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A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:41am On Aug 23, 2018
Good day to the nairalanders in the house.

I dont know why this days what runs through girls of average age mind is marriage after getting to meet with someone they like or someone being nice or being a good friend to them.

Here is my story...

I am a final year student of a popular university in Nigeria and am just 22 years old. I like meeting new friends expecially girls, most times i get to chat up girls randonmly on the same group page with me and lot of times i don't get to meet them in person as i am kind of shy tho. I flow along with chats and my chats with this girls will make you think we ve met before.

When i was on IT late last year, i was kind of free and was meeting people around me as i find it fun doing. I did not have a girlfriend, but hope i will definitely like someone from those i get to meet. I messaged this girl one day and we get to talk like friends after few days of meeting. I was always looking up to her chat as we get more closer online.

I ended my IT this early this year in march and have to return to my brothers place in lagos. My phone was forcefully collected by some lagos thugs under the bridge at mile 2 on April 1st,2018 as that was the second time i will be in lagos. I lost mostly all contacts and didnt get to have any chat with anyone. I later got an android phone when i was returning back to school in May. I recovered some of the contact back as i retrieved my line but the girl's contact was saved on my lost phone. i couldnt get to contact her and i was always expecting she was going to call or chat me up one day. I already moved on with other things,

Early this month, August 1st, 2018. I got a whatsapp message from someone wishing me well for the new month. i did not know who it was but i just had to thank the sender and wish the person well too. she was the one............she told me that i finally replied her messag and i tried to explain hw my phone was stolen and hw i was waiting for her to call or chat me up. We started chatting again and it was fun as she was also happy to have me back online. I requested to visit her that same day and she agreed, she told me am free to come any time i want.

I jokingly told her I will be leaving at mid night as i told her i wil be coming around 7pm. she told me it will be better to sleep over at her place rather to risk my life by leaving late in the night. I started to wonder why she would want a guy she is just seeing for the first time sleep over at her place. I thought probably she is one of those girls that sleep with any guy or could it have been her showing me love as friend. I later left for her place as planned, she is staying alone and has this tight friend of hers staying next to her room. it was fun with her and her friend as they came to pick me up where we agreed to meet. .........

..story continues
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:42am On Aug 23, 2018
She was of average age and potrait some features i was looking for in a girl friend tho. We all flowed like we have been friends for long, they get to watch about two movies on my laptop and was already getting late. I wouldnt know the kind of of relationship this two girls had as she never told me about her before. i did not know what her friend reaction will be if she get to know i will be sleeping over. And also, i was thinking probably the friend do come over to sleep in her place sometimes as all those was enough reason for me to leave. I told her i will be leaving, it was already about 15minutes to 11pm. I later left..........

We had lots of chats afterward and she said, she would love to see more of me. I went back three days later and it was also in the night as i was always kind of busy with my project during the day. When i got to her room, i met my friend alone and I find it really cool. I asked about her friend and she told me she was around in her own room. About 30 minutes later, her friend knocked and she said she will be leaving for campus area to read and would not be sleeping in her room that night.

Me and my friend had a long discussion coupled with her watching movie on my laptop as she loved seeing movies. It got late and it was so late for me to leave. She told me to stay over and leave in the morning. I agreed as i always wanted to sleep over too. I told her that i will be leaving very early so as to prepare for my day.

I left her to continue with her movie and i headed to the bed hoping she will join me later on the bed.

.........to be continued
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:42am On Aug 23, 2018
Normally, I would not sleep knowing that I am in a room with a lady i aiint related to by blood even if i wouldn't want to have any romantic relationship with her. I like this girl and always want to have something to do with her. I love playing hard to get and wouldnt want her to think i agreed to sleep over in her place just to lay her to bed and f*ck her. I later slept off tho after like 45 minutes of expecting her to be through with the movie and join me on the bed.

I later woke up at around 3: 30am to hiss myself as i found out that she slept on the bare floor and was not deep in sleep. My phone was off before i slept off and would have to use her phone touch light that night. Immediately i woke up, she moved and raised up her head too. She put on the screen light of her phone as all was dark in there. I noticed where she was sleeping and i then expressed how dissapointed i was for seeing her sleeping on the floor whereas i was on the bed. She told me that there was nothing to worry about as she does not like disturbing her visitors and moreso, she was cool with the floor.

