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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Oreofepeters: 8:35am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Answer: Because Nigerian ladies are confused, materilistic, too selective they don't even know what they want. After hopping from one dick to the other they get dumped and became certified single. And mostly, Nigerian ladies love playing hard to get and guys don't have time chasing after them. me personally I don't like chasing a girl once I approach and I discover your playing hard to get I move on to the next. the trend will continue to thrive I don't see it ending anytime soon until they buy sense. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ddjay: 8:35am On Sep 03, 2018 |
this is really serious, my seniors (girls) in secondary sch my mates my juniors... see as them plenty.its like 80% of them are single. my suggested solution. 1) lets officially start polygamy, church can wed one,the courts can do the rest on condition that she has a job. 2) Allow early marriage. my people if a girls hand has being sought after,i suggest we allow her to go.cos she may not get that opportunity again. 3) lets start teaching girls (culture) how to look for their spouse, propose to them and marry them. look the old way of waiting for mr right is no longer working..so go after him. 4) re-introduction of concubine because it was practiced in the old testament but this time let it be clean and responsible. you see ehn,lets allow the girl to legally have children for a man with an agreed guideline that gives the two parties a sense of belonging. i leave this part for correction and modification 9 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Printerscanner: 8:35am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb: And the fathers and mothers of previous generation were paying over one million naira for house rent yearly, about one million naira for school fees for kids who can barely talk. My brother, a responsible guy with no job will never ever think of relationship not to talk of marriage. Economic situation is the reason why several ladies of marriageable age are still single because the guys that are supposed to marry them have no jobs. Unfortunately also, several companies prefer to employ ladies instead of guys for positions that both sexes are qualified. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by millionboi2: 8:35am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 8:36am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Daeylar: Mark my moniker, please don't hit my mention anymore please. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by hollah123: 8:36am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow:just say the ones in your family n the ones around u.d major reason is financial buoyancy n d girls with unrealistic expectations 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Butoneday2(m): 8:36am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Guys don comot for this buhari cantry finish. Do u knw how many nigerians out dia looking for somthing are they not supposed to be persons husband. Ladies too dis days not be material again not like b4. Could u believe dat my so called gf/fiancee to be no sabi cook, ladies sorry to say dis but i have to cos am dissapointed pls, not all ladies but my babe no sabi and i've giving her red card for dat. Don't ask me y. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 8:37am On Sep 03, 2018 |
ddjay: I've noticed the bolded too 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by oneclickng: 8:37am On Sep 03, 2018 |
So many young men have been killed in several cases of armed robbery, kidnapping, cultism, boko haram, herdsmen, communal clashes etc. Many are alive, but are entirely useless (drug addicts/joblessness) 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by steve13(m): 8:38am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: Men collect money? How |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Jeposky(m): 8:38am On Sep 03, 2018 |
If we tell you say God said each man should marry more than one to the maximum of four now (I. e for most of us who has the power and capacity to satisfy more than one female) Una go talk say it's NONSENSE and BARBARIC, while you see nothing wrong with concubine and unlawful relationship. I pray we will all come to our senses soon for us to see the benefits in things our lord as instructed us to do and things to abstain from. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Fashdeejay(m): 8:39am On Sep 03, 2018 |
They are too busy chasing after married men... Because single guys cheat ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by franchasng: 8:39am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:you married the wrong guy....its either he is broke or struggling financially and venting his financial frustration on you or u married him for the wrong reasons, whichever, work on it, many married ladies are enjoying their marriage....my only sister is a living witness and many of my female cousins too ![]() To the Op's question....the second poster answered the question: majority of responsible young men of marriageable age are jobless, under-employed or still struggling financially, and don't have the gut to go into marriage being financially broke or struggling The solution: we must stop voting in stupid presidents, governors, senators and the likes. we must start to condemn, fight, protest against any stupid leader, be it a president as the one we have in power now, a governor or what have u...because they are destroying Nigeria irrespective of their tribe or religion 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by jtjohn(m): 8:39am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee: My dear u ladies are the cause of everything, because a guy is rich and drive most expensive car u prefer to settle than with him, not minding if his a fraudsters or drug dealer...how many of you ladies are willing to settle down with an applicant or struggling guys with a lot of potential in him but u ladies prefer already made men........Not all men are misogynist, not all women are prostitute..Lets change our mindset. Wealth gotten by vanity shall diminished but he that gathereth by labour shall he increase..... You ladies are the major problem why responsible guys ain't getting married to u, because of ur insatiable want. