There is this girl I love, so lovely, I never cheated on her, believe her not materialistic,she left secondary school,2016 we have dated for two years now, recently got admitted in unijos, while am down east, I begged her to reconsider her decision which she said is beyond her, only her brothers can take the decision for her. Down the lane when visiting east she will come and see Me before finally go home,
We start having quarrels, because of a particular guy, each time I called her, she is with him, in his place, most times she is on call with her, worst she end up telling me he is her friend, her bestie and her course mate
One day I called her, she was there with him, we talk after speaking with her at 4pm I called her again by 8pm she told she was still there and about leaving, finally she reach her Lodge by some minutes to 10,
I quarreled her, told her I don't like her keeping late, and risk also is unbearable after a while we all agreed such won't happen again
Yesterday called her by 5pm she was wit HIM... we conversate after that I hang up, I called her again by 7pm she was still at the guy place became mad she said she will call once she reach home,she did reach by minutes after 8pm ,called me i didnt pick, so I finally did, I asked her, why she kept late again, she said she was waiting for someone to go with, I was mad, is the risk worth it, jos for that matter,
She apologized, I asked her if she will do that again she said"I DONT KNOW "
I now be like okay, let Me check her loyalty ,I told her she have to totally quit going there since she can't quit keeping late ,she said she can't, I now told her to choose is either I quit or she quit going there, she said she can't choose, guess what, she refuse to quit that guy,


FRIENDS I TOLD HER AM QUITING IF SHE CANT QUIT HIM please judge this did I do wrong?did you thinking she is cheating?worst after telling her this ,she didn't care just hang up and sleep

hey aburo, free D babe.

You're giving her so much attention in fact you are disturbing her and you want her to take you serious. I think you should focus on yourself right now

lol,I can relate to this..
I would really advice you to forget about her cos you lost her the very moment she gained admission in that school..
I've always told people that long distance relationship is a scam.so long as you are not readily available,there's always another man to fill the space that has been created whether you like it or not..
its the bitter truth.

chiommy123:
You're giving her so much attention in fact you are disturbing her and you want her to take you serious. I think you should focus on yourself right now

Is that all you have to say



Leave that girl, sad truth is that she ain't yours no more. Take this as an elderly advice, go and face your future. Sort out yourself before sorting out a relationship.

if a man can get you angry then he can kill you

lol she's going through HOE phase

old women on nairaland will understand this, one thing about this bestie thing is that, women learn the hard way

three things involved

leave her
stay with her
double date

So shu we fry beans?

guy, free the babe. she's not yours anymore. it might seem too painful for you right now but once you meet someone else, you'll quickly forget about her. don't call her or text her again. I have seen this play out among female students enough times to know what I'm saying. Concentrate on yourself and build up your financial power. study hard and plan your life accordingly. The more money that you have, the more girls would be the ones chasing you. always consider women as consumable goods. like alcoholic beverages. you can buy only cheap alcohol like kai kai and cheap beer but if you have more money, then you can buy more qualitative foreign brands. the same applies to most of Nigerian ladies, if you have the money, you would have the most desirable ladies running after you. ladies of great beauty and brains with careers in desirable areas. but if you're poor, then only the ugly poor ones would be after you. and big boys would take your young girlfriend /relegate you to back up boyfriend. so concentrate on yourself now and forget about the girl unless you're happy to be her back up boyfriend.

elkraune:
So shu we fry beans?

you're a big fool. did anybody force you to comment?

sinaj:

u are not serious at all

OP, focus on your academics and free the young lady. Giving a lady too much attention will make u lose respect.

[s][/s]guy, free the babe. she's not yours anymore. it might seem too painful for you right now but once you meet someone else, you'll quickly forget about her. don't call her or text her again. I have seen this play out among female students enough times to know what I'm saying. Concentrate on yourself and build up your financial power. study hard and plan your life accordingly. The more money that you have, the more girls would be the ones chasing you. always consider women as consumable goods. like alcoholic beverages. you can buy only cheap alcohol like kai kai and cheap beer but if you have more money, then you can buy more qualitative foreign brands. the same applies to most of Nigerian ladies, if you have the money, you would have the most desirable ladies running after you. ladies of great beauty and brains with careers in desirable areas. but if you're poor, then only the ugly poor ones would be after you. and big boys would take your young girlfriend /relegate you to back up boyfriend. so concentrate on yourself now and forget about the girl unless you're happy to be her back up boyfriend.[s][/s]
Wrong on some level.

