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Always Have Backup IF You Are Dating A Nigerian Girl / 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola / Ladies Should Have Backup Boyfriends - Joro Olumofin Reveals Why (2) (3) (4)
. by BRMN: 6:20am On Aug 07, 2018 |
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Re: . by Babatundebaabs(m): 6:32am On Aug 07, 2018 |
And you can be pregnant and also dont kno the real owner whc is d main and the worst of it. And this can make innocent child suffer. Cos I was dating a girl then and I knew she was seeing another guy and the other knew she was dating me. Later she said she was pregnant and I denied it. I dont care if shes mine or not. She had the baby, atimes looking at the innocent baby brings many questions .... is this beautiful baby mine? So sooner or later AMA go for DNA. But it's a life time pain to me. And I wont forgiv her even thou we live togeda |
Re: . by BRMN: 6:38am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Pls read and drop ur views |
Re: . by BRMN: 6:41am On Aug 07, 2018 |
And the guy will be enjoying himself while the lady will be suffering it when it happens, ladies always suffer more in issues like this |
Re: . by BRMN: 6:48am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Not only pregnancy, many things involved, all join 1 Like |
Re: . by BRMN: 7:04am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Babatundebaabs: A lot of innocent children have been brought into the world thru this way. Some women don't even know the real fathers of those children. And we're worried about this country's problems how it came about, what about the home front? Is it ok? |
Re: . by BRMN: 7:13am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Moderators pls kindly move this thread to the front page |
Re: . by BRMN: 7:23am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I guess this one is not controversial, so no comments yet abi |
Re: . by BRMN: 7:33am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Suoo |
Re: . by TheOdd1sOut: 8:20am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I'm coming back to comment. Lemme read the text first |
Re: . by BRMN: 9:22am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Babatundebaabs: Hmm such a pity really, so as u were dating her she was still seeing another guy, waoo, she was unfaithful to u. I think u should go for the DNA test to know if the baby is truly yours. That's one of the implications of having many partners, unwanted pregnancies is common, no doubt. But I pity the innocent baby who now becomes the innocent victim of everything. |
Re: . by Akinbahm(m): 9:34am On Aug 07, 2018 |
[quote author=BRMN post=70051572]My people, this is a serious matter oo, and i want all of u to be part of it & contribute. Has Nigeria become so bad dat a self acclaimed relationship counsellor would now resort to advising women to double date in order to find a husband? Have men become so scarce in Nigeria that the only way women can get married is now to have back up boyfriends? I read a thread where many Nairalandlers were commenting about a certain guy called Joro who claimed to be a relationship counsellor where he advised women to double date & have spare boyfriends. And I noticed that many people were condemning him & craving for a genuine relationship counsellor instead of what the so called Joro had to offer. Well I just searched the net & found this article by Nigerian activist & Relationship Counselor Tayo Demola, which I hope will interest many of u & so I decided to share it here as always. Should ladies truly have backup boyfriends?? Lol!! Pls read & share ur views, let's discuss the issues. Drop ur comments. TEN COGENT REASONS WHY HAVING A BACKUP BOYFRIEND IS DANGEROUS FOR WOMEN -BY TAYO DEMOLA over to the backup boyfriend. ... |
Re: . by BRMN: 10:08am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Really cogent reasons indeed |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:16am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Wether joro endorsed having multiple partners or not..the fact is most ppl in relationships in naija already have backup boyfriends or girlfriends. There are ladies with six boyfriends and four sugar daddies and there are guys with eight girlfriends and in some cases sef two sugar mummies. Ladies do the multiple thang for financial gains. Imagine a lady her first boyfriend bought her an iphone...second boyfriend bought her an android... Third and fourth boyfriend sent her 50k each to her account and her sugar daddy bought her a clean camry. Now u understand why a number of ladies indulge in it ![]() 1 Like |
Re: . by BRMN: 10:20am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Hmm, really?? |
Re: . by BRMN: 10:26am On Aug 07, 2018 |
So it's a lucrative business u say?? |
Re: . by BRMN: 10:29am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Moderators pls move this thread to the front page Cc Cc Lalasticlala Cc OAM4J Cc Mynd44 Cc Seun Cc Dominique Cc Rocktation Cc Farano |
Re: . by BRMN: 10:47am On Aug 07, 2018 |
@lefulefu Some ladies have six boyfriends & four sugar daddies? Are u really serious? That can't be true. U must be joking. |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:52am On Aug 07, 2018 |
BRMN:joking ke? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by BRMN: 11:29am On Aug 07, 2018 |
lefulefu: This is serious. This is expert oloshoism abi? And yet we complain about our leaders. The things some ladies do in private is even worse. All for the money. Lord have mercy |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:34am On Aug 07, 2018 |
BRMN:all for d glam ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by BRMN: 11:40am On Aug 07, 2018 |
lefulefu: But was it ok for him as someone who advises people on relationships to give such advice? Being a role model to some people, do u think what he said was proper? I saw many people condemning him and calling him fake on that thread |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:52am On Aug 07, 2018 |
BRMN:joro is an attention seeker ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:53am On Aug 07, 2018 |
BRMN:joro is an attention seeker ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by BRMN: 11:54am On Aug 07, 2018 |
So much stress in it really |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:14pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
I'm too focused achieving my dream to have a backup boyfriend, the stress is not my thing and am actually not cut out for that shi.t. |
Re: . by BRMN: 12:21pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
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Re: . by BRMN: 12:22pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
Colourich: U are right. A busy person who has a job or busy schedule won't even have the time to double date, u know! |
Re: . by BRMN: 12:25pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
@ lefulefu, u're right, this Joro guy is a real attention seeker, but i think he might end up destroying his career if he continues to give bad advice to people. What do u think? |
Re: . by Nobody: 2:49pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
BRMN:well if he's really a proffesional relationship advicer then he's certainly doing himself more harm than good. But i doubt if he's really a professional love doctor by career cos no sane person would want to jeopadise his real career. He's just doing all this to thrive on online notoriety ![]() |
Re: . by BRMN: 6:14pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
lefulefu: Yes, no doubt that's his game plan |
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