I then persuaded her to come over to the bed as i will just sit on the plastic chair till morning. She insisted on me sleeping on the bed as i was not disturbing her. I told her, I would not sleep if she did not return to the bed and she later told me she will only move closer to the bed but not on the bed. she came more closer and I was a litle bit cool with that, i hugged her and moved advances again to her to come on the bed. After much begging and persuading, she later jumped on the bed and was beside me. She rapped herself in my harm and told me she was kind of cold. I tried hugging her more deeply. Everything went dark as there was no electricty light....

Then we remained like that for over 5 minutes before I saw a flash of light on my face

.............to be continued
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:43am On Aug 23, 2018
I knew she was the one tho. I smiled at her, the light went off. Not long again about about 3 minutes later, the same thing happened. I started thinking if I was dulling the opportunity been given to me by her. I wouldn't want to be embarrassed by her at all, i thought to my myself. The stuff keep on repeating itself and i later got to collect the phone from her hand to be able to start up my moves if it will work out.

I put on the light on the screen of her phone as it was facing her. I then told her she looked more beautiful even in the dark, she laughed out as i was sure she was pretty much awake. I told her I would want to kiss her beautiful lips. She turned back at me as she told me it was not going to be possible. I moved my head around her mouth but she moved her head sideways refusing my advances. I put off the light and was on my own side of the bed as i handed over the phone to her. About 4 minutes later when i pretended I was already sleeping off, she flashed at me again, i told her not to disturb my sleep and i will want to sleep now since she did not want to kiss my smelly mouth.

She tried to explained to me that I am just her friend and nothing more which will not make her to have me kissed. I tried convincing her it just a kiss and nothing as there is no big deal kissing a friend. She looked at me and kissed my lips once, i told her i was talking about a long kiss tho. She told me it will be difficult as she gets very emotional easily, i then insisted that was what i wanted.

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:44am On Aug 23, 2018
She then promise to keep it short and agreed to kiss me for just 2 minutes. I gave in and we started tho, then not long she started moaning and she was rubbing her hand on my bleeping rod. My prick was hard and was so much ready for action. She continued kissing me hard even after i thought we have elapsed the two minutes she agreed on.

Not long, she was on top of me and was still very much in the mood. I tried very much to hold myself to the best of my knowledge as i was not with a condom and wouldnt want to bleep her. She pooled down my trouser and was rubbing her body all over it, I played along but would not want to contact any disease or got anyone pregnant as I was too young for that. I tried my best too by sucking her b**bs and rucking her hard.

Later, it got to a point that she was calm all of a sudden suddenly as she rested on my chest. Then, she pointed the light on my face and told me I made her do what she just did. I told her it was cool and I enjoyed it and I asked if she did enjoyed it too. That was when she came up with something different with her voice so low, she asked me if I truly love her. I told her I did love her and moreso why wouldnt I love my friend.

She then paused and made a statement "Let me tell you the truth now, hmmm,......hmmmm ,......hmmmm" I was freaking scared as I taught she was going to tell me she belongs to one spiritual group or something much related. I summoned couraged and told her to continue with her word as i was much active to hear out. She was still on top of me tho......

........to be continued
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:45am On Aug 23, 2018
i remembered vividly before we started the long kiss, i asked if she was a virgin and she replied no.

So she continued with her words, she then told me i was the first person she will be doing this kind of stuff with. Then i tried linking the correlation between she not been a virgin and I been the first to kiss or romance her. I felt some strength of lies coming up and await her to continue. She asked again if i truly deeply love her, I reply yes everytime she asked all aover again. i was even expecting something more,
then she told me if I understand what it means to love her. I played along by replying yes.

She asked if i will not leave her, I said We are together and will not leave her. Then she held my two hands and told me she also would not want me to play her . I said why would i want to play her. She then told me about how she has been awaked when i was sleeping and that she was only looking at my handsome face. She later slept beside me as she was resting on my chest. I started thinking about what all she just said means and what kind of mess have gotten myself into. I told her I might leave late in the morning as i needed to sleep more. She told me she would not want her friend to know I slept over, then i agreed she should just wake me up when its time. I slept off.


