Sometimes I think I have felt everything I’m ever gonna feel. And from here on out, I’m not gonna feel anything new. Just lesser versions of what I’ve already felt.” – Her (2013)

To the girl who thinks she won’t love again, there’s a possibility that you won’t. And that’s okay.
The love of your life married the love of his, and it wasn’t you.
Friends try to tell you that things fall apart so that better things can fall into place. They say that it wasn’t meant to be. The usual it’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all and what’s coming is better than what has passed.
And of course the ultimate break up advice – you had to go through the heartache for you to grow. So that when the right person comes along, (presumably right after this Adele-of-all-heartaches) you will be ready and you’ll understand why it didn’t work out with anyone else.
They’ll tell you love is just round the corner. You will love again. And you’ll find someone who will make all the heartaches worth it.
I say bull.
Your friends don’t know any better. No one does. They probably said it with such confidence and positivity that for a short moment you almost believed them. Because you desperately want to believe that you will love again.

But life isn’t designed that way. Maybe the best has indeed passed. Maybe you won’t find anything better than him and that’s okay too. Life really doesn’t give you challenges just to make you feel better about it at the end of the journey, giving you endless experiences and relationships that’s better than the one before.
The next guy is not going to miraculously sweep you off your feet. It is possible that you’ll never feel as happy as the day you marked on your calendar as the best day of your life – you know, the one when it was just you and him, on the bench, watching the sun rise and realizing that nothing could be more beautiful than this moment right here.
So to the girl who thinks she will never love again, I won’t tell you words to make you feel better. I won’t quote the instagram-worthy phrases that you’ve already heard (and possibly memorized) from friends and countless Thought Catalog articles.
Instead, I want to tell you that you might just be right. There’s a possibility that you won’t love again after this. Not in the way you’ve loved before and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
I’m here to tell you that you’re one of the lucky ones after all, to have felt that kind of love that some people search for all their lives and may never find.
I’m sure it was all worth it, even if you aren’t able to feel anything new and everything you feel from here on are just lesser versions of what you’ve already felt with him.
And I’m sure you’ll do it all over again with him, even if it means you’ll never love again.
Because loving him, is enough for you.
http://mognews.com/2018/09/02/to-the-girl-who-thinks-she-will-never-love-again/

Christian590:
Sometimes I think I have felt everything I’m ever gonna feel. And from here on out, I’m not gonna feel anything new. Just lesser versions of what I’ve already felt.” – Her (2013)

To the girl who thinks she won’t love again, there’s a possibility that you won’t. And that’s okay.
The love of your life married the love of his, and it wasn’t you.
Friends try to tell you that things fall apart so that better things can fall into place. They say that it wasn’t meant to be. The usual it’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all and what’s coming is better than what has passed.
And of course the ultimate break up advice – you had to go through the heartache for you to grow. So that when the right person comes along, (presumably right after this Adele-of-all-heartaches) you will be ready and you’ll understand why it didn’t work out with anyone else.
They’ll tell you love is just round the corner. You will love again. And you’ll find someone who will make all the heartaches worth it.
I say bull.
Your friends don’t know any better. No one does. They probably said it with such confidence and positivity that for a short moment you almost believed them. Because you desperately want to believe that you will love again.

But life isn’t designed that way. Maybe the best has indeed passed. Maybe you won’t find anything better than him and that’s okay too. Life really doesn’t give you challenges just to make you feel better about it at the end of the journey, giving you endless experiences and relationships that’s better than the one before.
The next guy is not going to miraculously sweep you off your feet. It is possible that you’ll never feel as happy as the day you marked on your calendar as the best day of your life – you know, the one when it was just you and him, on the bench, watching the sun rise and realizing that nothing could be more beautiful than this moment right here.
So to the girl who thinks she will never love again, I won’t tell you words to make you feel better. I won’t quote the instagram-worthy phrases that you’ve already heard (and possibly memorized) from friends and countless Thought Catalog articles.
Instead, I want to tell you that you might just be right. There’s a possibility that you won’t love again after this. Not in the way you’ve loved before and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
I’m here to tell you that you’re one of the lucky ones after all, to have felt that kind of love that some people search for all their lives and may never find.
I’m sure it was all worth it, even if you aren’t able to feel anything new and everything you feel from here on are just lesser versions of what you’ve already felt with him.
And I’m sure you’ll do it all over again with him, even if it means you’ll never love again.
Because loving him, is enough for you.
http://mognews.com/2018/09/02/to-the-girl-who-thinks-she-will-never-love-again/

