ahmedbanj:

Okay, now tell me how many Nigerian men dat has scammed U?

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

This is a nice opinion.

Amberon11:
Oh shut up. Misorgynist meninist. You don't want feminism but you still complain when giving women money. That shows you're even more daft than the op.

Olodo is that your best? Insults? Shows d kid you are. Go baff!

Explorers:

My gas has finished, no food stuffs and nothing to cook.

MY MOTHER IS SICK, HELP ME.

DKM123:
Yes o!

Nigerian men are PERFECT. The BEST any woman from America, Japan and Jupiter can have for a husband!

Nigerian women are #$&@likemoney!@#%moneyfck%& !


Did I say, Nigerian men are PERFECT? Oh yes! Okay.

P.S: Nigerian men don't like money.


Smh! Nigerian men. You people are a sick bunch of bullies and I actually have genuine PITY for our women. You men are poison to this poor women and I wish they never have to be with men that feel this way towards them.

So what if they ask for money? It is the way society has raised them to believe the MAN is the provider, the master and the leader and the only way they assert that leadership is to be PROVIDERS. After all, they are told their duty as women is the caring for the family and raising the kids while the men is to PROVIDE MONEY!
You men crying foul here are also of this opinion. So why are you bitter. Choose a struggle.

When you start RESPECTING women the way you all DEMAND respect and tell them they can be Presidents, major CEOs and not shove them aside when they come out for top positions (just because they are women) or tell them to only aspire to marriage and childbirth and serving their husbands and cleaning the house and all this other bullsheet..... Maybe then, they will realise that they are just as intelligent as any man and can think towards being a WO(MAN) of themselves and not less likely to succeed financially than the man.

That time is coming though because our women are very hardworking and very brilliant, yet homely and decent as compared to ANY OTHER WOMEN IN OTHER CLIMES. Who know know!

You are deviating from the subject here, the issue revolves around the idea of entitlement that most young Nigerian ladies bring into modern relationship.

I find most young Nigerian women even those well educated are poor in conversation and have little knowledge of politics, Science or social issue outside of social media and gossip, the few that do are virulent feminists who attack men on sight for no justifiable reasons.

Lalas247:
Poverty is truly a bastard ......

They keep attracting AVERAGE LADIES then complain !imagine one complaining he bought recharge card .. Hian it’s peak out here
Some guys spend money you won’t even hear a peep from them ....... they want to ...it gives them happiness ( these ones are not broke n have beard don’t fuking quote me o )
Anyway he may be right .... some of us are above Average so it doesn’t concern us ... nonsense

Sips tea

Poverty is really bad nne.
There was this thread where guys were complaining of this same thing. I was just seeing nonsense amount..."N1000, 3000, subscription, take away". Na laziness/greed dey bring this kind insult. I don't blame them, I blame the girls that gave them morale to talk.

Even the ones that have never given a woman a dime, would come online and run mouth. Simply because it is a usual occurrence.

pocohantas:


Don't be stupid, or rather, don't show that you are stupid.
Looking for husband indeed

May I ask pocohantas, are you married. I've been made understand you are rather delicatable to the eyes and you seem to have sharp wit

As you no de give am money she go turn u to boy boy for house

Look at this mad man. Pls go meet your fellow mad people at yabaleft. I don't converse with mad goats. I'm not reading or replying your post anymore.

bejeria101:


Olodo is that your best? Insults? Shows d kid you are. Go baff!

ideology:


Sugar Daddy's spoilt our ladies

Moral of the story. The number of sugar boys available and willing is the new issue.

pocohantas:


Poverty is really bad nne.
There was this thread where guys were complaining of this same thing. I was just seeing nonsense amount..."N1000, 3000, subscription, take away". Na laziness/greed dey bring this kind insult. I don't blame them, I blame the girls that gave them morale to talk.

Even the ones that have never given a woman a dime, would come online and run mouth. Simply because it is a usual occurrence.

@ bolded Jesu

Instead of them to pray for good job that Will cover all expenses they blame women...... but yet they enjoy all the benefit while with one ....
Honestly it’s just poverty and laziness
Back in the day men are proud to spend infact the more they spend the more manly they felt ...... now we have lazy youths roaming streets ....

pocohantas:


LOL, he made some points though.

I like this- "The average Nigerian woman sees spending her money on dates as a Taboo, but is quick to talk trash about having "vex money", lol nobody cares about your vex money, come with actual spending money�".

Chai! We are in pains.

