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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 4:01pm On Aug 28, 2018
Airforce1:


You still won't get free pussyy after this comment
like you did abi, and made her a baby mama

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Godsonkemz(m): 4:16pm On Aug 28, 2018
UjSizzle:
Feminism is the reason you have a say in public. Ignorant twerp.

Go read some history.

This one is so pained. Continue to preach feminism and remain single at this your old age.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Mofe72: 4:16pm On Aug 28, 2018
HeWrites:
According to a Nigerian lady on Twitter, feminism is a rebellion against God's established order, she says both genders are equally precious in the eyes of God and we don't need feminism to help us realise that.

Read her tweets below;
"Most feminists aren’t too fond of God’s design for gender. They don’t like the idea of the man being dubbed as the primary leader, initiator, and provider. They don’t like the idea of Eve being created as a helper to Adam.

Feminism has rejected God as the ultimate authority for life and instead placed herself on the throne. The god of feminism pridefully says, “I know better than God and will live out my womanhood how I think is best.”

At its root, feminism is built upon a foundation completely devoid of God. The feminist movement is woven with the same sin Satan committed in the beginning. A rebellious heart that pridefully says, “I don’t need you, God. Thanks, but I’ll do things my way.”

When we reject God’s created order and purposes for our lives as women, we will not find lasting happiness. We don’t need feminism to inform us of our worth and value.

God already says we’re equally valuable. We don’t need to become feminists to promote this area of biblical teaching. What we do need is to lovingly show all women how valuable and precious they are to God.

We need to re-embrace God’s design for marriage, family, dignity of life, and sexuality. We need to repent of our pride and accept God’s Word as the authority in our lives.

Feminism has never offered a solution that the Bible hasn’t already taken care of.

God’s Word has all the answers we need. In Christ, we (men and women) will find all the fulfillment, worth, value and purpose this life has to offer!heart♥️�"


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9588/feminism-is-a-rebellion-against-gods-established-order-nigerian-lady-says.html


The Bible never said women should submit to men. You people will not read properly.

It said ‘WIVES’ submit to your husbands.
‘HUSBANDS’ love your ‘WIFE’ as Christ loved the ‘CHURCH’.

Meaning that husbands should be able to go the long run for their wives.

The same bible says that a man that can’t provide for his family is worse than an infidel. Today we see families where the husband does nothing and still makes demands. Abegii.

If not for feminism, would we have women in school?? RUBBISH!

Yes, a lot of people have abused the term/movement. But most men who get irritated by feminism do so because of their fragile masculinity and ego. KMFT!!

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Mofe72: 4:19pm On Aug 28, 2018
Godsonkemz:


This one is so pained. Continue to preach feminism and remain single at this your old age.

See this ignoramus! So if you marry, it’s a life achievement.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Amberon11: 4:21pm On Aug 28, 2018
You African men think you're gods that your wives should worship. I have a neighbor, he doesn't have a job. His wife works two jobs , pays the rent, fees and everything. He assists in house chores because he understands that his wife is always busy at work and it hasn't stopped him from being a man.

Why should a woman be a house wife if she doesn't want to? Are you the owner of her life? You claim to be a Christian. Don't you know that even God doesn't impose things on humans?

Did women tell you they want to be the head of the homes? How does gender equality mean that women want to be the head?

Chimamanda must not be present in this shithole to speak about it. She is free to be anywhere she wishes to be and speak of anything she wants to.

jomoh:


You asked and I shall tell you


Its the same insecurity that made you not to complete the list you started by extending it to the domestic front.


Sharing family resposibilities like wanting he man to cook, prepare the child(ren).

Same insecurity that made them reject women as house wifes.


Same insecurity that made them not realize women have their own purpose as divinely stated and being the head of the family is not one of them.


By the way if it is not insecurity then why is Chimamanda Adichie not here in Nigeria fighting all those things you stated above which are obviously prevalent in Africa.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Amberon11: 4:22pm On Aug 28, 2018
@bolded you too sis kiss
pocohantas:



Does gender pay-gap exist in Nigeria?
Most structured organisations pay according to the level. These levels are structured on educational/qualification basis. I have never seen one that's done by gender.

