Preshy561: any girl that accepts a pm from these sex starved NL bìtches all in the name of dating should have herself to blame,even upon seeing the nonsense they do spill against women here.
and this boy will still come to call girls gold digger when he has nothing to be digged.
how do you know they are sex starved? I have never dated anyone on NL tho
Some men are Scum, some women are also Scum. There are good good men and also good women. That somebody is bad doesn't mean everybody is the same. Shared finance between my wife and i is one of the secret of our peaceful and blissful marriage. May God connect with a good man.
when some people are in love abi lust they tend to keep their brain in the shelf.so she probably was doing all those things out of ifunanya abi ifunaahu.just be nice cos heartbreak pain nah next to death
Some men are so dumb my dear, I will forgive this one cos he's relatively young at 28 anyway, but there are ones in their late 30s and 40s that actually talk and act like kids and I'm like what the Bleep! Just forget him and move on
Loveisascam: My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.
I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.
Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.
I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.
Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.
My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.
To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.
I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.
Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.
My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.
I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.
After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.
He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.
Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.
Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.
I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.
This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.
Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Op check my signature. I have been in your shoe, played by the person I called bae. I have same exact story to tell
Plenty fake a.s.s dudes (n babes) on NL, that's why I just come for information and go to Quora to engage with meaningful, non tribalistic, non religiously fanatical, non hateful humans
Anyway you were dating a kid not a Real man. Real men don't even kiss and tell. Some of them are introverts like us and you hardly see them in drinking pubs with friends all the time. I mentioned drinking pubs and bars because that's where guys meet and discuss frivolities likes the smell and wideness of vagina.
I hope you meet a real man not the kiss-and-tell sissies young girls like to roll with.
Sometimes, men who truly loves would like to know he fate of his woman and set her up for trials. That's happen when the man means serious business. It's bf two that disappointed his guy. I can't imagine why men could be stupid and betray his own friend. The problem started when bf two decided to take advantage of him. If not and well played, your guy would catch you cheat on him. You ran here to tell us you don't Mean anything with him, so why then do you reject the first one and accepted the second one. You would have slept with him. That's only if u can tell yourself the truth, women can easily open their legs to men.
Let us date then maybe you will know that not all men are same.
Loveisascam: My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.
I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.
Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.
I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.
Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.
My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.
To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.
I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.
Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.
My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.
I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.
After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.
He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.
Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.
Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.
I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.
This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.
Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Loveisascam: My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.
I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.
Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.
I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.
Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.
My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.
To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.
I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.
Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.
My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.
I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.
After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.
He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.
Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.
Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.
I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.
This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.
Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
it's quite pathetic buy never because of that have a fallacy of hasty generalisation about guys, I wouldn't do that for ladies despite what I faced recently.... all the best dear
Some men are evil.. My advice for you, is to never trust any man you met online. Some of them are scammers, cultists, ritualists, and pretenders. Please my dear sister, you've learnt your own lesson be that. Next time think twice..
Loveisascam: My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.
I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.
Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.
I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.
Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.
My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.
To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.
I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.
Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.
My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.
I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.
After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.
He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.
Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.
Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.
I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.
This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.
Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
This is a new level of low. However, I'd say something to you. Your decision not to trust any man again would only hurt you and you alone. While you are hurting yourself and bearing grudges against the male folks, they would be living their lives and be happy while you continue keeping hot coals in your chest for no reason. Truth is, both your bf and his friend, are two idiots. I can't imagine sharing intimate details of a person I'm dating, with a friend under any circumstance... Life is too short to make yourself perpetually unhappy because someone else decided to be foolish. Let go of the disappointment, get yourself a king who would cherish and respect you, and live your life to the fullest.
You will be fine las las... All men are not scum, I believe there are still good men out there.
What you said about making reasonable comments on NL is true, I have encountered somany people that make sensible comments on social media but very senseless in real life which is why I hardly fall for such comments because the world is full of hypocrites!
Remember those guys wey you chopped their money and didn’t return their call... They’re somewhere hurting some females now and those females will hurts some innocents dude and the circle continue.
Wether Nairaland, Reddit, qoura or Facebook... humans will always be humans but it’s easy for us to use social media as mask!
pocohantas: OP, the first mistake you made was chatting with someone you never gave your number.
I don't ever give attention to a guy if I am not the one that gave him my number. Call me immature, call me rude. The first question I will ask is how you got my number. Even when you tell me who it is, as long as it is a guy...be rest assured I will never date you.
You fell for the easiest trick in their books. Sad one!
Ladies like her hardly stay in a place. Another dicck must fall in and very quickly. And the guy sef go chop and clean mouth as usual.
Forget about the pretentious indignation she is showing right now. She knows the kind of person she is.
Guys know a treasure when they see one. Guys don't share their treasure with friends.
Female issue na matter way I kw day put mouth Again because No matter how men still b scum u day go still wide their leg again for another scum Lolzzzzz dis life sha
Love is a name Sex is a game Anybody can b d player even scum
Plenty fake a.s.s dudes (n babes) on NL, that's why I just come for information and go to Quora to engage with meaningful, non tribalistic, non religiously fanatical, non hateful humans 
