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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:48am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1:if u get a women who is financially stable n homely at the same time,, what can u offer her,, hope u would still learn to be a homely man,,, because hope U don’t expect women to make money for the home n take care of the home,, while to go work n do nothing else!!! Women r not ur slaves 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:49am On Sep 03, 2018 |
babasolution: I'll have a reply for you when you type something readable. I don't deal with illiterates. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by smeag0l(m): 10:49am On Sep 03, 2018 |
This is the most sensible comment I've read on the post today. majekoam: |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by iwatch: 10:50am On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb:who dash you? I say who dash you? You are just blabbing... Remember you called me jobless, remember? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:50am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:are u trying 2 say that African American women don't date broke guys? Are u saying that d guys African American women date are educated and that their men don't beat up women? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 10:50am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee: I agree, many men are guilty of such. When i see how women are treated by some men, i just shake my head. They're products of absentee fathers or bad fatherism hence, they perpetuate the system that produced them, unfortunately, there aren't conscious or their conditions and continue with the same process. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by smeag0l(m): 10:51am On Sep 03, 2018 |
The truth is that every lady in Nigeria wants a man that is wealthy or has a lot of money to throw around. They easily ignore the ones that are struggling to make it and have a great future/vision. I've been on both sides of the coin(struggling at a point in my life and then living comfortably now) and I know what ladies reaction are. To be honest, most of the guys you call Bleep boys are actually not. Guys reason logically and no guy messes around with a good-natured lady who has something more than sex to offer in a relationship. It will shock you to know that majority of the ladies that come online to announce how men are scum are jobless, lack intellect and ambition and have nothing other than sex to offer in a relationship and it doesn't take a guy more than three outings with the girl to discover this. The other reason why a guy beats his wife or girlfriend, apart from the fact that the guy is naturally violent, is because he married or is dating a slayqueen who only channels or her efforts into caring about how she looks and nothing more. She feels entitled and believes her physical or facial beauty is the reason why the guy should spend on her. I have a lot of female friends that are quite wealthy and working class ladies. Many are married because they decided not to unrealistically set astronomical standards for men. The few that aren't married actually made this same mistake and are trying to correct it now. Stop listening to social media rants from ladies who claim to be ill-treated by guys- Many of them have no jobs and only rely on the men for everything. Sadly, majority of guys can differentiate between ladies that can add value to them and those that will set them back. The other day, I was reading a post here on Ifu Ennada talking about how she needs a boyfriend. My first thought was, "What job does this lady do or what is her profession?If I want to date her what value will she be adding to my life?" I found it difficult to answer these questions. Same with Linda Ikeji. She's a blogger but I know how much bloggers make on the average. Are her own fingers laced with diamond that her income seem to be in wide variance with other super bloggers?Have you ever thought about why the likes of Mercy Aigbe, Rita Dominic, Genevieve Nnaji and other female actresses flaunt a lot of wealth while their male counterparts that are quite as good if not better are just struggling to barely live comfortably? And you come here to say that these ladies are rich and comfortable but guys aren't coming. Which sane man wants to date a corporate prostitute?Guys know these things even if nobody says them. No man(both rich and poor) wants to marry a lady that with either not impact his life or may even send him to his early grave. kunleweb: 10 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 10:51am On Sep 03, 2018 |
iwatch: Remember to look out for me in the news from next year, out Pained. Permanently ignored |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:52am On Sep 03, 2018 |
majekoam:Guy, guy, guy....how many times I call u? Abeg chop knuckle with double hand 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:52am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee: Is this post for me or for another individual? I didn't say you should take care of the home. Read my post carefully and understand first before you quote me. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 10:53am On Sep 03, 2018 |
smeag0l: You spoke well. I'm not speaking for myself by the way. I was just curious. I'm surrounded by many good ladies and it shocks me to the marrow, i had to probe |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Heavance(m): 10:53am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow:I understand your point, but it's clear you are talking about the Kind of guys you have met. Sorry for the heartbreaks , but we still have many responsible guys, and your brothers or cousins are responsible 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:53am On Sep 03, 2018 |
lexy2014:most of them don’t,, a broke guy in America isn’t the same with a broke Nigerian guy!!! Their mentality is shitt n westernized women can’t adopt deal with such rubbish |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 10:54am On Sep 03, 2018 |
dasparrow: i concur with u on this.... |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 10:54am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1:I believe u didn’t understand ur own post!! |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:56am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Meanwhile, Below are the common reasons for late marriage. You may add Feminism and Bad attitude to it if you like! 1. Money related issues/fear of poverty. 2. Waiting to complete Education. 3. Feeling immature. 4. Family troubles and non-agreements. 5. Not seeing your kinda partner/ being too selective! 6. Already got a bed partner, boyfriend/girlfriend things,baby mama/papa things etc or involving in masturbation, homosexualism, etc. 7. Fear of marriage. 8. Spiritual problems eg having spiritual spouse. 9. Medical problems. eg impotence. 10. Environmental problems eg bad friends. 11. Expensive dowry, wedding cost, bridal gifts, etc. Abu-Twins 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Rozaytee: 10:56am On Sep 03, 2018 |