Quota based employment is mediocrity. If a woman wants a slot, then she should prove herself capable of it. Just like men, a woman isn't deserving of an automatic slot, just because she has a vagina.


Yes, Amberon is bae grin

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by QueenSekxy(f): 4:25pm On Aug 28, 2018
Amberon11:
You African men think you're gods that your wives should worship. I have a neighbor, he doesn't have a job. His wife works two jobs , pays the rent, fees and everything. He assists in house chores because he understands that his wife is always busy at work and it hasn't stopped him from being a man.

Why should a woman be a house wife is she doesn't want to? Are you the owner of her life? You claim to be a Christian. Don't you know that even God doesn't impose things on humans?

Did women tell you they want to be the head of the homes? How does gender equality mean that women want to be the head?

Chimamanda must not be present in this shithole to speak about it. She is free to be anywhere she wishes to be and speak of anything she wants to.

You deserve 2 bottles of origin.grin

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by JasonScoolari: 4:28pm On Aug 28, 2018
AmazonTopaz:
[s]@Amberon1,we agree today weldone.Kudos to you.


Some people are so confused that they always mix feminism with marriage and forget about issues talking about family,marriage blah blah.

I am liberal in ideology and I believe it is a free world and when I marry I must practice equality with my husband in equal rights and responsibilities.

Feminism is deep and everyone cannot believe or support it whatever rocks their boat but as for me I am a feminist and I believe in some of it's cause.
And nobody can come and tell me otherwise because I do not subscribe to religion and whomever I marry must reject every belief that contains misogyny,chauvinism or any primitive view of women or that men are superior to women because of genitals.

And as for anti feminist,it is only a matter of time women would have those rights even if it is in marriage.Feminism is not only about marriage or family it is more than that so if you like say it is the devil or Satan that brought feminism na your problem be that.Feminism has come to stay.[/s]

@Jasons.coolari,must you mention me?
Lol, is that how you say hello to a very "caring" and lovely friend? grin By the way, I am now a Feminist, you can ask Dominique my sweetheart. grin


What happened to the other account?
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Amberon11: 4:32pm On Aug 28, 2018
Oya where is the origin? grin
QueenSekxy:

You deserve 2 bottles of origin.grin
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by OyinbowithaTan(m): 4:34pm On Aug 28, 2018
3rd/4th wave western feminism is insane. It is also very much anti male. Original feminism, as in allowing women to do whatever job they want, like utility worker, helicopter/plane pilot, bus driver is ok. If a women is not married she needs to work to make money to live. If she get married, has kinds, and the man makes enough so she can stay home that is ideal.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by MNDY(m): 4:38pm On Aug 28, 2018
Shugavee:
Unapologetic feminist ! N I love Jesus,, Jesus said love ur neighbor like yourself!!! N that’s how it is for me. Full stop,, nothing is gonna change

To believe in God and also be a feminist defies all logic.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by killsmith(f): 4:41pm On Aug 28, 2018
Amberon11:

are you really this ignorant or you're just pretending to be? I come from a family of lawyers (even though I'm not one) so I'm not a novice to the law and I suggest you stop saying rubbish that you know nothing about. Listen , there is no offense in this world (in a democracy not the babaric middle East Sharia states?
for which the suspect is guilty until proven innocent. That is the "daftest" thing I've heard all year. Even though you kill someone you are always innocent until proven guilty.

Either you're lying that you come from a family of lawyers or you're ignorant... Educate yourself.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Presumption_of_guilt


Amberon11:

And please Nigeria is not misandristic, it is rather misorgynist. It is only in the middle East that a woman will be raped wit overwhelming evidence and still be jailed for it, not in civilized Western societies.

Why do you keep talking about Saudi Arabia? Their women have made it clear that they detest the west and their ways. What else do you want?




