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Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by NoToPile: 9:38pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
All these palava on top sex Sebi it's when you see the stuff you will say it's slacked. Abeg go and reconcile with your wife joor. Only God knows how you explained the slackness matter to her. I stopped taking you serious when you called her 'this ungrateful woman' you also called her miserable too abi. 13 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Nobody: 9:53pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
GreatDad19: I think both of you are to blame here. How would you feel if your wife sat you down one evening and showed you a cream she bought for you and told you that your "staff of glory" is too small? Exactly! I think you put the cart before the horse. Whatever sexual frustrations you are having should be discussed with her first and both of you should arrive at the solution together. On the other hand please permit me to say that your wife is quite silly for her childish response and packing out of the house. It's infinitely more difficult for a single mother to get remarried than for a divorced man. It would ultimately be easy for you to move on with your life and look for a more respectful and younger lady with a tighter hole. But I'd advice you for the sake of that child try to mend fences with your wife. If she shuns your attempts at reconciliation then leave her be and watch as she eventually comes back to beg you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by greatgod2012(f): 10:08pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
I remember your previous thread quite well and how you kept emphasising how sensitive your wife is, hence, your fear of discussing the sensitive matter with her. Alright, I think personally, I won't blame or judge any of you because I think what you did was right, at least, for a healthy marriage, but I'm afraid of the illness you adopted in addressing the matter which might made her behave the way she did. Let's start from here, do you want your wife back? If yes, believe me, it's possible. But. let's start from here first. 9 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by GreatDad19: 10:16pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
greatgod2012:All I want is peace. I’ve not had peace of mind for a very long time. If my wife can come back to me and give me peace I’ll be a happy man as I still love her very much despite everything. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by GreatDad19: 10:18pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
Thank you to all the advice. I have read every contribution both negative and positive and will take something from everyone . I’m still open to hear more advice, thank you !! |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Adesuwag(m): 10:56pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
Ioannes:you must be living in the yesteryear! 17 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by crackhaus: 10:56pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
keepingmum:I thought child birth didn't affect vag1na size. It does? |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by DukeNija(m): 11:00pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
keepingmum: Are you 12? Cos you have a lot of growing up to do. 4 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by crackhaus: 11:04pm On Aug 31, 2018 |
GreatDad19:Your wife is only reacting emotionally, she'll come around. No woman likes to be told they have a loose vag1na even when they know they do, it's a blow to their self-esteem. Give her time to come around, although I do feel she might be a drama queen and just intends to make you beg. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Nobody: 12:13am On Sep 01, 2018 |
Adesuwag: And you must be living in the future year. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Shugavee(f): 1:20am On Sep 01, 2018 |
I really don’t like the hypocrisy I am seeing on this thread!! There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking to his wife about sex!!!!! NOTHING, except of course he said it in a rude manner,,, or u prefer him to cheat outside n pretends to her? Then when the cheat story comes on nairaland u say *why didn’t u talk to ur wife* if u can’t comunicate sex with ur wife,,, who else will u do that with? It might hv hurt her feelings but d no reach all this drama please. If ur husband bleeps u everyday n eventual stop except u r a cheat u would be troubled. Except his manners were wrong!!! He did nothing morally unacceptable.That may probably not be the only issue they r even hving ,, cause if it is then the lady has a problem that we don’t know about!! I don’t support nonsense 9 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Shugavee(f): 1:30am On Sep 01, 2018 |
LuciferCristi:yesss o of course !!!! Here is my signature ****middle finger**** 1 Like |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Shugavee(f): 1:33am On Sep 01, 2018 |
Mr LuciferCristi I am in a stable n happy relationship ... u don’t know me n never will! |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Shugavee(f): 1:49am On Sep 01, 2018 |
LuciferCristi:today i am even gonna sleep by 3 no work 2morrow!!! 1 Like |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Shugavee(f): 1:53am On Sep 01, 2018 |
LuciferCristi:Hahahahahahahaha Look at someone calling somebody worthless,,, Calling u worthless is a compliment 3 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by tizzdi(m): 2:11am On Sep 01, 2018 |
keepingmum:chai greatdad19 come ooo iswear na ur wife b dis ooo..lol..read all over again u will knw wat am talking about 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by LadySarah: 2:32am On Sep 01, 2018 |