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saao(m): 8:40am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Paulagada:not really cuz most ladies nowadays are runs girls so not good for marriage. The good ones always found husband 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by maxiuc(m): 8:40am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:pls stop living in Neptune come down to earth let's discuss 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 8:41am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Cc: Colourich |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Daeylar(f): 8:41am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb: ![]() ![]() You used just one case to conclude that so many women are single, then came here and acted as if it is facts. And I wonder why it's bordering you if women are single or not. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by francisduru: 8:42am On Sep 03, 2018 |
We men are scarse, na them dey find us ![]() |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nancypunni: 8:42am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Nigerian gals dat will be opening their legs very wide on the bed widout thinking...now see one dun old finish come dey worry me for whatsapp...last four years whn i was chasing her dat she was slim..she no gree...nw she dun go fat like soaked bread finish... Stretched marks evrywhr for breast she come dey wrry me...i no want again...funny thing is dat there will always be girls ..much younger ... 10 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by hollah123: 8:42am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow:with everything I read u write up there,its obvious u are a product of abusive relationship or single parent or u yourself have been used n abused by a nonentity b4.i am a guy n I don't fall to these class u describe n even guys around me,change your environment and category of people u roll with n u will realize there are many responsible and single guys.many of u love hard guys all in d name of rolling with bad boys n when they show u their true color u start screaming blue murder with d regular phrase all men are scum,all men are d same 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by hustla(m): 8:44am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow: You go later die single if you continue with this useless feminist nonsense 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 8:46am On Sep 03, 2018 |
ikaboy:i am not!! There is indeed peace,,, the mental work that goes into a relationship is too much! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 8:46am On Sep 03, 2018 |
hustla:and there is nothing wrong about that 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Daeylar(f): 8:48am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Why is it bordering you that women are single to the point where you propose these misogynistic and pedophilic solutions to reduce the number of single women around. Did the women tell you that they minded being single and did they ask you for solution? What do you mean by early marriage? A girl under 18? You are the kind of person dasparrow is talking about. ddjay: |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Johnestate: 8:48am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Not really, it's because of the quest for rich men hands in marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by OfficialSam(m): 8:49am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Ihatelove: No wonder, your moniker says it all. But if truly you are a female, then I will end your heartbreaks and of course make you fall in love again. Love is a beautiful thing, thus no need to 'hate love.' You have to find the right man. Let me PM you. ![]() You can never tell! |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saff(f): 8:51am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Most men of this generation are mentally weak and unable to handle life circumstances. Relying on weed/ alcohol, cigarettes or any kind of drug to function. Most are lazy and not ambitious looking for easy quick money. Not responsible, looking for a woman to help them or give them money. I don’t blame them, most were raised by women with the father absent or barely there. They don’t understand what it means to be a MAN. Most men have poor financial management. Spend all their days on social media, betting, money on random women. It’s pitiful. Most men never take responsibility for themselves. Always looking for one person/ thing to blame for their misfortune. Rather be single, have a child and be happy than raise a boy into a man because his father didn’t do that job. I’m sorry. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by AmazingELixir: 8:51am On Sep 03, 2018 |
The reason is that there are less men this days willing to take up responsibilities because they themselves need taking care of. Secondly the cost of keeping a lady fulltime this time around is not for the faint hearted and unfortunately there are somany chicken hearted men out there. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by deebsman1(m): 8:52am On Sep 03, 2018 |
You people will be saying they're many single ladies nowadays but anytime we meet a babe, they will always say they have a boyfriend, so where are the single one's |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Robynwelo1(f): 8:52am On Sep 03, 2018 |
hustla: What is wrong in dying single? Are there not people whose lives have been cut short in the name of marriage? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ChykeBivins(m): 8:52am On Sep 03, 2018 |
JAMB Kweshon 1 Like |
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