Jeferious:
Make una dey there dey complain nonsense. You're what you attract. How do people even woo ladies online? Sh!t is too weird for me. If I never see you before in real-life and don't have the faintest idea of your character, leave am abeg. Afterall I never finish with people wey I dey see with my two eyes.

All these sick mentality you say Nigerian ladies portray....you guys are majorly the cause. All my life, my ladies do more of the calling, the texting etc. The ones wey genuinely broke dey receive my call, but na once in a while. Other than that the ladies do most of the work when we are in a relationship. My own duty is to reciprocate accordingly.

Of course they beg once in a while, but I hardly give them wetin dem dey find. And it still doesn't prevent them from offering the coochie when I need it. The truth is that if you're really good in other aspects, e.g Swag, sex, focused, handsome, witty, intelligent...you won't need much money to impress ladies. And you'd easily escape with certain excesses. No be woman again? Even prostitutes get guys wey dem dey give free t0t0 steadily.

Guys, be wise. No dey pay bride price of girl wey you no go marry. And if money is the only thing you think that you can use to attract a lady, then you're a poor person. Only money can save you from total wretchedness

fhorlar:
Lol..this is really serious sha..Girlsl learn to be independent...hardwork doesn't kill I promise you. all this nonsense has to stop.
I don't blame guys that think this way though,. Even guys can be a.s.sholes too

pansophist:
he is right,

One needs to live outside Nigeria to know what the op is talking about. Dating a Nigerian girl is basically training an adult child. Saddening

pocohantas:


Yes, I support it. I wouldn't know his definition of average, but I suppose he means 'SOME'. If that's the case, he is right. That's me being non-sentimental about the topic. It is a mindset installed from childhood, almost follow-come sef.

What do we expect when AVERAGE women here are not trained/encouraged to aspire for greatness. "Make money, don't make too much. Pursue a career, but drop it at the foot mat of your husband's house..."

We can't eat our cake and have it. Nigerian men, are blessed with the kinda woman they deserve . The one that calms you guys egos. The only time I see you all complain is when you wanna lash out at NIGERIAN women. Outside here, guys love to spend. It is a subtle way of exerting dominance to lots of them.

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

Barayeks:


I have so much respect for you for not allowing sentiments cloud your judgment plus you could tell that "the Average Nigerian woman" Is not the same as "all Nigerian women".

So many females came at me for that.

That's my post btw please follow @bara.tone

patricknz:
No offense ma'am, but i think u are DAFT. If u had read with even half of ur sense, u'd understand dat he never implied dat "All Nigerian girls" are.....he simply used d phrase "An average Nigerian girl"...does it make sense to u now? All these Olodo girls sha�

pocohantas:


So na you type that thing?

DKM123:
Yes o!

Nigerian men are PERFECT. The BEST any woman from America, Japan and Jupiter can have for a husband!

Nigerian women are #$&@likemoney!@#%moneyfck%& !


Did I say, Nigerian men are PERFECT? Oh yes! Okay.

P.S: Nigerian men don't like money.


Smh! Nigerian men. You people are a sick bunch of bullies and I actually have genuine PITY for our women. You men are poison to this poor women and I wish they never have to be with men that feel this way towards them.

So what if they ask for money? It is the way society has raised them to believe the MAN is the provider, the master and the leader and the only way they assert that leadership is to be PROVIDERS. After all, they are told their duty as women is the caring for the family and raising the kids while the men is to PROVIDE MONEY!
You men crying foul here are also of this opinion. So why are you bitter. Choose a struggle.

When you start RESPECTING women the way you all DEMAND respect and tell them they can be Presidents, major CEOs and not shove them aside when they come out for top positions (just because they are women) or tell them to only aspire to marriage and childbirth and serving their husbands and cleaning the house and all this other bullsheet..... Maybe then, they will realise that they are just as intelligent as any man and can think towards being a WO(MAN) of themselves and not less likely to succeed financially than the man.

That time is coming though because our women are very hardworking and very brilliant, yet homely and decent as compared to ANY OTHER WOMEN IN OTHER CLIMES. Who know know!

kimbraa:
So it's only the average Nigerian girl that can't hold a meaning conversation? I've had an encounter with lot of Nigerian guys that can't say something meaningful other than sex. Even some of those screaming "He's right" are guilty of this. SMH.

Amberon11:
So it's safe to say the average Nigerian man is a scammer/ fraudster?

pocohantas:


LOL, he made some points though.

I like this- "The average Nigerian woman sees spending her money on dates as a Taboo, but is quick to talk trash about having "vex money", lol nobody cares about your vex money, come with actual spending money�".

Chai! We are in pains.

delugajackson:
Truer words have never been spoken. Most of them are liabilities, only useful to themselves. The very moment you kick-start a conversation with a Nigerian lady, you become automatically indebted to her financially. Which is why I don't blame men who go extra mile to date a white lady.

Studies have shown that dating a foreign lady reduces the stress level to about 70 percent, which is a far cry from what is obtained from the nagging, egocentric attitude of Nigerian ladies. Insist on geniune products, insist on foreign ladies, think about the future.

kimbraa:
So it's only the average Nigerian girl that can't hold a meaning conversation? I've had an encounter with lot of Nigerian guys that can't say something meaningful other than sex. Even some of those screaming "He's right" are guilty of this. SMH.

kandi006:
Another depressed uncle that thinks he has an opinion about Nigerian ladies and wants to trend for 5mins

Attention seeker.

Okay, we've noticed you

Promismike:


Sense go kill u

Completely true. You really dated many of them.

Immediately you say hi to them. The next you get is send me card. My phone is bad. My rent is due, etc Nigeria leeches. Not ladies.

pansophist:


Lol, you want make konji kill you ni,?

I contend that marriageable girls are declining in a speed of light, but the advantages it poses is that men are living in the best time to fully express our sexuality unrestricted.

My advice will be for Nigerian men to improve their sócio economical status and see them as nothing more than your sexual gratification. Go lift weight and build muscles, fake richness ( if you ain’t truly), and show your status via instagram etc. girls are usually fickle and will fall for such, and enjoy unlimited fucking

Adapt or die lol

Slayar:



He is saying the truth.When up to 80% of something is true ,you're allowed to generalise.

ahmedbanj:

Okay, now tell me how many Nigerian men dat has scammed U?