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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Caleb80: 2:38pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Am Nt A Scum. U Will B Glad Vin Me As A Bf. Lolz |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 2:46pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam: The highlighted is the way forward! My experience made me question some of my fundamental values, the world doesn't value honesty anymore.. The honest souls are seen as fools. The world is so messed up right now, Even the ones that are being used will use you once they discover that they've earned your trust! Trust is so freaking expensive , don't give it out cheaply. Truth is , finding a good relationship these days is a gift from God, it has passed human discernment. Sorry for your experience too.. May God guide us to the people who will bring the best out of us ! Amen 5 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Earthquake1: 2:47pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Stop using one person to generalize for a lot of guys I may share you with my friend but I would not snitch on either of you |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 2:49pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Caleb80: You don't have to prove yourself man. Any lady who says men are scum should be wise enough to know that her father, brothers, nephews and uncles are scum. Well don't expect much from these hungry young females, probably still in school. 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Ishilove: 2:54pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
The hianticness of it all...smh |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by zicoraads: 3:18pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam, I do feel bad for your experience. Especially when someone attains the age of 28 and still acts like a child. It becomes sadder when you trust the person so, so much. Your experience is the reason some are always very wary of going into serious relationships with those they meet on any online fora. But see it this way, we've had not 1, not 2, not 3, but more 'Happy Ever Afters' amongst people who met on Nairaland. So all men here can't be scum. What happened to you also happens with guys or ladies you meet 'outside'. You can meet someone anywhere and still experience the same thing. That being said, what will it take for you to name and shame? I want you to put out the monikers of all who were involved. That way, you will be saving an innocent girl here from the same experience as yours. 8 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 3:34pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
phantonce: Thank you. I get the picture now. |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 3:37pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam: Hey Loveisascam, sorry about what happened to you, I do have one serious question to ask. How exactly would you be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada? Are there any advantages to couples as opposed to single people. Please Kindly respond. ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by victorian(f): 3:39pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Preshy561: Don't mind some girls who accept to date guys here, upon all the rubbish guys here spill about women. Calling ladies olosho, hungry leeches, hoes, bitches, rotten pussies etc. A lady will still open her korokoro eye fall for their trap? Chai! ![]() Anyways Op ,sorry for the distasteful experience, next time u will steer clear from guys on this website. Although not all of them are bad but it's better to avoid guys on Nairaland than come online opening threads with stories that touch. Such as this one. Just chat friendly and move on. No need wasting your time having high hopes of a good future with any here, cos it's not written on their foreheads. 12 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Loveisascam: 3:52pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
cruchenutii: He planned to act like he was really serious in the relationship and wants us to marry. Then he would probably suggest I support him by giving him a certain amount of money so he can successfully relocate to Canada. Once he gets there, he marries a white woman for papers and then forgets about me and refunding my money. Not like I have money though. He assumed wrongly. I am just managing. 13 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by generationz(f): 3:55pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
cruchenutii: hehehe bia cruchenutii are you trying to assure me of something or what ? *side eyes* |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by joceey(m): 3:59pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam: Men re not scum ....You only got yourself involve with immature little boys ....Pls stop saying men re scum .....i stand with the lovely and goodhearted men out there .....Take care and get over it pls |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by BrutusOj(m): 3:59pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Acidosis:i have a feeling that both of you are the said friends the op just talk about |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by veraiyke(m): 4:03pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Good a thing you found out earlier. But believe me when i say there are more matured and honourable men out there. Please as hard as it is, do not use two foolish men to judge all men. |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Tozara(m): 4:04pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam:Sorry about your horrible, and rather unforgivable experience with trashy, beastly entities that are not worthy to be called human beings. It surely does happen. And it's a very good thing you found out on time before you were used as a ladder and dumped on a dunghill. Nevertheless, it doesn't justify your lumping all men in a dirty basket and declaring them scum. And also, there's absolutely no way your singular experience could definitively prove love to be a scam. What happened to you was unfortunate, and while it remains painful and disappointing, I advise you not to become bitter towards men or contemptuous of the male gender, as that won't help you in anyway. You'll only turn out toxic and miserable in the long run. However, you're absolutely correct, and have rightly discovered, that it's totally unwise to trust another human being, no matter how good-hearted or humane they might seem. And while there's nothing wrong with closing your heart for good, you now know that even if you choose to open it again, it would be with the knowledge of the possibility of it getting broken or shattered, and being fully aware of that, you'll tread more carefully, and consider every suspicion legitimate enough to warrant an investigation. So, to reiterate, men are not scum, even though some HUMANS are evidently scum, and going about with that idea in your head because of something you experienced might be harmful to your psychology, and presenting it as a statement of fact would be offensive to us, and irresponsible of you. Also, while you retain the right to your subjective opinion about love being a scam, and are under no obligations to change it, remember that there are others who similarly hold their subjective experiences as proof of the reality of love, so it's all relative. It depends on which side of it you've been fortunate or unfortunate enough to experience. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by HelpMySoul: 4:05pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
generationz:he will just deactivate and resurface with another moniker. Kapish? 4 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by generationz(f): 4:07pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
HelpMySoul:his fullnname will be helpful then 1 Like |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Tozara(m): 4:09pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Oblongata:Wow. This is what some women mean by "scum". You seem to qualify as something even more terrible. 4 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 4:11pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam: Okay thanks, I was thinking it was due to some Canadian laws |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by HelpMySoul: 4:12pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam: I feel your pain. It shows you have a good heart for you to create a thread on this. If the guy didn't mean anything much you would not have created this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by HelpMySoul: 4:13pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
generationz:that will be taking it too far. Not worth it. The dude isn't mature and still has child teen brain that needs to be developed. He never truly loved her. |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by sylvez(m): 4:14pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
I wanted to say you are STUPID but i will not say it.... I also wanted to ask you whether your Vagina is actually wide ![]() However, you dont have to categorize all men in the same category with your boyfriend..... See the kind of boyfriend you get sef.... E be like say you dey desperate for husband..... Loveisascam: 4 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Tozara(m): 4:19pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
victorian:This is just irrational bullshit. There's no difference between "nairaland guys" and guys out there in the real world. It's not like it's only a certain set of people that join nairaland, or coming to nairaland makes them into a new kind of human beings. "Nairaland guys" are random guys of different heritage, from within the general population, residing in different parts of the country, mostly unrelated and unconnected, who decided to become more than guests on the forum, and registered as members of the cyber community. So I don't get the point of the emboldened at all. It couldn't be more absurd. We'll soon start hearing of "facebook guys" and "twitter guys", as if they're from a different world, and are not the everyday guys we see around. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 4:21pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
generationz: Hmmm this is a trick question, i won't answer it ![]() |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by generationz(f): 4:30pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
cruchenutii:lol |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by mrblessed(m): 4:41pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Loveisascam:You are certainly surviving not managing. Managing would mean you have the resources your lover needed. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by mrblessed(m): 4:44pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
There are no good men left on Nairaland anymore. Reason? Nairaland ladies made them bad. |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 4:52pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
victorian:loveisascam please take note. guys herein aren't worth it a bit. 3 Likes |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by zomoears(m): 5:13pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Demons everywhere... [/quote] Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well. Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry. I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them. [/quote] |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Acidosis(m): 5:22pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
BrutusOj: Lol, you're wrong sir. |
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Collins4u1(m): 5:26pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Friend 2 wanted to visit you at your home.. if everything didn't burst out, it would have started right there. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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