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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by DrTims(m): 10:09am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by victorian(f): 10:10am On Sep 03, 2018 |
braine: If I made a mistake and married a parasite, an abuser for a husband? YES! I WILL DIVORCE! I use to have bp issues ,way back cause its hereditary in my own case. So I am very very careful on whom I choose to spend the rest of my life with . My state of mind is very fragile in emotional issues. Have suffered heart attacks 4 good times , almost lifeless in my apartment cos of relationship and heartbreaks. Am alive and well today is all because of God. It even amazes me ,I'm still alive. But God knows why He still keeps me whole til date. So i have come to realise my brain cannot go through emotional suffering and If I hope to live long, I should cut off from toxic people or toxic husband or boyfriend, if need be. And if Divorce will give me the peace my spirit and soul desires? Cause my husband is stressing me up with his irresponsible behavior ? Then so be it. Cause if I die tomorrow, my man will be with another woman before a week runs out. So Biko, my peace of mind first before anything or anyone. That's the truth about me. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Peacefullove: 10:10am On Sep 03, 2018 |
gift2xl: Are you husband material yourself ? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Artzdanielsz(m): 10:10am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow:So your bossman have all these traits and your mally still married him |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saff(f): 10:11am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1:Listen, when we’re talking about marriage, a man who is worthy to be a husband we search for a very important factor. A provider. Your financial expenses, career, ambition, habits etc fall back on how well of a provider you can be. The same way men look for a nurturing homely women. It has nothing to do with taking on my responsibilities, heck I’ve got my own shiit. That doesn’t mean I won’t look for a man with the qualities I want. A lot of you men need to grow up and realise that as a man who wants to start a family, you need to be be financially responsible. . It’s not about taking up my responsibilities, it’s called being A MAN. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by omoharry(f): 10:11am On Sep 03, 2018 |
cornel9297:sex is a thing of the mind..if you are principled..you can be without sex for years....I dont see it as a food of life to me.In between these time one can be in relationships..but should it should be one you are happy in and not a toxic one.one where there is mutual respect for each other. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by victorian(f): 10:12am On Sep 03, 2018 |
lexy2014: I can do the work.. But I don't patience for unnecessary games, drama or abusive attitudes.. I can't condone such.. I can stand by a man , who shows he's hardworking, responsible and well brought up. But if he's an abuser and a leech.. I ain't working with him on that lane. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Basseybruce: 10:13am On Sep 03, 2018 |
emmanuelpopson:Gbam! |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saff(f): 10:13am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Idrismusty97:Well yes. I’m not denying that. I see it in the guys around me, and also in men that I don’t know. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by fortunechy(m): 10:13am On Sep 03, 2018 |
....Simple, cuz they are too materialistic |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:14am On Sep 03, 2018 |
majekdom2:lol feminist is addressing that problem!! Ideology in the sense that,, if u see uurself equal to a Man, U r,, cause u won’t sleep with a man for money n u won’t let men disrespect you!! U try ur best to make ur own money n not depend on a man,, u won’t see marriage as an achievement n u would promote,, self love,Feminism is a mindset!! Then there is feminism activism!! Activism for women to adopt the feminist ideology!! N also fight against men maltreatment to women! Feminism is first an ideology (mindset) |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by babasolution: 10:15am On Sep 03, 2018 |
uuzba: tru talk,nigerian men have failed,i have to admit this |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Lordofthewest(m): 10:15am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Speak for yourself aunty feminist some many of our women still believe in family values.No wonder a white dude on Instagram once said African women have no identity, first they try to speak like westerners, look and dress like westerners, and now live like westerners. The funny part is that the African Americans are trying to be African cos they now see the value of culture but our moronic women here are doing the opposite and getting dumber everyday. Shugavee: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:16am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow:Pls which generation of Nigerian men are misogynists? This generation or previous generations? So d entire world knows that d Nigerian male treats his wife as a slave? Did d entire world tell u that? Have been with men from other climes or from d entire world 2 have drawn d conclusions u drew above? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Vince77(m): 10:17am On Sep 03, 2018 |
