Deadlywoman:


I agree with you, my point is that he played a role and forfeited at the last hurdle. It would've been better if they communicated, he could've told her that the cab requires payment instead of it being a surprise. What if she wanted to take a bus home or she wanted to go somewhere else. If I call a cab for you on my phone I'd let you know inadvance that the cab needs payment. He put her into a financial contract with her knowledge. If they won't both forming they'd have a conversation about the date. Why did he pay the cab on arrival? He wanted to be a gentleman, then why not carry that through? It's awkward and it was avoidable.

ZIMDRILL:


Yes

But a normal person wouldnt agree to meet someone for the 1st time without your own to take you there and back

Lets day the other person dies on his way, it means she wasnt able to even pay for 1st drop off, then on last drop off assuming she had money from the start then it means she could gave paid the last drop without moaning becoz had extra money becoz she didnt pay on the 1st drop off

Then on the phone being dead meaning she couldnt pay electronically if she was going to pay herself, then she was supposed to ask the guy/ driver what type payment the taxi would take.

The guy had taken care of the actual date needs, whether the taxi needed cash or electronic payment would be the last thing of his mind especially when he taken care of the transport bill before the actual date bill.

Deadlywoman:


Ok

CAPSLOCKED:

AS IF THEY EVER INITIATE ANYTHING.

Shugavee:
The guy was wrong,,, he would hv told her,,, cause since he ordered the taxify ,, it’s expected he would pay.. she was very clear.

braivheart:


Sister "He begged her" because she's Bezos's daughter abi. Listen to yourself.

Elder001:


He didn't beg her. They agreed to go out together.


I don't know why you guys always feel like you're doing someone a favour by going out for date with him or dating him. SMH

Shugavee:

because most times we are,,, guys r normally the ones that ask ladies on a date,,, dating him is another topic

2buffagain:


LOL keep on thinking that way into your old age.
I really don't know who tells you nigerian female idiots this rubbish.

Shugavee:
u know the truth,, deny it all u want ,,,

Shugavee:
yeah it happens,,, you tell a guy u don’t wanna come out but they beg u to come out and tell u all will be paid for even ur tp. It has happened to me,,, just imagine the guy decided to do this I will be pissed as well,,, cause even if I took money, u promised to sort everything,,, more so he was the one that ordered the cab

vingeophysicist:
The guy you are dating are pussy mongers.How will a guy that wants to go into a real relationship with a girl go against the rules of ascertaining a girl commitment and real intention by paying all her bills on their date.No wonder some of you end up reaching 40 years mark with no serious man in your life.

HeWrites:
Joro and Lies are like Twitter and Fake Stories.

Shugavee:
The guy was wrong,,, he would hv told her,,, cause since he ordered the taxify ,, it’s expected he would pay.. she was very clear.

Shugavee:
The guy was wrong,,, he would hv told her,,, cause since he ordered the taxify ,, it’s expected he would pay.. she was very clear.

pansophist:


Why not also confer the benefit of doubt to the gentleman as well?

Oga booked the ride on her behalf, so it is also natural for him to assume that she intends to pay since she would have booked it herself (And simultaneously pay for it) if her phone was not low on battery. Besides, she could have asked him if it's a cash or card trip, and if he could pay.

Lecturing him on how he should have squeezed money into her hands fully demonstrate she is a leech. The guy spent 17k and she still felt rightfully entitled for the guy to incur the second leg fare even if he voluntarily pay for the first leg.

And alas, she went ahead and block him disregarding his previous financial benevolence. You are absorbing the lady of all responsibility, and justifying her rude behaviours. Clearly she is not into him, hence this rude treatment, but you'll rather blame the man, afterall, instead of calling her out on her bullshit.

Shugavee:
The guy was wrong,,, he would hv told her,,, cause since he ordered the taxify ,, it’s expected he would pay.. she was very clear.

PrimadonnaO:
Y'all cut the girl some slack.

Her complaints were justified... oga booked the ride. It was natural for her to assume it was a card trip. Since it was a cash payment, he should have told her she'd be paying once they get to her destination.

Perhaps she didn't plan for that expense incurred.

All these dates here and there. That's why these days, I do things strictly on my own terms.. if I'm not in the mood for an outing, I stay in my house, if you look like you won't be worth my time, I face my work, if I'm in no mood to spend my money, I stay in my house. Can't be having expectations of people.

Alwaysking:
You are stvpid but you don't know

BiggyB242:
He was wrong, what if she didn't have money on her to afford a taxify but she could pay for a regular transport. Besides she would have picked a place closer to her location.

lereinter:


this your mentality sha

PrimadonnaO:
Y'all cut the girl some slack.

Her complaints were justified... oga booked the ride. It was natural for her to assume it was a card trip. Since it was a cash payment, he should have told her she'd be paying once they get to her destination.

Perhaps she didn't plan for that expense incurred.

All these dates here and there. That's why these days, I do things strictly on my own terms.. if I'm not in the mood for an outing, I stay in my house, if you look like you won't be worth my time, I face my work, if I'm in no mood to spend my money, I stay in my house. Can't be having expectations of people.

JuanDeDios:

I doubt she could have not planned for it since she came with an Uber which he paid for before he went on to incur other expenses.

Shugavee:
The guy was wrong,,, he would hv told her,,, cause since he ordered the taxify ,, it’s expected he would pay.. she was very clear.

Noaril:
So the UBER the girl brought, did she inform the guy before he paid?