Guys, I want you to share your views here, please..Just post, no need to register...Some of my extended colleagues on the forum are really saying something saddd. Let's hear your experienced views there -

https://www.econjobrumors.com/topic/how-do-you-balance-working-hard-with-marriage

Read every post and you will be "flagabasted".

I no fit answer this one ooooooo..... na life drama

DonFreshmoney:


How does drinking of a mother relates with the baby becoming a criminal? Are u sure ur head dey alright?

Must you insult?

Go read up on fetal alcohol syndrome

Boyooosa:

But, really you would have just closed your eyes to that scene, the girl was not too far from the truth.
Since they were couple according to ur further investigation and report, 2 wrongs can never be wrong na...

So if a couple are killing each other, he should overlook? Children with fetal alcohol syndrome are prone to have issues with the law. This issue you think we should overlook will bounce on the society. Instead of people learning and taking correction, instead of keeping quiet if not sure, they are supporting a clearly wrong action

bellong:






It is not his problem but it is a big concern for the society.

Going by the ridiculous and ignorance filled comments I have read on this thread, I begin to imagine what the young people of nowadays learn in school.

The internet is available for all to be educated on things people know nothing about rather you people are spilling comments devoid of knowledge.

A simple Google search on the effects of alcohol on foetal development would have put the ignorance of many away.

To summarise the reason why it is his problem to be concerned, a foetus that comes in contact with constant alcohol or drug abuse is at the risk of acquiring foetal alcohol syndrome, global developmental delay, intellectual disability to mention a few.

Those diagnosed with the above have little capacity to understand some basic relational issues or some cannot even have the capacity for empathy. They are at risk of developing serious anti-social and criminal behaviours especially in a country like Nigeria where there is no government intervention plans for kids with such diagnosis.

When the kids grow up and start to exhibit anti-social behaviour you people will start calling him all kinds of name because he is becoming a nuisance and big problem to the society. At that point, you will understand that it is everybody's business to be concerned about things like this.

What you and your likes don't understand is that the problem does not necessarily manifest in physical deformity, sometimes and most times, it is the brain that is usually attacked which is the centre of all human coordination and cognition.

Alcohol consumption and abusing drugs during pregnancy are things that should be condemned from and by right thinking individuals. Little wonder pregnant ladies are usually advised to consult their GPs Even before taking something as little as Panadol.

For a prosperous society, it is everybody's business to be concerned about someone taking alcohol and abusing drugs during pregnancy

Same way someone would dump refuses in a drain and they would tell you to mind your biz. If the drains get blocked and the street/houses gets flooded they call on God and blame Govt. I think the dumbest of our youthful ilk is what you find online. Seems like there's this competition to show who's the dumbest.

GrammarCheck:


I craved small stout with my sons. Craved... just a sip, not downing full bottle o! They came out all right

Same with my elder sis. Babe was craving and hiding to drink small stout in sips (from her 7th month) . Na only after delivery she come confess.

As for me, I literally starve for nine months.

My system can't even tolerate food talk less of drinks biko.

Awoo88:

I saw Lady with her husband drinking st Remy and the husband was proud saying to any body heari " my wife dey high pass me even with belle" we watching arsenal match that day. When he was challenged , he bought st Remy and called his wife. The lady came with about 7 month pregnancy. Both idiot finished one whole st Remy. Some even bought another bottle stating he love the woman spirit. D tin tire me DAT day

E tire me to even read am sef. The hubby who is supposed to help the wife make a better decision for their baby is even the one supporting nonsense. Their life, I would say, but it's still wrong.

Ekehwinz:
This must be in coal city. Ndi Oringo

Ekehwinz:
This must be in coal city. Ndi Oringo

I thought as well.

onegig:


Very very wrong.

"When you drink, alcohol passes from your blood through the placenta and to your baby.

A baby's liver is one of the last organs to develop and doesn't mature until the later stages of pregnancy".

Without a fully developed Liver , how would the baby break down molecules of alcohol?

U are wrong my dear. Organ formation ends in the embryonic stage prior to foetal stage where we now have organ development and maturation. Liver formation specifically starts and ends in the 5th week and it's not the last organ to form. If u review ur embryology u will understand better.

Secondly, the maternal liver does virtually all the detoxification before passing the nutrients to the foetus(not embryo) via the placenta. God bless u bro

mfm04622:


So if a couple are killing each other, he should overlook? Children with fetal alcohol syndrome are prone to have issues with the law. This issue you think we should overlook will bounce on the society. Instead of people learning and taking correction, instead of keeping quiet if not sure, they are supporting a clearly wrong action

I believe you. But he didn't mention that he advised the couple which means this gist here does not have any great pact on the first targets, the secondary targets, yes, it might anyway.

mfm04622:


So if a couple are killing each other, he should overlook? Children with fetal alcohol syndrome are prone to have issues with the law. This issue you think we should overlook will bounce on the society. Instead of people learning and taking correction, instead of keeping quiet if not sure, they are supporting a clearly wrong action

He didn't mention that he advised the couple by chance in his post which by indication, he missed his first targets of evangelism.
Then, the secondary targets have hope only if they will learn which i doubt. Cos of addiction attached to alcoholism! Don't you see that huge 'warning by the ministry of health' before you balance on your seat in beer parlours. My brother, life can never be perfect, that act was not as a result of ignorance, so they don't need mass sensitization, it was a function of lifestyle that might ruin them or still survive.

