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Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi: ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ∆ Get my point. I never said anything is wrong with the marriage. Besides, every marriage needs God's help. @bolded From my experience while I was still with my parents.. when there is a little misunderstanding between them the next thing you hear from both of them at different instances is "If not because of my children...." That's what I'm driving at. Peace ✌✌✌ ∆ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Oyindidi(f): 7:31pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:Yes, sadly I didn't reciprocate |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by zicoraads: 7:31pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi:Oh... I really don't even know what to say right now. Just...take heart. Cry and wipe your tears. Then think of your son and be strong for him. It'll turn out well. It always does. ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Oyindidi(f): 7:32pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
OrestesDante:in my case I said I need sanity cos of my son ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi: ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ∆ It's alright. ∆ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Oyindidi(f): 7:35pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
zicoraads:I'm good now.. Its annoying but watin man pikin go do |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by zicoraads: 7:37pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi:Toh. Oya go that food thread go see plenty foods. ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Oyindidi(f): 7:41pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
zicoraads:Na food bring wahala, I no fit visit food thread ![]() I'm okay now |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by vladhillz(m): 7:52pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:dude..i owe you alot of Budweiser drinks..been looking for d right way to explain how I feel for long,and when I think of the answer you just gave,I lie to myself that it's not possible for someone to b dx way.you clearly explained it..damn..your good..i guess staying cold for so long had it's effect. |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 8:25pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
vladhillz: My brother, I don't know if it has to do with my date of birth o. ![]() I even went scanning through that thread about people's dates of birth just to see if I'll come across someone with mine so I could ask series of question bothering me, but I found none ![]() People create threads about their relationships and sometimes I wonder if they are drunk or under some spell going through what they go through in the name of love |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 8:28pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi:Hmmm but whichever way, life goes on. I appreciate your attention, don't know when next we will chat again. |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Oyindidi(f): 8:33pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:Mention me when you want my contribution in any topic. The cold in Port Harcourt is something else. I'm freezing ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 8:42pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi: Self love is the best realistically. Understanding, tolerance and respect will greatly playoff and I'll opt out for it too... ...in marriage ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 8:43pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi:Off course. Get under a blanket ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Oyindidi(f): 8:44pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:I mentioned you on nwa's thread ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Oyindidi(f): 8:45pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:Funny thing is, its not raining. The cold reach your part of ph ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Kampack: 8:50pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13: you either Feb or may(the emotionless people). More possibly the former. Am I right? |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by vladhillz(m): 8:52pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:hahahahhaahha..yeah..like you see guys crying and committing suicide for love like damn..how d fu*k did dey love to dt extent of making that cold decision,,like who does that..i just don't think it has anything to do with date,,don't really believe in those zodiac shit.maybe we stayed cold for just too long,forgot how to feel..like when you lock a door and ditch the key,,and when you want to unlock it,,you get lucky enough to find the key,,but the door just won't open..i went cold after series of unloyal acts from a girl I kinda liked,,the whole dating other guys for the money,and dating me for the love,but I just don't like sharing,,so had to go cold,and set life straight so that the next girl won't have a reason to hand another guy her body or heart or whatever,,I really take loyalty seriously..so now,things are great,not extremely rich yet and so far from how broke I was,,and I once again tried to get into a relationship,but damn,she was great girl,my type,,but I just couldn't love again..like really feel again,couldn't.. |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 8:52pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Kampack: Damn!! 16, Feb. But I never believed in that horoscope shit ![]() How about you ?? |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 8:56pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
vladhillz: A guy above just mentioned my month of birth. But it doesn't end there. I still don't believe him. Got my reasons. Although my little cousin born same month behaves a little similar. ![]() I watch and realize I behaved similar at his age |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by vladhillz(m): 9:03pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:still don't believe d date stuff..but,,we are going to be just fine |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 9:08pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