Amberon11:
Very daft questions that don't even need answers. So all the other bridges in the world that have been collapsing were made by women? I asked a question which you've not answered, have you deployed women soldiers to the battlefield and they said they wouldn't go?
hypocrisy!! . You open one side of your mouth and say Nigeria is not misandristic, then you open the other side to ask why Nigeria is not deploying women to wars.



Amberon11:
Lmao.... saying women should forgo maternity leaves. Well we will forgo maternity leave when you men start develope a vagina and start bearing kids. How about that?
if you know this, why then do you seek equality? Do you think your creator is a fool for giving you the responsibility of carrying a child and breasts to breastfeed and nurture a child?.... By your mentality, you're not ready for equality. Grab a dictionary and check the meaning of equality. Then give yourself a wobble.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by PDPGuy: 4:43pm On Aug 28, 2018
UjSizzle:
Feminism is the reason you have a say in public. Ignorant twerp.

Go read some history.
I agree with you 100%

Guess what my former handle was? cool
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by MNDY(m): 4:44pm On Aug 28, 2018
Maxcollins042:
Truth is that some women mistake misandrism for feminism. They perpetuate their hatred for men under the aegis of feminism (a women's movement that orchestrates for the social, political and economical equality of women with the male sex).

God may have made the male a head of a family but not the sole leader of a society among the sexes. In the present patriarchal society structure that exists today, women are neglected and treated as inconsequential beings. Is this the type of system that God designed? This is what feminism is trying to redress and adjust so that the females will be treated just as the males - particularly in Africa.

The Biblical society structure was patriarchal and God had it that way.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by jomoh: 4:45pm On Aug 28, 2018
Amberon11:
You African men think you're gods that your wives should worship. I have a neighbor, he doesn't have a job. His wife works two jobs , pays the rent, fees and everything. He assists in house chores because he understands that his wife is always busy at work and it hasn't stopped him from being a man.

Why should a woman be a house wife is she doesn't want to? Are you the owner of her life? You claim to be a Christian. Don't you know that even God doesn't impose things on humans?

Did women tell you they want to be the head of the homes? How does gender equality mean that women want to be the head?

Chimamanda must not be present in this shithole to speak about it. She is free to be anywhere she wishes to be and speak of anything she wants to.



All in the name to justify your rubbish, you’re already drifting from the topic.


The ops topic was about Devine decree now you’re making it about African men. Where does obeying God’s command equate to wives worshipping their husbands.


Madam carry your twisted mentality and go to the western world where your twisted brain and antagonism to God is accepted.


If a woman doesn’t want to become a house wife then she shouldn’t marry a man that is willing to uphold the command of his creator.

She doesn’t have to be present then how does she fight for something that she cannot relate directly with the sufferers.


The point of the story is about feminism antagonizing the creators command not about African men and you making it about African men shows your ultimate insecurity and inferiority complex cos in your twisted mentality, it’s only African men that does all the above you stated. In effect you fight is ultimately abou African men alone then why is Chimamanda shouting in a white mans land if her feminism fight is largely about African men.

Get your priorities and stories right before your defend your twisted ideology.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Shugavee(f): 4:50pm On Aug 28, 2018
MNDY:


To believe in God and also be a feminist defies all logic.
defies all logic to you?? Not me. I believe in God n not the Bible I must not agree with everything written in the Bible cause it was written by humans like me n you, not God himself,, most especially the fact it was written by men

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by ericbertrand(m): 4:53pm On Aug 28, 2018
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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Amberon11: 5:14pm On Aug 28, 2018
My comment was in line with what I observed from that person's response to me.

I understand your frustration and lack of comprehension and I must say it is not new to me. You all suddenly develope fangs and claws when this issue is being discussed and I'm not surprised at all.

Which divine decree tells to subdue women and deny them rights that you yourself have? Didn't your Bible say "do onto others what you want them to do you you"? Didn't you Bible say "love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it"?

Mumu, what part of my comments show any antagonism to God?

You're in no place to compel your wife to be a housewife if she doesn't want to. Even God doesn't compel humans do things. He gave us free will.