Later in the morning, i woke up around 7:33am and she was not in the room. I was patiently waiting and get to switched on my phone as she plugged it already for me as there was electricity. She later came in and i told her about me leaving soon and I also requested for the reason why she did not get to wake me up. She smiled and told me, she would not want to disturb the sleep of her boy friend and moreso i should keep calm as she already prepare the food we are gonna eat. She also told me about her friend been in her room sleeping as she thinks her friend should know i was inside.

i ate the food and left for my place


..........to be continued

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:46am On Aug 23, 2018
After getting to my hostel. She called to know if have gotten back to my place. Throughout that day we were both chatting and she was always calling my number to only hear my voice as she said. I couldnt tell any of my friend what i just got into as I wouldnt want to have any serious relationship for now and she was already taking it personnal and serious. Two days later, i requested to know if her friend was aware of our relationship and she said no. She didnt want her to know yet. I requested for the reason and she said she was not yet sure of me about leaving her and moreso am yet to introduce her to any of my friend.

We agreed on seeing two days after that chat but just around 4pm she called me to inform me that she needed to watch a movie on my laptop and i can come over that day. We agreed on 5pm and i was there. When i entered i met this two friends. I handed over my system to them as they watched about 2 Nollywood and 1 Ghallywoood movie. I was only playing with my own phone at the corner of the room as they were on ear piece. Later, it got dark and I left for my place. Both of them escorted me to where i entered bike and I didnt even get to hug any of them self. I started thinking of how possible it is for me to have something to do with her friend as she was much prettier and she always asked about me lots of time.

I remembered the first day i saw them, I asked about the size of her own room compared to that of my own friend where we were and she confirmed it as same before she later asked me to come over and check. i followed her and we both spent like 2minutes together there before returning back to my friend place.

I was not happy I couldnt get to kiss my friend that day i left because she does not want her friend to know we were dating. I didnt want to be in the relationship tho but i only tried to play along so as to get what I want. I thought of a possible way to get her friend's phone number not by stealing it but collecting it directly from any of them.

After each chat I always asked about the friend and also whenever I called, I did asked about her whereabout. Then the day we agreed on seeing before came which was two days later and a week time to when we saw. I made preparation to go to her place as we agreed i will be coming early and leaving in the evening.


........ to be continued.
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:46am On Aug 23, 2018
The D-day is Here.

She told me to come with something. I told her I will be buying sparg so she can cook. she asked me to add egg drinks. I did just as she said as i bought two eggs and two soft drinks along with the sparg. When I got to her place there it was around 12:14pm.

Not long when I entered it started raining outside as she prepared the spargg. She asked why I did not buy the egg and drink for her friend. I told her I wouldnt know if the friend would have love to eat. She told me about how her friend waited for me to come before she later left for her tutorial on campus at 12pm. We ate and got to Kiss and romance this day which was not that emotional as the first we had. We watched a couple of movie together as we used that to pass time and then I needed to rest. She was still watching the movie when i left for the bed. she tried disturbing me all over and finally my dick got hard and was ready to Bleep but didnt want to go against her words as she said she does not want to have sex.

I asked her to lock the door as I want to kiss her more, she told me not to close the door. i closed it and i was back to bed, we kissed... romanced and finally when she was so high and needed a prick in her life i fingered her and she was enjoying it like it was dick been inserted into her. Any time i attempted inserting my dick into her, she will kind of be conscious and want to stand up. so i concluded she still doesnt want the pr*ck. Then after that stuff I laid back on the bed and she was kneeling on the bed. She then asked me to sit right as we have some important things to discuss, I told her I was all hears and that she should continue with her words. she insited on me sitting up right and listening to her.


........to be continued
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:47am On Aug 23, 2018
I managed to sit up by resting on one of the pillow on the bed. Then she asked if we were not moving fast about the relationship as it will be going far as i know. I nodded my head in affirmation.