mercyway: Exactly what I just replied a lady here that women don't like good men. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:18am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Lordofthewest:lik those women that see themselves below a man!! Does africian Americans can’t take half of what africian women hv taken,,, u think u beat a africian American woman n not riot in jail ![]() |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:19am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:if marriage isn't an achievement, what is it? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:19am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Ihatelove: ladies reason these way when they are so close to 30,, #pele |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saff(f): 10:19am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Budex40:What do you want? You want a woman who has her own money, career driven and ambitious. But you want a woman who wil submit and answer to you like her master, depend on you, stay at home cook and clean and do everything you say. You can’t have it all, but you can certainly have a balance. But I’ve realised that even a balance is not enough for most of you men. You must find a way to bring devalue the ‘modern’ woman out of jealousy. It’s simply your ego playing mind games with you, honestly. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by meneski(m): 10:20am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Check my signature...its a mutual something...two GOOD heads... |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by GoodMuyis(m): 10:23am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Get Rid of Dating System, then we will be begin to see plenty Marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by iwatch: 10:23am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb:bros, you were the one calling me jobless, so the first sentence fits your idiocy. You just dey blab...go sleep. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:23am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: If u attract a man with d negative qualities u mentioned, u have no one 2 blame but urself. If u attract a man with good qualities, its ur gain. But when u sit down 2 start saying r/ships are bad instead of looking at ur choices, then u can't progress |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:24am On Sep 03, 2018 |
pocohantas:I agree and disagree. I agree it is the economy if the girl or the dude is looking to have an elaborate and “big” wedding ceremony. But is this really needed? I can pay your bride price, go to the court and that’s all.what matters is what me and you do after the wedding. The people who come to eat our rice won’t face our challenges with us or carry our cross. It’s a question to be answered by both parties in a relationship but still a mind problem anyways. I disagree if you say it’s the economy because one needs to depend solely on the other for his or her needs. If you can be a responsible for yourself as a bachelor/ spinster and as an unemployed or underemployed, why can’t you be as a married person. Marriage is an institution and institutions are there to do great things. Sadly many see marriage as some other thing these days. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 10:24am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Saff: How so much i love your perspective on these issues. What a healthy self-esteem. Damn, lady are you single? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by cornel9297: 10:25am On Sep 03, 2018 |
omoharry:maybe you don't fall into the categories of single ladies I've seen .most of them are side chicks to married men and run after innocent looking guys for sex. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:25am On Sep 03, 2018 |
lexy2014:i don’t know,, is just one of those things we do!!! If we can . Is like traveling out of the country,, there r people in Nigeria who live better lives than people who travel aboard,, infact most of them r suffering,, but those that hvnt traveled or know the struggles will see it as an achievement,, not knowing they r better ... the ones that knows about the suffering living in foreign countries r relaxed n comfortable in their homeland praying for the country to be better (self love for single women) 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 10:26am On Sep 03, 2018 |
iwatch: Now you know your elder, you met a superior and it humbled you as expected with the silly rant. Next time, be humble,Good day. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by abduljabbar4(m): 10:26am On Sep 03, 2018 |
franchasng: Go and kill yourself. Buhari till 2023. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Lordofthewest(m): 10:26am On Sep 03, 2018 |
And why are they relocating back to Africa in their thousands and getting married to African men. Do a simple google search to see the number of Africa Americans who have relocated to Nigeria,Ghana and Senegal in the last 5years stop being ignorant and bitter...and go get yourself a real dick not that d#ldo people like you use to console yourselves of your loneliness. Shugavee: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:26am On Sep 03, 2018 |
abduljabbar4:mad people have entered this thread!!! I am out 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by sojodmy: 10:27am On Sep 03, 2018 |
They'll remain single cos they won't stop cheating and f**king around LMAO 2 Likes 1 Share |
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