Nancypunni:
Nigerian gals dat will be opening their legs very wide on the bed widout thinking...now see one dun old finish come dey worry me for whatsapp...last four years whn i was chasing her dat she was slim..she no gree...nw she dun go fat like soaked bread finish... Stretched marks evrywhr for breast she come dey wrry me...i no want again...funny thing is dat there will always be girls ..much younger ...

braine:


Seriously, and youre still affirming? Meaning you would even consider a divorce if need be. Chai! Good luck o.

From what I've read from ladies here today ehn, I may remain single for a long time.

If I made a mistake and married a parasite, an abuser for a husband? YES! I WILL DIVORCE!

I use to have bp issues ,way back cause its hereditary in my own case. So I am very very careful on whom I choose to spend the rest of my life with . My state of mind is very fragile in emotional issues. Have suffered heart attacks 4 good times , almost lifeless in my apartment cos of relationship and heartbreaks. Am alive and well today is all because of God. It even amazes me ,I'm still alive. But God knows why He still keeps me whole til date.

So i have come to realise my brain cannot go through emotional suffering and If I hope to live long, I should cut off from toxic people or toxic husband or boyfriend, if need be. And if Divorce will give me the peace my spirit and soul desires? Cause my husband is stressing me up with his irresponsible behavior ? Then so be it.

Cause if I die tomorrow, my man will be with another woman before a week runs out.

So Biko, my peace of mind first before anything or anyone. That's the truth about me.

gift2xl:
Most ladies doesn't have what it takes to be a wife material.

Are you husband material yourself ?

dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

So your bossman have all these traits and your mally still married him

Hanseel1:



What's your definition of a responsible man? A man who'll take up your own responsibilities, right?

Many men aren't married yet because of ladies with this mentality, you guys believe men should do everything for you people. No guy wants that burden.

Listen, when we’re talking about marriage, a man who is worthy to be a husband we search for a very important factor. A provider. Your financial expenses, career, ambition, habits etc fall back on how well of a provider you can be. The same way men look for a nurturing homely women. It has nothing to do with taking on my responsibilities, heck I’ve got my own shiit. That doesn’t mean I won’t look for a man with the qualities I want. A lot of you men need to grow up and realise that as a man who wants to start a family, you need to be be financially responsible. . It’s not about taking up my responsibilities, it’s called being A MAN.

cornel9297:

how are you gonna deal with spiritual konji??

sex is a thing of the mind..if you are principled..you can be without sex for years....I dont see it as a food of life to me.In between these time one can be in relationships..but should it should be one you are happy in and not a toxic one.one where there is mutual respect for each other.

lexy2014:
so miracle & Nina are now ur standard 4a successful r/ship? No wonder. R/ship is hardwork. U want d bliss but not d work

I can do the work.. But I don't patience for unnecessary games, drama or abusive attitudes.. I can't condone such.. I can stand by a man , who shows he's hardworking, responsible and well brought up. But if he's an abuser and a leech.. I ain't working with him on that lane.

emmanuelpopson:



if ladies of these days are submissive and understanding.. they would be married in the shortest time possible..
i think the independent and career equality of these ladies give them this OT to stay single... Coupled with the unemployment,harsh economy, ratio 4:1 female male and the society acceptance of singlehood...many ladies will be unmarrird and single...

Gbam!

Idrismusty97:
All these may be true but are just a reflection of the males around you both relatives, friends and suitors alike.

Well yes. I’m not denying that. I see it in the guys around me, and also in men that I don’t know.

....Simple, cuz they are too materialistic

majekdom2:
yes, feminism should be able women empowerment but can you empower a woman who does not have the right mindset? In Africa, we have a people problem I.e a mindset problem. We need to address it before we advocate feminism if not feminism will causbe more harm than good. A lady who refuses to be emotionally intelligent, know when to say sorry, can’t be guided, take another person’s opinion without bias, cannot be advised and can’t seem to reflect and thinks she is better because she achieved a status will come as a feminist after she has lost different relationships.... this is the typical case in Africa.

lol feminist is addressing that problem!! Ideology in the sense that,, if u see uurself equal to a Man, U r,, cause u won’t sleep with a man for money n u won’t let men disrespect you!! U try ur best to make ur own money n not depend on a man,, u won’t see marriage as an achievement n u would promote,, self love,Feminism is a mindset!! Then there is feminism activism!! Activism for women to adopt the feminist ideology!! N also fight against men maltreatment to women!