But that's the sad truth, our sisters need to upgrade, nah same work the oyibo and the non Nigerians and them dey do, some Sisters even earn more than the forign women sef.Some of them go show for date with no hand bag, no money no card to pay for even water.And dem claim say dem dey look for love.We need to upgrade, go on dates with your own money if not for anything offer to go dutch!

sweetgala:



You are deviating from the subject here, the issue revolves around the idea of entitlement that most young Nigerian ladies bring into modern relationship.

I find most young Nigerian women even those well.educated are poor in conversation and have little knowledge of politics. Science or social issue outside of social media and gossip, the few that do are virulent feminists who attack men on sight for no justifiable reasons.

And who are you to determine what conversation is deemed intelligent? So, I have little knowledge of politics, what na happen?

You guys love to make the rules as you go.

delugajackson:
Truer words have never been spoken. Most of them are liabilities, only useful to themselves. The very moment you kick-start a conversation with a Nigerian lady, you become automatically indebted to her financially. Which is why I don't blame men who go extra mile to date a white lady.

Studies have shown that dating a foreign lady reduces the stress level to about 70 percent, which is a far cry from what is obtained from the nagging, egocentric attitude of Nigerian ladies. Insist on geniune products, insist on foreign ladies, think about the future.

#TeamWhiteLadies. My love for white women has increased. I can't marry a black lady. The responsible ladies we have are our mothers.

Lalas247:

@ bolded Jesu

Instead of them to pray for good job that Will cover all expenses they blame women...... but yet they enjoy all the benefit while with one ....
Honestly it’s just poverty and laziness
Back in the day men are proud to spend infact the more they spend the more manly they felt ...... now we have lazy youths roaming streets ....

Nah lie, I disagree with you on this one, infarct, I nor come East London again. I dey protest.
This is the west where we all have equal opportunity, there is nothing like man must pay the bills, we all know how this society work, The average Eu women had realized that going on a date and offering their own money is a quick way to the heart of African men and they are using this to steal the brothers from the sister and I dare say it is working go see big sist dress to kill, order the max dish in the restaurant, order cocktail, and dem nor get even £5 on them ie they go without hand bag. This is the sense of entitlement.

Just like his mother is all these characteristics yh!

jbtobsyn:

#TeamWhiteLadies. My love for white women has increased. I can't marry a black lady. The responsible ladies we have are our mothers.

when you get there you will know the truth, trust me on this one.

God bless this man

Honestly this is so true.The most interesting ladies I have dated are Congolese (yes Congo ) they are quite the romantic and freaks on the bed, Ivorians very sophisticated and smart , oh and the Gabonese they are one of the most beautiful women i have ever seen and they stare you deep in the eyes during conversations- WARNING! they will touch you, kiss you anywhere even in front your Mama . I love Ghanaians too perfect body and love the accent.They are very kind as well. The best Nigerians girls I have dated are ones that have travelled and experienced life outside the borders of Nigeria and the shores of Africa .

BTW I experienced this different touch of Africa in school (not Nigeria)so these are educated, rich and smart ladies. Don't try it with bushmos. The result might be the opposite

TRUTH is bitter.
They should bury their faces in shame.
I married a lady based ABROAD, and her mentality is entirely different.
most NIGERIAN LADIES are RUMINANTS, that’s why they are always hungry.
They possess 4 stomachs that rarely get filled.

Nice write up man. .FACTS!!

WhoBeThisMan:
Nigerian men don't beat their woman. Let's call a spade a spade.

The ones that beat their woman is not up to 2%. If you doubt that, look at your family, count 30 people who are married, how many of them beat their wife's? I can guarantee you probably will count only 1. But because bad news travels fast, we get to hear the beating more than the happy ones.

Nigerian guys have gotten so used to the sense of entitlement of Nigerian Girls that when they go abroad and just do half of what they would normally do for a Nigerian girl, they are so adored and cherished..

Thats why you see an average Ghanian lady will do anything to go out with a Nigerian man

WORD naija guys are fertilizing across the board.. equal opportunity dating

pocohantas:


Poverty is really bad nne.
There was this thread where guys were complaining of this same thing. I was just seeing nonsense amount..."N1000, 3000, subscription, take away". Na laziness/greed dey bring this kind insult. I don't blame them, I blame the girls that gave them morale to talk.

Even the ones that have never given a woman a dime, would come online and run mouth. Simply because it is a usual occurrence.

