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Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by OROBOR17(m): 8:16am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Alwaysking: Shey na she marry the man abi na the man marry her? OK, them marry themselves.
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Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Vince77(m): 8:16am On Aug 24, 2018 |
jejemanito: Fixed. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by akiOYIBO: 8:17am On Aug 24, 2018 |
You come to Africa and claim to challenge cultural norms. What happened to politics, child traficking, racism, tribalism and even women and child violene/abuse. But u have chosen to challenge cultural values shared by all your kinsmen, u are a shameless slut. How many times have u chalenged cultural norms over there at the United States, no be ur mate dey do feminism, anti-racism. Nah for Africa una dey get strentght. Its not a matter of challenging cultural norms, its a matter of having a man who chose to lick ur ass above every other thing..so shamewful! 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by KraticKratus: 8:17am On Aug 24, 2018 |
I'm sure she'll be kneeling down later to do a lot of other things. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Zsas(m): 8:18am On Aug 24, 2018 |
So u happy u didn't kneel for ur hubby........But Whn u give birth 2mrw and ur daughter In law refuses u kneel for u, u would b angry....... Useless somebody like u. This are the type of women that like kneeling in the other room to su*k her Man's smtyn...... KWASIYA |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Alwaysking: 8:18am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Preshy561:Fool 2 Likes |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by olowo1930: 8:19am On Aug 24, 2018 |
If she refused to kneel down properly, she will do it well ,when she enters labor room, God has made man master , it's normal norms that should be obeyed and cherished. If the man goes out and see a respectful lady and cherish her character, them you will be complaining, man don't talk much but lady always down with man's negative reaction. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 8:19am On Aug 24, 2018 |
pocohantas: Very foolish girl imho. It's just a ceremony. Just kneel for 30 seconds and get it over with.if you're so particular, just do white wedding and leave archaic traditional wedding behind. This one will have plenty of issues in the workplace as she will be dragging on things that are irrelevant On a different note, does she only give head lying on a bed as any other position is submissive? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 8:19am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Ha lemme read comments and see how Nl boys would wan!k on this. But wait fess o, my own feminism never reach this level o... Hehehehehehe |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by NoToPile: 8:20am On Aug 24, 2018 |
The way things are going I doubt people will be following traditions anymore. What's the big deal in kneeling down on your wedding day, a yoruba girl for that matter. She and hubby agreed fine( their issue ) why come out to brag on social media about it No big deal in kneeling if you ask me. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by udemzyudex(m): 8:20am On Aug 24, 2018 |
hopefulLandlord: Whether they influence each other or not kneeling is not something she will do for the rest of her life, its a tradition and not just something one will just ignore because she feels too big to do so, I bet her mum did it and heaven did not fall. They are free to do whatever pleases them but I stand on following tradition. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by googlelove: 8:23am On Aug 24, 2018 |
but she kneels down when taking it from behind. if you know, you know.
I hereby apologize on her behalf. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by AreaFada2: 8:23am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Mariinee: I remember kneeling down behind my friend in his traditional wedding before the brides' family. This happened in diaspora. In some cultures the groom prostrates, sometimes with his friends/people in his entourage. We did not say we're not slaves to the girl's family. We didn't say my very eligible friend can easily get another girl so we cannot be kneeling down for anybody. We followed the tradition. But I bet the guy knelt down to propose to her and she saw nothing wrong with it. It is not by force to do traditional wedding. She should have done it full oyinbo wedding. 2 Likes |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by thorpido(m): 8:24am On Aug 24, 2018 |
blingxx:She might even have asked that bride price be not paid. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by nazablossom(f): 8:24am On Aug 24, 2018 |
It doesn't make sense to me. There's no big deal in kneeling down for your husband on your traditional marriage. It doesn't make you his slave. She should have avoided the traditional marriage entirely then. 2 Likes |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Acidosis(m): 8:25am On Aug 24, 2018 |
While accept some aspect of the yoruba culture when you can abandon culture in its entirety? Your mates do ONLY registry (with no tradition). The joke is on you and your husband especially - who I'm sure paid bride price and other traditional rituals to your family. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by AreaFada2: 8:25am On Aug 24, 2018 |
nazablossom: Tor! It is not by force after all. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by pocohantas(f): 8:26am On Aug 24, 2018 |