fvck boys everywere 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 10:57am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:were did u get that? Have u dated an unemployed guy from d western world 2 have come 2 that conclusion? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by OfficialSam(m): 10:57am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saff(f): 10:58am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1:It’s poor ladies that want men who are providers? What planet are you living on? Or are you just delusional? I’m not here to argue about my financial status as this is only argument that most of you guys can ever counter me with. I know I’m good, never struggled and never will. Thanks for your concern though. You want women who are financially comfortable but just not more than you...right I get it. A woman who you can still have total control of, still cook, clean and do everything in the house but someone who you can also share the financial bills with. Rightttt, I get it. Someone who can help you do your job financially, but you still want to be regarded as the man of the house, riightttt I get it. Someone who is helping you in every aspect but helping her equally to do domestic chores is non existent in your world. Rightttt I get it. I find it so funny how most of you men are so adamant about women being financially responsible and helping out financiallly in the house but don’t have that same energy when it comes to things that are not financially related. I believe in gender roles. Why? Because I believe when there’s no gender roles the woman will carry the burden. She ends up doing nearly everything, being super woman. I’ve seen it happen too many times. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by romenna: 10:58am On Sep 03, 2018 |
why the blame game people? it is worrisome that as single men and women, majority of us are at a loss as to why we r in dis precarious marital predicament. It is general knowledge that ignorance of a problem is a different problem on it's own. Below are the reasons for the above topic; 1. Increased awareness about quality standard of living. 2. Over population 3. Decaying national economy 4. Unemployment 5. Greed 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by smeag0l(m): 10:59am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Please not most men. Maybe the kind of men you've met. There are thousands of good men out there but they are wiser and also will not want to ruin their own lives with a lady that offers only sex in a relationship. Saff: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 11:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
lexy2014:nope but I hv travelled!! In foreign countries u see men willing to cook n kiss ur feet,,, knowing they ain’t finically okay atm!! But in Nigeria u see useless broke Nigerian boys asking women,,, what can u cook with 200 Naira !!!WDF 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 11:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: Sadly, this is the truth. No one wants to suffer in silence while a man torments them in the house. Who wants to be a slave for a man these days. Life is to be enjoyed. No one has the right ro make life unbearable for someone. Too many mummy's boys who end up being a nuisance to their wives. And mothers do not help matters when they spoil their sons. You can imagine a guy whose mum was washing his boxers up until he got married. Infact the guy is just less than a man now. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 11:00am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Because there are more mummy's boys parading themselves as men. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee: No. You lack the necessary cognitive ability to understand my post because my posts aren't meant for the feeble minded and dull individuals (Not trying to insult you) Being financially responsible as a woman doesn't mean you should take care of the home(except it's your choice or whatever) -I think you should do some research on “collective financial responsibility” You shouldn't tell me before I know that a man who wants collective responsibility will also be a homely man -by being homely Cooking, taking care of the kids too, and doing other house chores. You might not necessarily contribute much but be financially responsible . I can't continue with this conversation because you won't understand my post. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 11:04am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Saff:exactly they want women to do everything!! Using her n doing nothing ,,, come back from work n expect the women to present them food,, see the kids feed n house clean!!! Women r wiser 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by lexy2014: 11:05am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:madam I didn't ask u if u have travelled. I asked u have u dated or had a r/ship with an unemployed guy from d west. D men that kiss feet, did they kiss ur feet? If u havent, then u cant speak aithoritatively. Are u trying 2 tell me there are no men in Nigeria who cook 4 their wives? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by omoharry(f): 11:05am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Yomit71:that being single has alot of emotinal trauma..it a myth to me.because if you are single by choice that means you have other things doing for yourself that you have always wanted..to achieve..but the others that allow family and social pressure to get to them usually fall into your category.I choose to remain single by choice not because i am looking for a man with money but Someone I will be at peace with..I have not found that person..and if I dont find him..then I would rather remain single ..forget the biological clock bla bla bla..things..I really don't care about those things..I am this kind of person that believe that i need not conceive and give birth before i can be a mother, must I?..no!..there are so many motherless children all over the place that need all love and care that they can get..if possible a mother figure....so there are so many things in this world that need our attention and contribution for the good of mankind...Marriage is not for every body.If you find love and a good and hard working person with a wonderful personality then marry but if not it is not the end of the world..one should not end up with necessary idiot and monster in sheep clothing just because society is on their neck to get married...I see marriage has one of those circle of life and not everyone will be captured in this cycle.So let the single women be please...na waooo!! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 11:06am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1:u r trying to twist what u just wrote cause this n what u wrote first don’t even follow |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 11:06am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by millionboi2: 11:06am On Sep 03, 2018 |
samguru:lol.......if only thy know how scared we are. |
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