That's definitely an Igbo woman. If it's paraga or ogogoro it'd be a Yoruba woman.

Ignorant people on this thread.

afbstrategies:
Hand it over to God and walk away. That unborn kid maybe healthier than you and I, ok.

and 154 people liked this comment, wonderful!!! The unborn kid may be healthier..... Na wa

afbstrategies:
Hand it over to God and walk away. That unborn kid maybe healthier than you and I, ok.

Trash does beer and pepper soup looks like Vitamins for the unborn child?

divinelove:
Please I am still in shock, I went to a beer joint to cool off yesterday and I saw a woman who should be about 7 months pregnant with her husband and both were drinking life beer. The woman took about two bottles with pepper soup. I felt she is killing her foetus out of ignorance and that kept me wondering. is the baby safe with alcohol in her system?

Doctors in the house what's your thoughts

husband and wife... So wetin concern u?

Ekehwinz:
This must be in coal city. Ndi Oringo

HEHEHEHE....042, NOT JST A DIAL CODE BUT WAY OF LIFE

Codes151:
husband and wife... So wetin concern u?

There is need for public enlightenment on the dangers of drinking alcohol during pregnancy. The couple may be doing this out of ignorance but ur chicken brains won't see that

Bizibi:
and 154 people liked this comment, wonderful!!! The unborn kid may be healthier..... Na wa

kids are all over nairaland and now that primary n secondary schools are on holidays. over 85% of nairaland are kids below 18 yrs

Igbo Amaka

ajahinnousa:
this your question really got me

Some women matter strong o . I remember how me and my Mrs. did not agree on some things when she was pregnant, imagine she sent me looking for calabar/nzo chalk in all the African store in our city abroad. Finally I got the last but on my way home I lost it, you needed to see me looking for reasons online n offline to prove the health hazard of eating that stuff so that she no go deny me my kitchen/bedroom marriage benefits that week.

divinelove:
Please I am still in shock, I went to a beer joint to cool off yesterday and I saw a woman who should be about 7 months pregnant with her husband and both were drinking life beer. The woman took about two bottles with pepper soup. I felt she is killing her foetus out of ignorance and that kept me wondering. is the baby safe with alcohol in her system?

Doctors in the house what's your thoughts

you know the drill fa

Pinshure or Adonbilivit

divinelove:


This post is for ppl with sense not a complete idiot like u

On d contrary, your are the daft fellow that wants to trend by posting shits that do not concern you.
Next time, spend ur time if it is precious on something meaningful/tangible.
Lazy mother****er

stevedre:


Some women matter strong o . I remember how me and my Mrs. did not agree on some things when she was pregnant, imagine she sent me looking for calabar/nzo chalk in all the African store in our city abroad. Finally I got the last but on my way home I lost it, you needed to see me looking for reasons online n offline to prove the health hazard of eating that stuff so that she no go deny me my kitchen/bedroom marriage benefits that week.

and I know it s something about his own problem and he just disguise it as it happened elsewhere

[quote author=divinelove post=70215074]Please I am still in shock, I went to a beer joint to cool off yesterday and I saw a woman who should be about 7 months pregnant with her husband and both were drinking life beer. The woman took about two bottles with pepper soup. I felt she is killing her foetus out of ignorance and that kept me wondering. is the baby safe with alcohol in her system?

Doctors in the house what's your thoughts


Well, it depends on frequency. If she is a chronic or acute consumer. Alcohol consumption during pregnancy isn't good and encouraged. It could lead to FAS, fetal alcoholic syndrome. It could also affect the umbilical cord by narrowing it, thereby affecting blood flows/nutrients to the baby...Under nutrition and affects the baby's weight.

afbstrategies:


Check your own brain and worry less about others. Your type are the problem.
Hand it over to God and mind your freaking business. Grow up, Loser!

afbstrategies:


As if your own didn't do worse when she was carrying you.

Thank you, it is very easy to identify children like you, with foetal Alcoholic Syndrome due to your Momma binge-drinking during pregnancy.

I dont blame you for your woes, it started in your mother's womb
l hand it over to God.

divinelove:


There is need for public enlightenment on the dangers of drinking alcohol during pregnancy. The couple may be doing this out of ignorance but ur chicken brains won't see that

talk about quantity I can hear...

E warrior... As u get brain reach u didn't enlighten them there u bring am come nairaland to show you how dumb you are...

Okay. Mumu no worry. I will find them tell them... Local bar, local boy.

divinelove:


kids are all over nairaland and now that primary n secondary schools are on holidays. over 85% of nairaland are kids below 18 yrs

are you sure u itself don't pass 18? Considering when u open ur account self

megareal:



Same with my elder sis. Babe was craving and hiding to drink small stout in sips (from her 7th month) . Na only after delivery she come confess.

As for me, I literally starve for nine months.

My system can't even tolerate food talk less of drinks biko.

Did she have a boy or a girl? They say it is 'boy' pregnancies that make you crave small stout. I used to hide mine in an opaque water bottle and sip it. The day my husband found out, I heard the story of my life!

With my daughter all I wanted was Okro. Lol! I starved in the first trimester only Sha. Hunger games started after 7mths! Oh boy! Lol