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Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by SEONaijaExpert: 9:35am On Aug 01, 2018 |
No. 7 expecting immediate forgiveness is right |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by Nobody: 9:36am On Aug 01, 2018 |
24hoursreporter:You almost made sense Number fùck you up |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by sainthumble: 9:36am On Aug 01, 2018 |
Some people don't accept or tender apology.. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by malificent(f): 9:55am On Aug 01, 2018 |
I really needed to read this |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by showafrica(m): 10:00am On Aug 01, 2018 |
I don't offend people and I don't know why. I only suit myself and sometimes selfish so, to some it's offensive. I cannot trim myself to suit you anyways so, no apology. The worst I have done is bashing someone bumber which was not my fault still but I was compelled to apologize. I always ask myself, why should I offend someone and sleep in peace. |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by Mrmrpee(m): 10:11am On Aug 01, 2018 |
Hmmmm |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by Blogsphere: 10:25am On Aug 01, 2018 |
This piece was written by Komolafe Daniel OP give credit nah 1 Like |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by micariice(m): 10:28am On Aug 01, 2018 |
Fixing up the mess that you have cause have been an indirect apology and creating a face to face solution to the problem to a satisfactory stage has been a direct apology |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by Samiking(m): 10:32am On Aug 01, 2018 |
#1 Making Excuses Giving excuse does not mean you are denying taking responsibility of your action....some people will like you to explain reasons of your action cos something must have prompted you to commit. like for instance, you gave your partner 10missed calls and no picked then later the person picked to tell u that, "no excuse for no picking your calls, I'm sorry" just like that? |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by willexyaho(m): 10:39am On Aug 01, 2018 |
A round of an applause . |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by MissJoy29(f): 11:48am On Aug 01, 2018 |
Samiking:You are right. Because in this case, "I'm sorry" isn't enough. But the person apologising should go straight to the point & not wait to be asked before revealing why the calls weren't picked. Like, "I'm sorry dear I missed your calls. I was: in the bathroom/in the kitchen, on the road/Praying/in a meeting etc." Btw,why give someone 10 missed calls except it's really urgent or you want to make a statement? It's creepy and disturbing to me o. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by MissJoy29(f): 11:58am On Aug 01, 2018 |
This topic is very important. A lot of people don't know how to apologise nor how to own up to their mistakes & it causes a lot of fricrion in rekationships/marriage. It's as if the op reached into my mind and brought out the words there. Everything he/she said is right & I try to do it. I also can't count the number of people I have taught these things to. And thank God they picked up. Giving excuses, shifting blames, etc are one of the things I detest in a guy. The worst is being too proud to apologise. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by hkidola00(m): 12:09pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
cocoboss:ok but what about an apology from a girl u trusted dating and romancing her cousin behind ur back |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by omooba969(m): 12:18pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Cathtom: How? |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by CakeChow: 12:29pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
It's interesting, thanks |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by noob03saibot(m): 12:31pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:"or you want to make a statement?" Can you shed more light on this please. |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by omooba969(m): 12:48pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Jayuba: Call her bluff & tell her to go fvck herself. One less problem, without her... ![]() |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by cocoboss(m): 12:51pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
still aint gonna take more than am sorry, just that man would be on his knee this time and if she aint gonna forgive at the time, she needs tuh 4k off ![]() ![]() hkidola00: |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by MissJoy29(f): 12:53pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
noob03saibot:Like sometimes when you wrong someone & the person isn't picking your calls like before. But you really need to call & talk to bring things the way they were before the offence. You get? |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by MissJoy29(f): 1:00pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
omooba969:What happens to finding out from him why she's not "listening" to his apology. instead of this thing you are doing now. |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by NarnieSnyper(m): 1:36pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
This is one reason my girl dislikes about me; I admit, I'm a proud person and always look for an excuse to give. Not that I'm proud by nature but I don't want to be seen as a weakling. Although I'm working towards being a better man. I just have this thing about never apologising only if I am wrong. Lord help me |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by 24hoursreporter: 4:50pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Blogsphere: Guy, naijaloaded copied this article word to word. I have emailed them severally to stop posting my articles without referencing me, yet no response. It puzzles me how a website as big as naijaloaded will be using someone intellectual property without referencing the original owner |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by noob03saibot(m): 5:03pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:OK, thanks. Gotcha |
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Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by omooba969(m): 6:57pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29: Why should that be my concern? The main issue is that the guy messed up & is now apologizing but the chick ain't having it - WHY na? ![]() We ask God for forgiveness & He shows mercy and forgives. Tí abán jà, bí ká kú ko....kílódé! ![]() |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by omooba969(m): 7:00pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
24hoursreporter: This is Nigeria, everybody na Criminal. ![]() |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by omooba969(m): 7:06pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
NarnieSnyper: @bolded, That in itself is a weakness, you can ask anyone. The Lord is your strength. ![]() |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by MissJoy29(f): 7:36pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
noob03saibot:You are welcome. Another reason is when someone's owing you & you just feel like bombarding his/her phone with calls to pass across a message especially when they are dodging your calls. |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by MissJoy29(f): 7:48pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
omooba969:Well, never be too quick to judge a matter. If you notice, I used the word "listening" to his apology not "forgiving" his apology. I see them as two different things. A case where someone always misbehaves and apologises, at a point, you have to see if it's a patten. Cos if that's it, I will stop listening knowing that it doesn't matter if I forgive that one or not, he/she will do another one intentionally cos they are aware there's "forgiveness" at the end of their drama with "I'm sorry". I just gradually cut off from that person or take away that thing that's always making him misbehave constantly & cause hurt. You grab? Btw, I'm not Yoruba. |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by omooba969(m): 10:50pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29: Igbo or Hausa? |
Re: 7 Mistakes People Make When Apologizing by MissJoy29(f): 11:37pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
omooba969:Are those the only tribes in Nigeria? Btw, does it matter? What matters is that I didn't understand what you typed in Yoruba. |
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