Maybe you're in the Stone age but in today's world , you don't have to be present o fight for a struggle. She is reaching out women all over he world , not just to Nigerian women. In case you didn't notice she is global now and doesn't have to be present in every country to speak for the women there.

You seem to be really frustrated. Like I said my comment was in response to that user. Emancipate yourself from your archaic mentality else the world will leave you behind.
jomoh:



All in the name to justify your rubbish, you’re already drifting from the topic.


The ops topic was about Devine decree now you’re making it about African men. Where does obeying God’s command equate to wives worshipping their husbands.


Madam carry your twisted mentality and go to the western world where your twisted brain and antagonism to God is accepted.


If a woman doesn’t want to become a house wife then she shouldn’t marry a man that is willing to uphold the command of his creator.

She doesn’t have to be present then how does she fight for something that she cannot relate directly with the sufferers.


The point of the story is about feminism antagonizing the creators command not about African men and you making it about African men shows your ultimate insecurity and inferiority complex cos in your twisted mentality, it’s only African men that does all the above you stated. In effect you fight is ultimately abou African men alone then why is Chimamanda shouting in a white mans land if her feminism fight is largely about African men.

Get your priorities and stories right before your defend your twisted ideology.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by QueenSekxy(f): 5:16pm On Aug 28, 2018
Amberon11:
Oya where is the origin? grin
gringrin You are really good.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Amberon11: 5:21pm On Aug 28, 2018
Lmao....you must've searched the entire internet for that. I'm not reading no links that anyone can decide to cook up. Pick up a book or better still, ask any lawyer you know. In the developed world, a suspect is always innocent until proven guilty. If you don't know that then it's a huge shame. That is why a person is called a "suspect" even though he is caught red handed.

Women that their men would kill if they dare speak out you expect them to say the truth. Why do they keep running away if they were so free? LMAO...

Dude I'm done with talking to you. So that you don't reduce my IQ. Bye!
killsmith:

Either you're lying that you come from a family of lawyers or you're ignorant... Educate yourself.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Presumption_of_guilt



Why do you keep talking about Saudi Arabia? Their women have made it clear that they detest the west and their ways. What else do you want?




hypocrisy!! . You open one side of your mouth and say Nigeria is not misandristic, then you open the other side to ask why Nigeria is not deploying women to wars.



if you know this, why then do you seek equality? Do you think your creator is a fool for giving you the responsibility of carrying a child and breasts to breastfeed and nurture a child?.... By your mentality, you're not ready for equality. Grab a dictionary and check the meaning of equality. Then give yourself a wobble.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by Amberon11: 5:23pm On Aug 28, 2018
Thanks dear....I'm flattered grin
QueenSekxy:

gringrin
You are really good.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:23pm On Aug 28, 2018
JasonScoolari:
Lol, is that how you say hello to a very "caring" and lovely friend? grin By the way, I am now a Feminist, you can ask Dominique my sweetheart. grin


What happened to the other account?
Nothing happen I use any of my accounts as I please.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by JasonScoolari: 5:27pm On Aug 28, 2018
AmazonTopaz:

Nothing happen I use any of my accounts as I please.
There's still anger hovering over your reply. Let it go.



How are you my friend?
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:29pm On Aug 28, 2018
donnie:


I'm sure she agrees with you. Only do not bring that your feminism to your husband's house. That's if you're interested in being happily married.

Even this word "husband's house" does it apply if the woman built it or paid a part of the rent.The word is demeaning also to make a marriage work has nothing to do with women alone,so to have a happy marriage is not for the women alone if some men can drop their domineering attitude at the door some women may drop their feminism at the door if treated right in their own houses.And besides not everyone is religious or believes that having a joystick qualifies you as the head.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:31pm On Aug 28, 2018
JasonScoolari:
There's still anger hovering over your reply. Let it go.