Before i forget, I onced asked her online what she wanted from the relationship before this day and she told me she wanted a lasting relationship which will result to marriage.

She then started to ask about some personal questions like what is my genotype, what medical test have I ever done before and generally about my family. She asked when i really wished to marry and the number of kids I want. I told her i will like to marry minimum about 4 years time and maximum about 7 years time. I told her the years may not work as I might get married earlier if I get to have money before then, she then asked to know if would n't marry if am yet to have lots of money and i said yes. She smiled and was written on her face that she was so much happy.

I answered lots of personal questions and she was much happy with me as I wanted to leave. But I told her, i needed to wait for her friend to say hi since she also waited for me in the morning. It got late and her friend came in around 8:15pm, but before then she tried calling her with my phone number as she did not have airtime to call. I already saved the friend number and she was aware of that.

I made it known to the friend, that I have been waiting for her all day. she was also happy to hear this then sat very close to me and asked what i wanted to offer her or why i was waiting for her. I jokingly told her that I only needed to see her georgous face and thats all. she blushed and later handed over to me one of the snacks she bought on her way coming. She then asked if i bought her own drink and egg when i was coming in the morning. I told her i dint and she was kind of dissapointed...........


..........to be continued
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 5:48am On Aug 23, 2018
I told her I was sorry tho and she accepted my apology......We all played, we danced, took selfie, recorded videos and was all happy together. It was getting too late, i had to leave on time. I told her friend I will message her to get my pictures that was when she realised I had her phone number. My friend told her It was my phone she used to call her before she arrived. Then I left for my hostel as i told them to send me my videos and pictures online...........................

The next day after that, i did not get to message my friend that much as i was even busy with some other works. i explained to her and She understood.......................................................






This is where I will stop the story for now as i need advise on the next step to take. I dont want to be in a relationship with this girl tho and also, the friend did not know we were dating and she has been kind of nice and caring too. I would love to be in a relationship with the friend but not that tasking one or serious relationship like that o, Only if it is God's wish for us to marry. I know there are stages to marriage and she was not taking a little pill of chill at all. We have frienship,then Dating, then Engagement, then Marriage. But i think she only wanted to jump from Friendship to Marriage straight up. Oya keep the comment rolling,,,,,,,,,trust you, U guys no be Amaka.. never dssapointed. Am kind of new to nairaland tho. I promised to keep you guys updated on this story as times passed. Thanks

@akinowon123

contact through my gmail too.
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by dingbang(m): 5:57am On Aug 23, 2018
What sort of fuckery is this?

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by 9japrof(m): 6:13am On Aug 23, 2018
Bros you need to be a story teller and not into I.T or some programming shit...

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by mrjojo: 6:44am On Aug 23, 2018
What exactly is this suppose to be? A novel? A Telenovella? Hey, Listen! If you want to practice your writing "skills" the literature section is big enough and if it rather c.ock and bull story telling, the romance section is quite sufficient. Incase this was posted here by mistake. This is the family section, serious issues are treated here not some Ade goes to school stories.

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by garetz: 6:51am On Aug 23, 2018
This is super story

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by MrOreo(m): 7:27am On Aug 23, 2018
cheesy Lmao....
Guys ain't smiling this morning @ all.
All this epistle and you didn't or haven't knacked!

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 11:59am On Aug 23, 2018
9japrof:
Bros you need to be a story teller and not into I.T or some programming shit...
Thanks for believing in me tho. Ur word really do touch me
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 12:00pm On Aug 23, 2018
MrOreo:
cheesy Lmao....
Guys ain't smiling this morning @ all.
All this epistle and you didn't or haven't knacked!
Yes o.
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 12:00pm On Aug 23, 2018
Thanks man
garetz:
This is super story
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 12:01pm On Aug 23, 2018
mrjojo:
What exactly is this suppose to be? A novel? A Telenovella? Hey, Listen! If you want to practice your writing "skills" the literature section is big enough and if it rather c.ock and bull story telling, the romance section is quite sufficient. Incase this was posted here by mistake. This is the family section, serious issues are treated here not some Ade goes to school stories.
Alright.
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by gidjah(m): 7:09pm On Aug 23, 2018
Just be careful,you can't date d friend know I g you and d first girl are into one already, that would be bad.you should
D let it be this way,gradually her friend will get to know you two are there ,just play your cool, do not allow ojukokoro mess the fair thing u have going on.Above all, the food you do not wanna eat, why pass it thorough your nostrils sir?you are playing with fire thinking it is a mera fireworks !be careful and know when to draw the lines,she really wants a deep relationship while you do not, what do you stand to gain by been cunny with her?pls let her know you only need her as a. Casual friend and you both draw the lines there and there .That is only when you can consider wooing her (which is really wrong too,you both are already giving each other heads )Be a !man and know what is right for you ,

