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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by victorian(f): 9:55am On Sep 03, 2018 |
braine: That's if I'm single and I have to choose between marrying a lazy guy who cannot be the man in the marriage and be responsible ? Or choose having kids out of wedlock? Mehn am choosing having kids out of wedlock! Ain't getting stuck with an irresponsible guy all for marriage sakes? No way! Ko le werk! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by braine(m): 9:55am On Sep 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Maybe those are the one youve been meeting. Likes attracts likes. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by princfred(m): 9:55am On Sep 03, 2018 |
majekdom2:You wise. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 9:56am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Saff: What's your definition of a responsible man? A man who'll take up your own responsibilities, right? Many men aren't married yet because of ladies with this mentality, you guys believe men should do everything for you people. No sane man wants that burden. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by R0ckefeller: 9:57am On Sep 03, 2018 |
playing the blam game so who's gonna win |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by crunchyg: 9:58am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian:So as you old reach, you too never marry, nawao |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Godmademan(m): 9:59am On Sep 03, 2018 |
At this point in the existence of our Nation,it is criminal to tie down a lady in relationship on empty pocket. I am of the opinion that is better for the man and his unborn children if he gets a sustainable means of income before getting married. Getting married at 40 will not make man a fool...if it will take that long to set the foundation in place, then so be it. In the midst of the many unmarried useless ladies, there will always be the SPECIAL ONE. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by braine(m): 9:59am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: Seriously, and youre still affirming? Meaning you would even consider a divorce if need be. Chai! Good luck o. From what I've read from ladies here today ehn, I may remain single for a long time. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kokomilala:but the difference is women ain’t begging men!!! Most women love their single lives n happy being baby Mamas,, |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Vince77(m): 10:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
ineedahusband: Good men are not scare. It is women who don't like good men. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian:women that fail to realize the truth or understand how a man thinks stick to this opinion the reason is because men chose to be irresponsible- do you know there is a girl that will sleep with that “irresponsible” man for a loaf of bread? Thus he doesn’t see any value in a woman because his mindset is bleeped up. It is not a problem that peculiar to one gender. It is a problem that is peculiar to us as a people. The women see a man as the means to meet their fianancial needs, the man sees the woman as a slave and sex object. It is a mind problem. When auch Women are someway financially independent, they feel they don’t need a man and no sense of wisdom to guide them. Same with the man, he feels he can get any woman to disrespect as long as he has few notes to spend. We need to have the right mind set and understand the main reason for relationships. The main reason is to achieve greater grounds and bigger goals. The. I left says one shall chase a thousand, 2 ten thousands. Investors don’t invest in individuals, they invest in teams. Teams don’t work well if they don’t have the right mindset! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by victorian(f): 10:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
GreenArrow2: My dear, the real world in dating and relationships is not palatable.. Trust me on that. For instance what's happening between miracle the bbn guy and Nina, is what happens everyday to average people out there. Shiit happens. Let's not pretend, relationship is bliss cos it's not. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by cornel9297: 10:01am On Sep 03, 2018 |
omoharry: how are you gonna deal with spiritual konji?? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:01am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb:They are single because there is poverty in the land, many men are not comfortable enough to marry and take care of their woman, most of them are jobless and depending on N-power for 30k every month, how can a 30k earner marry? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 10:02am On Sep 03, 2018 |
iwatch: As said by one individual, it's an overestimation of self-worth that leads to one's demise, or an under-estimation of other people. Take your proud speech and shove it up your tiny butthole you inflated buffon |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saff(f): 10:02am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Gerrard59:well I guess it’s an everlasting problem that will never be solved. Men are refusing to step up to the plate by breaking the barriers. When you men refuse to allow your environmental upbringing to determine your future, the world will be a better place for the next generation to come. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:02am On Sep 03, 2018 |
majekdom2:that’s the exact fact why feminism is an ideology |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:02am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:its not 2 late. U can still b single 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:03am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Ihatelove:Nope, she didn't say any truth. How can she accuse men of being misogynists and yet her comments are misogynistic? Saying the whole world knows that the average Nigerian man are those things she claimed betrayed her claims of trying to be unbiased. (Ur friend is biased, sorry to say). If she thinks Nigerian guys are as bad as what she claims. she should go and date a South African or Ghanaian guy to see the difference. I won't say more since it won't change anything. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by braine(m): 10:03am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb: Where did you get your statistics from? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 10:03am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:03am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by omoharry(f): 10:03am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow:Thank you my sister ..abeg help me tell them..Nigerian men think its all about marriage...they don't realize that that happiness and peace of mind is key..while some rather sacrifice their happiness at the alter of marriage and remain miserable while others are ready to hold on to it until they find the person whom they will be at peace with..money is not everything but its necessary in marriage. Any man that cannot take care of himself properly should not be talking about marriage..if he does then he is an irresponsible man..look at stout all over the place, especially in Lagos..they are as a result of having irresponsible parents...even the bible say that a man that cannot feed his family is worse than an infidel... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:04am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian:exactly |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by tunjilana: 10:05am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Paulagada: That is not even the issue...cos no woman wants to marry down |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:06am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian:so miracle & Nina are now ur standard 4a successful r/ship? No wonder. R/ship is hardwork. U want d bliss but not d work |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Artzdanielsz(m): 10:07am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Ihatelove:naso hanty |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:08am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Ihatelove:so most ladies are what? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:08am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:yes, feminism should be able women empowerment but can you empower a woman who does not have the right mindset? In Africa, we have a people problem I.e a mindset problem. We need to address it before we advocate feminism if not feminism will causbe more harm than good. A lady who refuses to be emotionally intelligent, know when to say sorry, can’t be guided, take another person’s opinion without bias, cannot be advised and can’t seem to reflect and thinks she is better because she achieved a status will come as a feminist after she has lost different relationships.... this is the typical case in Africa. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:08am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kingkakaone:cause the whole world does know!! Nigerian men r nice but their misogynistic character is undeniable!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by pocohantas(f): 10:09am On Sep 03, 2018 |
The gender blame game continues... All the ladies blaming it on Nigerian men being misogynists and all sorts, are your boyfriends and brothers such? If no, why are they not married? The guys blaming it on feminism. Lots of you are in a relationship with non-feminist women. I have even seen guys say they've never seen a feminist in reality. How then are you people blaming it on feminism? Why are you not married to your non-feminist girlfriends? The problem is the economy. Most Nigerian youths are unemployed or underemployed. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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