Ksatriy:
Is the lady's statement about not congratulating men also lame?

virago:



Are you comparing child birthing to bathing a child Seriously are you.


To answer your question a man who bathes or walks his child isn't anything special or a mother who becomes the bread winner of the house isn't also special , these roles can be interchanged and either man or wife can take up any role in the home as long as it progresses the home but comparing child birthing , which can easily take the life of the mother , to cleaning up the baby is downright stewpid

LuvU2:
People congratulate men for having time for their own kids, wow what a world.

eyinjuege:


How have men died from caring for their kids? Please don't mention blood pressure and all other diseases which can be prevented by modifying risk factors such as obesity, smoking, alcohol , exercises etc. Women equally make all the sacrifices men make, and more. Many women in Nigeria work, and contribute to the finances of their homes. They still look after their children
You can't say childbirth is just a walk in the park, and for you to trivalise it and compare it to the loss of life of animals is deplorable. When other countries have things under control, the Nigerian man is celebrating the high maternal mortality in its women. You have problems o, big one and you have nobody to tell you.
Your counterparts of other races with low maternal mortality, and generally longer life expectancy look after their children, take care of their homes and also work. Here you are comparing the lives of your women to cats, rats and dogs. Tufiakwa.
We can see why Nigeria is the way it is. This has nothing to do with feminism btw. Just common sense.
Family planning is important for you women o. If you die, you die. The world will move on. If you die for any man, they will spit on your grave. Your health should come first before any expectations of society. Its your body, your life, your womb. Use family planning o.

Ksatriy:


rats give birth too.
So child birth shouldn't be a big deal.

Women should even be ashamed that rats as little as they are, can do what women do which is giving birth.

revolt:
rats on an average deliver nothing less than 5 at once. So if its accolades women are falling short behind. Feminism is a cancer

virago:



Are you comparing child birthing to bathing a child Seriously are you.


To answer your question a man who bathes or walks his child isn't anything special or a mother who becomes the bread winner of the house isn't also special , these roles can be interchanged and either man or wife can take up any role in the home as long as it progresses the home but comparing child birthing , which can easily take the life of the mother , to cleaning up the baby is downright stewpid

BlackPantherxXx:
Shes pretty

revolt:
all these retarded feminists sha. Well let me thrash your nonsense emotional point of view....my dad is a perfect example of one of the millions of dads that lost their lives trying to raise us. Luckily for us he had built some solid legacies. Died at 47. Stroke to be precise, as a result of working 6 days a week. Now one useless feminist will come n be castigating all dads because her father was a deadbeat... PS spk for ursef my dad remains the centre of our home. My mum even after years of his demise, used him as point of contact/correction whenever we err...ie "you know your father wouldn't like this"... Pls learn to speak for yourself. Not all men are like ur pops.
Yes our mums are great and so are our dads. All this dysfunctional kids making axioms on social media self.

highqueen:
I'm telling you!
A man baths his child, woow!! he's so caring.
really?what the Bleep is wrong in a man bathing his child??

eyinjuege:


You really need to get things straight.
Stroke is not caused by working 7 days a week, otherwise many people abroad would have all been dead from stroke. Nearly all your Drs would have died from stroke as they work longer hours than average.
Educate yourself, stop passing misinformation from generation to generation.
Your dad dying at 47 from stroke wasnt justify because he was working 6 days a week. He would probably have died from same stroke if he was working 3 days a week especially if he had a brain aneurysm or was obese. Stress may be a major factor in a lot of diseases including cancer, but it doesn't happen in isolation. Other things are involved, a lot of them can be controlled by simple lifestyle modification by quitting smoking, alcohol, by exercise, losing weight.
I mentioned earlier that women dying from childbirth should not be compared to people ( men and women) dying from diseases like stroke, diabetes, hypertension. Don't forget not only men die form these conditions.. These other diseases are not directly linked to having or raising children.
This isn't about who is greater between men and women, but just common sense.
Nobody is saying fathers or mothers are not great, but it is the RESPONSIBILITY of every parent to raise their child. You should meet the physical, financial, emotional, and even social needs of your child. Whether man or woman. If you do that, you dont deserve any special accolade. Maybe your children can appreciate that but that's your family's prerogative. Nothing special or unique about meeting the needs of your child ( this is to both men and women), afterall you shouldn't expect me to do that for you.
Most women I know work, and spend on their families. They not only work hard, but raise children alongside. There is no big deal If a man does the same.
If you can't bath your child, then who should? A stranger? If you can't take your child to the park, who should do it for you? If you can't provide for your child, who should do that?
I dont support women who don't contribute to their homes financially, neither do i support men who don't play their part in caring for their children.
If you're a good parent, your children will appreciate you. Why do you want strangers or acquaintances to appreciate you for being a parent?

pocohantas:


That's her problem at highlighted. She needs to understand she isn't in a competition with men. Allow husbands/fathers get their due accolades.

I don't know why some women are selfish like this, even on Father's Day, you will see them celebrating themselves. I have never seen a single dad celebrate himself on Mother's Day.

There would always be some 'special passes', it has a lot to do with traditional roles and expectations of both parents. If you look at it without a bias or competitive mind, maybe, just maybe, you won't think it is a special pass. Just a man being appreciated for being a good father. It is not easy to be a good father. If a man is a good father and a good husband, ahbeg, he deserves accolades.

Baawaa:
Because your father did not take care of you that is why you are saying this trash

MRSoftapples:
Except a man is lazy..
real hardworking guys don't have enough time for their kids..

Every sensible and responsible woman knows this and that is why its kind of adorable and commendable when a man spends quality time with his children in the midst of putting aside many other things like business schedule..

Ksatriy:
Let stop congratulating women and paying them visit when they give birth.
Even rats give birth too.