I have been pondering lately about this generation, and going through some public view on self control when it comes to Sex.
I observed that most unmarried men are either actively involve in sexual intercourse directly or indirectly. And some unmarried men don't even believe or think it is possible to refrain from sex even for as little as a couple of days. In the mirage of my deep imaginations, the salient question, "Does self control exist?" erodes my thinking process.
Delving deeper to inquire from some person who are of the claim that they've refrain from SEX, you may find out that technically, some of them derive sexual gratification from other means such as masturbation, or technically handling some sensitive organs of their body to derive sexual pleasure.

Me I wan ask?

1. How Long Can Men Be Sexually Inactive?

2. Does Self Control exist??

3. Are there still people who refrain from sexual activity completely?





But would you even believe if I say,

1. Men could be sexually inactive for as long as he so desire depending on what he choose to do with his mind and the power he has over himself.

2. That Self control does exist.

3. That there are still people who still refrain from sexual activity.

Or would you rather challenge me if I say;

1. Men cannot be sexually inactive.

2. That "Self control" is only a word that doen't apply to refraining from Sex.

3. That men who have tasted the "forbidden fruit" cannot draw back, they need to continually "Water The Garden" to keep the axe, hoe and cutlass sharp at all times.


Where do you stand?

gabbynak:
I have been pondering lately about this generation, and going through some public view on self control when it comes to Sex.
I observed that most unmarried men are either actively involve in sexual intercourse directly or indirectly. And some unmarried men don't even believe or think it is possible to refrain from sex even for as little as a couple of days. In the mirage of my deep imaginations, the salient question, "Does self control exist?" erodes my thinking process.
Delving deeper to inquire from some person who are of the claim that they've refrain from SEX, you may find out that technically, some of them derive sexual gratification from other means such as masturbation, or technically handling some sensitive organs of their body to derive sexual pleasure.

Me I wan ask?

1. How Long Can Men Be Sexually Inactive?

2. Does Self Control exist??

3. Are there still people who refrain from sexual activity completely?





But would you even believe if I say,

1. Men could be sexually inactive for as long as he so desire depending on what he choose to do with his mind and the power he has over himself.

2. That Self control does exist.

3. That there are still people who still refrain from sexual activity.

Or would you rather challenge me if I say;

1. Men cannot be sexually inactive.

2. That "Self control" is only a word that doen't apply to refraining from Sex.

3. That men who have tasted the "forbidden fruit" cannot draw back, they need to continually "Water The Garden" to keep the axe, hoe and cutlass sharp at all times.


Where do you stand?

Well like you said, it is a thing of the mind. Self control does exist if and only if it exist in the mind of the individual, but the truth is everyone has a threshold that he/she should understand and never exceed. I think this also answers the two other questions.

MssIndependent:
Well like you said, it is a thing of the mind. Self control does exist if and only if it exist in the mind of the individual, but the truth is everyone has a threshold that he/she should understand and never exceed. I think this also answers the two other questions.

You sit on the fence here... Where is your balance here?

What is self control. I only know I need to kick and be happy. NwanyiAwkaetiti, MissRaine69, let's do party

Igbokiller:
What is self control. I only know I need to kick and be happy. NwanyiAwkaetiti, MissRaine69, let's do party

Dont dare mention me again

I've been celibate for more than 18 months now so it's possible for some men. it takes a lot of work and also missed opportunities cos there were times when we'd hv agreed to meet but something would just come up from her or me...

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Dont dare mention me again

NwanyiAwkaetiti.

Having sex is a human necessity like food and water. So the question is how long can you abstain from food and water and still be alive? that will provide you with the answer you are looking for. www.pussyrush.com

Igbokiller:
What is self control. I only know I need to kick and be happy. NwanyiAwkaetiti, MissRaine69, let's do party

So you kick to be happy. You don't say NO? Your policy is anytime, anywhere, whenever?

OneSentence:
I've been celibate for more than 18 months now so it's possible for some men. it takes a lot of work and also missed opportunities cos there were times when we'd hv agreed to meet but something would just come up from her or me...

I am a bit confused here, you decided to be celibate, yet agreed to meet? Or your Celibacy is due to lack of opportunity?

gabbynak:
I am a bit confused here, you decided to be celibate, yet agreed to meet? Or your Celibacy is due to lack of opportunity?

actually both. I decided to be. but then temptation would set in...it would be like my body was on fire then I'd make a call and...but somehow we just would never meet. either a period comes or I just change my mind or something comes up...
once I'm calm I'd be happy nothing happened but then it would be in circles until I finally overcame it...

