dingbang:
Like seriously, 99 percent of Nigerian girls can't hold a conversation via text.

99% percent? How did you come about such conclusion?

Some girls are just rubbish



Ah swear!



Sone can't do without receiving phone calls to come and meet ds or dat



Sleep with their ogas


Anything like a tail under trousers



I be like " shey won fi shey e Ni"


Oh boi.....Naija gals fit make u commit suicide with ok, lol..... Later dearie

sweetgala:


Abeg come and correct yourself.

I am an engineer, I take home very good money, not struggling by any means, I have a house close to work but still stay at my parents otherwise (so I still live at home ) and I've never been involved in fraud. And I'm the life of the party when around.

You part of the 1%

Next .....

I love data analysis. While going through page 1-7, most comment (>95%)from the ladies are tilted to what the OP stated.My guess is that those ladies that Dont comment are guilty of this.Mind you, I'm not here criticizing Nigerian females,but just to make their brain to be rewirred to the point that they Dont need men to survive.
Furthermore, most (95%) of our females ain't ambitious. I guess that dependent/Marriage cripples their levitation towards their dreams......
Walks out of this thread..

Ejiod:
Seriously, most Nigerian ladies need to think deep on this. For an example, a lady I met just once, the next thing is my gift,send me recharge card,my subscription finished,my phone got damaged, ohhh, my laptop is damaged,pls help me with 10k ,or i need this and that ........I'm like I'm I your second dad?..Seriously most female mind here in Nigeria has been fixed on money.
In fact its general in most tribe,I can't say for Hausa but with what I've seen with ladies here in southern region,85% of them have this bad mentality that Man must give them to survive

Sadly, the aforesaid is a product of FAILED PARENTING and damaged SOCIETAL VALUE SYSTEM!

Barayeks:
Lol, my post finally made front page but it had to be through Instagram.

Mods check yourselves, most of the things I post there, I post here first but since I'm not one of your favourites it gets passed for very dumb posts. And those make the front page.

Congrats.

Sorry about the Nigerian girls you date, some of us don't ask for anything but respect and understanding, but those two things are barely found in the average Nigerian man..... Especially respect.

It is because of this thag we can't even get Nigerian men to be interested in us, because we don't want to go to some guy's house on a first date, or involve in discussions detailing what we are wearing, they say we are prude and they tag us feminists


Is it so hard to respect a person? I get that Nigerian women have belittled themselves in the eyes of most men, but is it so wrong to start on a clean slate with a new perso, rather than carry old, dirty habits? And why do Nigerian men feel entitled to sex in a relationship?


Sometimes, I equally feel like I'm missing out on something having nor dated foreign guys, because Nigerian men on a large scale have proven to be misogynistic and disrespectful and I have seen similar complaints from foreign women concerning Nigerian men.


Do you have an opinion on this as well?

pocohantas:


And who are you to determine what conversation is deemed intelligent? So, I have little knowledge of politics, what na happen?

You guys love to make the rules as you go.

Anyone who has no knowledge of the political/social issues of his/her environment is living a dangerous lifestyle.
I'd expect you to have something to discuss aside celebrity gossip, It can even be something naughty but I expect you to engage me challenge me

Oooooshey, baddest comeback i ve ever tripped for and itz all true about this Nigerian girls..... Materialistic dunces

Explorers:


My gas has finished, no food stuffs and nothing to cook.

So common. Nigerians girls really have problems

jbtobsyn:

#TeamWhiteLadies. My love for white women has increased. I can't marry a black lady. The responsible ladies we have are our mothers.

In all my 20years living in Europe from my mid teens till adulthood I've never dated or even had any sexual activity with a white woman. There is just no attraction there. Zero nill nada. I like my women black. The darker the better you got natural hair you can just kill me and carry me away

Even though this topic is discussing needy Nigerian girls of which I have entertained my fair share. I must say I still love my African Queens and there are many brilliant ones out there.

