kinibigdil:
What is even proper in relationship this days anymore, a lady said if she's dating or single depends on how her partner is behaving at the moment, No 3 is the problem of most relationships this days, wo Na olosho all of us go marry last last lol, Na who them catch be thief!

mrbaba18:
I cal it chain luv cus all of us are in a chain cycle just check it u luv ur gal frnd bt ur gal frnd luv another guy nd dat guy luv another gal nd dat gal luv another guy so enjoy life dnt take it serious

ImaIma1:
So what happens to her male friends she had when she was single?

Not everyone can handle it but i see nothing wrong with it as long as she knows how to manage it.

nadalion:
Op, that was an educative Post?

hotwax:

Are you asking me?

Jokerman:


Then you ain't ready for marriage....

ImaIma1:


I am married and i have male friends

Nobody said all our friends have to be same sex.

ImaIma1:
So what happens to her male friends she had when she was single?

Not everyone can handle it but i see nothing wrong with it as long as she knows how to manage it.

hotwax:


No problem with having friends. We all need friends in life.

But the question is. Do you trust those friends? Are you sure they are not after you to pounce on you when opportunity shows up? Do you know their intention?

Or we should ask you.

What is your intention with those friends?

The rate at which married women engage in office romance these days, you wonder whats they really understand by the word "Just friends"

ImaIma1:


Maybe because people do not understand friendships. I have always had more male friends than females.

It is just like asking what my intentions are with my female friends. You expect me to avoid talking to or mixing up with my male colleagues but just the female ones.

Well, maybe some people only think about sex when it comes to the opposite sex. That is their mindset, not mine.

The married women that cheated with whoever did so because they decided to. They don't need to have male friends. They could have all female friends and still cheat with the only male they happen to meet.

MajorJeffery:
A married man or woman who keeps opposite sex as close friend is already cheating emotionally and the real deal is only one pole away because one day, it will surely happen.

If you wanna hang out with a guy, why not marry him, why marry a completely different man from the type you like?

ImaIma1:


I am married and i have male friends

Nobody said all our friends have to be same sex.

hotwax:


But its quite unfortunate that 90% of men think about sex when they see opposite sex especially none blood relatives.

Friendship is best for same sex. But for opposite, care should be taken. Men can pretend for life.

FYI. This post is about "best friends" and not friends.

You can have many male friends who you dont meet or go out together. Maybe just at work or on whatsap. This is not in the scope of this discussion. We are talking about best friends.

Jokerman:


"platonic"

ImaIma1:


Your post said nothing about "best friends" but "just friends" but it is fine if that is the story you want to stick to.

hotwax:


"They told her that when a woman is married, the only best friend she should have is her husband. Her best friends before getting married should maintain distance if they are responsible except they are nurturing bad intentions too."

Thats a copy from my post

Hanseel1:


But a man is allowed to have a best friend?

victorian:
When there are set boundaries and self control between a married lady and her male friends , there is nothing wrong having a married male friend who believes in respecting his marital vows to his wife.
It's all about using the brain coupled with having a conscience.

hotwax:


Why will a responsible man have female as best friend?

Its a precursor to cheating

hotwax:


Yes. thats what female friends tell me before they mistakenly open their legs. AFter doing it, they will say its the devil