oyb: The husband agreed to it, so I believe they have their reasons. When I was a kid, still in primary school, my uncle married a Yoruba woman. He said he won't prostrate, it caused so much noise that day. Even as a kid, I was just looking at him like, "is this one okay?...sha dobale let's leave here". He didn't. They have been married for nothing less than 15yrs. Some people take little things serious. What is head? 2 Likes |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by hopefulLandlord: 8:27am On Aug 24, 2018 |
udemzyudex: if you don't care who influenced who then why did you conclude the man is the type that would do anything just to "get there"? |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Preshy561(f): 8:28am On Aug 24, 2018 |
tossie101:Her business,their business. the husby consented to it,why should i be pained by their decision? ? |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Fawklicant: 8:30am On Aug 24, 2018 |
There's every shade of wrong with this bride's thoughts on kneeling down. She is clearly mistaken about the concept of submission and slavery. The Yoruba tradition demands submission just like many others. Submission of wife to husband and submission of husband to the gods and society. The female folks are taking this feminism of a thing too far and some weasly men folk are aiding them. Why would the Alagas agree to such a condition to contort harmless cultural and traditional norms just because of so called modernisation? These type of women don't want equal rights, that's not what feminism is all about. They want the man to be submissive, that is usurping the order of nature. Nature doesn't operate in a vacuum, it will always find a way to correct any anomalies. Little wonder many western nations welcome immigration because their citizen population is dwindling. Men and women are just not procreating enough to fill the needs of the society. Marriages end in divorce in no time and child support bills stifle the man to near suffocation. If both sexes are equal as these wannabe feminists would want us to believe, why would the man alone bear child support bills? Why are the men almost always denied custody of the children? Each sex is designed for particular roles, trying to modify it like these feminists do is always gonna bring a problem. To all the young unmarried men out there, if you want peace in your life, forget class, forget social standing, forget beauty. These things trip men but act like a flash in the pan...they fade away. Go after a woman of virtue. If she is pretty on top of it, fine. Go after a woman who understands the concept of womanhood, loyalty and dedication. A woman who is there to support you and not compete with you. When you find her, youll understand. Not those fake pretenders. Almost every culture, tradition and religion on this earth emphasize on submission of wife to husband and husband's obligations towards wife and children. Nature has set its boundaries and when those boundaries are crossed, there's always a price to pay to restore normalcy. Time is always the biggest cost amongst others. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by bakila: 8:31am On Aug 24, 2018 |
itiswellandwell:She will obey, otherwise your analysis will come true and family members will continue the thread for her. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by omomummy11: 8:32am On Aug 24, 2018 |
If i may ask the new bride did ur hubby prostrate for ur family? if the answer is YES.That ws a sheet on the his own part let respect our culture. theirs value in it,if u can't kneel down for ur hubby in the present of both family it shows the kind of home you're from. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Tloc(m): 8:33am On Aug 24, 2018 |
pocohantas: Are you asking for real? Funkeeeeeee! |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Tloc(m): 8:35am On Aug 24, 2018 |
pocohantas: Are you asking for real? |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Modarun(m): 8:35am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Your face whenever a Yoruba man says someone is beautiful.
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Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by fabienjoe: 8:39am On Aug 24, 2018 |
IamHeWrites: African women seem to be the most confused species to walk the surface of the earth. An earlier thread was asking how much a man should be paying his wife every month and many women did not consider it a stupid question. In the western world, family responsibilities are shared proportionally to each person's income. If the woman earns more, she spends more in the home and vice versa. Talking about equality here makes sense. But in Africa, a woman expects the man to foot all the family bills and still expect some more for personal upkeep, even when sometimes they earn more than the man. Some expressly decide not to work and push EVERY responsibility, including that of the woman's maiden family, on the man. Yet they copy the western lifestyle of not submitting to men. I ask again...what do Nigerian women really want? You cannot have your cake and eat it. A man that pays all the bills would naturally feel like a boss, simply because he is one. Lack of respect for the woman which could lead to extramarital affairs is common. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 8:41am On Aug 24, 2018 |
AreaFada2:I wonder oh. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by fhorlar(f): 8:41am On Aug 24, 2018 |
9japrof: That's what our ladies don not understand. Seriously,they don't know the innate powers they possess. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by SAMBARRY: 8:43am On Aug 24, 2018 |
tossie101:is it not their wedding and marriage again? Alara ni ara o ro oun. Kiwani tie that you are crying more than the bereaved |
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