But nah true, make our sisters sef upgrade to save face from this kind embarrassment, its heart braking, I have seen white guy mock 9ja babes cos of this, they claim the girl was eating as if she has not eaten for a whole year, she was ordering and ordering, this was 10pm, who eats then? and to top it up, she ordered take away

Ugosample:
this thing pain a lot of ladies here o

That's because the truth hurts. It cut through them like a hot knife through butter. Lol

Rainmania:
Honestly this is so true.The most interesting ladies I have dated are Congolese (yes Congo ) they are quite the romantic and freaks on the bed, Ivorians very sophisticated and smart , oh and the Gabonese they are one of the most beautiful women i have ever seen and they stare you deep in the eyes during conversations- WARNING! they will touch you, kiss you anywhere even in front your Mama . I love Ghanaians too perfect body and love the accent.They are very kind as well. The best Nigerians girls I have dated are ones that have travelled and experienced life outside the borders of Nigeria and the shores of Africa .

BTW I experienced this different touch of Africa in school (not Nigeria)so these are educated, rich and smart ladies. Don't try it with bushmos. The result might be the opposite

You are ABSOLUTELY correct.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES based abroad have a different ideology.
NIGERIA is truly a wretched nation.
The ladies in Nigeria see poverty as their rate limiting step.

Every woman likes money but man "Black" women feel it's their right. I mean a white woman may see your finances as a complement to her but a "black" woman sees it as her right. It's not just Nigeria. I have been to some African countries and I can tell you its not just Nigeria. It's a black man's problem. One reason I do say the concept of feminism needs a proper review in Africa. You can't see my giving as your right and would advocate equal rights with me. I should see your giving as rights being a man if you want equal rights. And the "black man or woman" is only a reflection of the black economy.

erico2k2:

Nah lie, I disagree with you on this one, infarct, I nor come East London again. I dey protest.
This is the west where we all have equal opportunity, there is nothing like man must pay the bills, we all know how this society work, The average Eu women had realized that going on a date and offering their own money is a quick way to the heart of African men and they are using this to steal the brothers from the sister and I dare say it is working go see big sist dress to kill, order the max dish in the restaurant, order cocktail, and dem nor get even £5 on them ie they go without hand bag. This is the sense of entitlement.

It happens here ....
Don’t get me wrong ... a lady should have something doing !
Like now when you go cinema .. do you expect the lady to pay ? Even if she will offer as most western chics do ... won’t you tell her no put your money away ... she see it as an insult seff ...
I know a lot of females here who work and have the he must earn mire than me mentality .... and no one flinches ...


As for the white ladies steal which brothers? Please have you seen the rate of mixed raced kids in a single mother home ? Most of the baby daddies are Nigerians / Jamaicans .....
They leave them or remain and cheat as it’s very easy to get away with it cause the whites take a lot of bs that we black ladies won’t take...

CAPSLOCKED:

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I want to make my hair

erico2k2:

But nah true, make our sisters sef upgrade to save face from this kind embarrassment, its heart braking, I have seen white guy mock 9ja babes cos of this, they claim the girl was eating as if she has not eating for a whole year, seh as ordering and ordering, this was 10pm, who eats then? and to top it up, she ordered take away

Naija guys deserve Naija babes.
Lots of guys here don't work on their attitudes because they feel with money one woman must manage them. Poverty and laziness is really dealing with women here, so they are right.

Naija guy dating foreign lady, can he dare beat her for frying 4eggs , tell her men are polygamous in nature, pack all his family to the house and expect her to pound akpu or cheat, divorce her and wanna keep everything to himself?

This our arrangement, albeit bad, is working for both parties o. As more Nigerian women get financially empowered, men will get away with less nonsense. We can already see the rising divorce rate.

Lalas247:


Kmt
Guys that will still marry Nigerian women ....
Had one guy o .... when I visited during school days ... from kings college .... this boy will be doing team foreign girl ..
I was browsing Instagram saw he is married come n see his wife (Just being honest ) she looked like a dreg I was like wawu ..... niqqa was punching above his weight

But where is he now married to Average ... so they should stop giving themselves headache ...... as for conversation I don’t blame ladies who don’t chat much what’s the point most of these youths will use that same convo to black mail .... then another will say ladies talk too much
Confused bunch I tell ya ....

Average Nigerian guy is BROKE! DUMB,! LACKS SELF CONTROL! STRUGGLING ! CANT EVEN Bleep WELL ! STILL LIBING AT HOME AT AGE 25 AND UP SHAME ! Scammer ! FUVKBOY OR YAHOO BOY oya go and kill yourselves ...

Abeg come and correct yourself.

I am an engineer, I take home very good money, not struggling by any means, I have a house close to work but still stay at my parents otherwise (so I still live at home ) and I've never been involved in fraud. And I'm the life of the party when around.

dingbang:
Like seriously, 99 percent of Nigerian girls can't hold a conversation via text.

99% percent? How did you come about with such conclusion?