How are you my friend?
I am not your friend and I am not angry.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by JasonScoolari: 5:35pm On Aug 28, 2018
AmazonTopaz:

I am not your friend and I am not angry.
... Attitude!!! Lol, You're still my little friend. grin

No more spanking from Jason, I would rather bang that foolish ideology out of you. That's a promise. grin
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by killsmith(f): 5:39pm On Aug 28, 2018
Amberon11:
Lmao....you must've searched the entire internet for that. I'm not reading no links that anyone can decide to cook up. Pick up a book or better still, ask any lawyer you know. In the developed world, a suspect is always innocent until proven guilty. If you don't know that then it's a huge shame. That is why a person is called a "suspect" even though he is caught red handed.

Women that their men would kill if they dare speak out you expect them to say the truth. Why do they keep running away if they were so free? LMAO...

Dude I'm done with talking to you. So that you don't reduce my IQ. Bye!
look at this foolish girl. An article from Wikipedia will reduce your IQ?

I can't believe I've been wasting my time with someone with such low level of reasoning.


Maybe you wanted to write, "I come from a family of foolishness", then you mistakenly wrote "i come from a family of lawyers" .... Either ways... I hope you find a cure for your hypocrisy and foolishness.
Women have decided to treat themselves like commodities, we will continue to subjugate and treat you like the commodities that you are.... Your feminism will not cross the borders of Africa. Try nonsense in this Africa and we'll put you in your place.

Useless bunch of frustrated people.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:40pm On Aug 28, 2018
JasonScoolari:
... Attitude!!! Lol, You're still my little friend. grin

No more spanking from Jason, I would rather bang that foolish ideology out of you. That's a promise. grin

There is no friendship unless the people involved must agree.I am not your friend and feminism is not a foolish ideology so save yourself the stress I would forever be a feminist so long as my ideology is liberal,because at the end of the day na you go tire.
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:43pm On Aug 28, 2018
killsmith:
look at this foolish girl. An article from Wikipedia will reduce your IQ?

I can't believe I've been wasting my time with someone with such low level of reasoning.


Maybe you wanted to write, "I come from a family of foolishness", then you mistakenly wrote "i come from a family of lawyers" .... Either ways... I hope you find a cure for your hypocrisy and foolishness.
Women have decided to treat themselves like commodities, we will continue to subjugate and treat you like the commodities that you are.... Your feminism will not cross the borders of Africa. Try nonsense in this Africa and we'll put you in your place.

Useless bunch of frustrated people.
Amberon11,has been giving you solid points word for word oya stop spilling rubbish.feminism has come to stay in Africa and beyond and there is nothing you can do about it.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by donnie(m): 5:48pm On Aug 28, 2018
AmazonTopaz:


Even this word "husband's house" does it apply if the woman built it or paid a part of the rent.The word is demeaning also to make a marriage work has nothing to do with women alone,so to have a happy marriage is not for the women alone if some men can drop their domineering attitude at the door some women may drop their feminism at the door if treated right in their own houses.And besides not everyone is religious or believes that having a joystick qualifies you as the head

This is the problem and exactly what the OP is pointing out. How can you know what is right without knowing or acknowledging God's set order as shown in His Word?

He is the creator of all things including the institution of marriage. It has to be His way if it's gonna work.

It's not by force to marry na. undecided
Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:49pm On Aug 28, 2018
Godsonkemz:


This one is so pained. Continue to preach feminism and remain single at this your old age.
And she told you she is old and looking for a husband and marriage is her ultimate plan in life.
Every single woman out there is a feminist and every single man out there did not date because they are only meeting feminist.
Mtchewww.

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Re: "Feminism Is A Rebellion Against God's Established Order" - Nigerian Lady Says by JasonScoolari: 5:49pm On Aug 28, 2018
AmazonTopaz:


There is no friendship unless the people involved must agree.I am not your friend and feminism is not a foolish ideology so save yourself the stress I would forever be a feminist so long as my ideology is liberal,because at the end of the day na you go tire.
You remind me of my late parrot, (Daisy) She talks too much and always aggressive when its time to get laid... Don't be like Daisy. grin



Do have a lovely time convincing us my sweet little friend. grin

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