thorpido:
Which hospital are you at?

lynnfeb:
Please , I haven't gotten any response yet.

Eketem:


I am sorry but as much as I understand your desperation this sounds entitled.

You had 9 months to prepare for a baby and sadly you and your spouse didn't.

You post online for help and you are not even patient waiting for verification so people can be convinced to help within a few hours you are already saying you have not seen any response.

Do you assume people have money kept aside for your baby's birth?

Do you not think we deserve some sort of verification and assurance that this is real before we start looking for where to get money to help?

Today is even Sunday, even if people want to help will you not even give the grace of tomorrow so those who may need to go to the bank can go?


I am sorry I am lashing out on you in your situation but the way you sounded is annoying. Baby didn't show up baby gave you notice yet you didn't plan adequately but now you want strangers to respond in a few hours to your cry for help. It is unfair.

Calm down first let this be verified then also be clear about the kind of help you need.

Is it medical bills? How much is it?

Is it baby clothes? Diapers etc? Is it feeding? Be clear about what you need so people can know how to actually hell when this has been verified

Eketem:





I am so sorry if I sounded annonying. I was just bothered.

I have baby items. I only want to clear the medical bills.

I have paid part. The balance is 20,350.

Thank you



I am sorry but as much as I understand your desperation this sounds entitled.

You had 9 months to prepare for a baby and sadly you and your spouse didn't.

You post online for help and you are not even patient waiting for verification so people can be convinced to help within a few hours you are already saying you have not seen any response.

Do you assume people have money kept aside for your baby's birth?

Do you not think we deserve some sort of verification and assurance that this is real before we start looking for where to get money to help?

Today is even Sunday, even if people want to help will you not even give the grace of tomorrow so those who may need to go to the bank can go?


I am sorry I am lashing out on you in your situation but the way you sounded is annoying. Baby didn't show up baby gave you notice yet you didn't plan adequately but now you want strangers to respond in a few hours to your cry for help. It is unfair.

Calm down first let this be verified then also be clear about the kind of help you need.

Is it medical bills? How much is it?

Is it baby clothes? Diapers etc? Is it feeding? Be clear about what you need so people can know how to actually hell when this has been verified

lynnfeb:
I just sent you a pm. Thank you . Let me forward it to your mail




quote author=Eketem post=69806327]Do you have any reciepts or anything from the hospital indicating the qbill?

That would help as those who may want to verify will be busy as today is sunday.

Ifyalways Please your attention is needed here. Help us confirm so people who want to can donate no matter how small

lynnfeb:
Good day Nairalanders, I am sorry to bother anyone this Sunday afternoon but I can't help it.

What is suppose to be a thing of joy is gradually eating me up right now, I feel very sad doing this.

I put to bed day before yesterday, but as we speak I don't have a dime to be discharged from the hospital. I wouldn't have been in this bad predicament but we had accommodation issues but hubby was just able to sort that out on Wednesday. He is also out of job.

I am so heart broken right now, can't even do anything right.

Please I don't mind proofs if anyone is willing to assist.

Thank you and God bless

edoman2016:

Your husband and you are both jobless yet you get impregnated. If nairalanders help you to offset the hospital bill, how will you feed your new baby? I guess you will ask for financial assistance again to take care of the baby. It's high time people take responsibility for their actions and stop coming to nairaland to beg always.

edoman2016:

Your husband and you are both jobless yet you get impregnated. If nairalanders help you to offset the hospital bill, how will you feed your new baby? I guess you will ask for financial assistance again to take care of the baby. It's high time people take responsibility for their actions and stop coming to nairaland to beg always.

lynnfeb:
Thank you everyone . Someone who choose to be anonymous gave me the money to offset the bill and have some extra. God bless you my helper . May you never know shame. Once again thank you everyone.

lynnfeb:
Thank you everyone . Someone who choose to be anonymous gave me the money to offset the bill and have some extra. God bless you my helper . May you never know shame. Once again thank you everyone.

Deprofessional:

Q
For remembering to thank the person that helped you, even though the person is anonymous, I'm touched deeeply.

How do I send the little thing i have for the upkeep of the young baby.

My people have a proverb which say ' the day a great child is born, there is usually no pepper or money to buy pepper to cook for the mother'

Woman, you have just gave birth to a great child.

armyofone:
Linda,
Please make sure your husband is using condom or you go for birth control. Don't get pregnant again until you both are financially stable.
Taking care of yourself is highly important.
Having a child or children and no money is not a joke! So break that cycle!

lynnfeb:
Thank you for the advice. Highly noted and adhered to. Thanks







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eaglez:
Bro I don't know if you are married but some things come with the birth of some babies which you cannot handle,no one except some irresponsible beings will be expecting a bundle of joy without adequate preparation for it,it's really touching for I have seen a vibrant, young man expecting a child and at the third trimester everything just crumbled like a pack of card,if not for his church members who rally round financially with the encouragement of friends,only God would have known the fate of the woman let alone the baby.