let me give you guys some wisdom the way is supposed to be done is this, as a man you are supposed to have your own business now if you like a woman what you do is either pay her bride price and make her work for you or if you dont wanna pay her bride price because she's been deflowered then she still gat to work for your business, this is how it was done in the ancient days, this is why Ruth made sure she worked for Boaz before even thinking of sleeping with him, even shlomo had many wives not because of sex but because they worked for him, we must remember that he was the richest man then and now, but if you choose to have pleasure with a woman without being married to her then she has every right to ask for money, that's your fault, you should have married her instead of wanting to have sex with her for nothing, she's not your wife if she's not married to you or if you dont have anything for her to do, those concubines shlomo had were women who worked for shlomo and also worked for shlomo's wife they didn't have sex with shlomo, they were concubines simply because they worked for only him, now if shlomo chooses to have sex with them, aint nothihng wrong withn that because they are still his property, now let me deviate a liitle now if a man chooses to make his wife a queen then she wouldn't have to do anything, other women and men would work for him while she sits on her ass or on her throne like Vashti and have just have babies for her king while her maids take care of the children and cook for her husband but if you are struggling or dont even have a business of your own and decide to marry while she just spews her baby then i'm sorry to say that you've become the wife or the pussy in the relationship, it was never intended for a woman to sit on her ass while her husband works, Eve was given to adam to assist him in the garden(business) not just make babies...i could write many letters on marriage but i just thought i gave wisdom to those who were not taught the relationship between a man and a woman...just a side note dowries were paid by men in those days because the woman officiually becomes the property and "money" of her husband , in other words the man paid the father off so his wife could make money for him not just sit on her ass and spew babies but today you men just pay dowries for nothing, yall pay dowries just for pleasure, well you can get pleasure from a hoe instead of wasting your money on dowries, why even pay dowries for a left-over....

Lalas247:

@ bolded Jesu

Instead of them to pray for good job that Will cover all expenses they blame women...... but yet they enjoy all the benefit while with one ....
Honestly it’s just poverty and laziness
Back in the day men are proud to spend infact the more they spend the more manly they felt ...... now we have lazy youths roaming streets ....

You are one of those op is talking about. I pity you....

sweetgala:


The problem is one day that oyinbo would seek divorce and take everything you have ever worked for, but I've seen this is becoming increasingly popular with Nigerian women

even if a Nigerian woman seeks divorce, she cannot connect shishi from anybody

Nigerian divorce laws are highly unfavorable to women. Child support is even as low as #3,000 per month for a child. Any Nigerian woman getting divorced, unless she has some other means of livelihood, is at a disadvantage. So, if they take such an extreme move, you know they are done, not because of what they can get from a man.

But oyibo women, when they want to suck you dry, they leave you truly dry, no mercy

Rainmania:
Honestly this is so true.The most interesting ladies I have dated are Congolese (yes Congo ) they are quite the romantic and freaks on the bed, Ivorians very sophisticated and smart , oh and the Gabonese they are one of the most beautiful women i have ever seen and they stare you deep in the eyes during conversations- WARNING! they will touch you, kiss you anywhere even in front your Mama . I love Ghanaians too perfect body and love the accent.They are very kind as well. The best Nigerians girls I have dated are ones that have travelled and experienced life outside the borders of Nigeria and the shores of Africa .

BTW I experienced this different touch of Africa in school (not Nigeria)so these are educated, rich and smart ladies. Don't try it with bushmos. The result might be the opposite

I concur, I find Zimbabwe women to be rather interesting too. The secret is always to socialise in the high class but that itself has it's issues.

tiredoflife:


Wait I dey come first

So na we men make things hard for women
We fence their account abi we block them to go do I beg to apply
Or we fence go slow make u no sell pure water

Na we make dem no fit hustle

Menh so we men are having it better
We live well
U see say na people like u dey make dis man dey talk about women
Becos wound dey under una their leg u feel the world owes dem money and favours

Dont mind them. They thought we owe them cos of that smelling hole that if it doesn't bring out water, it will bring dirty blood

EVILFOREST:

You are ABSOLUTELY correct.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES based abroad have a different ideology.
NIGERIA is truly a wretched nation.
The ladies in Nigeria see poverty as their rate limiting step.

Guy I grew up here and I can tell you the girls that you are praising now are the ones that are left overs who are now desperate for husband after many years of doing nonsense. The surest place for babes from "the abroad" to get husband is in naija.

Abeg which naija guy no want foreign babe with citizenship and a decent job. It's the new common thing, babe goes to naija finds a guy they get engaged in 6 months married shortly after, and he doesn't know her past

I didn't read, but with the title, he is 100% correct. I pity those men more.

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

It's quite good you exonerate yourself but the fact is, not an average Nigerian girls but most Nigerian girls. You can't deny the obvious even if you've not witnessed several times at least, you've heard. The one that breaks my heart most is "I can never buy phone for myself". Such parasitic mentality.

BTW, I've not dated any of such but I've witnessed a lot from a lil convo with em. Disgusting.

Amberon11:
Oga, a scammer is a scammer. It doesn't matter who he is scamming.

