flyca:

So “miracle” cannot happen to older brides? Except the society forces them to marry people that they don't actually love? Or when they know they are not ready to get married?

Anyway I don't believe in “miracle”. I think people should take care of themselves and their reproductive health when they single. Also they should eat healthy and stay healthy. Medical science is advanced enough to take care of the rest

koyyes:
Even oyibo people that taught this guy all these don't believe in this shit. See women giving birth in their 40's all over the place and you still spread this shit so that Africans will continue to breed children like rats just because of one biological clock tale.

That is how some women out of desperation will get married to an slowpoke all in the name of ticking biological clock. Do you know there is also an increase in the number of women in their 20's who can't become pregnant until in their 30's?

That is how some came and said women of child bearing age who don't have sex will get fibroid. Rubbish talk! Na marketing strategy to sell more condom or std drug abi wetin?
They just keep feeding you people rubbish and you all absorb all that in your head as if your head has been empty all these while.

I will advice ladies to stop taking contraceptives like tom tom. That is one of the things increasing infertility if you don't know.
These same doctors give you these without educating you then they come out and say shiit.

Eat right and maintain good health.

Odingo1:

Early marriage is not better, if you have children that you cannot be able to take care off, they become agberos, disturbing the peace of other people.
For men 30 years and above while women 24 years and above..

Philpham:
Quack doctor. Misogynistic waste. One of the ways Nigerian men uses to make women feel they have a biological clock while forgetting that men’s sp..erm become watery after 35 yrs making them equally infertile.

Teeboi56:
Okay but u re not God

koyyes:
Men and women who marry in their 30's have a higher chance of sustaining happy marriages.

Women who give birth in their 30's mostly give birth to extremely intelligent children.

These are known facts but because Africans love negative news, you will all continue to make bad decisions and increase poverty and pedophilia in any way possible.

I pity you.

Realname:


Dome a false and made up stories , some are rare some are just plain luck

What the doctor said in this post are facts

efavour:
well said, some doctors need to update their knowledge. I married late by mid thirties not by choice of cause. I had hyperactive thyroid and was treating here right here in Lagos. The doctor started talking me into bringing my hubby to start fertility treatment, I ignored him and continued with my drug. Once my thyroid level balanced and came back to normal, we started trying and I got pregnant at the second try at 36. At 38 I got pregnant at first try and had another baby. My hand was full and I decided to space a little but that was not gonna be as I got pregnant by mistake. I thought I was in my free period and I'm 39. There some Ladies much younger than me that got married about same time as me and are still trying up to date. I know a woman at forty five that just had her baby without Ivf. My sis had her last child at forty three and not ivf. Doctor is just trying to sell market

flyca:

I don't really understand you, but I think that you disagree with me.

Are you saying that no babies are made at late 40's and 50's? In the olden days, when it was common for people gave birth to 8 10 kids, do you know the ages at which the last babies were made? Even in modern days there are many examples of babies that arrived late. Common recent example is Janet Jackson. There are thousands of others.

All I'm saying is... medical science has advanced to help old mothers and late babies. If you see yourself as a late parent (differing circumstances), don't be overly bothered except you are a broke ass

flyca:
But we see married women who keep having kids even at 40 - 45 years, sometimes even 50. Why do you think it is so?

EwuOjota:


CC: Ishi love and Cococ andy and Pocoh antas , Oyin didi ;DOya make una come read.

pocohantas:


Why do some of you Nigerian men, think you can blackmail and use scare tactics to make women rush into marriage?

If y'all are so good for marriage, you don't need these tricks.
Women will see you and want to marry you. Abi are you guys scared they won't desire you, all things being equal?

EwuOjota:


Just read Biko. Them say you guys above 30 are at risk.

flyca:

I don't really understand you, but I think that you disagree with me.

Are you saying that no babies are made at late 40's and 50's? In the olden days, when it was common for people gave birth to 8 10 kids, do you know the ages at which the last babies were made? Even in modern days there are many examples of babies that arrived late. Common recent example is Janet Jackson. There are thousands of others.

All I'm saying is... medical science has advanced to help old mothers and late babies. If you see yourself as a late parent (differing circumstances), don't be overly bothered except you are a broke ass

pocohantas:


Ah! I am crying. I am going to kill myself!!

Yuneehk:

The one without glasses

Yuneehk:

The one without glasses

hmmmmm...

coleon:

Truth is after reading this I'm really scared cos I'm 35. And my fiance is 33. The last thing I want is to eventually get married and not have children. My life will be miserable.

Realname:


Women who give birth in their 30s have. Higher chance of having autistic children these are very known facts

Medicine isnt here to.hurt anyone.madam , enbrace the truth

Realname:


This doesn't make any sense

I understand how frightening this might be for you but calm down and understand

Gerrard59:


The doctor is actually right and was fair enough. He used statistics to explain the topic. Yes, women above 40 procreate, but what's the percentage compared to women below 30?

There's nothing wrong with what he said, scientifically.



Happiness is subjective. Moreover, where did you get the information that women above 30 procreate intelligent children?

TonyRoland:
when u are ready to settle down go and marry a woman of 40yrs ........ yeye dey smell.

Bilaludeen:


http://surecontents..com/2018/08/pregnant-why-late-marriage-will-affect.html

koyyes:


Of course it won't make sense to you. You were not born to use your power of deductive reasoning.

koyyes:


What truth? That women in their 40's who give birth all over the place are a myth? Please swerve!

koyyes:


Get out there to see things for yourself.

efavour:
well said, some doctors need to update their knowledge. I married late by mid thirties not by choice of cause. I had hyperactive thyroid and was treating here right here in Lagos. The doctor started talking me into bringing my hubby to start fertility treatment, I ignored him and continued with my drug. Once my thyroid level balanced and came back to normal, we started trying and I got pregnant at the second try at 36. At 38 I got pregnant at first try and had another baby. My hand was full and I decided to space a little but that was not gonna be as I got pregnant by mistake. I thought I was in my free period and I'm 39. There some Ladies much younger than me that got married about same time as me and are still trying up to date. I know a woman at forty five that just had her baby without Ivf. My sis had her last child at forty three and not ivf. Doctor is just trying to sell market

Gerrard59:


Next time, if you cannot provide evidence to support a claim, it's better you don't say anything.

koyyes:


And where are your facts from exactly? Doctors who read old books and can't explain how women in their 40's still give birth to healthy kids or the ones poisoning women with questionable contraceptives? Which one.

May I remind you that there are now reports that men's fertility also reduces with age. A general conclusion given to you without stating factors that could affect that.

You have your eyes and two ears. You were not born today. Start thinking and questioning things.