Babyforever:
I know you're looking for an avenue to cheat but you won't see me

Mklancee:

Tricked? Then why stay when she found out?
Why should a broke girl refuse a broke guy?. I don't know how and where you expect him to get money from as a student.

IamPlato:
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Babyforever:
Yes tricked....Because he's feeding her with lies that's why she believed all he said to her

Mklancee:

Almost all student are broke except the one with very rich parents.
If broke girls don't date broke guys who will now date them

Biafrareform:
Good morning all.
I don't know if am being harsh or wicked here. But I need ur opinion.

My girl has been staying alone till around June when a master student whose programe will end September next year joined her in her apartment . We will be through with school next month.
I go to work and school so I hardly sleep in my house at night (self contain) Her rent expired last month and I told her to move in to my place but she said they will renew the rent.
To my surprised the master student got them to rent a one bedroom flat in school.
They have moved in. But my girl has been dusturbing me to give her my Gen so they can flex in their new house.
Her narrative is that I hardly make use of it since at night our compound Gen is always on. And I told her I make use of it during the day and when I have guest, that I can't give her .
Today my secondary school mate is coming and she has called me this morning to remind me of the Gen.

I have told her no. Maybe is me not being romantic or caring or just selfish.
I need ur opinion pls

Babyforever:
How do you expect a broke girl to date a broke guy so you want her to remain in that situation

pcguru1:


You make it seem like all women depend on men to escape their situations and that women are helpless. But then again I don't expect you to see the seriousness of things when your whole comments on NL is based on mediocrity

Babyforever:
You of all people would come and disrespect me this way I'm dissapointed in you

ITbomb:
Only gen?

When I was your age, I donated my street transformer to my girlfriend


Nansense

Biafrareform:


So guy who can't afford a Gen for his girlfriend is broke?

Thanks baby

Mcslize:
Babyforever & highqueen , I don't agree with both of you. Op needs the generator more than her gf needs it and I won't advice him giving it to her. When has relationship becomes a ticket for getting freebies from bfs?

Babyforever:
I think he should get a new one for her or what do you think

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Its disappointing how some people that calls themselves men can be easily manipulated just because they can't do without pussy. You ve just one gen and you are here asking for what to do. You can't say no and let it be no. Mumu,give her the gen and when you need it,pay for cab and carry it. Ask urself if she can do that for you assuming u were the one in need of it.

Mcslize:


Thumb up to this boss. You are just like me. Majority of guys act so wussy when it comes to dealing with girls. Some will dash out the only thing they have and later go back to cry foul. And many others, once a girl use bobby to rub their chest, it is finished, they don't think right again. That's when they will dash out all their valuable things just for 2 seconds bobby they felt.

Like I have said and will always say; anything you give to a girl is like pouring water in a basket. It doesn't count to them and will never count. They will even term you mumu when a guy yield to all of their demands.

A real man doesn't yield to every girl's demand. If I were the op, if he is really thinking of giving out that Gen, then he should carry it to dash his mama or any of his immediate relation to use rather than giving it to a girl that will hardly value it.

The moment they will quarrel , all of these generosity won't be recalled by the said girl. I prefer to give to a girl only if I feel like giving her not when she is compelling me to or putting pressure on me to give her.

pcguru1:


Because the society encourages a bunch of lazy girls to game the system and not work for anything, why do you think women who bare their boobs on Instagram get attention and cash thrown at them, why should they read when they can easily thrive via those means, can't you see the comments here already by the female especially from baby, our generation has lost it, that mentality has even found its way to my young relatives, most women are either trained to be liabilities or to use sex as a ploy to gain financial prospect. I read a book recently though too misogynist but it explained the decay in Nigeria, its called the Sex-ploytation. Seriously we've lost it

Mcslize:


Bro you"ve said it all. That's the problem we facing in Nigeria right now. Our ladies are not positioning themselves well before us. It is high time they learned that being a liability before a guy is a huge turn off for most of us.

No serious hard working guy will carry the sole responsibility of a lady all in the name of girlfriend boyfriend. Even if the guy does, it won't take long before he dish out the girl. Once he is done with her, he will take to his heel.

Why do you see a lot of them hauling around with their bodies? Flaunting booobs and bum bums all about. That's the only thing they think they can offer guys and it's only the guy that don't know what he wants from a life partner that will fall for such frivolous girls.

pcguru1:


Its no disrespect, facts don't care about feelings, you attack men based on their financial status, you make it seem like a man is as good as his worth, you engage in double standards, a broke girl is not a problem but a broke guy is, you don't know what it is for someone to be financially inadequate and be ridiculed by the likes of you. If people could choose not be broke do you think they would prefer to be.

pcguru1:


Because the society encourages a bunch of lazy girls to game the system and not work for anything, why do you think women who bare their boobs on Instagram get attention and cash thrown at them, why should they read when they can easily thrive via those means, can't you see the comments here already by the female especially from baby, our generation has lost it, that mentality has even found its way to my young relatives, most women are either trained to be liabilities or to use sex as a ploy to gain financial prospect. I read a book recently though too misogynist but it explained the decay in Nigeria, its called the Sex-ploytation. Seriously we've lost it

Babyforever:
And you're proud to say to say they don't have a television what's your role as her boyfriend

UnclePrincipal:

Idiot!!!
A guy role as a boyfriend is to take the full responsibility of a girl abi!
where are her parents?
why can't she work to buy it herself?

ode parasite like you

Babyforever:
Why are venting your frustration on my mention that is fu*****k disrespectful

UnclePrincipal:

Who will ever respect you? any guy that does that just wants your pussy. Do you even respect yourself?

Babyforever:
Have you eaten today

UnclePrincipal:

.Have you used your pills today?

Babyforever:
Watch your mouth boy watch your mouth

UnclePrincipal:

Don't talk to me like that b*tch