I can't say I'm financially buoyant but I have dated the kind of girls u said only rich guys can date.

Ur cup of tea... Stupid ass niggah

Mgbadike80:
you're a big fool. did anybody force you to comment?

Life goes on and never quit now formally. quitting because of that guy will show u r weak n jealous. Erase her completely from ur mind and plans. there r a lot of beautiful,gorgeous,responsible, respectful,peaceful, caring and loving women out there waiting for ur love and trust with admiration and loyalty. Real men respect n love their woman while real women reciprocate it with loyalty n care. She doesn't care nor loyal. U r special!!

internationalman:
[s][/s]guy, free the babe. she's not yours anymore. it might seem too painful for you right now but once you meet someone else, you'll quickly forget about her. don't call her or text her again. I have seen this play out among female students enough times to know what I'm saying. Concentrate on yourself and build up your financial power. study hard and plan your life accordingly. The more money that you have, the more girls would be the ones chasing you. always consider women as consumable goods. like alcoholic beverages. you can buy only cheap alcohol like kai kai and cheap beer but if you have more money, then you can buy more qualitative foreign brands. the same applies to most of Nigerian ladies, if you have the money, you would have the most desirable ladies running after you. ladies of great beauty and brains with careers in desirable areas. but if you're poor, then only the ugly poor ones would be after you. and big boys would take your young girlfriend /relegate you to back up boyfriend. so concentrate on yourself now and forget about the girl unless you're happy to be her back up boyfriend.[s][/s]
Wrong on some level.

I can't say I'm financially buoyant but I have dated the kind of girls u said only rich guys can date.

likely as a back up or temporary boy friend without you knowing.

chiommy123:
You're giving her so much attention in fact you are disturbing her and you want her to take you serious. I think you should focus on yourself right now

thank u so much I appreciate,i owe you

Mgbadike80:
guy, free the babe. she's not yours anymore. it might seem too painful for you right now but once you meet someone else, you'll quickly forget about her. don't call her or text her again. I have seen this play out among female students enough times to know what I'm saying. Concentrate on yourself and build up your financial power. study hard and plan your life accordingly. The more money that you have, the more girls would be the ones chasing you. always consider women as consumable goods. like alcoholic beverages. you can buy only cheap alcohol like kai kai and cheap beer but if you have more money, then you can buy more qualitative foreign brands. the same applies to most of Nigerian ladies, if you have the money, you would have the most desirable ladies running after you. ladies of great beauty and brains with careers in desirable areas. but if you're poor, then only the ugly poor ones would be after you. and big boys would take your young girlfriend /relegate you to back up boyfriend. so concentrate on yourself now and forget about the girl unless you're happy to be her back up boyfriend.

I owe you an airtime just contact dm me your nos

Nigeriabiafra80:
thank u so much I appreciate,i owe you

u're welcm dearie

Mgbadike80:
likely as a back up or temporary boy friend without you knowing.

Maybe the rich guy is the backup boyfriend here cos despite all his money the babe still isn't fulfilled dating him.

internationalman:

Maybe the rich guy is the backup boyfriend here cos despite all his money the babe still isn't fulfilled dating him.

the bottom line is that she's not satisfied been with you alone. Would Chioma try that with Davido?. forget about the other guy/guys.

Mgbadike80:
the bottom line is that she's not satisfied been with you alone. Would Chioma try that with Davido?. forget about the other guy/guys.

Just dig around u will see dat Chioma is from a rich background. The rich attracts the rich. Same with not so rich people.

You don't expect a girl who is by far richer than u to date u...

There are equally high class girls who are from poor backgrounds that I can date.