OneSentence:

actually both. I decided to be. but then temptation would set in...it would be like my body was on fire then I'd make a call and...but somehow we just would never meet. either a period comes or I just change my mind or something comes up...
once I'm calm I'd be happy nothing happened but then it would be in circles until I finally overcame it...

But I guess you also understand your threshold because that's what would keep you. Don't indulge or do what would likely lead to sex.

been a virgin since I was born, so yes it exists

Maishuni:
Having sex is a human necessity like food and water. So the question is how long can you abstain from food and water and still be alive? that will provide you with the answer you are looking for. www.pussyrush.com

Who has cause of death as abstinence from sex on their death certificate?
Name 1 person
Ps take your time....I will wait

Igbokiller:
What is self control. I only know I need to kick and be happy. NwanyiAwkaetiti, MissRaine69, let's do party

There is something fundamentally wrong with you.

gabbynak:
But I guess you also understand your threshold because that's what would keep you. Don't indulge or do what would likely lead to sex.

yes I do. I recently did anyway. I knw the things that lead to sex or the feeling and I desperately avoid them now. even up to walking on the road...

gabbynak:
So you kick to be happy. You don't say NO? Your policy is anytime, anywhere, whenever?

anytime anywhere school librarian had her own share in those days

MissRaine69:

There is something fundamentally wrong with you.

yet I'm making it big time



Calm and sit on my lap. Don't be shy. NwanyiAwkaetiti can't replace you

Some virgins naturally abstain... Others watch porn and or masturbate... The active population really face challenges abstaining.

OneSentence:
I've been celibate for more than 18 months now so it's possible for some men. it takes a lot of work and also missed opportunities cos there were times when we'd hv agreed to meet but something would just come up from her or me...

Oga are you sure,but on a thread like that,you said and I quote,you pray to find a woman who can match your high sex drive as you can't do without sex due to your early exposure to sex by a housemaid. lol

peepydelano:
Oga are you sure,but on a thread like that,you said and I quote,you pray to find a woman who can match your high sex drive as you can't do without sex due to your early exposure to sex by a housemaid. lol

all I said there is true...I meant in marriage I won't b able to curb my high sex drive. I don't mean I can't do without sex now that I'm single. afterall for well over a year I've not had sex

OneSentence:

all I said there is true...I meant in marriage I won't b able to curb my high sex drive. I don't mean I can't do without sex now that I'm single. afterall for well over a year I've not had sex

OK sir,but no use all this wait to serve as punishment for your victim in your next knacks ooo

peepydelano:
OK sir,but no use all this wait to serve as punishment for your victim in your next knacks ooo

lol...bros I go inform am o so that she go know Wetin to expect...

jayauthentic:
Some virgins naturally abstain... Others watch porn and or masturbate... The active population really face challenges abstaining.

This is apt! But some virgins are no longer Virgin in the right sense. Some are technical virgins. Weve heard of some who will not engage in vagina penetration, but would do mouth action or anal or even hot sexual romance without penetration. So if a Lady or guy says she/he is a virgin, please probe further. You will be surprise at your findings.

peepydelano:
Oga are you sure,but on a thread like that,you said and I quote,you pray to find a woman who can match your high sex drive as you can't do without sex due to your early exposure to sex by a housemaid. lol

Come and see monitoring spiritssssssss

gabbynak:
Come and see monitoring spiritssssssss

hehe,d guy go break him celibacy wen an opportunity and tym permits him,u can see DAT from his writeups

peepydelano:
hehe,d guy go break him celibacy wen an opportunity and tym permits him,u can see DAT from his writeups

Lolssssss!

gabbynak:
This is apt! But some virgins are no longer Virgin in the right sense. Some are technical virgins. Weve heard of some who will not engage in vagina penetration, but would do mouth action or anal or even hot sexual romance without penetration. So if a Lady or guy says she/he is a virgin, please probe further. You will be surprise at your findings.

Jeez... Technical knockout �

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jayauthentic:


Jeez... Technical knockout �

For men it’s easy, for women it’s not easy oo

Even inasmuch as we try to hide it, once men shoot their arrows at the heightened hour of Hot period, we will bend to his desire.

Wilfredpat22:
For men it’s easy, for women it’s not easy oo

Even inasmuch as we try to hide it, once men shoot their arrows at the heightened hour of Hot period, we will bend to his desire.

But how do men get to know your Hot periods? You know some guys are curious here? What are the signs? Throw more light ooo