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Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by chronique(m): 10:09am On Aug 24, 2018 |
All I can see here, is an arrogant airhead of a lady who obviously talks before thinking. You got away with it and instead of keeping quiet and enjoying your home, you decided to bring it to social media. Now, your in-laws would see it and see you for the true person you are... 3 Likes |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by AkupeMBANO(f): 10:13am On Aug 24, 2018 |
jejemanito:Lmao. best comment so far 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by neyobills: 10:15am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Whatever rocks the couple boats but its more of a disservice to her parents portraying them as weaklings,if she can be proud of her knee not touching the ground if not for the sake of the husband at least as a last respect for her parents. Abeg who has that iya rainbow meme.... |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by spiritedtete: 10:17am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Really... How can people live above wisdom.... It's baffles me a lot honestly. Thank God I can't and will never marry a stupid lady... Even have stupid daughter. "A bragado of a nonentity"... My daughter will be just fine... I know that for sure. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Professurr(m): 10:17am On Aug 24, 2018 |
vivypretty:The essence of sharing it on social media is to get a large group of people adopting her way of challenging culture. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by ChristineC: 10:18am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Tel your husband I said he's pussy |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by iamHighDee(m): 10:18am On Aug 24, 2018 |
IamHeWrites: So what about when men kneel down to propose to a woman? These 'feminists' always know how topoint out the fact that everything they do makes them seem inferior to men while no one is fighting them. All of them are mad 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 10:38am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Mariinee: And you're a lady?? The kind of comments from ladies on this thread shows y'all are suffering from Stockholm syndrome. Y'all will gladly accept slavery. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 10:42am On Aug 24, 2018 |
My sister, my only problem with you is that you allowed the man to pay your bride price. If a man pay your bride price you two can never be equal, TBH. You could've ignored the traditional marriage because as it is now you're not his equal. I view bride price as modern day slavery. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Ochibavictor(m): 10:43am On Aug 24, 2018 |
jejemanito: lol. you are sick |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by TOPCRUISE(m): 10:56am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Those alagas are hired and rented |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by udemzyudex(m): 10:57am On Aug 24, 2018 |
hopefulLandlord: They both agreed to do the nonsense. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by rhames(m): 11:03am On Aug 24, 2018 |
IamHeWrites: And this woman calls this achievement? If you meet with the Queen of England, do not bow, but wait and see the backlash. If you cannot be an ambassador for your own culture,stop giving an aspect of it a bad tag in the name of advancement and womens liberation. I doubt if you know that Ngozi Okonjo-iweala bows and actually serves him his three square meals. Na poverty and poverty thinking and orientation go kill all these poor people children wey dey form big boy and big girl. If she was that good as a bride, she would have married a white man. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by SAMBARRY: 11:20am On Aug 24, 2018 |
tossie101:get sense |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Ugosample(m): 11:21am On Aug 24, 2018 |
1stCitizen: There is no such thing as superior or inferior culture Culture is culture that's why I feel sorry for those who call African culture "inferior" there is no such thing |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Ugosample(m): 11:24am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Produke: exactly |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Ugosample(m): 11:26am On Aug 24, 2018 |
lastempero: No mind them |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by mablie(m): 11:27am On Aug 24, 2018 |
kushme: |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Macgabe(m): 11:38am On Aug 24, 2018 |
tossie101: Hmmm..... Good one there. We tend to be bias when attacking our culture mostly from the perspective that it isn't fair on women. I agreed to some extent. However, this same culture bestow so many responsibilities on men but women tend to look away. Imagine the extend to which a man will have to go before getting married to a woman. Some run into debt just to fulfil all marital rites. It was the same culture that made it so but we tend to look away from that. Maybe misconception of the word ''submission'' is what's causing issues here. If we are to abolish any culture, it should be wholistic and if we are to maintain and preserve it, it should also be wholistic. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by crunchyg: 11:42am On Aug 24, 2018 |
I post=70554051:You dey always get enough time for enough rubbish, nawaooo 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by ib0221: 11:48am On Aug 24, 2018 |
This is one of the reasons why there is need for cultural awakening. I believe the duo did that just to question the status quo without profound knowledge. It is customary for groom's family to prostrate and kneel for the bride's family and the bride to kneel for the groom/husband. This has much significance. In summary, in your house, the buck stops at the man's door or table and in their society, bride's family determines the fate of the union and society at large. Their move is simply a reflection of failure of parenthood, the lady just destroyed the guy standing in his family if they should know. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by nazablossom(f): 11:54am On Aug 24, 2018 |
AreaFada2:Tell them o. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by manikspears: 11:59am On Aug 24, 2018 |
WhoBeThisMan: seriously under attack. am so scared with this nonsense post,even the bible stated that a wife should be submissive to the husband like church to Christ so i fail to understand this madness. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by manikspears: 12:03pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
post=70554051: but does not-kneeling down make a good marriage? even the people we are trying to copy still stay true to their culture so i wonder where this madness emerges from. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by AmazonTopaz(f): 12:06pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Oga elder how far? Don't mind them see nairaland men crying he couple have no problem so wetin dey there? As for me I done dey talk am small small for house the idea of brideprice does not go down well with me culture or no culture.I believe culture is dynamic not static whether I am copying whites or Africans what I know is that I won't have an elaborate wedding I don't even expect him to kneel down self(depending on who proposes self)any decision concerning my marriage is between my husband and I family opinion is secondary. So I would only have a registry marriage and have my honeymoon in Madagascar or Mauritius no time to waste. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Ugosample: I disagree. African culture, likewise Chinese is superior to European culture which my friend is almost non existent these days. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by litaninja(m): 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Ugosample(m): 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
1stCitizen: that's not true Culture = Way of life All humans have their own way of life Nothing inferior or superior And saying culture is non existent is a silly statement to make too Cultures evolve overtime, and there is no such thing as inferior one. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by monex(m): 1:31pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
AmazonTopaz: indeed live and let live. find a Man who aligns with your values and expectations and do your thing the way you both want. ... and allow those of us that want to kneel and/or be "kneeled to" do our thing too matters of preference are not definitive nor easily prescriptive. |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Daeylar(f): 1:40pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Lol All those who come online to try to shame and silence women who have opposing views to the rules set by this patriarchal society by calling them feminists and reminding them that they will stay in their fathers house then finally go for shiloh if they don't conform are crying all over this thread. Not only did this lady prove them wrong by finding a man she would love to marry, she also found a man who thinks like her and shares her views, This is so sweet |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by Enice(m): 1:59pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
This marriage is dead on arrival. Why doesn't she want to kneel down for a man she calls her husband in public? What is the big deal. Is she a cultist, a ritualist or a member of something that does not allow women to kneel before men? Did she take oath or share blood with some diabolic cult. Can she kneel for her pastor? Her father or royalty? If she can do this during her marriage ceremony, what else would she do in marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Bride Avoids Kneeling Down For Her Husband At Their Traditional Marriage by CioAngels(f): 2:07pm On Aug 24, 2018 |
Why flaunting your stupidity on social media. Where then did you put the Yoruba rich culture? Nta to oma je ojeki alaga sofue pe rubbish in imoran e. And you are happy saying it. Dirty pride with slowpoke husband. By the way, i'm nor Yoruba, but we should call a spade by its name, nti oda, oda. 1 Like |
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