Feminism is first an ideology (mindset)

uuzba:


You are pointing finger?
Ladies are single because MEN have refused to be men.
Men are in charge of politics, the economy the environment, jobs, welfare .
Men have messed up all of these out of greed and wickedness.

Ladies don't know whom to trust.

Why should we have female ministers at all? It is because men cannot be trusted to do the duty.

We would soon have female president in Nigeria since all the men are f**king up.

tru talk,nigerian men have failed,i have to admit this

Speak for yourself aunty feminist some many of our women still believe in family values.No wonder a white dude on Instagram once said African women have no identity, first they try to speak like westerners, look and dress like westerners, and now live like westerners. The funny part is that the African Americans are trying to be African cos they now see the value of culture but our moronic women here are doing the opposite and getting dumber everyday.

Shugavee:
but the difference is women ain’t begging men!!! Most women love their single lives n happy being baby Mamas,,

dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

Pls which generation of Nigerian men are misogynists? This generation or previous generations? So d entire world knows that d Nigerian male treats his wife as a slave? Did d entire world tell u that? Have been with men from other climes or from d entire world 2 have drawn d conclusions u drew above?

mercyway:

You have time to reply that idiot, I've seen a girl who said the only reason why she won't accept my proposal was because am too gentle for her liking. She prefers bad boy type of a guy & I was like wtf!

Exactly what I just replied a lady here that women don't like good men.

Lordofthewest:
Speak for yourself aunty feminist some many of our women still believe in family values.No wonder a white dude on Instagram once said African women have no identity, first they try to speak like westerners, look and dress like westerners, and now live like westerners. The funny part is that the African Americans are trying to be African cos they now see the value of culture but our moronic women here are doing the opposite and getting dumber everyday.

lik those women that see themselves below a man!! Does africian Americans can’t take half of what africian women hv taken,,, u think u beat a africian American woman n not riot in jail Lol keep deceiving urself

Shugavee:
lol feminist is addressing that problem!! Ideology in the sense that,, if u see uurself equal to a Man, U r,, cause u won’t sleep with a man for money n u won’t let men disrespect you!! U try ur best to make ur own money n not depend on a man,, u won’t see marriage as an achievement n u would promote,, self love,Feminism is a mindset!! Then there is feminism activism!! Activism for women to adopt the feminist ideology!! N also fight against men maltreatment to women!

Feminism is first an ideology (mindset)

if marriage isn't an achievement, what is it?

Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak

ladies reason these way when they are so close to 30,, #pele

Budex40:
Cos Guys like us have discovered that modern women have become useless as fvck and cannot function in the right context as WOMEN.They dojt even have the mindset of submission in marriage. Hence , some of us have decided not to give a fvck about marriage or relationships.

What do you want? You want a woman who has her own money, career driven and ambitious. But you want a woman who wil submit and answer to you like her master, depend on you, stay at home cook and clean and do everything you say. You can’t have it all, but you can certainly have a balance. But I’ve realised that even a balance is not enough for most of you men. You must find a way to bring devalue the ‘modern’ woman out of jealousy. It’s simply your ego playing mind games with you, honestly.

Check my signature...its a mutual something...two GOOD heads...

Get Rid of Dating System, then we will be begin to see plenty Marriage

kunleweb:


As said by one individual, it's an overestimation of self-worth that leads to one's demise, or an under-estimation of other people.

I've been creating jobs since before you knew the web. 2018/2019-2020 project, cultivating 5 Million yams for exportation, 300 acres for sweet potato, 1 Million fishes for my sea food business, 800 acres of plantain for plantain flour and chips production. Currently employ 10 people, exployed over 50 in the past 2 years. You are a big eediot. I have a table water business to also setup amongst the 20 businesses i have already started.


Take your proud speech and shove it up your tiny butthole you inflated buffon

bros, you were the one calling me jobless, so the first sentence fits your idiocy.

You just dey blab...go sleep.

victorian:










I can do the work.. But I don't patience for unnecessary games, drama or abusive attitudes.. I can't condone such.. I can stand by a man , who shows he's hardworking, responsible and well brought up. But if he's an abuser and a leech.. I ain't working with him on that lane.

