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Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
It is unfortunate that many don't take sexual harassment against men seriously. The lady in this thread https://www.nairaland.com/4666560/female-corper-sexually-harasses-male is wrong, sadly such thing happens regularly on a daily basis only that some men don't talk. In this particular case, nothing much will happen because the way our society treats sexual assault against a lady is different from the treatment against the man. We all know that if the lady was the victim the man would have been in police custody, dismissed or disciplined by soldiers. I've been following the case and I'm dissapointed with the way the authorities are handling the situation. The Lagos head of NYSC is trying to settle the case instead of arresting the lady or dismissing her from the service. Sexual harassment/assault knows no gender. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by kingxsamz(m): 5:38pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
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Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by 1stNumeroUno: 5:46pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Because women are more vulnerable. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno:You're not normal. Sexual harassment & rape knows no gender. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno:BTW, how is being vulnerable or whatever related to this case? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by donbachi(m): 5:55pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Because,it is always her word against yours. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by dollytino4real(f): 5:58pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
women are to be protected by men, who get prick(men) |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:04pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Bros I ve to be honest here,I think that the answer is because there's no inequality between the two genders. We can scream it from now till eternity that we re equal,but the truth still remains that the genders differ.You said it yourself here now that you re not happy the way they are going about the case,so think deep and ask urself if truly the inequality we seek is attainable. I know most people will not like my post especially the ladies but God in his infinite wisdom must ve a reason to make it so. I'm not saying that they re less of humans but nature has already make them the weaker gender. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Elder001:He's very normal. Your answer is; it's because male sexual assault is almost non-existent. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by 1stNumeroUno: 6:20pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Elder001: I saw your other mention; but I choose to reply this. Women are more expose to sexual assault than men. Which can be linked with their assumed 'weak' nature. So, it's more easy to believe a female rape report than a man. For argument sake: If you're to travel a lonely road in the dead night that is known for housing notorious gangs. As a man, your fear will be of loosing your valuables and maybe being beaten up if you resist. But a lady's first fear will be RAPE, which she won't mind to trade all the valuables on her for. Note: it's as bad as it is with woman on men. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by GistLivePro: 6:21pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
kimbraa: ![]() |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by NevetsIbot(m): 6:40pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno: If I hear!!! Vulnerability when it comes to assault someone sexually. Slapping a lady on the bum is the same as slamming a guy on the phallus!!! |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:47pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno:.. So whats the implication of your comment? |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Elder001: Because Of two things : 1. Feminist (3rd wave) has painted the narrative that men are ultimately the aggressors and can't be victims 2. The Patriarchy: most times men are told how to act and not to act, the patriarchy has painted men not to be victims , and also most men don't even know when they are sexually assaulted, its been seen as being hot or sexual advances. Women are said to be the weaker sex so guys feel they can't be assaulted. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno: Dude.. there are witnesses in this case and the fact that the Lagos head of NYSC is trying to settle the case shows that they believed it happened. Stop typing bullshît. Nobody is weak. Being vulnerable or whatever doesn't even relate to this case. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
kimbraa: Madam, there are witnesses in this case so it's not non existence. The fact that the Lagos NYSC head is trying to settle the case instead of dismissing the lady also shows that it indeed happened. They're trying to calm the guy down. and @your last words, male sexual assault happens on daily basis in large cities.. just stop commenting bullshîts on my threads because of sentiments. I don't want to repeat myself. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Lordbooster(m): 7:08pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Elder001:to her it's all fun nor knowing it's otherwise |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: Things like this are beginning to make me to hate ladies. If the same treatment meted to men can't be meted to ladies then I don't buy this gender equality bullshît.. If it was the guy that grabbed the lady by her vagina by now he would've been sent off camp. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Lordbooster: Will she think it's fun when a guy grabs her vaginä in public without her consent? |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Lordbooster(m): 7:15pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Elder001:na then yawa go gas na sadly that's d society we find ourselves in nowadays |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by LuvU2: 7:15pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
cos men re their worst enemies ![]() |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
LuvU2:Seriously.. The NYSC director in Lagos is a man. If the dude doesn't sue that lady I'll be very dissapointed at him. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Lordbooster: SMH |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by 1stNumeroUno: 7:41pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
NevetsIbot: And how often does the latter happens? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by 1stNumeroUno: 7:51pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Elder001: Hmmm, let me leave this alone. Thought you wanna hear others opinion... This particular incidence is what we can call a one-off. Which some crafty guy can even use to yansh the girl for the remaining days on camp. Do you want to compare the amount of sexual assault (subtle and aggressive) ladies face on the same camp? But as I noted earlier, sexual assault is not palatable either way. Enjoy your evening. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:52pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
Elder001:. Exactly my point,so now tell me,are we equals?. If we can't mete out the same punishment for both genders for committing same crime just like thus one,how then are we equals? My brother,think about it. If something happens again tomorrow to a different guy,the lady in question will still be treated fairly by the same authorities that will Lynch a guy for it. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: If that lady isn't dismissed I'll be very dissapointed and if the guy doesn't sue that lady I'll be very dissapointed at him. Gender equality is the biggest scam of the century |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno: How often it happens is irrelevant for now. I am talking about a case that has been confirmed not a rumor, I am asking why the authorities are trying to calm the dude down instead of dismissing the lady just like the guy would've been sent off from the camp if he was the one who grabbed the lady by her vaginä without her consent Stop deliberately misunderstanding the thread. |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by NevetsIbot(m): 8:06pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno: that it doesn't happen as much as the former doesn't reduce the weight of the crime or assault |
Re: Why Is Female Sexual Assault Taken Seriously Than Male Sexual Assault? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:18pm On Aug 09, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno:... That it rarely happens shouldn't be the issue here. It has happened and because she is a lady,the authorities are allowing her to go free. If it was the other way,ope you can imagine how the guys face would ve being panel beaten before handing him over to the police. You re just trying to deviate from the topic. |
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