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by mikkyjagga1(m): 4:52am On Aug 24, 2018
How old are you?
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by mrblessed(m): 12:53pm On Aug 24, 2018
Why is it difficult for you to understand that both of you are not of similar wavelength. Here is a play boy -- who is yet to truly understand what life means -- seeking validation on an anonymous forum for his lack of good conduct. The mere fact that you now fancy her neighbour more than her is a glaring testaments that you need her body and her body alone. Who told you that a week is too early for someone who has priority to express them unambiguously? The lady knows what she wants, and has stated it in an uncertain terms, yet you are appalled at the urgency of her priority. This is my advice to you: you have no business whatsoever with that lady, especially when she has stated what she wants, which according to you, is not compatible with your needs now. Walk away now with your pride intact. Don't lead her on!

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 2:08pm On Aug 24, 2018
mikkyjagga1:
How old are you?
22 years
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by mikkyjagga1(m): 5:19am On Aug 25, 2018
I see, I understand you are trying to sow your oats but you have to be careful, and keep to your word... integrity is something you have to look out for, forget about sex and make plans for your future young man
Akinowon123:

22 years

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by YOUNGELDER1(m): 2:18pm On Aug 25, 2018
mrjojo:
What exactly is this suppose to be? A novel? A Telenovella? Hey, Listen! If you want to practice your writing "skills" the literature section is big enough and if it rather c.ock and bull story telling, the romance section is quite sufficient. Incase this was posted here by mistake. This is the family section, serious issues are treated here not some Ade goes to school stories.

You dey vex o grin why so serious lol
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Ishilove: 2:41pm On Aug 26, 2018
Op, being a writer myself, I have no problems with reading lengthy writeups, but you have managed to tax my patience and that of others with your UNNECESSARILY long epistle. You could have just gone straight to the point without all the irrelevant details that do nothing to explain your grouse. You treat us to mini erotika and expect us to seive through the mass of unnecessary information in order to know exactly which action and reaction needs scrutiny and analysis

We just don't have time for this kinda of fuckery!!! LEARN SUMMARY!!!!

Mscheeeew

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Isaacmacdon(m): 9:05pm On Aug 26, 2018
I had to comment even before i read the stuff you typed up there.
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Akinowon123(m): 7:26am On Jun 05, 2019
Hmm
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by bukatyne(f): 9:27am On Jun 05, 2019
Akinowon123:
Hmm

This is a year later, how did it go?

I will fault the girl.

You normally do not enter into a lasting relationship by chatting and smooching the first day you meet.

She knew what she wanted, however did not know how to get there.

For starters, she should have let you sleep in the room. When she did and was sensible enough to sleep on the floor, she should have left it at that.

She should also not initiate the discussion of marriage or long term relationship just like that. She was setting herself up to be used and rubbished. Men would just say yes, yes to get to the cookie jar and disappear.

She also sounds like someone who thinks she is not good enough.

Why am I not blaming you?

The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy.

You are there to steal her time, body and emotions, make her hardened not to trust anyone (kill) and destroy her emotionally, academically and physically.

I wouldn't blame the devil for doing what he knows how to do.

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Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Ranchhoddas: 9:46am On Jun 05, 2019
I read the first four installments before I realized I was reading a novel.

I no read again.

Oga carry your wahala go angry angry
Re: A Week After I Saw Her, She Wants Marriage by Tboysalau(m): 9:49am On Jun 05, 2019
Akinowon123:
Hmm
Give us update

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