If u attract a man with d negative qualities u mentioned, u have no one 2 blame but urself. If u attract a man with good qualities, its ur gain. But when u sit down 2 start saying r/ships are bad instead of looking at ur choices, then u can't progress

pocohantas:
The gender blame game continues...

All the ladies blaming it on Nigerian men being misogynists and all sorts, are your boyfriends and brothers such? If no, why are they not married?

The guys blaming it on feminism. Lots of you are in a relationship with non-feminist women. I have even seen guys say they've never seen a feminist in reality. How then are you people blaming it on feminism? Why are you not married to your non-feminist girlfriends?

The problem is the economy. Most Nigerian youths are unemployed or underemployed.

I agree and disagree. I agree it is the economy if the girl or the dude is looking to have an elaborate and “big” wedding ceremony. But is this really needed? I can pay your bride price, go to the court and that’s all.what matters is what me and you do after the wedding. The people who come to eat our rice won’t face our challenges with us or carry our cross. It’s a question to be answered by both parties in a relationship but still a mind problem anyways. I disagree if you say it’s the economy because one needs to depend solely on the other for his or her needs. If you can be a responsible for yourself as a bachelor/ spinster and as an unemployed or underemployed, why can’t you be as a married person. Marriage is an institution and institutions are there to do great things. Sadly many see marriage as some other thing these days.

Saff:
What do you want? You want a woman who has her own money, career driven, and ambitious. But you want a woman who wil submit and answer to you like her master, depend on you, stay at home cook and clean and do everything you say. You can’t have it all, but you can certainly have a balance. But I’ve realised that even a balance is not enough for most of you men. You must find a way to bring devalue the ‘modern’ woman out of jealousy. It’s simply your ego playing mind games with you, honestly.

How so much i love your perspective on these issues. What a healthy self-esteem. Damn, lady are you single?

omoharry:
sex is a thing of the mind..if you are principled..you can be without sex for years....I dont see it as a food of life to me.In between these time one can be in relationships..but should it should be one you are happy in and not a toxic one.one where there is mutual respect for each other.

maybe you don't fall into the categories of single ladies I've seen .most of them are side chicks to married men and run after innocent looking guys for sex.

lexy2014:
if marriage isn't an achievement, what is it?

i don’t know,, is just one of those things we do!!! If we can . Is like traveling out of the country,, there r people in Nigeria who live better lives than people who travel aboard,, infact most of them r suffering,, but those that hvnt traveled or know the struggles will see it as an achievement,, not knowing they r better ... the ones that knows about the suffering living in foreign countries r relaxed n comfortable in their homeland praying for the country to be better (self love for single women)

iwatch:
bros, you were the one calling me jobless, so the first sentence fits your idiocy.

You just dey blab...go sleep.

Now you know your elder, you met a superior and it humbled you as expected with the silly rant. Next time, be humble,Good day.

franchasng:
Mass unemployment and poverty due to Buhari's useless, stupid economy policies that only enrich himself, his son, wife, daughters, in-laws, family members, friends and few top supporters.

So many Nigerians have become very poor and jobless under Buhari's government yet some useless, brainless youths keep supporting him. Let them wait until Buhari win again in 2019, Nigeria will become the full face of poverty and lack!

Business people aren't finding it funny either because people don't have money to even buy what they need which leads to patronizing business owners...everybody is bleeding in Nigeria except the sacred thieves in government under APC parading themselves as saints fighting corruption through looting and embezzlement of public fund, God will punish them all

Go and kill yourself. Buhari till 2023.

And why are they relocating back to Africa in their thousands and getting married to African men. Do a simple google search to see the number of Africa Americans who have relocated to Nigeria,Ghana and Senegal in the last 5years stop being ignorant and bitter...and go get yourself a real dick not that d#ldo people like you use to console yourselves of your loneliness.

Shugavee:
lik those women that see themselves below a man!! Does africian Americans can’t take half of what africian women hv taken,,, u think u beat a africian American woman n not riot in jail Lol keep deceiving urself

abduljabbar4:


Go and kill yourself. Buhari till 2023.

mad people have entered this thread!!! I am out

They'll remain single cos they won't stop cheating and f**king around LMAO