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My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 12:48pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Hello. Please a kind advice is all I need . Have being dating this lady since last year December 8months now. I met her at her sister's place that happens to be my mum's neighbour when she came for a visit. She just finish school and looking for a job. We were both looking for job for her even if it's far from her place (Ekiti) as I thought she should be productive to herself. Thought I was lucky when she called weeks ago to inform me that a friend called her about one vacancy here in Lagos. I was so happy because I can't do long distance relationship (experience) She came to my place this said Friday and stayed till Sunday. She left for that so called friend's place because we think it's not too safe to get to the interview venue late. She got the job and we thank God...... After two weeks of resumption, I saw this advice on nairaland that talk about 10 Questions To Ask Your Partner In Order To Build Trust "What do you find hard to talk about with me?" She said "nothing " I try talk to her to open up because I can't settle down with someone that will hide anything from me, then she said my ex got me this job. She has kept in contact with him. I ask her" we've being together for three days, you left my house for your ex house and passed the night there? You keep contact with him without telling me all this while? You guys have being seeing each other since you resumed (two weeks?) All she kept saying is am not cheating on you..... I really love her and I'm confused right now. Please I need advice on what to do because am just tired right now. 45 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:50pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz: She's hiding something. 213 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SenorFax(m): 12:57pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I still keep contact with my exes, even helped them whenever they need one, and I've never for once cheated on my babe. Who knows She might be saying the truth. Or she might be lying. Don't assume, have your facts in place, then conclude on what to do. Else you might end up punishing an innocent girl. 476 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 12:58pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Bidobado:like what will that be...?..... Hope mode will take this to front page...please 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by abokibuhari: 1:01pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
![]() ![]() I feel your pain bro, but everybody na somebody ex so how we go do am... 64 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 1:02pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SenorFax:helping them is cool.plus I don't understand what you saying . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 1:03pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
abokibuhari:am just too loyal to be this pain,it hurt bro,it does hurt me so dearly . |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SenorFax(m): 1:04pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz:Read again 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Auladimeji(m): 1:06pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz:Which stupid mode.I don't why so guy feels like god.If she's jobless, won't you call her leech. Now answer this question; If your ex girlfriend connects you to a job,will you tell her or decline the job. You don't have any right to control her. You are not her husband 394 Likes 24 Shares
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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by abokibuhari: 1:09pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz:It takes God grace not to blow or straff your ex again when you in talking terms... If you go check their chats, you go faint bro. I they use myself example and these are girls with serious relationship 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by VampireeM(f): 1:09pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
So she shouldnt be friends with her ex because you are who? Thats how she would have missed this job connection. you are just an insecure dude. Fiancée kor, if you serious marry her, get her a better job and dish rules as you like. You better grow up and act like a man and stop seeking validation from a faceless forum 238 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 1:10pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Auladimeji:..... Please read what I write again. Am not playing the defensive side.... Am not saying she should not reach out for help nor saying am demi god .what happen to communication to build trust, ex is ex so? 29 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 1:14pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
VampireeM:thanks maami agba... About being insecure you are entitle to your opinion. 60 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Auladimeji(m): 1:18pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz:Some of you thinks all ex are pervert .I communicate with my ex even though we are not dating again. Nairaland has corrupted your mind. She told you that she doesn't cheat on you, believe her 51 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 1:26pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Auladimeji:believe her.. This is our first fight .... What happen to communication to build trust? 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by NnamdiN: 1:38pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Lol you asked her and she answered truthfully, why are you vexing? Would you have preferred a lie? Next time only ask questions you can handle their answers otherwise don't ask at all... You read something on NL and fiam you clicked the apply button. Lwkmd Some of the BS you read here na oyibo write am and it applies to them mostly. You will murder your babe if you apply everything you read on NL I needed this post jare, been having a terrible week, thanks for the humor ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() BS means bulllshiit ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 225 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 1:46pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
NnamdiN:don't crack me up, Lol am vexing 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Bluezy13(m): 1:54pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
VampireeM: The point here is that the guy is not Comfortable with her hiding it. Let alone sleeping overnight (who wouldn't think again ![]() She should have told him. 142 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by izaray(f): 2:02pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Op were you expecting her to lie to you ![]() Just be careful on how you handle things sha! 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 2:05pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Bluezy13:funny how most people get this all wrong..... How do we build trust if there's no true communication..... To me, I don't think its healthy visiting your ex without telling me and passing night there (its two weeks ) 54 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 2:19pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz: Follow your gut feeling 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 2:20pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
When you are dating a girl, always ask questions to the core and frequently check her Whatsapp chats. You are nothing but coward if you can't tell your babe to see her chats online. The issue is why did she sleep at her ex house without telling the current guy she is dating? Op, she's not innocent at all. 150 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by VampireeM(f): 2:20pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Bluezy13: Yes the gal didnt tell him earlier, so what does he want us or the gal to do? The mistake has been made. If he ain't comfortable with it he knows what to do. People shouldn't go about seeking truths they can't digest 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Jennifer15(f): 2:46pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
She might be telling the truth...just be observing her...Let things flow as its has been flowing between you as usual. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Jennifer15(f): 2:47pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
She might be telling the truth...just be observing her...Let things flow as its has been flowing between you... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:01pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
mr ex still dey nack am, nigerians babes lose their senses when promise of marriage or job dey at stake. u don engage am ni ![]() 24 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by CAPSLOCKED: 3:02pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz: THERE YOU HAVE IT. YOU'VE BEEN PLAYED. SillyeRabbit: FOR THE SAKE OF LOVE THIS MAN WILL ONLY CRY FOR A FEW DAYS AND WAVE EVERYTHING ASIDE. HE'S GETTING NOTHING FROM HER.. NO HONESTY, NO APOLOGIES, NO LOYALTY. LOVE CAUSES THE BRAIN TO MALFUNCTION SOMETIMES. ![]() 70 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by chiommy123(f): 3:08pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
some women don't reason like guys. her ex can talk her into doing what she does want to do. if you can handle anything you see go ahead and check her phone if not please dont 11 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 3:10pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SillyeRabbit:... That's being insecure ....checking her phone and all that seriously. If she can hide this ? Then she can do something even more hurting next.I think! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:15pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Insecure? Alright then. When you are man enough or serious with your relationship, you won't neglect checking her phone at random times. oluwakekz: 12 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 3:19pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Jennifer15:flow as in.. Pretend all is well? |
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