vladhillz: Does it mean you are of same month too ?? |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Kampack: 9:10pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13: bro, I just proved it works. I knew you must fall into the first two weeks in February. Same as my younger brother. All you just wrote up there is more like his verbatim routine comments and he is an Aquarius of early february. He has all it takes for a young man to settle down at the moment but these confusion and emtionless nature of an Aquarius isn't helping matters so he's undecided about settling down despite being overripe for marriage. I never believed the horoscope thing, but my scientific mind pushed me into exploring more fine details of human behaviour and psychology, I started putting it to test to validate the zodiac claims..and I can confidently tell you they are more often VERY CORRECT. My guesses are usually correct 9 times out of ten. I only miss it by few weeks when I rarely miss. I met a couple yesterday, and from observing them just 5mins, we got chatting and I correctly told them their birth months using this horoscopy thing. It works but you must be a good observer or a good listener of how people describe themselves. in your short but comprehensive write up, I just knew you were in the first two weeks of Feb! |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by vladhillz(m): 9:11pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:no..mine is april |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 9:15pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
vladhillz:You would have given me one more reason to believe them, if you were. Now, it is another major point for me to devalue their postulates. We are indeed okay the way we are. |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 9:32pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Kampack: Thanks for the insight. But, (1) They are more often correct, according to you. This therefore is a major setback and proves that it is rooted solely in predictions. (2) My good friend up there attests to exhibiting the same characteristics of mine, regarding life in general but he is of April born, two months below. Now this is another setback. The two above inadvertently substantiates the fact that the veracity of these Zodiacal assertions is a function of psychological manipulation to a great extent. In psychology, when you randomly tell a person 3 emotional traits that may be associated with a particular illness, and the person, believes you, even when they are false, that person will be forced to unconsciously ascribe many abnormal happenings in his body to be an evidence of parts of those traits you mentioned and because he believes, they work for him. The same is applicable to the horoscopic controversy. You tell someone a trait that maybe common in a minor group of people of the same month, the person even when he was not used to noticing it, will suddenly start noticing it because he allowed what you said to psyche him, oblivious of the chance that this same trait might be obvious and dormant in some other person of another month. 1 Like |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by vladhillz(m): 9:43pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13:guy..where have you been..damn..your too good with explanation..you always hit it right,,just realistic,, |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 10:00pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
vladhillz: My bro, I'm always realistic o. That's how I stay happy and feel in control of my life. |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Kampack: 10:13pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Bluezy13: I will try make my answers short as Im typing from my phone and drowsy ![]() 1. No scientific conclusion from analysed data randimly sampled can claim to be 100% correct and no piece of research whether tangible or abstract can be 100% correct. The efficiency of a machine (irrespective of the machine) is never 100% -rule of thumb in sciences. So, what researchers watch out for is the level of significance, p-values and confidence intervals. The more reason I said "more often than not". Also, note that I said 9/10 which statistically translates to 90%. You will agree with me that 90% isnt a bad score. I will suggest you do more research into it. No knowledge is lost. I personally enjoy research and its what I do professionally. Sometimes test claims! if zodiac was a bogus claim, I will tell you outrightly...afterall thay aint paying me. 2, your friend you cited only share some common traits. Some characters have overlapping behaviours but you could sort them by asking several other questions about behaviour and temprament. From the little I gathered, he is impatient...and combining that attribute with his perception on relatioships, he definitely fits into the April group. He was too hasty to have let the cat out of the bag. I expected him to challenge me to predict his if I could rightly predict yours as a proof of the concept. However, his typical impatient nature got the better of the Aries man. |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Uglymugg: 10:24pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Oyindidi: But you never loved the ones that loved you ![]() |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Bluezy13(m): 10:51pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Kampack: Bringing into my cognizance that you are typing from your phone and drowsy is highly inconsequential and technically fallacious to the contention. I however admire your intelligent statistical manner of approach in driving home your point, although it still redirects to my earlier first opinion of my formal disdain for the horoscopic (abstract, as you implied) science being a "prediction". It is supposed to be a veracious, total and indisputable fact irrespective of the ramifications it is subjected to proofing without being found wanting, with %100 efficiency. Eg. All animals born in a manger are and must be deaf, regardless of whether the animal is a goat, a cow, a dog or a fowl. As per my friend's, I chose to pocket my comment less you consider it an accusation for leveraging on his realistic and plain assertions. Thanks a lot for contributing to my perception of the science in question as I embark on further research as well. Sleep well. |
Re: The Pain Of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back by Kampack: 8:31am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Bluezy13: @ bolded: wasn't necessary! thanks, had a swell night! |
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