you may be right, but instead of allowing them move on, i dedicated a week to scattering my exes new relationships, if you make me miserable and expect to find hapiness, then i will remind you that misery loves company. i cannot be brooding and you will be knacking a new babe. Felt guilty about it for a night but really felt better the next morning. It helped me move on.

funmisticqueen:
you may be right, but instead of allowing them move on, i dedicated a week to scattering my exes new relationships, if you make me miserable and expect to find hapiness, then i will remind you that misery loves company. i cannot be brooding and you will be knacking a new babe. Felt guilty about it for a night but really felt better the next morning. It helped me move on.

lol

funmisticqueen:
you may be right, but instead of allowing them move on, i dedicated a week to scattering my exes new relationships, if you make me miserable and expect to find hapiness, then i will remind you that misery loves company. i cannot be brooding and you will be knacking a new babe. Felt guilty about it for a night but really felt better the next morning. It helped me move on.

Changes nothing, you are the past and that is what it is.

rottennaija:


Changes nothing, you are the past and that is what it is.

maybe i am the past, but nigga should always remember that the past can always ruin the future, especially in relationships

funmisticqueen:
maybe i am the past, but nigga should always remember that the past can always ruin the future, especially in relationships

Will even give the girl more reason to hold tight to the guy, you are a girl and should know this

funmisticqueen:
you may be right, but instead of allowing them move on, i dedicated a week to scattering my exes new relationships, if you make me miserable and expect to find hapiness, then i will remind you that misery loves company. i cannot be brooding and you will be knacking a new babe. Felt guilty about it for a night but really felt better the next morning. It helped me move on.

I feel like hooking up already

enoch273:

I feel like hooking up already

DM me, i would like to meet

rottennaija:


Will even give the girl more reason to hold tight to the guy, you are a girl and should know this

then i still win, doesnt remove the fact that i have sown seeds of distrust in their relationship. it's a win win, i vent of steam and leave with a bang, while they play a little drama, the guy begs then they get makeup sex which is always awesome. I am a freaking genius

funmisticqueen:
DM me, i would like to meet

Cool! Will do that ASAP, you can also reach me via WhatsApp on 08179538301

funmisticqueen:
then i still win, doesnt remove the fact that i have sown seeds of distrust in their relationship. it's a win win, i vent of steam and leave with a bang, while they play a little drama, the guy begs then they get makeup sex which is always awesome. I am a freaking genius

I am not clapping for you, you know why? The girl must have known he left a relationship to her. He has more reason to try to hold onto the relationship more and then, bam, make up sex, which quote you, "is always awesome".

So who loses? Hmmm

rottennaija:


I am not clapping for you, you know why? The girl must have known he left a relationship to her. He has more reason to try to hold onto the relationship more and then, bam, make up sex, which quote you, "is always awesome".

So who loses? Hmmm

didnt i mention that it is highly therapeutic. it gives one closeure and makes moving on easier #sweetrevenge#, #breakuplikeabadass#

actively waiting for my next nigaa like

funmisticqueen:
didnt i mention that it is highly therapeutic. it gives one closeure and makes moving on easier #sweetrevenge#, #breakuplikeabadass#

actively waiting for my next nigaa like

ok, it gives you a sense of accomplishment... hmmm

rottennaija:


ok, it gives you a sense of accomplishment... hmmm

i don't need you all to give me accolades. i am quite happy with myself, it was quite the endorphin rush. send me a bottle of fine wine or a dirty martini, i am going on to phase 2. [quote author=rottennaija post=70834842]