For ppl that's got time to listen to Nig men senseless talk as per "big God " that they are. If you opt for Cs to save your hoohaa,they will lambast you and say you are not a Hebrew woman.now she has put to bed naturally, new complaints has arisen.first preg for that matter. If you knew how important tight vjay was to you,you should have spoken with her prior to the pregnancy to consider cs a s an option.You can't eat your cake and have it. Yes the vjay is elastic,yes also pelvic floor exercises also work.but some after these may ne'er come to the original state taking into account body dynamics.let her not start inserting stupid things Nl romance section guys recommended.Cervical cancer and all is looking at .... If you want it so bad ,go and enlarge your p..is to fit the present size.Rubbish!!! Nigerian women have suffered. True 3 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by MMotimo: 3:34am On Sep 01, 2018 |
I suspect the bigger problem, other than injured pride, is that you diagnosed a problem with her vjay then went ahead to consult with a third party (a female to boot) and obtained "treatment" without saying anything to her. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel? That should not end the marriage though unless one or both of you was looking for a way out of the union before. The deed is done, no two ways about it, you owe her an apology for not discussing the problem with her before embarking on your PM solution. It does not matter how angry she would have gotten. Hard conversations are a part of marriage, some things have to be discussed. We don't know how tactful your communication style is. Truth is, a conversation like that would be beyond what most men can handle well without putting their foot in their mouth. Her feelings are hurt, she's angry and she's probably wondering if you've "tested" the efficacy of the item on other females abi how else would you have been able to testify to its effectiveness? The more I type, the more I feel like you've dug yourself a hole and just made a big problem worse. Humble yourself and apologize for going behind her back but do not apologize for recognizing a problem and voicing it out. You both should go see a vjay Dr abi is it Gynaecologist they are called? Start from there. Maybe it's an easy fix, maybe she needs surgical solutions. You should have started with an expert first instead of "PM" remedies. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by mikkyjagga1(m): 6:15am On Sep 01, 2018 |
Shut up your mouth LadySarah: |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Eketem: 7:51am On Sep 01, 2018 |
You are asking for opinions but you refuse to listen to people advising you how you got this wrong. Imagine she just came up to you with some cream and told you she was not satisfied with your sex life. You need to go and apologize to her and calm down when she feels better you both can find a joint solution, please don't buy anything for her to insert it us dangerous and will harm her See a gynecologist especially as you may want more kids, don't buy any concoctions 8 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by PatrickOkunima(m): 7:52am On Sep 01, 2018 |
GreatDad19: You should have discussed with her before buying the product. It's a big mistake on your part. Send me an email: patrickokunima@gmail.com I want to give you a piece of advice that may save your marriage. What I want to tell you is not for public consumption. There are a lot of single guys here, most of them under 20 who will come and give you advice on how to run your marital affairs. How can you advice someone on something you have not experienced? I'm expecting your mail. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by ObaOloye: 8:00am On Sep 01, 2018 |
Personally I think Op needs to work on his character. He comes offcas arrogant with a sense of entitlement. For her this issue goes beyond the present matter being discussed. It was just the straw that broke the camel's back. I concur with the person that suggested she may have been living with post Natal depression. The issue is that you made everything about you not her and it sounded like she was just there to satisfy your desires. Cook, clean and be tigjt, just the way you like. You need to apologise to your wife. That's just it plain and simple. 7 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by DonHummer(m): 8:01am On Sep 01, 2018 |
Nairalanders/ Nigerians are very sentimental people. Most ladies will obviously defend the lady outrightly and most guys will follow the trend. OP, The major problem now is the fact that your wife is a very "sensitive" person like you mentioned in your former thread, and since it's over two years I think it's the right time to bring up the issue, ( couples should always discuss what is lacking in their relationship so as to make the bond stronger). Being a very sensitive person, coupled with the kind of reasoning she has, her mind could be telling her different crazy things and this can possibly make her depressed which led to her rude behavior in recent time. so give her time to cool down, go and sort things with her. she will definitely come back. The case would have been worse if she heard it from another person but since she heard it from you directly then you guys don't have much problem to sort out 4 Likes |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by Gliding(m): 9:02am On Sep 01, 2018 |
Creamcustard: Thanks for this respectful,solution focused response. I have read some responses that seem focused on bashing the op. The man has made a mistake and he's already down, let's try not to worsen his situation |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by SmellingAnus(m): 9:11am On Sep 01, 2018 |
You came to nairaland to complain and you have technically lost your marriage... Now you are back to complain again... what else do you intend to lose 1 Like |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by SmellingAnus(m): 9:12am On Sep 01, 2018 |
You came to nairaland to complain and you have technically lost your marriage... Now you are bact to complain again... what else do you intend to lose |
Re: Update On Wife’s Loose Vagina ! by tabithababy(f): 9:24am On Sep 01, 2018 |
PatrickOkunima:. How much is the piece of advice |
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