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| Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by queenice7(f): 7:08pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
I and my boyfriend play a lot... even with things that doesn't sound funny... I used to think it was just a joke till recently. he says things like he's crushing on my friend and he's gona Bleep her, in a joking way and I'll be thinking its a joke. he has said other annoying things jokingly and I just took it @ such... in a bid to trust me, I tell him everything abt me, who is chyking me, stuffs, he insist on reading my chats I allowed him to, coz I ain't hiding anything. but he never for once allows me to do same... he's so restrictive too... knows everyone that calls me and asks too. recently, I was just gisting him of how my girlfriend (the one he jokingly told me he's crushing on) been requesting to see him of a health issue, coz he's a doctor, but I don't trust her, so I can't do such arrangement. so he jokingly told me that he was going to collect her number and Bleep her. yesterday evening, wen I came visiting, we were just playing and I called him "ashawo man" he got angry and told me that he's gona show me that he's "ashawo" in my presence he called that my girlfriend, I don't even know when he collected her number o. she picked and was asking who is that, he just laughed and cut the call, grinning @ me. I got angry and was leaving around 10:30 pm, he didn't even call me back to apologise. he's been calling me since today, but am so furious and am thinking of moving on... what do you guys think |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by SUPERPACK: 8:01pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
both you and your boyfriend are mad. 11 Likes |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Chai I just wasted 5 mins reading rubbish.. I'll never get it back.. Your boyfriend is a fool you are a bigger fool.. 8 Likes |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by BossDanniee(m): 8:17pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
SUPERPACK:lol savage  3 Likes |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nofav0rs(m): 8:20pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
This one is always coming here with her dumb stories. Mtcheeeeeew 2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Hector09(m): 8:20pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
I think na u they rush am now u don they complain |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Darkseid(m): 8:23pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
SUPERPACK:Abi oo, you just hit the nail on the head. |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
call your boyfriend, Break his head Take his phone, break to pieces Call your friend, break her neck As for you, Liars will go to fire  2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Auladimeji(m): 8:32pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
SUPERPACK:The op right now 1 Like
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| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Let's hook and make your BF jealous |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by crunchyDope(m): 10:09pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
SUPERPACK:Lol ...naija! |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
You are dating a medical doctor and you are actually expecting faithfulness, what an irony!!! He will bang her dear. 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Colourich: Why generalize like that I know a 28 years old resident Doctor who's still a virgin(He's a fanatic Jehovah's witness though) |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by IFEOLUWAKRIZ: 10:24pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Some people joke a lot. I have told four girls on different occasions that I loved them and I would like to be their boyfriend. They agreed and I told them that I was only joking. Many people joke a lot but going by ur bf reactions over some issues, he is likely to do what he jokingly says. |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
If you want to move on, move on and if not rot on.. Let's hear word jare. I have never bn in a relationship before in my life. |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
KingLinglee:With exception to religious fanatics but others are promiscuous, but you are entitled to your own opinion. Its a free world. |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by IFEOLUWAKRIZ: 10:25pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Slexyangel: lesbian? |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Colourich:
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| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by falcon01: 10:33pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
you are been taking for a fool |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:39pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
I think your bf doesn't take you serious because you make him feel like he's indispensable 2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Areaboyfriend(m): 12:03am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Colourich:What do you mean? How many doctors have you dated? This is how you make out facts without scientific reasoning. |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Nobody: 12:06am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Areaboyfriend:I have doctor friends and those folks are savages. |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by Areaboyfriend(m): 12:09am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Colourich:They behave so, not because they r doctors.. What sample are you making conclusions on? 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by mrlova: 12:17am On Aug 19, 2018 |
OP you need a better boifren bit me up! |
| Re: Should This Still Be Treated As A Joke? by onegig(m): 2:16am On Aug 19, 2018 |
queenice7: You actually know what to do. No one would advise you to break up or keep putting up in the relationship. Maybe you have not been communicating with him. You can only get the answers you seek from him alone. First. He is projecting on you. I can't say he is cheating but his behavior of checking your phone and asking for openness while he is closed ended is enough red flag. Secondly , you are treated the way you present yourself. Maybe it is me, but jokingly saying he would cheat with a friend seems like bad taste for a joke to me and reeks of disrespect. Maybe I am too stoic but that's how it comes across. Best bet is for you to reword this and send it to him asking for clarification. Someone who values you and truly loves you would care enough to offer some explanations or try as much as possible to make corrections to things you find offensive. Good luck. 1 Like |
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