .... no be today!

I can love her if i want, but then its the do or die affair that i do not understand.

Op, here is my candid advice: go for the girl. She's a good girl.
Why?
There are some girls, when they are in love, they don't know how to cover up or even hide it a bit. They show you that they love you and ready to do just anything. Their show of love can come off as desperation. Trust me, she's not desperate. She only loves you.
Mind you, girls like this can do anything to show their love and thats a great thing. Don't make her lose interest. Show her the love she's showing you.
If a girl is desperate, your topic won't be "I don't trust my girlfriend". Instead, it'd be, "How can I confuse her to abort this pregnancy" .

it might be love, lol do whatever suits you.

Hm dis type of babe if u break her heart she fit use knife remove ur blokos o

That lady is into you, please don't disappoint her and you will likely regret if you eventually do.

I don't see desperation, all I see is love. If you want what you term her desperation to slow down, then show her more affection and seriousness.

If you leave her sha, you go regret oh!

Men are more confused

Who else came to read comments and wasn't disappointed?

jmaxjohn:
Who else came to read comments and wasn't disappointed?

ME

Bros keep digging u might dig out something.

MajorJeffery:
That lady is into you, please don't disappoint her and you will likely regret if you eventually do.

I don't see desperation, all I see is love. If you want what you term her desperation to slow down, then show her more affection and seriousness.

QED

MajorJeffery:
That lady is into you, please don't disappoint her and you will likely regret if you eventually do.

I don't see desperation, all I see is love. If you want what you term her desperation to slow down, then show her more affection and seriousness.

This
Your post gave me an epiphany.

Thing is ive been kinda indifferent to her cus i just don't kno wia to place her, i think i might just have to play along and see where it leads.

OrestesDante:



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Ke'sele?

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I do not claim to be an expert, but the little I know, I know it WELL

You love truly, problem. Love fakely, problem. Humans can't be pleased at all.

Nurses are usually promiscuous.. ssy the right words and you'd get majority of them laid.

In two weeks all this happened?

Hmm

Oyindidi:
Men are more confused

MissRaine69:
In two weeks all this happened?

Hear your fellow woman, calm down, it's not a fight. that guy knows what he is doing.
2 to 3 years Ring tenure will determine her real intentions towards you.

Les:


Hear your fellow woman, calm down, it's not a fight. that guy knows what he is doing.
2 to 3 years Ring tenure will determine her real intentions towards you.

One thing that annoys me to the hilt is someone telling me to calm down ....when I am pure zen!!!

MissRaine69:

One thing that annoys me to the hilt is someone telling me to calm down ....when I am pure zen!!!

Do u really do zen meditation?

Gaspardd:


Do u really do zen meditation?

I practice mindfulness as much as this world permits .

MissRaine69:

I practice mindfulness as much as this world permits .

Do u read osho's books?

teewhydope:
I guess the reason for her behavior is because she's close to menopause. but it's too early to do what she's asking for now. take time to study her before you do anything U'll later regret. most girls above 30 act this way.

modified: since she is 24, try to dig into her past. her behavior is unusual

What’s unusual about a girl knowing what she wants and going for it. Financially ok what next is she wanting for .

MissRaine69:

One thing that annoys me to the hilt is someone telling me to calm down ....when I am pure zen!!!

I had the quotes placed wrongly, the calm down was for onyindidi