Which means a Nigerian man has neva scammed U, U juz do hear abt it, right?
but d case is different wit gals wit me, I've been wit gals dat tinks because we are in a relationship,even some casual relationships! dat wld bliv I hav 2 carry their financial burdens all because say I juz ask her out,even without accepting my advances fully!
and next tin U hear d idiots sayin.. ' I'm using it 2 test U nd U failed' thunder fire those kinda ladies dat do spew dose kinda trash! awon were! I juz pity guys wey be woman wrapper dat has no OT dealin wit most of dis ladies.

safarigirl:
Congrats.

Sorry about the Nigerian girls you date, some of us don't ask for anything but respect and understanding, but those two things are barely found in the average Nigerian man..... Especially respect.

It is because of this thag we can't even get Nigerian men to be interested in us, because we don't want to go to some guy's house on a first date, or involve in discussions detailing what we are wearing, they say we are prude and they tag us feminists.


Is it so hard to respect a person? I get that Nigerian women have belittled themselves in the eyes of most men, but is it so wrong to start on a clean slate with a new perso, rather than carry old, dirty habits? And why do Nigerian men feel entitled to sex in a relationship?


Sometimes, I equally feel like I'm missing out on something having nor dated foreign guys, because Nigerian men on a large scale have proven to be misogynistic and disrespectful and I have seen similar complaints from foreign women concerning Nigerian men.


Do you have an opinion on this as well?

Typical!

safarigirl:
even if a Nigerian woman seeks divorce, she cannot connect shishi from anybody

Nigerian divorce laws are highly unfavorable to women. Child support is even as low as #3,000 per month for a child. Any Nigerian woman getting divorced, unless she has some other means of livelihood, is at a disadvantage. So, if they take such an extreme move, you know they are done, not because of what they can get from a man.

But oyibo women, when they want to suck you dry, they leave you truly dry, no mercy

I'm talking of Nigerian women where I live and grew up. I've spent less than 60 days in Nigeria in the last 16 years. But between the states , UK, Ireland and Canada Nigerian ladies are getting brave. I've heard too many stories of men kicked out their homes and a sugar boy moved in

Though not all women.
But I can tell you, that's the mindset of an average Nigerian lady.
Meet a lady in a club, she automatically expect her drunk to be on you, I was in a cab one day, the guy word a girl, collected her number and alighted, the lady said, oh he want to date but can't pay for ordinary transport, I was WTF do you know how much is on him?

Amberon11:
So it's safe to say the average Nigerian man is a scammer/ fraudster?

smh

quiet there!!

The average Nigerian woman or girl fits the description. Zero value. If it's not money for hair, it's recharge card, if it's not recharge card it's data subscription , if it's not that one its please help with part payment of school fees, if it's not that one it's I'm struggling I need help things are so hard and the freeking list is endless.

Even the so called working ladies are not exempted. Out of all the knuckle headed naija babe's I've dated I can say only one (1) didn't fall into this class of foolishness and guess what? She wasn't born and raised in Nigeria.

So what are you on about Mr man or woman. keep shut



quote author=Amberon11 post=69970423]I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you![/quote]

Lalas247:

@ bolded Jesu

Instead of them to pray for good job that Will cover all expenses they blame women...... but yet they enjoy all the benefit while with one ....
Honestly it’s just poverty and laziness
Back in the day men are proud to spend infact the more they spend the more manly they felt ...... now we have lazy youths roaming streets ....

Lol, after milking them and you turned around to call them lazy youths? That's crazy!!

sweetgala:


Anyone who has no knowledge of the political/social issues of his/her environment is living a dangerous lifestyle.
I'd expect you to have something to discuss aside celebrity gossip, It can even be something naughty but I expect you to engage me challenge me

Gbam!!

Lalas247:

@ bolded Jesu

Instead of them to pray for good job that Will cover all expenses they blame women...... but yet they enjoy all the benefit while with one ....
Honestly it’s just poverty and laziness
Back in the day men are proud to spend infact the more they spend the more manly they felt ...... now we have lazy youths roaming streets ....

Very true! but thesedays Feminists No gree say we be man. so...

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

Be my girlfriend now

kimbraa:
So it's only the average Nigerian girl that can't hold a meaning conversation? I've had an encounter with lot of Nigerian guys that can't say something meaningful other than sex. Even some of those screaming "He's right" are guilty of this. SMH.

80percent of naija ladies are pay as you go.you dig?thats why they ask for sex since you ask for money.

Nairaland enjoys pushing "women-bashing" topics to the front page cos of traffic. I understand but this isn't the original post, the original post referred to Nigerian men too. Why not post both versions op?

iLegendd:
I didn't read, but with the title, he is 100% correct. I pity those men more.

That's right. These girls are nothing to write home about. One was chasing my white boss and when he turned her down, she focused her attention on me, I had to enjoy her till I got tired.